Re: [Assam] NE TV's Ekap Half Chah programme

2005-08-19 Thread Prasenjit Chetia
But there is a big difference between calling somebody Apuni and
Toi. We use some greeting which are not there or maybe in a more
generalised form in English. As long as we talk in assamese we should
try to maintain its beauty and more importantly when someone speaks in
public to an elected representative he should maintain certain
decorum.
Now, have you seen a British greet a Knighted gentleman /peer without
using Sir/Lord in the TV ?

Prasenjit

On 8/18/05, Dilip/Dil Deka [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 I really do not see any problem in the use of tumi as long as neither Mr.
 Bhuyan and Mr. Sarma had any objection. After all there are three accepted
 forms of you in Assamese - Apuni, Tumi and Toi, and they are used as
 appropriate between two people.
 If Bhuyan used Apuni just for the show, it would have been artificial and
 probably would have put a barrier in the flow of words.
  
 Dilip Deka 
  
 
 
 muktikam phukan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 Hello everybody
  
 I've a small observation to make. Recently I've been to Sivasagar for some
 official job. It was nice to see the TV channel called NE TV catering to all
 the major languages of NE including Sikkim. One of the programme I saw was a
 Talk Show titled Ekap Half Chah. The anchor Sri Atanu Bhuyan was
 interviewing a young Assam Minister, Sri Himanta Biswa Sarma. But, I was
 really astonished to hear Sri Bhuyan calling Sri Sarma TUMI all through
 the programme. Is it not really very unprofessional? Even if Sri Sarma is
 very junior to Sri Bhuyan or even if they r very good friends, some decorum
 should have been maintained in such public programmes by calling him
 APUNI. After all he is a H'ble Minister of the Govt of Assam, duly elected
 by the people of Jalukbari. These r small things but if taken care of will
 go a long way in improving the programmes of this budding channel. 
 My observation has nothing personal against anybody and I may kindly be
 corrected if I m wrong.
  
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Re: [Assam] NE TV's Ekap Half Chah programme

2005-08-19 Thread muktikam phukan
You r right Mr. Chetia. But why should we look at the Brits. Lets see any Talk Show by the established National TV Channels. They never use "Tum" or "Tu". "Aap" is what they invariably use. Of course deviants r the channels like "V" or "MTV". But I believe "NE TV" is no " V" or "MTV".

Muktikam PhukanPrasenjit Chetia [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
But there is a big difference between calling somebody "Apuni" and"Toi". We use some greeting which are not there or maybe in a moregeneralised form in English. As long as we talk in assamese we shouldtry to maintain its beauty and more importantly when someone speaks inpublic to an elected representative he should maintain certaindecorum.Now, have you seen a British greet a Knighted gentleman /peer withoutusing Sir/Lord in the TV ?PrasenjitOn 8/18/05, Dilip/Dil Deka <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: I really do not see any problem in the use of "tumi" as long as neither Mr. Bhuyan and Mr. Sarma had any objection. After all there are three accepted forms of "you" in Assamese - "Apuni, Tumi and Toi", and they are used as appropriate between two people. If Bhuyan used "Apuni" just for the show, it wou!
ld have
 been artificial and probably would have put a barrier in the flow of words.  Dilip Deka muktikam phukan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote:  Hello everybody  I've a small observation to make. Recently I've been to Sivasagar for some official job. It was nice to see the TV channel called NE TV catering to all the major languages of NE including Sikkim. One of the programme I saw was a Talk Show titled "Ekap Half Chah". The anchor Sri Atanu Bhuyan was interviewing a young Assam Minister, Sri Himanta Biswa Sarma. But, I was really astonished to hear Sri Bhuyan calling Sri Sarma "TUMI" all through the programme. Is it not really very unprofessional? Even if Sri Sarma is very junior to Sri Bhuyan or even if they r very good friends, some decorum should have been maintained in such public programmes by calling him "APUNI". A!
fter all
 he is a H'ble Minister of the Govt of Assam, duly elected by the people of Jalukbari. These r small things but if taken care of will go a long way in improving the programmes of this budding channel.  My observation has nothing personal against anybody and I may kindly be corrected if I m wrong.  Muktikam Phukan   Check out Yahoo! India Rakhi Special for Rakhi shopping, contests and lots more.  http://in.promos.yahoo.com/rakhi/index.html ___ Assam mailing list Assam@pikespeak.uccs.edu http://pikespeak.uccs.edu/mailman/listinfo/assam  Mailing list FAQ: http://pikespeak.uccs.edu/assam/assam-faq.html To unsubscribe or change options: http://pikespeak.uccs.edu/mailman/options/assam   
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Re: [Assam] NE TV's Ekap Half Chah programme

