Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-26 Thread Ben Wong
On Sun, Jan 24, 2010 at 8:21 AM, ri...@happyleptic.org wrote: I don't know how to tell my procmail to discard completely off topic messages like these. It's been awhile since I used procmail, but I believe the recipe to add to your procmailrc is: :0: * ^From:.*commun...@lists.openmoko.org *

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-26 Thread Vaudano Luca
Thanks Ben very useful for me! P.S. Maybe you never read this email :D ___ Openmoko community mailing list community@lists.openmoko.org http://lists.openmoko.org/mailman/listinfo/community

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-26 Thread rixed
P.S. Maybe you never read this email :D That's the problem with checking for [OT] : it doesnt tell how much off topic it is. Maybe we should establish new conventions, for instance : [RM] : Related mater [NCR] : Not completely related [OT] : Off topic [WOT] : Way off topic [MMI] : Speaking

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-26 Thread Alexey Feldgendler
On Tue, 26 Jan 2010 18:59:44 +0100, Ben Wong lists.openmoko@wongs.net wrote: It's been awhile since I used procmail, but I believe the recipe to add to your procmailrc is: :0: * ^From:.*commun...@lists.openmoko.org * ^Subject:.*\bOT\b trash # Save to a file named trash. Could

Re: posting to a blog vs. this list (was: Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?)

2010-01-25 Thread Yorick Moko
30.66 km here ^_^ On Sun, Jan 24, 2010 at 5:31 PM, Sam Kuper sam.ku...@uclmail.net wrote: 2010/1/24 arne anka openm...@ginguppin.de what is that ruckus all about? OK Arne, I live approximately 50.5 miles from my parents' house by road, slightly less as the crow flies. How about you? Maybe

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-24 Thread Brolin Empey
I have been living alone in my apartment for 2 weeks. I used Google Earth’s ruler feature to determine my apartment is only 480 m (direct distance; road or walking distance is farther.) from my parents’s house. I have actually gone grocery shopping alone and need to go again tomorrow (on

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-24 Thread rixed
Can't you stop spamming this list ? ___ Openmoko community mailing list community@lists.openmoko.org http://lists.openmoko.org/mailman/listinfo/community

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-24 Thread Stefano Cavallari
What about opening a free blog and write your thoughts/happenings there? You can post the URL here ONCE, so whoever is following you and/or willing to help will be able to continue. There is a reason there isn't a single global mailing list for everything. I hope you understand this. Don't ever

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-24 Thread Paul Fertser
ri...@happyleptic.org writes: Can't you stop spamming this list ? Come on, just add a procmail rule or something if you do not want to see a nice guy improving! -- Be free, use free (http://www.gnu.org/philosophy/free-sw.html) software! mailto:fercer...@gmail.com

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-24 Thread Fabian Schölzel
On Sunday 24. January 2010 13:38:27, Stefano Cavallari Cavallari wrote: What about opening a free blog and write your thoughts/happenings there? I think that's a good idea! Cheers, Fabian ___ Openmoko community mailing list

posting to a blog vs. this list (was: Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?)

2010-01-24 Thread Brolin Empey
Fabian Schölzel wrote: On Sunday 24. January 2010 13:38:27, Stefano Cavallari Cavallari wrote: Why does your reply template include the quoted author’s last name twice instead of only once? Also, you should include the time zone/UTC offset because the quoted time of day is still in the future

Re: posting to a blog vs. this list (was: Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?)

2010-01-24 Thread Sam Kuper
Brolin, You're clearly well-meaning, but ... 2010/1/24 Brolin Empey bro...@brolin.be: Fabian Schölzel wrote: On Sunday 24. January 2010 13:38:27, Stefano Cavallari Cavallari wrote: Why does your reply template include the quoted author’s last name twice instead of only once?  Also, you

Re: posting to a blog vs. this list (was: Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?)

2010-01-24 Thread arne anka
what is that ruckus all about? once in a while brolin posts a message about his personal progress -- always with the same subject and hence easily to be filtered by the mail client for those unable to do it by themselves while reading the subject already. the most traffic and the real

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-24 Thread rixed
-[ Sun, Jan 24, 2010 at 03:46:04PM +0300, Paul Fertser ] Come on, just add a procmail rule or something if you do not want to see a nice guy improving! I don't know how to tell my procmail to discard completely off topic messages like these. But I feel a little ashamed to be rude in this

Re: posting to a blog vs. this list (was: Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?)

