RE: [FairfieldLife] Note to Rick Conderning his interview with Sam Harris

2014-05-07 Thread krysto
Rick - 

 I doubt that Harris would think or talk about experiencing God.  My take on 
him is that he is interested in anything that can enhance our well being, and 
he feels that certain forms of meditation certainly qualify.  But he is highly 
allergic to claims that reach beyond the evidence, and to labels like God that 
carry so much baggage that he sees as harmful.  My guess is that he will seek 
to describe even the describable in naturalistic terms.
 



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: To Curtis - Sam Harris

2014-05-02 Thread krysto
Talk of Sam Harris brings me out of the FFL shadows.  

 Harris is, in my view, one of the clearest and boldest thinkers in the world 
today.  One may disagree with any number of his positions (that radical Islam 
presents a dire threat to the world, that free will is an illusion, that 
science can guide our moral decisions) but the intelligence and power with 
which he expresses himself is stunning.  The surprising twist that this 
committed atheist and materialist is fascinated by the value that meditation 
can provide makes him all the more interesting.  Go for it, Rick!
 



[FairfieldLife] RE: On belief

2013-08-31 Thread krysto













[FairfieldLife] Re: Today is FFL's 10th Birthday

2011-09-05 Thread krysto
OK so I qualify as an old-timer.  Getting used to that as the years go by...

Happy birthday, group.

I continue to skim the summaries, and not too infrequently get something to 
interest or amuse me. Thanks for all the fish...

Would it be in bad taste to summarize a few of my favorites?  This is a list of 
some that come immediately to mind, inevitably forgetting most and many who 
deserve mention, so take it as lightly as I write it:

* Curtis kicks ass - a fun writer, and a man eerily close to my own mind
* The Turq - prolific, pointed, disruptive, often fascinating
* Buck (my old friend Doug Hamilton) - a hoot to see in the role of Old 
Testament prophet
* Alex - always good for a quick grounding
* Judy - relentless and meticulous (has anyone called her Judge Judy?) She 
takes her vision of integrity very seriously, brooks no quarter.
* Rory - once all over the ooga-booga space, now playful and directly, 
plain-spokenly illuminating
* Rick - the father of it all, the deus abscondus who mostly lets his creation 
do what it must do, with only rare intervention (more balanced than the deity, 
though)
* Raunchy - one tough dog, a voice that cuts through it all
* Meow13 or whatever number it was - a gentle voice, implausibly innocent 

And yes, the old guys like LB, Brigante, Rudra Joe.  Rick - I guess you did not 
invite Sharalyn Harris to come back?

I'm gone only because I do not have the time to do my presence here justice. 
Other fish to fry.

My wishes?
1. That Judy and Turq would limit their personal attacks, chidings, baitings, 
name-callings, and innuendos to direct emails between themselves, sparing us 
all forever.
2. That the spirit of openness and curiosity that seems to prevail much more 
now than in the past will thrive. 

But who cares what I think?  Just an old-timer in to say hello.

As you were...


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com , Rick Archer rick@ wrote:
 
  I had meant to invite some of the old-timers back for a visit. LB Shriver,
  Thom Krystofiak, Off World Beings (did invite him), Rudra Joe/Kirk
  Bernhardt. Can you think of others?




[FairfieldLife] Re: The Library and The Book

2010-09-04 Thread krysto
Turq -

Yes, it is a rare soul who does not separate the Good from the Bad from time to 
time. I'm not even sure how one could avoid that, or that it would be a good 
thing if one could.  And yes, we almost always make those distinctions 
prematurely, without full context- me included of course. You included, too, I 
submit.

I do a drive by when I get pissed when someone gets personally blasted here 
in ways that seem to me to be irresponsible and inappropriate.  It has happened 
to a couple of my friends who ventured into this place, and to one good friend 
who died a terrible and quick death from colon cancer last year and was blasted 
in the weeks preceding it for his choices in health care.  I do not mean 
disagreed with - I mean blasted rather vilely (in my opinion).  And I do 
speak out in those aftermaths - not that I imagine what I say has much effect. 
Rebecca, in this case, is not a friend of mine, but I still felt some 
injustice. And I may have overreacted somewhat in my concluding remarks.

I don't just drop in - I do see the denizens.  In the early days of FFLife 
I posted a lot. There were long and friendly disputes and investigations 
between me and LB Shriver and others. I stopped mostly because the emerging 
style of the discourse on the board too often did not appeal to me enough to 
join in anymore, and because I lacked the time.

I enjoy reading a few of the frequent posters, particularly Curtis and you and 
a handful of others sometimes, but I have other battles to engage, usually, 
than the ones that predictably flare up here.

If you have kicked the fight with Judy habit, I sincerely applaud you - not 
so much because it would be good for you, but because I think it improves the 
quality of FFLife for those who read it (except of course those who **like** to 
read exchanges like those...)

