Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:

2012-08-10 Thread Share Long
Share1 on sunny autumnal day
Season of mists and mellow fruitfulness...
Not my line but too hurried to look up reference.



 From: Robin Carlsen 
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, August 8, 2012 7:34 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:
 

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long  wrote:

Good morning again, RC

Share:It could be that we are expressing the very wide difference between 
masculine 
and feminine in these matters.  Indeed the practice Marnia Robinson suggests 
seems as if it would be quite challenging for males.  Thus the Taoist practices 
seem more realistic, compassionate and healthy for both masculine and feminine.

Robin: I agree with this, Share. I believe I am naturally ignorant about the 
matter of sexuality as experienced by a woman. What it is like, from the point 
of view of her subjectivity qua woman. So, perhaps, Marnia knows something I 
don't know. She's a woman after all. :-) I only know that I have not met or 
seen any man--in my lifetime, that is--who could 'spiritualize' the sexual act. 
Not that some have not believed they could, maybe even experienced they could; 
but the very notion of there being any counteractive force to male sexuality, 
so as to bring it under control and into submission, well that is just a dream. 
I still don't believe I have met someone who I thought had complete and 
intelligent mastery over their sexuality--either man or woman. Although, again, 
seeing the reality of sexuality in a woman not perfectly integrated into her 
personality and self-will does not mean that I know what a woman's experience 
of sexuality is, or could be. I
 would say this: most woman are not aware of the extent to which their 
sexuality dominates the attention of a man. 
Share1:  Sigh... What a lila the whole thing is!  Men not understanding women.  
Women not understanding men.   Hope God is having fun!  

I don't think it's necessary to bring sexuality under control in order to 
render it more spiritual.  I think that happens with the deepening and 
maturation of love between the two.  But as always, I could be wrong (-: 

Share:The other difference I sense we are expressing is that between East and 
West, 
the latter having been much more imbued with the spirit matter split I've 
written about in other posts.  I have turned from the epitome of that resulting 
ignorance, the Catholic Church.  Whereas you seem to be at least intrigued by 
the ideas on  the Church both professes and attempts to enforce.

Robin: All this about the Catholic Church is the result of the absence of 
supernatural grace from the Personal God (the Holy Trinity), Mary, the 
Eucharist, and the Sacraments. I am not "intrigued" by the idea of sexuality as 
understood inside Catholicism: once it could produce Saints, as that story of 
Aquinas proves. Nothing like that can happen now: that grace is gone. And that 
grace is necessary to make the Thomistic truths of that essay in our previous 
conversation live and prove themselves. 
Share1:  Nonetheless Mary intervened with the GMH poem (-:

R:  With regard to East versus West, the West bears the burden of the personal 
approach to reality, and even sexuality. No Eastern tract on sexuality is 
likely, if it posits the supreme reality of the Self, to give sufficient regard 
to the realm of personal intimacy and tenderness that is part of the Wester 
tradition of romanic love. I find Eastern spirituality does not have a 
literature which represents even fractionally the profound notion of man-woman 
love that is the centre of meaning for much of Western literature. The only 
form of spirituality which for me would, in the abstract at least, be relevant 
here--to our experience of sexuality in the West--would be a spirituality which 
was imbued with the understanding of the mystique and significance of Man-Woman 
relationships. I doubt Taoism (in its teachings about human sexuality) 
addresses the intimacy--in a personal sense--of the sexual act.
Share1:  This brings to my mind the whole courtly love tradition which also 
contributes to the spirit matter split.  Hmmm, this just came to mind:  that 
neither East nor West is expressing highest about all this.  Highest is yet to 
unfold.  So not all personal as in the West.  But not all detached as in the 
East.  But something new, maybe both embodied and universal.  Just thinking out 
loud here.

Share: I readily admit that I could be wrong and deluded about all this.  
However, I'm 
willing to take that chance in order to again experience that sex can indeed 
lead one to God.  If only momentarily.

Robin: Well, I can't speak for you of course. But I think the sexual experience 
can be--obviously--experientially wonderful; but that something that powerful 
and overwhelming could actually bring one closer to ultimate reality, that 
see

[FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:

2012-08-08 Thread Robin Carlsen
 Unity Consciousness). 