2010-01-24 Thread Sam Kuper
2010/1/24 arne anka openm...@ginguppin.de what is that ruckus all about? OK Arne, I live approximately 50.5 miles from my parents' house by road, slightly less as the crow flies. How about you? Maybe we should all discuss the distance we live from our parents' houses, if you're so sure this

OT: gender-neutral English usage (was Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?)

2010-01-18 Thread Brolin Empey
Juan Lucas Dominguez Rubio wrote: No we dont have a neutral gender in Spanish, but the Spanish for 'his' and 'her' is the same ('su') so we don't have that problem: 'his/her Freerunner' == 'su Freerunner' Spanish is still patriarchal, though: plural nouns are masculine unless all the members

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-15 Thread Neil Jerram
2010/1/15 Brolin Empey bro...@brolin.be: Fabian Schölzel wrote: On Thursday 14. January 2010 22:15:16, Brolin Empey Empey wrote: I agree with you, Fabian.  However, I think you should use “he or she” instead of using masculine pronouns as if they were sex/gender-neutral. I had a bad feeling

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-15 Thread pike
Hi Yes, or “One should do as he or she likes.”. Or use they: People can do as they like I usually use s/he. I wish there was a form for his/er (her/is), too... $2c, *-pike ___ Openmoko community mailing list community@lists.openmoko.org

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-15 Thread Neil Jerram
2010/1/15 pike pike-openm...@kw.nl: Hi Yes, or “One should do as he or she likes.”. Or use they: People can do as they like I usually use s/he. I wish there was a form for his/er (her/is), too... There is. It's their. (I think that rather supports my suggestion; don't you?)

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-15 Thread Jan Girlich
Am Freitag, den 15.01.2010, 10:04 + schrieb Neil Jerram: 2010/1/15 pike pike-openm...@kw.nl: I wish there was a form for his/er (her/is), too... There is. It's their. Difference is pike is using singular, you're using plural, Neil. Using plural just seems like a quick hack to me, the

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-15 Thread Matthias Apitz
El día Friday, January 15, 2010 a las 02:04:07PM +0100, Jan Girlich escribió: Am Freitag, den 15.01.2010, 10:04 + schrieb Neil Jerram: 2010/1/15 pike pike-openm...@kw.nl: I wish there was a form for his/er (her/is), too... There is. It's their. Difference is pike is using

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-15 Thread Neil Jerram
2010/1/15 Jan Girlich vollk...@cryptobitch.de: Am Freitag, den 15.01.2010, 10:04 + schrieb Neil Jerram: 2010/1/15 pike pike-openm...@kw.nl: I wish there was a form for his/er (her/is), too... There is.  It's their. Difference is pike is using singular, you're using plural, Neil.

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-15 Thread Alexey Feldgendler
On Fri, 15 Jan 2010 14:32:58 +0100, Neil Jerram neiljer...@googlemail.com wrote: There is. It's their. Difference is pike is using singular, you're using plural, Neil. Historically, yes, they and their are plural. But in real current (UK) English, they are being used more and more also

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-15 Thread Dave
On Fri, Sep 11, 2009 at 6:12 AM, Brolin Empey bro...@brolin.be wrote: Hello list, Like most of the members of this list (AFAICT from the first names I recognise as sex/gender-specific), I am male. I am 22 and still live with my parents. I have never lived away from my parents. I am

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-15 Thread Ben Wong
On Thu, Jan 14, 2010 at 1:15 PM, Brolin Empey bro...@brolin.be wrote:  This subject is covered in Ellen Spertus’s 1991 paper titled “Why are There so Few Female Computer Scientists?”: http://people.mills.edu/spertus/Gender/pap/pap.html Thanks for the link. Reading it reminds me of the time I

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-14 Thread Brolin Empey
Ben Cadieux wrote: Hi Brolin, Just a few things to remember: 1. This list is public; these posts will remain available through search engines for quite some time. Yes, I realise this. I explicated this realisation in my original post: “Can anyone relate to me? What should I do? I know I