2005-08-19 Thread Chan Mahanta
Title: Re: [Assam] NE TV's Ekap Half Chah
programme


I have no problem with that Prasenjit.

However, I DO have a problem with the nauseating degree of these
'fake' and sometimes completely un-deserved courtesies that our people
are either mired in, or are compelled to perpetuate.

Just look the overuse and misuse of the 'honorable' or 'hon'ble'
appellation, that abounds in the media, requiring the
people to call address their servants, MLA's,
MPs,Ministers--minor or major, tin-pot dictators of magistrates/hakims
ad nauseum. It is yet another of those left-over colonial / imperial
traits that help perpetuate that these folks are the 'bosses'
of the people, instead of their real role in a democratic
society--that of the 'servant of the people'.

It is time to change that.

If the British prefer to remain a monarchica society
replete witheir sirs and lords and ladies, that is their choice. Why
should the people of Assam follow those outdated and alien ways?











At 8:16 AM +0100 8/19/05, Prasenjit Chetia wrote:
Cda;
These small formalities make up your bigger identity.

Cheers!!

prasenjit

On 8/18/05, Chan Mahanta [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 I agree.

 The emphasis should be on asking pertinent questions and getting
forthright
 answers.


 I realize, we 'probaxis' have shed a lot of our traditional
formalities,
 which many of our peers back in Assam might find uncouth and
impolite. But
 be that as it may, the focus should be on the substance and not
on the
 appearances and formalities.










 At 7:52 AM -0700 8/18/05, Dilip/Dil Deka wrote:
 I really do not see any problem in the use of tumi as
long as neither Mr.
 Bhuyan and Mr. Sarma had any objection. After all there are three
accepted
 forms of you in Assamese - Apuni, Tumi and
Toi, and they are used as
 appropriate between two people.
 If Bhuyan used Apuni just for the show, it would have
been artificial and
 probably would have put a barrier in the flow of words.

 Dilip Deka



 muktikam phukan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 Hello everybody

 I've a small observation to make. Recently I've been to Sivasagar
for some
 official job. It was nice to see the TV channel called NE TV
catering to all
 the major languages of NE including Sikkim. One of the programme
I saw was a
 Talk Show titled Ekap Half Chah. The anchor Sri Atanu
Bhuyan was
 interviewing a young Assam Minister, Sri Himanta Biswa Sarma.
But, I was
 really astonished to hear Sri Bhuyan calling Sri Sarma
TUMI all through
 the programme. Is it not really very unprofessional? Even if Sri
Sarma is
 very junior to Sri Bhuyan or even if they r very good friends,
some decorum
 should have been maintained in such public programmes by calling
him
 APUNI. After all he is a H'ble Minister of the Govt
of Assam, duly elected
 by the people of Jalukbari. These r small things but if taken
care of will
 go a long way in improving the programmes of this budding
channel.
 My observation has nothing personal against anybody and I may
kindly be
 corrected if I m wrong.

 Muktikam Phukan
 

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Re: [Assam] NE TV's Ekap Half Chah programme

2005-08-19 Thread Ram Sarangapani
C'da,


However, I DO have a problem with the nauseating degree of these 'fake' and sometimes completely un-deserved courtesies that our people are either mired in, or are compelled to perpetuate.