That's interesting, your having "already integrated many divergent points of 
view of you into my awareness"--evidently my critic was concerned about *you*, 
that you might labour under the illusion that there was, after all, *anything* 
real or interesting about those ten years. I think whatever FFL readers and 
posters make of my attempts to clarify my past, especially to do with my 
enlightenment, the only valid perspective would come from an extremely 
critical, but honest scrutiny of all that I say--but I hardly thing much will 
come from an approach that makes zero demands on that person's own belief 
system--both conscious and unconscious. 

I am pretty sure of my own honesty and good faith in all this--explaining my 
past--so when someone is highly critical or dismissive of me, they in some 
sense have to possess as much honesty and good faith as I do. I doubt if I will 
ever influence you away from anything you believe in, Share, but I certainly 
sense your generosity  and sympathy in trying to understand what I am 
about--this is enough for me. It is a matter of whether my critics in being 
hostile or dismissive of what I have to say knowingly or otherwise  have more 
reality inside their judgment of me than those who express some interest in and 
even appreciation for what I have to say. 

Share: It's tricky when someone is so brilliant especially with words.  Others 
can 
come to distrust the sincerity of the words.  And to state the obvious, here on 
FFL we are limited to words.  None of us know you now as you are in 3D day to 
day life.  I rely on my own felt sense to grok the truth of what your words 
express.  Willing to take a chance on that too (-:  

Robin: Yes, it would be nice to be able to appear in 3D in one's posts. While 
"we are limited by words" I don't think that in the expression of ourselves in 
words we do not reveal something significant about who we are, and the kind of 
person we are. I think a lot of the human being Share Long gets into your 
words, so I find you in your words. All of our acts, but especially when we 
express our beliefs in words inside the context of passionate argument and 
disputation, reveal our identity in a first-person ontological sense. [I think 
I need a bubble diagram for this first-person ontology thing.:-)] An actor is 
always giving an underlying motivation for each word he or she speaks (just as 
what is there when we speak to someone in life). I think when we write this is 
not so obvious, but I sense in most people's writing the signature of their 
soul. 

You certainly have added something very real to this forum, and you can be 
grateful that your well-being is guarded by persons who would have you not 
deceived by the writing of an apostate Hindu, someone who would have the 
temerity even to make judgments about the Western and Eastern spiritual 
traditions.

Look, Share, let's face it: You are as likeable a person who has ever come onto 
FFL. And the fact that you are intelligent, well, this makes for a most 
felicitous experience for all of us who have a tropism for sunlight and blue 
sky.
 
 ____
>  From: Robin Carlsen 
> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
> Sent: Monday, August 6, 2012 12:27 PM
> Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too 
> (-:
>  
> 
>   
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long  wrote:
> 
> Share1: Marnia Robinson writes:  "Take, for example, the ancient Tibetan 
> Buddhist myth, The Great Stupa.  It confirms that passion is indeed the 
> reason for mankind's fallen state, and says there are three paths to 
> liberation:
> 
> ~the overcoming of passion through renunciation
> ~the neutralization of passion by pouring all one's energy into selfless 
> service
> ~the conquering of passion through controlled indulgence.  That is, using sex 
> itself in such a way as to transcend passion's treacherous downward suction.
> 
> It says that the third path is the fastest and most powerful path, although 
> also the easiest one to fall from...until one masters it.
> 
> Robin1: I think this just BS, Share. There is no spiritual path that entails 
> sex or abstinence from sex: celibacy. "Controlled indulgence"--any being with 
> the intelligence to know how susceptible we all are to the power of this 
> reality inside our bodies, knows this is just plain ridiculous. 'Mastering' 
> "controlled indulgence"--this is the most absurd and ludicrous idea I think I 
> may have heard when it comes to traditional idea of spirituality, Share. 
> Beautifully sincere, but hopelessly naive.
> 
> Look: here is where I come out on all this. I believe that only the grace of 
> the Personal God can make of celibacy something real, c

[FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:

2012-08-07 Thread Robin Carlsen
nderful 
an evening as it turned out, Lord knows. But this is all good. Good for me 
anyhow.

I am very much myself in writing to you, Share. I like this. Thank you for your 
respect and your intelligent affection. I am aware of how our differences 
remain intact.

