Re: [ZION] Can Anyone Become A Fully Qualified Member In Good Standing Afte

2002-11-27 Thread Elmer L. Fairbank
At 20:18 11/26/2002 -0800, St Stace wrote:

Suppose I suspect this individual failed to disclose this information 
before baptism?  If he is now living a good life, does any of this 
information need to come out?

It's a standard question in the temple recommend interview, if there are 
any past misdeeds that have not been properly resolved through the 
priesthood authority.   It will have to be dealt with eventually.  To 
answer your original question, if you have to ask the question to begin 
with, then probably you, personally, should not.

Till

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Re: [ZION] Can Anyone Become A Fully Qualified Member In Good Standing Afte

2002-11-26 Thread Stacy Smith
Suppose I suspect this individual failed to disclose this information 
before baptism?  If he is now living a good life, does any of this 
information need to come out?

Stacy.

At 05:45 PM 11/25/2002 -0600, you wrote:

This doesn't violate the charter. All people have the opportunity to
repent and change their lives. There are a few sins that are not repented
of in this life, primarily murder. Sexual sin is very serious. Alma tells
us that it is third in severity, after murder and denying the Holy Ghost.
 The reality is, not all bishops and stake presidents are well versed in
handling such things. Some are extremely stern in the repentance process,
while others are so afraid to lose the person, will go to any lengths not
to excommunicate.  Be aware of that as you consider dating people.
You will have to determine from the relationship just how repentant the
person really has been. If it is sexual sin, you can generally tell how
changed they are by how they act on dates. If they want to neck and kiss
a lot, you can have the idea that the person has not restrained himself
enough. Necking outside of marriage is, after all, a sin, according to
President Kimball.
A person who has shown true remorse for sin, will not play on the edge of
the cliff, but will stay far from it. The true exsmoker doesn't hold a
cigarette in his fingers, unlit or lit. And someone who has repented of
sexual sins will not risk being in the wrong places doing the wrong
things.
Criminals need the chance to repent and change also. You have the right
to choose not to date this guy. However, don't forget to be a friend.
This will help him to continue on his progress to exaltation.

K'aya K'ama,
Gerald/gary  Smithgszion1 @juno.comhttp://www
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No one is as hopelessly enslaved as the person who thinks he's free.  -
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe



Stacy:
Hi.  I hope this issue does not violate the charter.  I have an
interesting
problem.  I have decided quickly not to date an individual with a
criminal
sexual history in the past.  However, he is a member in good standing.
He
has a temple recommend.  What is the general policy regarding people who
have committed crimes in the past?  Is it possible to date those
individuals, to assume that they have repented and are in good standing
with the church?  Do we assume the atonement has covered the
sin?  Furthermore, what are we to do with the weakness that has been
shown?  Can we trust such an individual?

Stacy.


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Re: [ZION] Can Anyone Become A Fully Qualified Member In Good Standing Afte

2002-11-26 Thread Stacy Smith
If I tried to make this public what could happen to me?  Is this considered 
gossip? and heresay?

Stacy.

At 11:22 PM 11/26/2002 -0600, you wrote:

Suppose I suspect this individual failed to disclose this information
before baptism?  If he is now living a good life, does any of this
information need to come out?


Yes, if the original information was something that should have been
referred to the Mission President via the Zone Leaders who interviewed
the candidate for baptism in order to make the repentance process
complete and applicable.

Living a good life is not enough. Full confession and repentance is
required. Sooner or later he must pay the piper if he expects to be
forgiven regardless of baptism.

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Re: [ZION] Can Anyone Become A Fully Qualified Member In Good Standing Afte

2002-11-26 Thread Paul Osborne
If I tried to make this public what could happen to me?  Is this
considered 
gossip? and heresay?


I don't know about your situation but if I was close to someone whom I
was pretty sure had committed a serious sin and was not repenting I would
probably let the bishop know about it and leave it in his hands for the
time being. Keep it a private matter with the priesthood authorities.
Depending on the circumstances I might warn the person that the bishop
will be tipped off so if there is something to confess they best do it of
their own free will and choice and get the matter resolved properly.

I don't think it is gossip or what not. Nothing should be said outside
the bounds of love and general concern for the welfare of the individual
involved.

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