With this I agree. Last time at Guwahati, I wanted to touch base with an old friend of mine, who has now become a minister. When I called, the PA (probably an IAS) kick up the phone and 'robo dei, SAAR phone ot aise' 


That 'Saar' kind of intrigued me. But its not just ministers or bureaucrats.

But if you look at Indian/Assamese society as a whole all the rickshaw wallahs, thela walla, dohbis call everyone else 'babu' or 'memshhib' - whether they deserve it or not.

To that extent, this is a British holdover and the emphasis seems to be on eternal servitude.

The English have always use 'Sir' or 'Ma'am' to address others (whether theyare knighted or benighted). In the US too, its pretty common. So, whats the difference between whats done in the West and in India.

I think: In the West, they say 'Sir' or 'Ma'am' without meaning in, while in India a sense of servitude is attached to such terms.Just my thoughts.

--Ram
On 8/19/05, Chan Mahanta [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I have no problem with that Prasenjit.

However, I DO have a problem with the nauseating degree of these 'fake' and sometimes completely un-deserved courtesies that our people are either mired in, or are compelled to perpetuate.

Just look the overuse and misuse of the 'honorable' or 'hon'ble' appellation, that abounds in the media, requiring the people to call address their servants, MLA's, MPs,Ministers--minor or major, tin-pot dictators of magistrates/hakims ad nauseum. It is yet another of those left-over colonial / imperial traits that help perpetuate that these folks are the '
bosses' of the people, instead of their real role in a democratic society--that of the 'servant of the people'.

It is time to change that.

If the British prefer to remain a monarchica society replete witheir sirs and lords and ladies, that is their choice. Why should the people of Assam follow those outdated and alien ways?












At 8:16 AM +0100 8/19/05, Prasenjit Chetia wrote:
Cda;These small formalities make up your bigger identity.Cheers!!prasenjitOn 8/18/05, Chan Mahanta 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I agree. The emphasis should be on asking pertinent questions and getting forthright answers. I realize, we 'probaxis' have shed a lot of our traditional formalities,
 which many of our peers back in Assam might find uncouth and impolite. But be that as it may, the focus should be on the substance and not on the appearances and formalities.
 At 7:52 AM -0700 8/18/05, Dilip/Dil Deka wrote: I really do not see any problem in the use of tumi as long as neither Mr. Bhuyan and Mr. Sarma had any objection. After all there are three accepted
 forms of you in Assamese - Apuni, Tumi and Toi, and they are used as appropriate between two people. If Bhuyan used Apuni just for the show, it would have been artificial and
 probably would have put a barrier in the flow of words. Dilip Deka muktikam phukan 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hello everybody I've a small observation to make. Recently I've been to Sivasagar for some official job. It was nice to see the TV channel called NE TV catering to all
 the major languages of NE including Sikkim. One of the programme I saw was a Talk Show titled Ekap Half Chah. The anchor Sri Atanu Bhuyan was interviewing a young Assam Minister, Sri Himanta Biswa Sarma. But, I was
 really astonished to hear Sri Bhuyan calling Sri Sarma TUMI all through the programme. Is it not really very unprofessional? Even if Sri Sarma is very junior to Sri Bhuyan or even if they r very good friends, some decorum
 should have been maintained in such public programmes by calling him APUNI. After all he is a H'ble Minister of the Govt of Assam, duly elected by the people of Jalukbari. These r small things but if taken care of will
 go a long way in improving the programmes of this budding channel. My observation has nothing personal against anybody and I may kindly be corrected if I m wrong. Muktikam Phukan
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Re: [Assam] NE TV's Ekap Half Chah programme

