[FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John
I find Ravi to know quite a bit about Jyotish. He is good Brahmin material, if one wishes to acknowledge a caste. :) You tell it like it is and also are humble enough not to claim everything you say is necessarily correct. Pandit Ravi Shastri Chivucula, how coola is that? --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula wrote: Oh well hello there - if for fun, why not me? Fuck Flaherty, other than cursing, sex, smoking, sleep I'm a good Brahmin. Yours, Pandit Ravi Shastri Chivukula On Jan 31, 2013, at 5:43 PM, John wrote: Emily, Yes, he's very intuitive and helpful. He speaks very well and can explain clearly what he sees according to jyotish principles. JR --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn wrote: Dear John, I am going to see Dennis Flaherty, just for fun - I remain open - I remembered his name from your mention months ago. Thanks for the referral. Emily From: John To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 2:51 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: I think jyotish compatability readings are very useful.à And I'm also grateful for modern science findings since there are many people who don't know about and or believe in jyotish.à But mainly in my post I was making a point about positivity to negativity ratios as regards human happiness.à My guess is that a couple with a high compatability number, compatible kuja doshas and placements of rahu ketu axis, would be much more likely to spontaneously generate that 5 to 1 ratio. OTHO, I've heard stories of people with high compatability numbers plus murhurta for auspicious wedding date who still got divorced.à And people with low compatability whose marriage thrived. Do you know a good jyotishi?à I'd like to get a reading for the coming year.à Thank you.à Share, Yes, you can consult with my jyotish teachers in the past. The first one is Brendan Feeley. He's based in the Washington DC area. The second one is Dennis Flaherty who is working in the Seattle, WA area. The third one is Robert Koch who is living in Bend, Oregon (at least, that's where he was the last time I saw him). They should have their own websites on the internet. You can email them if you want a reading. JR From: John To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 12:27 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios à Share, The ancient rishis had a method for successful marriages. That's by comparing the birth charts of the couples who are planning to get married. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: Positivity:à Top Notch Research Reveals the 3 to 1 Ratio That Will Change Your Life by Barbara L. Fredrickson, PhDWhy Marriages Succeed or Fail:à And How You Can Make Yours Last by John Gottman, PhD After extensive observation, Gottman and his team of researchers at Univ. of Washington have been able to predict with an accuracy rate over 90 % which marriages will succeed and which will fail.à One of their findings is that in a marriage that lasts, there is a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative moments. In comparison, Fredrickson and other researchers have found that in order to do well, people need a ratio of 3 to 1 positive, heart felt thoughts and feelings to negative ones; 4 to 1, etc. in order to flourish.Ã
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John
Thank you for recommendations. I've consulted with Dennis previously and have hear of Feeley. From: John jr_...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 4:51 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: I think jyotish compatability readings are very useful. And I'm also grateful for modern science findings since there are many people who don't know about and or believe in jyotish. But mainly in my post I was making a point about positivity to negativity ratios as regards human happiness. My guess is that a couple with a high compatability number, compatible kuja doshas and placements of rahu ketu axis, would be much more likely to spontaneously generate that 5 to 1 ratio. OTHO, I've heard stories of people with high compatability numbers plus murhurta for auspicious wedding date who still got divorced. And people with low compatability whose marriage thrived. Do you know a good jyotishi? I'd like to get a reading for the coming year. Thank you. Share, Yes, you can consult with my jyotish teachers in the past. The first one is Brendan Feeley. He's based in the Washington DC area. The second one is Dennis Flaherty who is working in the Seattle, WA area. The third one is Robert Koch who is living in Bend, Oregon (at least, that's where he was the last time I saw him). They should have their own websites on the internet. You can email them if you want a reading. JR From: John To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 12:27 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios  Share, The ancient rishis had a method for successful marriages. That's by comparing the birth charts of the couples who are planning to get married. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: Positivity: Top Notch Research Reveals the 3 to 1 Ratio That Will Change Your Life by Barbara L. Fredrickson, PhDWhy Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last by John Gottman, PhD After extensive observation, Gottman and his team of researchers at Univ. of Washington have been able to predict with an accuracy rate over 90 % which marriages will succeed and which will fail. One of their findings is that in a marriage that lasts, there is a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative moments. In comparison, Fredrickson and other researchers have found that in order to do well, people need a ratio of 3 to 1 positive, heart felt thoughts and feelings to negative ones; 4 to 1, etc. in order to flourish.Â
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John
I think jyotish compatability readings are very useful. And I'm also grateful for modern science findings since there are many people who don't know about and or believe in jyotish. But mainly in my post I was making a point about positivity to negativity ratios as regards human happiness. My guess is that a couple with a high compatability number, compatible kuja doshas and placements of rahu ketu axis, would be much more likely to spontaneously generate that 5 to 1 ratio. OTHO, I've heard stories of people with high compatability numbers plus murhurta for auspicious wedding date who still got divorced. And people with low compatability whose marriage thrived. Do you know a good jyotishi? I'd like to get a reading for the coming year. Thank you. From: John jr_...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 12:27 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios Share, The ancient rishis had a method for successful marriages. That's by comparing the birth charts of the couples who are planning to get married. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: Positivity: Top Notch Research Reveals the 3 to 1 Ratio That Will Change Your Life by Barbara L. Fredrickson, PhDWhy Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last by John Gottman, PhD After extensive observation, Gottman and his team of researchers at Univ. of Washington have been able to predict with an accuracy rate over 90 % which marriages will succeed and which will fail. One of their findings is that in a marriage that lasts, there is a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative moments. In comparison, Fredrickson and other researchers have found that in order to do well, people need a ratio of 3 to 1 positive, heart felt thoughts and feelings to negative ones; 4 to 1, etc. in order to flourish.
[FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: I think jyotish compatability readings are very useful. And I'm also grateful for modern science findings since there are many people who don't know about and or believe in jyotish. But mainly in my post I was making a point about positivity to negativity ratios as regards human happiness. My guess is that a couple with a high compatability number, compatible kuja doshas and placements of rahu ketu axis, would be much more likely to spontaneously generate that 5 to 1 ratio. OTHO, I've heard stories of people with high compatability numbers plus murhurta for auspicious wedding date who still got divorced. And people with low compatability whose marriage thrived. Do you know a good jyotishi? I'd like to get a reading for the coming year. Thank you. Share, Yes, you can consult with my jyotish teachers in the past. The first one is Brendan Feeley. He's based in the Washington DC area. The second one is Dennis Flaherty who is working in the Seattle, WA area. The third one is Robert Koch who is living in Bend, Oregon (at least, that's where he was the last time I saw him). They should have their own websites on the internet. You can email them if you want a reading. JR From: John To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 12:27 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios  Share, The ancient rishis had a method for successful marriages. That's by comparing the birth charts of the couples who are planning to get married. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: Positivity: Top Notch Research Reveals the 3 to 1 Ratio That Will Change Your Life by Barbara L. Fredrickson, PhDWhy Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last by John Gottman, PhD After extensive observation, Gottman and his team of researchers at Univ. of Washington have been able to predict with an accuracy rate over 90 % which marriages will succeed and which will fail. One of their findings is that in a marriage that lasts, there is a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative moments. In comparison, Fredrickson and other researchers have found that in order to do well, people need a ratio of 3 to 1 positive, heart felt thoughts and feelings to negative ones; 4 to 1, etc. in order to flourish.Â
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John
Dear John, I am going to see Dennis Flaherty, just for fun - I remain open - I remembered his name from your mention months ago. Thanks for the referral. Emily From: John jr_...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 2:51 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: I think jyotish compatability readings are very useful. And I'm also grateful for modern science findings since there are many people who don't know about and or believe in jyotish. But mainly in my post I was making a point about positivity to negativity ratios as regards human happiness. My guess is that a couple with a high compatability number, compatible kuja doshas and placements of rahu ketu axis, would be much more likely to spontaneously generate that 5 to 1 ratio. OTHO, I've heard stories of people with high compatability numbers plus murhurta for auspicious wedding date who still got divorced. And people with low compatability whose marriage thrived. Do you know a good jyotishi? I'd like to get a reading for the coming year. Thank you. Share, Yes, you can consult with my jyotish teachers in the past. The first one is Brendan Feeley. He's based in the Washington DC area. The second one is Dennis Flaherty who is working in the Seattle, WA area. The third one is Robert Koch who is living in Bend, Oregon (at least, that's where he was the last time I saw him). They should have their own websites on the internet. You can email them if you want a reading. JR From: John To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 12:27 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios  Share, The ancient rishis had a method for successful marriages. That's by comparing the birth charts of the couples who are planning to get married. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: Positivity: Top Notch Research Reveals the 3 to 1 Ratio That Will Change Your Life by Barbara L. Fredrickson, PhDWhy Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last by John Gottman, PhD After extensive observation, Gottman and his team of researchers at Univ. of Washington have been able to predict with an accuracy rate over 90 % which marriages will succeed and which will fail. One of their findings is that in a marriage that lasts, there is a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative moments. In comparison, Fredrickson and other researchers have found that in order to do well, people need a ratio of 3 to 1 positive, heart felt thoughts and feelings to negative ones; 4 to 1, etc. in order to flourish.Â
[FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John