Cheers


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, krysto krysto@ wrote in an earlier 
 post:
   
   Let me close by saying that some of the denizens of Fairfield 
   Life once again showed their nastiness and their terribly small-
   mindedness in the rush to judgment about Rebecca. A striking 
   lack of willingness to find out what is really going on, 
   preferring instead to apply snap judgments and to wail and
   posture and go on the attack. This is sad, and I think rather 
   destructive of some of the values I personally wish we could 
   be fostering.
 
 And in this post followed up with:
  
  The values I referred to do not preclude stating my direct 
  reaction to posts that I read myself. I was objecting to 
  presumptive mud-slinging involving a person and policies 
  about which certain posters had no direct knowledge. I have 
  seen before on this forum people get to work grinding up a 
  person's public reputation with very little in the way of 
  firm grounds. And no apparent interest in the full story. 
  Convict first, then assess facts if they happen to appear 
  later.
 
 Ahem. See Alex's restrained and informative reply
 to merudanda in the following post:
 
 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/255992
 
 I assume you are going to rip merudanda a new one 
 and suggest that he showed small-mindedness in his
 rush to judgment by implying that the moderators of 
 FFL were censoring him. I assume you are going to
 similarly take him to task for doing this based on 
 policies about which he obviously had no knowledge 
 and while showing no apparent interest in the full 
 story. 
 
 Right?  No, I thought not. merudanda is one of the 
 FFL Good Guys. :-)
 
 My point is that a LOT of people here wear their
 I-know-who-the-Good-Guys-and-who-the-Bad-Guys-are-
 and-what-they-intended-when-they-did-or-said-this-
 colored glasses when reading FFL, not just those 
 who have a less than favorable view of Maharishi 
 or TM or the TMO. 
 
 In this particular tempest in a pisspot, I laid low.
 In fact, I was one of the voices advising against
 a rush to judgment. So was I one of these nasty,
 small-minded denizens of FFL in this case, or was 
 I one of the Good Guys (the ones you approve of)?
 Curious minds want to know.  :-)
 
 I'm just messing with you, krysto. 
 
 And wondering who you are because you seem to have 
 a history of dropping in once a year or so to bitch
 about the vibe of FFL, then dropping out again. It's
 like a drive-by hooting. :-) I'm also wondering 
 whether you actually *see* the place when you drop 
 in or, like the denizens you rail against above, 
 see instead what you expect to see.
 
 For example, in one of your drive-bys from 2008, you
 wrote to Rick:
  
  You focus on the Barry/Judy battles, and I agree that if 
  one or both would just drop 100% of their personal fighting, 
  cold turkey, permanently, it would be better for all the 
  rest of us who read FFL. 
 
 Did you notice during this latest drive-by that this
 had happened, at least from one side? Back on August
 11th

[FairfieldLife] Re: The Library and The Book

2010-09-03 Thread krysto
So denizen is name-calling?  It may be an old-fashioned word, but I hardly 
think it is a slur.

As for the other attributes I used, I should have made it clearer that it is 
only a rather small number of posters here that, in my opinion, exhibit those 
qualities rather frequently and sometimes rather intensely. Of course, a small 
number of posters also totally dominate FFLife, at least in terms of the post 
counts, and so the overall tone of the place can be drastically skewed by the 
few.

The values I referred to do not preclude stating my direct reaction to posts 
that I read myself. I was objecting to presumptive mud-slinging involving a 
person and policies about which certain posters had no direct knowledge.  I 
have seen before on this forum people get to work grinding up a person's public 
reputation with very little in the way of firm grounds. And no apparent 
interest in the full story. Convict first, then assess facts if they happen to 
appear later.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine salsunsh...@... wrote:

 Who is we?  And what values do you think *you're*
 fostering when you name-call and refer to people you
 disagree with as denizens and their very valid 
 concerns as wailing and posturing?
 
 Sal





[FairfieldLife] The Library and The Book

2010-09-02 Thread krysto
I wrote to Rebecca Huggins, director of the Fairfield Library, asking why she 
decided not to include the donated copy of Robes of Silk, Feet of Clay in the 
collection. I stressed the importance of freedom of expression.

She then invited me to come talk with her, which I did today.

Here is what happened, from her point of view.

1. Rick Archer brought her the book, and strongly urged her to read it first, 
then offer it in the library. She took it home, but was unable to find time to 
read it right away, as a couple of staff members were out sick and she was 
working very long hours.

2. She says she never decided that the book would not be added to the 
collection. However, the library board has established guidelines for deciding 
whether a new book should be offered, and a key point is that the book has had 
some authoritative published reviews.  Authoritative was not the word she 
used, I think, but I cannot recall the exact word - it was along those lines. 
It's harder for a self-published book to qualify for this, obviously, although 
many self-published books manage to get such reviews. So on this basis, the 
book may have been destined to sit on the sidelines at least until some reviews 
were available (I assume reviews on Fairfield Life do not qualify).