2005-08-19 Thread Alpana B. Sarangapani
Just look the overuse and misuse of the 'honorable' or 'hon'ble' appellation, that abounds in the media, requiring the people to call address their servants, MLA's, MPs,Ministers--minor or major, tin-pot dictators of magistrates/hakims ad nauseum. It is yet another of those left-over colonial / imperial traits that help perpetuate that these folks are the 'bosses' of the people, instead of their real role in a democratic society--that of the 'servant of the people'.
I agree whole heartedly. Even if the politicians were doing what they are supposed to do -work forthe people, that is - it is ridiculous to hear people say "honorable" this "honorable" that. IMO, a "Mr." is enough as you would use for any human being, if you personally don't know him.
And if Mr. Bhuyan knew Mr. Sharma from before and calls him 'tumi' otherwise (which apparently we are not clear about), it will be a 'bhekoo-bhaona' if he addresses him as 'aapuni' suddenly, just because they are in tv.
If I become a famous person anytime, I would die in shame if one of my high schoolteachers (orone of my elderly neighbors)suddenly starts addressing me as 'apuni' - in public or in private. 





From: Chan Mahanta [EMAIL PROTECTED]To: Prasenjit Chetia [EMAIL PROTECTED]CC: assam@pikespeak.uccs.edu, Dilip/Dil Deka [EMAIL PROTECTED]Subject: Re: [Assam] NE TV's "Ekap Half Chah" programmeDate: Fri, 19 Aug 2005 08:45:07 -0500



I have no problem with that Prasenjit.

However, I DO have a problem with the nauseating degree of these 'fake' and sometimes completely un-deserved courtesies that our people are either mired in, or are compelled to perpetuate.

Just look the overuse and misuse of the 'honorable' or 'hon'ble' appellation, that abounds in the media, requiring the people to call address their servants, MLA's, MPs,Ministers--minor or major, tin-pot dictators of magistrates/hakims ad nauseum. It is yet another of those left-over colonial / imperial traits that help perpetuate that these folks are the 'bosses' of the people, instead of their real role in a democratic society--that of the 'servant of the people'.

It is time to change that.

If the British prefer to remain a monarchica society replete witheir sirs and lords and ladies, that is their choice. Why should the people of Assam follow those outdated and alien ways?











At 8:16 AM +0100 8/19/05, Prasenjit Chetia wrote:
Cda;These small formalities make up your bigger identity.Cheers!!prasenjitOn 8/18/05, Chan Mahanta [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I agree. The emphasis should be on asking pertinent questions and getting forthright answers. I realize, we 'probaxis' have shed a lot of our traditional formalities, which many of our peers back in Assam might find uncouth and impolite. But be that as it may, the focus should be on the substance and not on the appearances and formalities. At 7:52 AM -0700 8/18/05, Dilip/Dil Deka wrote: I really do not see any 
problem in the use of "tumi" as long as neither Mr. Bhuyan and Mr. Sarma had any objection. After all there are three accepted forms of "you" in Assamese - "Apuni, Tumi and Toi", and they are used as appropriate between two people. If Bhuyan used "Apuni" just for the show, it would have been artificial and probably would have put a barrier in the flow of words. Dilip Deka muktikam phukan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hello everybody I've a small observation to make. Recently I've been to Sivasagar for some official job. It was nice to see the TV channel called NE TV catering to all the major languages of NE including Sikkim. One of the programme I 
saw was a Talk Show titled "Ekap Half Chah". The anchor Sri Atanu Bhuyan was interviewing a young Assam Minister, Sri Himanta Biswa Sarma. But, I was really astonished to hear Sri Bhuyan calling Sri Sarma "TUMI" all through the programme. Is it not really very unprofessional? Even if Sri Sarma is very junior to Sri Bhuyan or even if they r very good friends, some decorum should have been maintained in such public programmes by calling him "APUNI". After all he is a H'ble Minister of the Govt of Assam, duly elected by the people of Jalukbari. These r small things but if taken care of will go a long way in improving the programmes of this budding channel. My observation has nothing personal against anybody and I may kindly 
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Re: [Assam] NE TV's Ekap Half Chah programme

2005-08-19 Thread Alpana B. Sarangapani
Right, unless you use just the last name. Otherwise, after the introduction with the full name, it usually goes 'down' to the first name basis. we call everyone byfirst name at work. 
What do you mean by "late" Dipung kaiti. He died? when and how? :)
Have a good one, C'da. 



