-----Original message----- From: D H Sent: 19/04/2013, 7.13 pm To: Kapil; accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] FW: Re: [SayEverything] Is marriage an another challenge for visually impaird? How can i come on this mailing list?can any one help?mobile.09819001519:
hey Kapil, i think couple of weeks ago Avinash posted some servay it was clear that blind girl can get marry with a totally blind man but blind man always prefer to get marry with a partial or sided girl,its not with couple of people but majurity is this only On 4/19/13, Kapil <kapil0...@gmail.com> wrote: > Friends d issue is very important so i want to discuss it on this huge > platform .Whith best regard kapil email kapil0...@gmail.com facebook i.d > kapil.mitt...@facebook.com mobile 09013386781 > > -original message- > Subject: Re: [SayEverything] Is marriage an another challenge for visually > impaird? > From: "Ahmed Karim" <ahmedkari...@hotmail.com> > Date: 19/04/2013 1:54 am > > I am of the opinion that world is different for a sighted and blind. The way > a blind can understand another blind, a sighted cann’t. A little example, if > my capsloc key on laptop is not working while using jaws as expected, how > big it is a problem for me, my fellow blind can understand. I believe mental > compatibility is a must between two life partners. So that both could > understand each other, if I want some one to just take care of me, I should > better higher a maid. A blind girl could be an excilent choice for a VI > person. I know many cuppels in Pakistan who are blind and living happally. > > -----Original Message----- > From: Kapil > Sent: Thursday, April 18, 2013 11:04 PM > To: sayeveryth...@sayeverything.org > Cc: Amit bhatt > Subject: Re: [SayEverything] Is marriage an another challenge for visually > impaird? > > There was a time when VH boys and girls were sorry to say but like > untuchable for each other. But now, picture is not so disappointing. Slowly > but surely d trand is changing. Because of our hard struggle, increase in > exposure and technological developement, new opportunities r coming and we r > availing them. Still we r not respecting and believing in our potential. At > d same time, we r expecting to a sighted to accept and believe in us? What a > irrony? Those who r understanding this, r changing d trand. In love maridges > it's possible that u can get a spouse of equal status but in arrange, u have > to compromise on certain things educationally finantialy etc'. U have to ask > yourself very clearly what do u want? Phisical ease or mental satisfaction ? > A servant who can do ruteen work? Or a life patner whom u can share > everything? Why a sighted comes to us? Because of our finantial condition. > Remember m saying about arrange marridges. Our focus is eyes, and there is > offcourse money. What kind of relation it is? I know many, who had maried > whith sighted and now going outside for emmotional support because they r > not mentaly satisfy. If u choose your spouse on d basis of equal status, and > of our own field, then chances of success r high. Whith best > regard kapil email kapil0...@gmail.com facebook i.d > kapil.mitt...@facebook.com mobile 09013386781 > > -original message- > Subject: Re: [SayEverything] Is marriage an another challenge for visually > impaird? > From: "Amit Bhatt" <misterbh...@gmail.com> > Date: 18/04/2013 9:28 pm > > In addition to this, mostly visually impaired or partially sighted girls > believe that a blind boy or man cannot take proper care of her and perhaps > her life is not secured with a blind guy. But I appreciate, some of females > do not want to marry with a sighted man even though they get the opportunity > to do so. > I may write more on this soon, as I am engaged with some other work > presently. > > Regards, > > Amit Bhatt > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "avinash shahi" <shahi88avin...@gmail.com> > To: <sayeveryth...@sayeverything.org> > Sent: Thursday, April 18, 2013 5:03 PM > Subject: Re: [SayEverything] Proposal for marriage > > > Yes, Agreed with Bhawani sir. > In fact, if totally blind women have to choose among totally blind, > partially blind and sighted man, they also give priority to sighted > and partially man over totally blind > This trend is general, but some blind from both genders prefer own > peers mates over any considerations, that is exception. > All depends where both genders stand at maritable time on > educational/economic fronts. > moreover,there are many cases where after experiencing deception from > sighted/partially partners, both make up their minds to patch up with > totally blind partners. > Let me share my own experience to substantiate my view. > During my initial graduation days, heartbeat of my left heart used to > beat at extranormal pace for one very inocent, intellegent, soulful , > lovable, cute blind girl. I was in profound love and was in dellemma > how to propose her to get her side of the story. somehow, i made this > known to her one night on phone, that she was special for me. It was > the time like Tsunami erupted in my body, she respected my feelings > for her, but very gently replied: Avinash: 'I don't think like that, I > am focused for my studies.' > I was jolted for a moment, but she was free to choose his love, aren't > she? I composed myself and pressed cancil button unwillingly. > Days passed, months gone, and now after six years, I got to know that > from close sources that she did disapprove my proposal solely on > ground of fearing how two totally blind will manage together. > Her obsession with partially/sighted is a normal desire of majority of us. > Probably, I will marry to a sighted girl, if another Tsunami doesn't > take place too soon. > > On 4/18/13, bhawani shankar verma <bsvermad...