3. She seems to take her position very seriously, and also feels strongly about 
freedom of expression. She says that she is dead-against censorship. Someone 
came in a while back insisting that she remove a book that was very critical of 
Obama, telling her that she had a parental role for the community that she 
was not fulfilling by letting such wrong-headed books into the library. This 
book happened to have been a NYT best seller, often reviewed. She did not bend 
to that pressure to censor, and she insists that censorship played no role in 
the process with the Robes of Silk book either.

4. She received enough requests from people - or complaints (many of them 
probably inspired by FFLife) - that she took the matter to the Regional 
Librarian. She was given a go-ahead to offer the book, and was told that 
sometimes the will of the people overrides standard policies.  And the book was 
added to the library collection.

I detected absolutely no sense in Rebecca that she regrets the book being in 
the library, or that she wishes there could have been a way to keep it out.  
She could easily have stuck to the policy and not asked the Regional Librarian 
if she simply wanted to block the book.

As she said, there are thousands of books in the library that she personally 
disagrees with very deeply. But as Director, she has no desire or intention to 
make the collection correspond with her personal beliefs or values.

Let me close by saying that some of the denizens of Fairfield Life once again 
showed their nastiness and their terribly small-mindedness in the rush to 
judgment about Rebecca. A striking lack of willingness to find out what is 
really going on, preferring instead to apply snap judgments and to wail and 
posture and go on the attack. This is sad, and I think rather destructive of 
some of the values I personally wish we could be fostering.




[FairfieldLife] Re: The Library and The Book

2010-09-02 Thread krysto
One thing to add: Rebecca seemed genuinely puzzled by what would motivate 
people to claim publicly that she is a banner of books, people who do not know 
her and do not know anything about the situation.

I have seen much worse on this forum than the treatment of Rebecca.

I could give her no good answer, other than this is something a certain group 
of people on FFLife just seem to enjoy.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, krysto kry...@... wrote:

 I wrote to Rebecca Huggins, director of the Fairfield Library, asking why she 
 decided not to include the donated copy of Robes of Silk, Feet of Clay in the 
 collection. I stressed the importance of freedom of expression.
 
 She then invited me to come talk with her, which I did today.
 
 Here is what happened, from her point of view.
 
 1. Rick Archer brought her the book, and strongly urged her to read it first, 
 then offer it in the library. She took it home, but was unable to find time 
 to read it right away, as a couple of staff members were out sick and she was 
 working very long hours.
 
 2. She says she never decided that the book would not be added to the 
 collection. However, the library board has established guidelines for 
 deciding whether a new book should be offered, and a key point is that the 
 book has had some authoritative published reviews.  Authoritative was not 
 the word she used, I think, but I cannot recall the exact word - it was along 
 those lines. It's harder for a self-published book to qualify for this, 
 obviously, although many self-published books manage to get such reviews. So 
 on this basis, the book may have been destined to sit on the sidelines at 
 least until some reviews were available (I assume reviews on Fairfield Life 
 do not qualify).
 
 3. She seems to take her position very seriously, and also feels strongly 
 about freedom of expression. She says that she is dead-against censorship. 
 Someone came in a while back insisting that she remove a book that was very 
 critical of Obama, telling her that she had a parental role for the 
 community that she was not fulfilling by letting such wrong-headed books into 
 the library. This book happened to have been a NYT best seller, often 
 reviewed. She did not bend to that pressure to censor, and she insists that 
 censorship played no role in the process with the Robes of Silk book either.
 
 4. She received enough requests from people - or complaints (many of them 
 probably inspired by FFLife) - that she took the matter to the Regional 
 Librarian. She was given a go-ahead to offer the book, and was told that 
 sometimes the will of the people overrides standard policies.  And the book 
 was added to the library collection.
 
 I detected absolutely no sense in Rebecca that she regrets the book being in 
 the library, or that she wishes there could have been a way to keep it out.  
 She could easily have stuck to the policy and not asked the Regional 
 Librarian if she simply wanted to block the book.
 
 As she said, there are thousands of books in the library that she personally 
 disagrees with very deeply. But as Director, she has no desire or intention 
 to make the collection correspond with her personal beliefs or values.
 
 Let me close by saying that some of the denizens of Fairfield Life once again 
 showed their nastiness and their terribly small-mindedness in the rush to 
 judgment about Rebecca. A striking lack of willingness to find out what is 
 really going on, preferring instead to apply snap judgments and to wail and 
 posture and go on the attack. This is sad, and I think rather destructive of 
 some of the values I personally wish we could be fostering.