From: Chan Mahanta [EMAIL PROTECTED]To: "Alpana B. Sarangapani" [EMAIL PROTECTED], [EMAIL PROTECTED], [EMAIL PROTECTED]CC: assam@pikespeak.uccs.edu, [EMAIL PROTECTED]Subject: Re: [Assam] NE TV's "Ekap Half Chah" programmeDate: Fri, 19 Aug 2005 09:59:32 -0500



In order not to step on toes, or offend anyone, the worldwide trend in the English language today is to address an interviewee with their full name, without any appellation ( like Sri, Sir, Mr., Miss, Mrs. Ms etc.): Like Alpana Sarangapani, what do you really think Sondon Mohonto is up to in Assam Net? Or Charles Dickens, what'n the Dickens did you try to do to English society by writing Oliver Twist?

The same ethos is quite prevalent in Internet communications as well, as folks must have noticed.

NE TV too could adopt the tactic and start an interview of the late Dipung Kaiti as : Digompbor Pungta, is it true that you too are a native of Dokhin Jokaisuk, just across the hwla from Tilok Daktor's baari?














At 9:25 AM -0500 8/19/05, Alpana B. Sarangapani wrote:
Just look the overuse and misuse of the 'honorable' or 'hon'ble'appellation, that abounds in the media, requiring thepeople to call address their servants, MLA's,MPs,Ministers--minor or major, tin-pot dictators of magistrates/hakimsad nauseum. It is yet another of those left-over colonial / imperialtraits that help perpetuate that these folks are the 'bosses'of the people, instead of their real role in a democraticsociety--that of the 'servant of the people'.
I agree whole heartedly. Even if the politicians were doing what they are supposed to do -work forthe people, that is - it is ridiculous to hear people say "honorable" this "honorable" that. IMO, a "Mr." is enough as you would use for any human being, if you personally don't know him.
And if Mr. Bhuyan knew Mr. Sharma from before and calls him 'tumi' otherwise (which apparently we are not clear about), it will be a 'bhekoo-bhaona' if he addresses him as 'aapuni' suddenly, just because they are in tv.
If I become a famous person anytime, I would die in shame if one of my high schoolteachers (orone of my elderly neighbors)suddenly starts addressing me as 'apuni' - in public or in private.







From: Chan Mahanta [EMAIL PROTECTED]To: Prasenjit Chetia [EMAIL PROTECTED]CC: assam@pikespeak.uccs.edu, Dilip/Dil Deka [EMAIL PROTECTED]Subject: Re: [Assam] NE TV's "Ekap Half Chah" programmeDate: Fri, 19 Aug 2005 08:45:07 -0500blockquote, dl, ul, ol, li{padding-top:0;padding-bottom:0;}
I have no problem with that Prasenjit.



However, I DO have a problem with the nauseating degree of these'fake' and sometimes completely un-deserved courtesies that our peopleare either mired in, or are compelled to perpetuate.



Just look the overuse and misuse of the 'honorable' or 'hon'ble'appellation, that abounds in the media, requiring thepeople to call address their servants, MLA's,MPs,Ministers--minor or major, tin-pot dictators of magistrates/hakimsad nauseum. It is yet another of those left-over colonial / imperialtraits that help perpetuate that these folks are the 'bosses'of the people, instead of their real role in a democraticsociety--that of the 'servant of the people'.



It is time to change that.



If the British prefer to remain a monarchica societyreplete witheir sirs and lords and ladies, that is their choice. Whyshould the people of Assam follow those outdated and alien ways?























