Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-02-01 Thread ishita kapoor
great thought subramani sir. On 2/1/14, jignesh thakur jigneshthaku...@gmail.com wrote: yes romance has nothing to do with disability. but points of sucharu sir and ishita madam are also logical. On 1/31/14, Subramani L lsubramani.v...@gmail.com wrote: Dear Ms. Preeti and others: While it

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-31 Thread avinash shahi
Nice read thank you for sharing Two of you. What I find noteworthy in this piece 1 Written by someone who has lived two lives, sighted and blind both Which is reflected in the piece. 2. What caught my attention the most block quote I have a smacking profile as far as the tick marks go: I have

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-31 Thread Sucharu Gupta
Hi all , I agree that romance has nothing to do with disability.but in our society where children are more taken as security for old age ,even to bring a children up is taken more a responsibility rather than an experience to enjoy.this is but natural in our still developing society.in reality

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-31 Thread avinash shahi
You are right Sucharu. We as a society are racial, obsessed with outer beauty and social-economic status. We all are commodities in the Indian conventional marriage market where visible physical denomenators are determinant factors. On 1/31/14, Sucharu Gupta sucharugupta1...@gmail.com wrote: Hi

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-31 Thread Subramani L
Dear Ms. Preeti and others: While it is nice and fine to have a successful married life, factors such as what is the extent of an individual's contribution to the relationship, how far one could make the partnership work etc are important. Relationships do not take off or completely break down

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-31 Thread jignesh thakur
yes romance has nothing to do with disability. but points of sucharu sir and ishita madam are also logical. On 1/31/14, Subramani L lsubramani.v...@gmail.com wrote: Dear Ms. Preeti and others: While it is nice and fine to have a successful married life, factors such as what is the extent of

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-30 Thread Rajesh H Mehta
Following is surely a good red article by Nidhi. I am just thinking that while loving a person does any 1 looks disability? Isn’t it first instance person would love the individuality? I agree then may be while thinking of settling in life surely 1 thinks towards his/her own comforts towards

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-30 Thread Preeti Monga
Dear Ishita, and also Sucharu Interestingly how do we know equal and not equal? No one person in the world is equal to anyone! So what do we do? And no one must force non disabled people to marry disabled persons. And how do you know that all non disabled people are good and will end up being

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-30 Thread Sucharu Gupta
Dear Preeti, thats exactly what I think.how society see towards sexuality of disabled should not matter to us.what we think makes the difference.but two persons get attracted towards each other due some reasons.so rather than having self pity and a complaining attitude we should concentrate on our

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-30 Thread Preeti Monga
Yes, if there are non disabled people who are helping you to make things beautiful, then you too must be doing something to make their life beautiful as well? You get what you give. So why not start by giving love to each other starting from yourself and see how things will change. Don’t confuse

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-30 Thread Sucharu Gupta
Hi friends, What all I want to suggest is that the world cannot be divided on the basis of being abled or disabled .moreover there are good and bad,sensitive or insensitive everyone coexists .we can't blame the whole society for what a small portion of ill valued individuals do.i find it necessary

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-30 Thread Preeti Monga
Taking responsibility for our condition is one of the most important things. No one is responsible for our own condition. It is only us ourselves. This is something we need to undetrstand before we can improve anything for ourselves. All the best. Preeti Preeti Monga Director     Mobile: +91

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-30 Thread Rajesh H Mehta
1 more major factor which plays very importantly in entire following topic is the attitude of (My child should get or deserve more then what he/she is looking for”) If you look at above statement very closely you would realize many a times parents does not wish to believe that disable

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-30 Thread Preeti Monga
Yes, attitude is all the problem. Everyone has problems. Just go for it and look for good friends. Someone you can be good friends with will be the best person you should think of marrying. Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail:

[AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-29 Thread Amar Jain
Guys I haven't ever seen such a best expression of thoughts and emotions. Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance? http://in.news.yahoo.com/why-should-disability-spell-the-end-of-romance-055837779.html Regards -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Time to meet up again! Register for

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-29 Thread Shiv
Here is the full article: Source: http://in.news.yahoo.com/why-should-disability-spell-the-end-of-romance-055837779.html# Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance? Flirting. Heartbreak. Clumsy first dates. Matrimonial sites. Studying for three degrees. Salsa classes. The coming-of-age

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-29 Thread Himanshu Sahu
A tremendous piece of writing unravelling a variety of shades of emotions and experiences which die in the hearts of many differently ables, unspoken! This is what makes me always appriciate Nidhi. Her livelyness, sensitivity and perception of disability really brings a cheer while interacting

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-29 Thread Sandeep Singh
Hi, a lady friend wants to converse with Nidhi, phone number or email Id anything will do. Can anyone provide the contact please? Best regards, Sandeep At 08:37 PM 1/29/2014, you wrote: A tremendous piece of writing unravelling a variety of shades of emotions and experiences which die in the

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-29 Thread mukesh jain
hello, even i have been looking forward to contact people associated with point of view since long but the number listed on their site seems not functional. i have been trying their number since last year. so if anyone has the contact information, please share with me. thanks, On 1/29/14, Sandeep

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-29 Thread mahendra galani
Very very nise, was great read Sent from my iPhone On 29.01.2014, at 18:38, Shiv shivrah...@gmail.com wrote: Here is the full article: Source: http://in.news.yahoo.com/why-should-disability-spell-the-end-of-romance-055837779.html# Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-29 Thread Lissy Verghese
Thought-provoking! Thank you! Lissy Verghese On 1/29/14, Shiv shivrah...@gmail.com wrote: Here is the full article: Source: http://in.news.yahoo.com/why-should-disability-spell-the-end-of-romance-055837779.html# Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance? Flirting. Heartbreak. Clumsy

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-29 Thread Preeti Monga
Hi Friends, this is a wonderful article. I too wish I can connect with Nidhi so we can do some work together. Can anyone get my message to her? She must read my autobiography, The Other Senses. This book talks a great deal about relationship, romance and marriage and my amazing experiences! Anyone

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-29 Thread Sruti disAbility Rights Centre
I worked with Point of View as a consultant for their Disability and Sexuality project - I can give mobile number of contact person of Point of View but I do not think I should give that number in this group without her permission. So write separately to me at sruti.d...@gmail.com - I will give

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-29 Thread Shweta Mishra
wonderful article! really Thought provoking On 1/30/14, Sruti disAbility Rights Centre sruti.d...@gmail.com wrote: I worked with Point of View as a consultant for their Disability and Sexuality project - I can give mobile number of contact person of Point of View but I do not think I should

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-29 Thread Sucharu Gupta
Hi friends, I would like to share my opinion about the article without hurting the feelings of anybody .it is just what I feel: in humans the relationships bloom between the equal persons .this is quite natural.the equality is measured by various parameters like appearance and

Re: [AI] A Must Read: Why Should Disability Spell the End of Romance?

2014-01-29 Thread ishita kapoor
Very thought provoking article. Though I strongly believe that we can't rather shouldn't force able bodied person to accept us. When I was sighted I never fancied a blind boy. Now how can I demand from sighted person to accept me? Love and marriage happens in equal group. Romance between disable