Robin

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long  wrote:
>
> Good evening Robin,
> Apologies for just responding.  Busy afternoon with writing group and 
> release session, then Dome and dinner.  
> 
> 
> This essay has a decidedly Catholic tone to it.  Would it be possible to 
> know the author?  
> 
> 
> That tone gives this reader the sense of someone demonstrating a waltz with 
> their legs and arms tied.  I don't even know why I say this.  It is simply 
> my sense of it.
> 
> I still maintain that Western culture is severely marred by the spirit matter 
> split that began long ago.  For this reason I find the Taoist approach to 
> sexual intimacy to be healthier and more compassionate and spiritually 
> viable.  I do not believe that the only right use of sex is for 
> procreation.  Nor do I find myself distracted from spiritual matters during 
> loving intimacy.  
> 
> 
> Thank you for taking the time and attention to reply.  I'll respond to the 
> other posts tomorrow.  Wishing you a wonderful evening...
> 
> Share
> 
> 
> 
> ________________
>  From: Robin Carlsen 
> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
> Sent: Monday, August 6, 2012 1:46 PM
> Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too 
> (-:
>  
> 
>   
> Sexuality Before Marnia Robinson: for Share
> 
> "The pleasures of sex are more vehement that the pleasures of food and exert 
> more pressure on us; they need more whipping into line, for the more we give 
> way to them the more they dominate us and the more able they are to overthrow 
> our strength of mind. Even married sex, adorned with all the honourableness 
> of marriage, carries with it a certain shame, because the movements of the 
> genitals unlike those of other external members don't obey reason. The virtue 
> that deals with the sex-act we call chastity, and the virtue concerned with 
> more public actions such as looking and kissing and caressing we call 
> *purity*. *Purity* is a sort of adjunct serving chastity, not a separate 
> virtue but a sort of environment to chastity. Sexual sin is thought of as 
> more disgraceful than other immoderate action, partly because of the 
> uncontrolled movements of the genitals, but also because our reason gets 
> submerged.
> 
> There are three levels to be considered in the act of sex: the physiological 
> level (the breaking of the hymen, etc) has no moral context as such; at the 
> psychological level shared by body and soul, emission of seed brings sensory 
> pleasure (the material side of the human moral act); and at the deepest level 
> there is an act of intention in the soul aiming at such pleasure (and making 
> that act a human, moral activity). Now *virginity* is defined by a moral 
> integrity: not then the integrity of the hymen as such, but a material 
> immunity from the pleasures of orgasm, wedded with a formal purpose of 
> perpetual abstinence from such pleasures. A hymen broken from some other 
> cause is no more a loss of virginity in this sense than a broken arm or leg. 
> And the pleasure of orgasm can be experienced unintentionally during sleep or 
> externally forced without a  person's consent. In no such case is virginity 
> lost. 
> 
> External goods are meant to serve our body's good, our body to serve our 
> soul, and in our soul the active life should serve the contemplative life. So 
> it is not a bad thing, but reasonable and right, to abstain from external 
> possessions, which are otherwise good, for the sake of the body's health or 
> the contemplation of truth. And in the same way abstaining from bodily 
> pleasure so as to make ourselves more freely available to contemplate truth, 
> is reasonable and right.
> 
> The injunction of the law in us by nature to *eat* must be observed by 
> everybody if individuals are to survive; but the injunction to *be fruitful 
> and multiply* obliges the community of mankind reproduce whilst others, 
> abstaining from that, give themselves up to the contemplation of God, and so 
> bring a beauty and health into the whole human race. To refuse all pleasure 
> as such because of dislike for it and without good reason is to be 
> insensitive and boorish. The practice of virginity doesn't refuse all 
> pleasure, but only that of sex, and that only for a good reason. Virginity 
> seeks the soul's good in a life of contemplation *mindful of the things of 
>

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:

2012-08-07 Thread Share Long
Good morning again, RC
It could be that we are expressing the very wide difference between masculine 
and feminine in these matters.  Indeed the practice Marnia Robinson suggests 
seems as if it would be quite challenging for males.  Thus the Taoist practices 
seem more realistic, compassionate and healthy for both masculine and feminine.

The other difference I sense we are expressing is that between East and West, 
the latter having been much more imbued with the spirit matter split I've 
written about in other posts.  I have turned from the epitome of that resulting 
ignorance, the Catholic Church.  Whereas you seem to be at least intrigued by 
the ideas on sexuality the Church both professes and attempts to enforce.