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-14 Thread Brolin Empey
omcomali@porcupinefactory.org wrote: On Wed, 6 Jan 2010 23:00:19 +0100 Fabian Schölzelfabian.schoel...@googlemail.com wrote: ---snip--- You also said, that he could run into trouble because of the things he writes here. Well, that may be. Myself i think, only people, that are not able

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-14 Thread Brolin Empey
Fabian Schölzel wrote: Hi rhn, i understand your point of view. Everybody should do as he wish. But i think if somebody wants to give that gift to everybody, he should be allowed to do so, while others are free to say no thanks, i don't want to know. For my self, i think it is some kind of

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-14 Thread Fabian Schölzel
On Thursday 14. January 2010 22:15:16, Brolin Empey Empey wrote: I agree with you, Fabian. However, I think you should use “he or she” instead of using masculine pronouns as if they were sex/gender-neutral. I had a bad feeling when writing this. :) My mother tongue is german, so i think this

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-14 Thread Ben Cadieux
Hi Brolin, Can you provide some specific examples, other than saying I want to fuck Tamara, which should not surprise her since she already knew that?  I know some people think I should not have mentioned her (full) name in such a context, but it is too late now. I was referring to that

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-14 Thread Brolin Empey
Fabian Schölzel wrote: On Thursday 14. January 2010 22:15:16, Brolin Empey Empey wrote: I agree with you, Fabian. However, I think you should use “he or she” instead of using masculine pronouns as if they were sex/gender-neutral. I had a bad feeling when writing this. :) My mother tongue is

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-07 Thread omcomali . rhn
On Wed, 6 Jan 2010 23:00:19 +0100 Fabian Schölzel fabian.schoel...@googlemail.com wrote: ---snip--- You also said, that he could run into trouble because of the things he writes here. Well, that may be. Myself i think, only people, that are not able to deal with that amount of info and

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-07 Thread Fabian Schölzel
Hi rhn, i understand your point of view. Everybody should do as he wish. But i think if somebody wants to give that gift to everybody, he should be allowed to do so, while others are free to say no thanks, i don't want to know. For my self, i think it is some kind of different to your way, but in

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-06 Thread Ben Cadieux
Hi Brolin, Just a few things to remember: 1. This list is public; these posts will remain available through search engines for quite some time. You have posted many details that may cause you trouble or embarrassment in the future. 2. Think about what others need to know, or would like to

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-06 Thread Fabian Schölzel
Hi Ben, i think it is clear that you want to tell him this in a positive way, but it quite sounds like you think it is a absolute and inevitable law to act as you propose. Maybe you don't see it that strict and you just want to give him good advice. Well, it is right, that nobody wants to

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2010-01-01 Thread Brolin Empey
2009/11/30 Brolin Empey bro...@brolin.be: 2009/11/12 Brolin Empey bro...@brolin.be Hello list, I am writing a follow-up/update to my original post just over 2 months later. What has changed since my original post? Another update.  What has changed since my last update? I finally chose

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-12-01 Thread Atilla Filiz
I think making a list and talking to a therapist will help. I am currently seeing an advisor from my university for roughly the same reasons as you. She usually offers me different points of view on my tasks and actions, and this seems helpful. For social interaction, I was going to archery club

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-12-01 Thread Michal Brzozowski
2009/12/1 Atilla Filiz atilla.fi...@gmail.com I think making a list and talking to a therapist will help. I am currently seeing an advisor from my university for roughly the same reasons as you. She usually offers me different points of view on my tasks and actions, and this seems helpful.

