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2016-04-04 Thread Winston, Alan P. via Callers
Whoops, didn't see the "please move on" request. Please disregard. -- Alan On 4/4/2016 3:13 PM, Winston, Alan P. via Callers wrote: On 4/4/2016 9:10 AM, Darwin Gregory via Callers wrote: While I am relatively new to contra, and just called my first dance this weekend, The Baby Rose... I'

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2016-04-04 Thread Winston, Alan P. via Callers
On 4/4/2016 9:10 AM, Darwin Gregory via Callers wrote: While I am relatively new to contra, and just called my first dance this weekend, The Baby Rose... I'll have never considered gypsy a term related to a race of people, nor did I know it was applied today to a group of people called Roma

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2016-04-04 Thread Ric Goldman - Letsdance via Callers
t: Re: [Callers] here it is - sorry I also don't want to read any more of Michael's replies, particularly on this issue (but also on others: see the comparing shadow swings to groping, etc). Several people have asked him to stop, but he won't. But I don't think "

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2016-04-04 Thread Michael Fuerst via Callers
Hello Ron: You wrote:  "My post said I found 3 points "interesting", and listed the three points.  I didn't even link the article on Shared Weight in the first place."     Is it bizarre for readers of this thread to assume you listed the three points because you approved or agreed with them? To

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2016-04-04 Thread Seth Seeger via Callers
All, Once again, the gypsy discussion has erupted in personal attacks and discussion that is not friendly or courteous. This topic seems to be a trigger for people, prompting responses that I don’t think you would say if you were face-to-face. Please move on. Seth & Chris

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2016-04-04 Thread Chris Page via Callers
On Mon, Apr 4, 2016 at 7:55 AM, Michael Fuerst via Callers < callers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote: > > You owe everyone on this list an apology > > > And that's the problem right there. Demanding apologies or insisting people will change their mind if you just reword things slightly is how the ve

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2016-04-04 Thread Darwin Gregory via Callers
While I am relatively new to contra, and just called my first dance this weekend, The Baby Rose... I'll have never considered gypsy a term related to a race of people, nor did I know it was applied today to a group of people called Romas. However, my general position on terms that have both discri

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2016-04-04 Thread Michael Fuerst via Callers
Ron:   You wrote:  "I don't want to cause anyone pain, intended or not."    Do you see anything bizarre in not wanting to cause anyone intended pain? You wrote:  "If you are a World War II survivor, please contact me privately and I will apologize to you if I've caused you pain."One speculates t

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2016-04-04 Thread Ron Blechner via Callers
Hi Michael, The article made these points, not me. I didn't actually introduce any ideas that weren't in the article. My post said I found 3 points "interesting", and listed the three points. I didn't even link the article on Shared Weight in the first place. Ever hear the phrase, "don't shoot th

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2016-04-04 Thread Ron Blechner via Callers
I don't want to cause anyone pain, intended or not. That's always been my goal. While I have not received any complaints from any World War II survivors or close relatives of them (of which I am, as well) about this, I feel like discussing this topic on Shared Weight is not going anywhere. So I won

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2016-04-04 Thread Aahz Maruch via Callers
On Mon, Apr 04, 2016, Michael Fuerst via Callers wrote: > Ron Blechner: >> >> 3. That perhaps the use of "gypsy" as a term isn't as bad as non-Roma >> self-identitying as "dance gypsies". Roma wander because they are >> persecuted or can't find work. When we talk about "dance gypsies" >> beig wande

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2016-04-04 Thread Michael Fuerst via Callers
Hello Ron: Your statement  "we're comparing our having fun traveling to various dances to the widespread persecution of an ethnicity (the worst being the Holocaust)." was an intentional, malicious, misguided   personal attack on every contradancer who speaks the words "dance gypsy," who uses the

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2016-04-04 Thread Bob Isaacs via Callers
Thank you, Michael. The term for the WWII tragedy still evokes a lot of pain for those who survived it and their descendants, and hopefully will have no further use in a forum devoted to dancing - Bob Ron: "we're comparing our having fun traveling to various dances to the widespread persec

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2016-04-04 Thread Dave Casserly via Callers
I also don't want to read any more of Michael's replies, particularly on this issue (but also on others: see the comparing shadow swings to groping, etc). Several people have asked him to stop, but he won't. But I don't think "this list isn't working" just because some of us think one person is r

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2016-04-04 Thread Ron Blechner via Callers
I'm really tired of personal attacks here on Shared Weight, and a high percentage comes from one person. I've asked Michael Fuerst to not contact me again. I've already cut down my usage, but if we can't trade ideas without having them called "bizarre" and "absurd", then this list isn't working. O

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2016-04-03 Thread Michael Fuerst via Callers
Ron: "we're comparing our having fun traveling to various dances to the widespread persecution of an ethnicity (the worst being the Holocaust)." Maybe you do.   No one else uses such  bizarre logic.  Conbtradancers as a group are about as left of center  and non-discriminatory in their beliefs as

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2016-04-03 Thread Ron Blechner via Callers
That article had a few interesting *new* points, for me. 1. That Roma are in the US, not just Europe, and face continued discrimination. 2. That Roma in the US often don't speak up about their identity out of fear of discrimination. 3. That perhaps the use of "gypsy" as a term isn't as bad as non-