I readily admit that I could be wrong and deluded about all this.  However, I'm 
willing to take that chance in order to again experience that sex can indeed 
lead one to God.  If only momentarily.
Share

PS  We have switched places Ghazali and I am cheering for you as you walk that 
high wire across Niagara Falls.  Being the Gemini I am I had already integrated 
many divergent points of view of you into my awareness.  So, no surprises. 


It's tricky when someone is so brilliant especially with words.  Others can 
come to distrust the sincerity of the words.  And to state the obvious, here on 
FFL we are limited to words.  None of us know you now as you are in 3D day to 
day life.  I rely on my own felt sense to grok the truth of what your words 
express.  Willing to take a chance on that too (-:  




 From: Robin Carlsen 
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, August 6, 2012 12:27 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:
 

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long  wrote:

Share1: Marnia Robinson writes:  "Take, for example, the ancient Tibetan 
Buddhist myth, The Great Stupa.  It confirms that passion is indeed the reason 
for mankind's fallen state, and says there are three paths to liberation:

~the overcoming of passion through renunciation
~the neutralization of passion by pouring all one's energy into selfless service
~the conquering of passion through controlled indulgence.  That is, using sex 
itself in such a way as to transcend passion's treacherous downward suction.

It says that the third path is the fastest and most powerful path, although 
also the easiest one to fall from...until one masters it.

Robin1: I think this just BS, Share. There is no spiritual path that entails 
sex or abstinence from sex: celibacy. "Controlled indulgence"--any being with 
the intelligence to know how susceptible we all are to the power of this 
reality inside our bodies, knows this is just plain ridiculous. 'Mastering' 
"controlled indulgence"--this is the most absurd and ludicrous idea I think I 
may have heard when it comes to traditional idea of spirituality, Share. 
Beautifully sincere, but hopelessly naive.

Look: here is where I come out on all this. I believe that only the grace of 
the Personal God can make of celibacy something real, creative, strong, holy. 
Without that grace, all you have is will power and some religious idea of how 
good and necessary it is to be abstain from sexual activity. 

The sexual drive in human beings, Share--unless it has simply just attenuated 
because of age, or just doesn't assert itself for some unknown reason--always 
conquers the individual person. One can only do one's best to act with 
integrity in this matter. But turning sex into some kind of path of truth, that 
is just a hoot.

Don't you see, Share, for this to be true would mean that encountering the 
methodology and teaching of Marnia Robinson *would be to encounter something 
more powerful, or potentially more powerful, than sexual desire*. That can't 
happen. The reality and power of sexuality is something *no human being in my 
lifetime* has ever mastered--mastered here means, having more control over and 
intelligence about than what the sensation of sexuality presents to us. *We 
cannot truly command this aspect of ourselves as human beings without the grace 
given to us by the author of sexuality* (before the Fall).

I have never seen a single human being, Share, who I intuitively knew: *This 
person knows more about his or her sexuality, what it is, how it acts within 
him or her, how it can be put it inside a context such as to make it submit 
itself to that person's will--than the power of this reality to determine that 
person's experience*.

Marnia Robinson: The myth, which is very old, predicted there would come a time 
when the unstable energies produced by increased indulgence in passion would 
create chaos at both seen and unseen levels across the globe.  The first two 
paths, celibacy and compassionate service to others, would no longer open the 
door to enlightenment, though they wo

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:

2012-08-06 Thread Share Long
Good evening Robin,
Apologies for just responding.  Busy afternoon with writing group and release 
session, then Dome and dinner.  


This essay has a decidedly Catholic tone to it.  Would it be possible to know 
the author?  


That tone gives this reader the sense of someone demonstrating a waltz with 
their legs and arms tied.  I don't even know why I say this.  It is simply my 
sense of it.

I still maintain that Western culture is severely marred by the spirit matter 
split that began long ago.  For this reason I find the Taoist approach to 
sexual intimacy to be healthier and more compassionate and spiritually viable.  
I do not believe that the only right use of sex is for procreation.  Nor do I 
find myself distracted from spiritual matters during loving intimacy.  


Thank you for taking the time and attention to reply.  I'll respond to the 
other posts tomorrow.  Wishing you a wonderful evening...