Emily, Yes, he's very intuitive and helpful. He speaks very well and can explain clearly what he sees according to jyotish principles. JR --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn wrote: Dear John, I am going to see Dennis Flaherty, just for fun - I remain open - I remembered his name from your mention months ago.  Thanks for the referral. Emily From: John To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 2:51 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: I think jyotish compatability readings are very useful.àAnd I'm also grateful for modern science findings since there are many people who don't know about and or believe in jyotish.àBut mainly in my post I was making a point about positivity to negativity ratios as regards human happiness.àMy guess is that a couple with a high compatability number, compatible kuja doshas and placements of rahu ketu axis, would be much more likely to spontaneously generate that 5 to 1 ratio. OTHO, I've heard stories of people with high compatability numbers plus murhurta for auspicious wedding date who still got divorced.àAnd people with low compatability whose marriage thrived. Do you know a good jyotishi?àI'd like to get a reading for the coming year.àThank you.àShare, Yes, you can consult with my jyotish teachers in the past. The first one is Brendan Feeley. He's based in the Washington DC area. The second one is Dennis Flaherty who is working in the Seattle, WA area. The third one is Robert Koch who is living in Bend, Oregon (at least, that's where he was the last time I saw him). They should have their own websites on the internet. You can email them if you want a reading. JR From: John To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 12:27 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios àShare, The ancient rishis had a method for successful marriages. That's by comparing the birth charts of the couples who are planning to get married. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: Positivity:àTop Notch Research Reveals the 3 to 1 Ratio That Will Change Your Life by Barbara L. Fredrickson, PhDWhy Marriages Succeed or Fail:àAnd How You Can Make Yours Last by John Gottman, PhD After extensive observation, Gottman and his team of researchers at Univ. of Washington have been able to predict with an accuracy rate over 90 % which marriages will succeed and which will fail.àOne of their findings is that in a marriage that lasts, there is a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative moments. In comparison, Fredrickson and other researchers have found that in order to do well, people need a ratio of 3 to 1 positive, heart felt thoughts and feelings to negative ones; 4 to 1, etc. in order to flourish.ÃÂ
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John
Oh well hello there - if for fun, why not me? Fuck Flaherty, other than cursing, sex, smoking, sleep I'm a good Brahmin. Yours, Pandit Ravi Shastri Chivukula On Jan 31, 2013, at 5:43 PM, John jr_...@yahoo.com wrote: Emily, Yes, he's very intuitive and helpful. He speaks very well and can explain clearly what he sees according to jyotish principles. JR --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn wrote: Dear John, I am going to see Dennis Flaherty, just for fun - I remain open - I remembered his name from your mention months ago. Thanks for the referral. Emily From: John To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 2:51 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: I think jyotish compatability readings are very useful. And I'm also grateful for modern science findings since there are many people who don't know about and or believe in jyotish. But mainly in my post I was making a point about positivity to negativity ratios as regards human happiness. My guess is that a couple with a high compatability number, compatible kuja doshas and placements of rahu ketu axis, would be much more likely to spontaneously generate that 5 to 1 ratio. OTHO, I've heard stories of people with high compatability numbers plus murhurta for auspicious wedding date who still got divorced. And people with low compatability whose marriage thrived. Do you know a good jyotishi? I'd like to get a reading for the coming year. Thank you. Share, Yes, you can consult with my jyotish teachers in the past. The first one is Brendan Feeley. He's based in the Washington DC area. The second one is Dennis Flaherty who is working in the Seattle, WA area. The third one is Robert Koch who is living in Bend, Oregon (at least, that's where he was the last time I saw him). They should have their own websites on the internet. You can email them if you want a reading. JR From: John To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 12:27 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios  Share, The ancient rishis had a method for successful marriages. That's by comparing the birth charts of the couples who are planning to get married. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: Positivity: Top Notch Research Reveals the 3 to 1 Ratio That Will Change Your Life by Barbara L. Fredrickson, PhDWhy Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last by John Gottman, PhD After extensive observation, Gottman and his team of researchers at Univ. of Washington have been able to predict with an accuracy rate over 90 % which marriages will succeed and which will fail. One of their findings is that in a marriage that lasts, there is a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative moments. In comparison, Fredrickson and other researchers have found that in order to do well, people need a ratio of 3 to 1 positive, heart felt thoughts and feelings to negative ones; 4 to 1, etc. in order to flourish.Â