At 8:16 AM +0100 8/19/05, Prasenjit Chetia wrote:

Cda;These small formalities make up your bigger identity.Cheers!!prasenjitOn 8/18/05, Chan Mahanta [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I agree. The emphasis should be on asking pertinent questions and gettingforthright answers. I realize, we 'probaxis' have shed a lot of our traditionalformalities, which many of our peers back in Assam might find uncouth andimpolite. But be that as it may, the focus should be on the substance and noton the appearances and formalities.
 At 7:52 AM -0700 8/18/05, Dilip/Dil Deka wrote: I really do not see any problem in the use of "tumi" aslong as neither Mr. Bhuyan and Mr. Sarma had any objection. After all there are threeaccepted forms of "you" in Assamese - "Apuni, Tumi andToi", and they are used as appropriate between two people. If Bhuyan used "Apuni" just for the show, it would havebeen artificial and probably would have put a barrier in the flow of words. Dilip 
Deka muktikam phukan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hello everybody I've a small observation to make. Recently I've been to Sivasagarfor some official job. It was nice to see the TV channel called NE TVcatering to all the major languages of NE including Sikkim. One of the programmeI saw was a Talk Show titled "Ekap Half Chah". The 

Re: [Assam] NE TV's Ekap Half Chah programme

2005-08-19 Thread Prasenjit Chetia
Cda;
It is not following the British. We have a tradition in place, and we
didn't learn that from the British. And just that the ministers are
corrupt or that they don't deserve that respect can't blow that
tradition away. What the reporter did was just an example where a
little too friendly attitude  overlooked the age old tradition.

Would you like to see something in public which try to blow up our
traditional values of good manners. Who would ?

There is fine line between disrespect and unintentional bad manners.
If parents don't teach their siblings these values who would. If the
reporter had done that intentionally and blasted Himanta Biswa Sarmah
for his so called activities over the years , I would welcome that.
But that wasn't the case here, he reflected the gradual errosion of
our traditional values.

Prasenjit

On 8/19/05, Chan Mahanta [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 I have no problem with that Prasenjit.
 
 However, I DO have a problem with the nauseating degree of these 'fake' and
 sometimes completely un-deserved courtesies that our people are either mired
 in, or are compelled to perpetuate.
 
 Just look the overuse and misuse of the 'honorable' or 'hon'ble'
 appellation, that abounds in the media, requiring the people to call address
 their servants, MLA's, MPs,Ministers--minor or major, tin-pot dictators of
 magistrates/hakims ad nauseum. It is yet another of those left-over colonial
 / imperial traits that help perpetuate that these folks are the 'bosses' of
 the people, instead of their real role in a democratic society--that of the
 'servant of the people'.
 
 It is time to change that.
 
 If the British prefer to remain a monarchica  society replete witheir sirs
 and lords and ladies, that is their choice. Why should the people of Assam
 follow those outdated and alien ways?
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 At 8:16 AM +0100 8/19/05, Prasenjit Chetia wrote:
 Cda;
 These small formalities make up your bigger identity.
 
 Cheers!!
 
 prasenjit
 
 On 8/18/05, Chan Mahanta [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  I agree.
 
  The emphasis should be on asking pertinent questions and getting
 forthright
  answers.
 
 
  I realize, we 'probaxis' have shed a lot of our traditional formalities,
  which many of our peers back in Assam might find uncouth and impolite. But
  be that as it may, the focus should be on the substance and not on the
  appearances and formalities.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  At 7:52 AM -0700 8/18/05, Dilip/Dil Deka wrote:
  I really do not see any problem in the use of tumi as long as neither
 Mr.
  Bhuyan and Mr. Sarma had any objection. After all there are three accepted
  forms of you in Assamese - Apuni, Tumi and Toi, and they are used as
  appropriate between two people.
  If Bhuyan used Apuni just for the show, it would have been artificial
 and
  probably would have put a barrier in the flow of words.
  