@gmail.com> wrote: >> madam! this is your prejudice statement. on majority, i found that >> blind boys prefer to marry a blind girls or viz >> >> On 4/18/13, Sachit Kumar Sahrawat <sachitsahra...@gmail.com> wrote: >>> Hi Preeti! >>> >>> >>> You are very true to a great extent. But, same is the case with the >>> totally blind men! neither blind nor partially blind girl wants to >>> marry him and forget about sighted women. This is my personal view >>> that nobody wants to accept a totally blind man or woman as a >>> life-partner. >>> >>> On 4/18/13, Preeti Monga <preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in> wrote: >>>> Interestingly... what happens to us totally blind women? No one seems to >>>> have any wish to marry us! Not sighted men... not even blind men! What a >>>> shame! >>>> Sorry for increasing the traffic but I could not hold back my feelings. >>>> Can >>>> anyone of you learned members please give us an answer to that one >>>> please? >>>> >>>> Warmly >>>> Preeti >>>> >>>> Preeti Monga >>>> Director >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> Mobile: +91 9871701646 >>>> Landline: 011 22781446 >>>> E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in >>>> Website: www.silver-linings.co.in >>>> Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training >>>> –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – >>>> Corporate >>>> ; Promotional; Events. 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Printing Solutions.& Incentive Travel. >>>> >>>> We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete >>>> customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> -----Original Message----- >>>> From: SayEverything [mailto:sayeverything-boun...@sayeverything.org] On >>>> Behalf Of Legal Support >>>> Sent: Wednesday, April 17, 2013 6:43 PM >>>> To: sayeveryth...@sayeverything.org >>>> Subject: Re: [SayEverything] Proposal for marriage >>>> >>>> A 28 years visually challenged Male, teaching in Delhi university >>>> having >>>> his own house at Delhi, seeking a partially sighted female with good >>>> qualifications! >>>> interested persons may contact me off the line. >>>> With regards, >>>> Vipin >>>> 9868177335 >>>> >>>> -----Original Message----- >>>> From: Sagar >>>> Sent: Wednesday, April 17, 2013 9:46 AM >>>> To: sayeveryth...@sayeverything.org >>>> Subject: Re: [SayEverything] Proposal for marriage >>>> >>>> Hi guys interesting topic just thought of replying >>>> >>>> Anand Sharma <anandsharm...@yahoo.co.in> wrote: >>>> >>>>>I hope this is nothing to do with Amit Bhatt's own proposal through >>>>>somebody. For last few years amit has been in hunt for life companion. >>>>> >>>>>anand >>>>>----- Original Message ----- >>>>>From: "ishita kapoor" <ishitakapoor...@gmail.com> >>>>>To: <sayeveryth...@sayeverything.org> >>>>>Sent: Tuesday, April 16, 2013 8:28 PM >>>>>Subject: Re: [SayEverything] Proposal for marriage >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>> you are right avinash, he should mention few things which you wrote >>>>>> then only he can get desired help. >>>>>> And orelia i am also not feet as my vision will not stay forever. >>>>>> Hahaha. >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>> On 4/16/13, orelia <orelia...@gmail.com> wrote: >>>>>>> its to bad i'm 5.8 and i'm blind ... >>>>>>> but maybe the fact i make 50000 a month would make it up to it >>>>>>> lol. >>>>>>> i hope he would find some one soon, >>>>>>> nothing is greater then love >>>>>>> ----- Original Message ----- >>>>>>> From: "gaurav kumar" <gauravch...@gmail.com> >>>>>>> To: <sayeveryth...@sayeverything.org> >>>>>>> Sent: Monday, April 15, 2013 8:19 PM >>>>>>> Subject: [SayEverything] Proposal for marriage >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Hello friends, >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> I am Gaurav from Chandigarh Punjab. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> I am sendinng this mail with a marriage proposal in behalf of one of >>>>>>>> my friends living in Delhi. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> 33 year old visually challenged boy, weight around 65 KG, height >>>>>>>> 5.7, >>>>>>>> monthly salary around 30000, currently working in IT company. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> The Boy is handsome and having own house in Delhi. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Interested partially sighted or sighted girls or their parents and >>>>>>>> friends may write me or on the list to proceed further from any part >>>>>>>> of India. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Thanks and regards, >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Gaurav >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> If any time you wish to be unsubscribed from our Mailing List, >>>>>>>> please >>>>>>>> send >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> a message to >>>>>>>> sayeverything-requ...@sayeverything.org >>>>>>>> with the subject unsubscribe keeping the message body 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