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-11-30 Thread Brolin Empey
2009/11/12 Brolin Empey bro...@brolin.be Hello list, I am writing a follow-up/update to my original post just over 2 months later. What has changed since my original post? Another update. What has changed since my last update? 1. I stopped hiring Dave McCormick because I did not

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-11-12 Thread Brolin Empey
Hello list, I am writing a follow-up/update to my original post just over 2 months later. What has changed since my original post? 1. I hired Dave McCormick to help me overcome some of my indefinitely-deferred tasks. 2. I have actually overcome my priority inversion and started trying

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-17 Thread Ali
On Thu, 2009-09-10 at 13:12 -0700, Brolin Empey wrote: Hello list, Like most of the members of this list (AFAICT from the first names I recognise as sex/gender-specific), I am male. I am 22 and still live I feel ya buddy. I'm born and raised in Vancouver and have had some of your

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-16 Thread Ben Wong
Hello Brolin, I showed your post to a few geek girls and asked them what advice they would give. I'm CC'ing the list with their (edited) responses because I have a hunch that there are more Brolins out there. Ben ___ Overall, my advice isn't

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-12 Thread Ben Wong
Hello Brolin, Wow. That's quite a bit of information. I have many thoughts about your specific endeavours, moving out, priority inversion, social anxiety, finding a geek girl, but I think there may be a broader, more important goal that you're missing. It occurs to me that you may find it

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-12 Thread Michael Fisher
Maybe this can close this off-topic thread. Here is a geek free dating service. http://www.plentyoffish.com/?dating=1freqanigclid=CJaHrpu_7JwCFVhh2godJDz1kg http://www.plentyoffish.com/?dating=1freqanigclid=CJaHrpu_7JwCFVhh2godJDz1kg On Sat, Sep 12, 2009 at 11:33 AM, Ben Wong

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-11 Thread David Reyes Samblas Martinez
standard life and geek life are not so incompatible you only have to forget about sleep :P a married with a daughter geek and posible one/two more to come in short :) 2009/9/11 roguem...@roguewrt.org: On 11/09/2009 3:20 PM, ri...@happyleptic.org wrote: Keep beeing happy and stay behind

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-11 Thread Vinzenz Hersche
Am Freitag, 11. September 2009 13.21:18 schrieb David Reyes Samblas Martinez: standard life and geek life are not so incompatible you only have to forget about sleep :P a married with a daughter geek and posible one/two more to come in short :) yeah, it works, but i understand the whish

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-11 Thread Atilla Filiz
My personal experience as a soially disfunctional geek is typically avoiding people just to avoid awkward greetings with people I barely know, but have nothing to say besides simple hello. Moreover, I hate socializing on IRC or MMORPGs , talking with random people I will never meet. Mailing lists

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-11 Thread Jeff Sadowski
Too long a read. If your looking for a mate may I suggest okcupid.com I had quite a few dates off the site and it was free. I never found the one off that site but I could get maybe a date a week off the site and it was a lot of fun. I found my final date through a close personal friend just a

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-11 Thread Iain B. Findleton
This site is completely free, worldwide, but mainly english speaking. Lots of fish of all ages and locations... http://www.plentyoffish.com/ Jeff Sadowski wrote: Too long a read. If your looking for a mate may I suggest okcupid.com I had quite a few dates off the site and it was free. I never

OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-10 Thread Brolin Empey
Hello list, Like most of the members of this list (AFAICT from the first names I recognise as sex/gender-specific), I am male. I am 22 and still live with my parents. I have never lived away from my parents. I am planning to hire a support worker to help me live away from my parents (I have

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-10 Thread David Lanzendörfer
Soo offtopic. Tipp: look at gk2gk.com Personal opinion about this content: Stay where you are. Keep beeing happy with your computer and don't believe anyone who tries to make your live better. There were a lot of people who tried to make my life better and let me hurted in the rain

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-10 Thread roguemoko
Hi Brolin, I commend you for your openness and courage for putting yourself out there like you have. I've known a few guys with your particular traits and I sympathise. I imagine it would be very difficult to find your place communally, a lot of people don't understand how over-thought and

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-10 Thread rixed
Keep beeing happy and stay behind your computer. Thats what I should have done from the beginning. Undoubtly a computer is a better person to live with. Be prepared to turn mad around the age of 30, though. 8) ___ Openmoko community mailing list

Re: OT: Where can I meet a female companion with similar interests and personality /in person/?

2009-09-10 Thread roguemoko
On 11/09/2009 3:20 PM, ri...@happyleptic.org wrote: Keep beeing happy and stay behind your computer. Thats what I should have done from the beginning. Undoubtly a computer is a better person to live with. Be prepared to turn mad around the age of 30, though. Or inversely go insane from