  Dilip Deka
  
 
 
  muktikam phukan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  Hello everybody
  
  I've a small observation to make. Recently I've been to Sivasagar for some
  official job. It was nice to see the TV channel called NE TV catering to
 all
  the major languages of NE including Sikkim. One of the programme I saw was
 a
  Talk Show titled Ekap Half Chah. The anchor Sri Atanu Bhuyan was
  interviewing a young Assam Minister, Sri Himanta Biswa Sarma. But, I was
  really astonished to hear Sri Bhuyan calling Sri Sarma TUMI all through
  the programme. Is it not really very unprofessional? Even if Sri Sarma is
  very junior to Sri Bhuyan or even if they r very good friends, some
 decorum
  should have been maintained in such public programmes by calling him
  APUNI. After all he is a H'ble Minister of the Govt of Assam, duly
 elected
  by the people of Jalukbari. These r small things but if taken care of will
  go a long way in improving the programmes of this budding channel.
  My observation has nothing personal against anybody and I may kindly be
  corrected if I m wrong.
  
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Re: [Assam] NE TV's Ekap Half Chah programme

2005-08-18 Thread Dilip/Dil Deka
I really do not see any problem in the use of "tumi" as long as neither Mr. Bhuyan and Mr. Sarma had any objection. After all there are three accepted forms of "you" in Assamese - "Apuni, Tumi and Toi", and they areused as appropriate between two people.
If Bhuyanused "Apuni" just for the show, it would have beenartificial and probably would have put a barrier in the flow of words.

Dilip Deka

muktikam phukan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Hello everybody

I've a small observation to make. Recently I've been to Sivasagar for some official job. It was nice to see the TV channel called NE TV catering to all the major languages of NE including Sikkim. One of the programme I saw was a Talk Show titled "Ekap Half Chah". The anchor Sri Atanu Bhuyan was interviewing a young Assam Minister, Sri Himanta Biswa Sarma. But, I was really astonished to hear Sri Bhuyan calling Sri Sarma "TUMI" all through the programme. Is it not really very unprofessional? Even if Sri Sarma is very junior to Sri Bhuyan or even if they r very good friends, some decorum should have been maintained in such public programmes by calling him "APUNI". After all he is a H'ble Minister of the Govt of Assam, duly elected by the people of Jalukbari. These r small things but if taken care of will go a long way in improving the programmes of this budding channel. 
My observation has nothing personal against anybody and I may kindly be corrected if I m wrong.

Muktikam Phukan


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Re: [Assam] NE TV's Ekap Half Chah programme

2005-08-18 Thread Chan Mahanta
Title: Re: [Assam] NE TV's Ekap Half Chah
programme


I agree.

The emphasis should be on asking pertinent questions and getting
forthright answers.


I realize, we 'probaxis' have shed a lot of our traditional
formalities, which many of our peers back in Assam might find uncouth
and impolite. But be that as it may, the focus should be on the
substance and not on the appearances and formalities.










At 7:52 AM -0700 8/18/05, Dilip/Dil Deka wrote:
I really do not see any problem in the
use of tumi as long as neither Mr. Bhuyan and Mr. Sarma
had any objection. After all there are three accepted forms of
you in Assamese - Apuni, Tumi and Toi, and
they areused as appropriate between two people.
If Bhuyanused Apuni
just for the show, it would have beenartificial and probably
would have put a barrier in the flow of words.

Dilip Deka



muktikam phukan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
Hello everybody

I've a small observation to make. Recently I've been to
Sivasagar for some official job. It was nice to see the TV channel
called NE TV catering to all the major languages of NE including
Sikkim. One of the programme I saw was a Talk Show titled Ekap
Half Chah. The anchor Sri Atanu Bhuyan was interviewing a young
Assam Minister, Sri Himanta Biswa Sarma. But, I was really astonished
to hear Sri Bhuyan calling Sri Sarma TUMI all through the
programme. Is it not really very unprofessional? Even if Sri Sarma is
very junior to Sri Bhuyan or even if they r very good friends, some
decorum should have been maintained in such public programmes by
calling him APUNI. After all he is a H'ble Minister of the
Govt of Assam, duly elected by the people of Jalukbari. These r small
things but if taken care of will go a long way in improving the
programmes of this budding channel.
My observation has nothing personal against anybody and I
may kindly be corrected if I m wrong.

Muktikam Phukan



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