Share




 From: Robin Carlsen 
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, August 6, 2012 1:46 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:
 

  
Sexuality Before Marnia Robinson: for Share

"The pleasures of sex are more vehement that the pleasures of food and exert 
more pressure on us; they need more whipping into line, for the more we give 
way to them the more they dominate us and the more able they are to overthrow 
our strength of mind. Even married sex, adorned with all the honourableness of 
marriage, carries with it a certain shame, because the movements of the 
genitals unlike those of other external members don't obey reason. The virtue 
that deals with the sex-act we call chastity, and the virtue concerned with 
more public actions such as looking and kissing and caressing we call *purity*. 
*Purity* is a sort of adjunct serving chastity, not a separate virtue but a 
sort of environment to chastity. Sexual sin is thought of as more disgraceful 
than other immoderate action, partly because of the uncontrolled movements of 
the genitals, but also because our reason gets submerged.

There are three levels to be considered in the act of sex: the physiological 
level (the breaking of the hymen, etc) has no moral context as such; at the 
psychological level shared by body and soul, emission of seed brings sensory 
pleasure (the material side of the human moral act); and at the deepest level 
there is an act of intention in the soul aiming at such pleasure (and making 
that act a human, moral activity). Now *virginity* is defined by a moral 
integrity: not then the integrity of the hymen as such, but a material immunity 
from the pleasures of orgasm, wedded with a formal purpose of perpetual 
abstinence from such pleasures. A hymen broken from some other cause is no more 
a loss of virginity in this sense than a broken arm or leg. And the pleasure of 
orgasm can be experienced unintentionally during sleep or externally forced 
without a  person's consent. In no such case is virginity lost. 

External goods are meant to serve our body's good, our body to serve our soul, 
and in our soul the active life should serve the contemplative life. So it is 
not a bad thing, but reasonable and right, to abstain from external 
possessions, which are otherwise good, for the sake of the body's health or the 
contemplation of truth. And in the same way abstaining from bodily pleasure so 
as to make ourselves more freely available to contemplate truth, is reasonable 
and right.

The injunction of the law in us by nature to *eat* must be observed by 
everybody if individuals are to survive; but the injunction to *be fruitful and 
multiply* obliges the community of mankind reproduce whilst others, abstaining 
from that, give themselves up to the contemplation of God, and so bring a 
beauty and health into the whole human race. To refuse all pleasure as such 
because of dislike for it and without good reason is to be insensitive and 
boorish. The practice of virginity doesn't refuse all pleasure, but only that 
of sex, and that only for a good reason. Virginity seeks the soul's good in a 
life of contemplation *mindful of the things of God*.

Marriage seeks the body's good--the bodily multiplication of the human race--in 
an active life in which husband and wife are *mindful of the things of this 
world*. Without doubt then the state of virginity is preferable to that of even 
continent marriage, though married people may well be better people than those 
practising virginity; more chaste, having a spirit that would have made them 
better virgins were they called to it than those actually practising virginity, 
and more virtuous in general. 

The general good ranks above the good of the private person when those goods 
are of the same sort. But the private good may be of a higher sort; and that is 
what happens when virginity dedicated to God is compared with bodily 
fruitfulness. Howev

[FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:

2012-08-06 Thread Robin Carlsen
Sexuality Before Marnia Robinson: for Share

"The pleasures of sex are more vehement that the pleasures of food and exert 
more pressure on us; they need more whipping into line, for the more we give 
way to them the more they dominate us and the more able they are to overthrow 
our strength of mind. Even married sex, adorned with all the honourableness of 
marriage, carries with it a certain shame, because the movements of the 
genitals unlike those of other external members don't obey reason. The virtue 
that deals with the sex-act we call chastity, and the virtue concerned with 
more public actions such as looking and kissing and caressing we call *purity*. 
*Purity* is a sort of adjunct serving chastity, not a separate virtue but a 
sort of environment to chastity. Sexual sin is thought of as more disgraceful 
than other immoderate action, partly because of the uncontrolled movements of 
the genitals, but also because our reason gets submerged.

There are three levels to be considered in the act of sex: the physiological 
level (the breaking of the hymen, etc) has no moral context as such; at the 
psychological level shared by body and soul, emission of seed brings sensory 
pleasure (the material side of the human moral act); and at the deepest level 
there is an act of intention in the soul aiming at such pleasure (and making 
that act a human, moral activity). Now *virginity* is defined by a moral 
integrity: not then the integrity of the hymen as such, but a material immunity 
from the pleasures of orgasm, wedded with a formal purpose of perpetual 
abstinence from such pleasures. A hymen broken from some other cause is no more 
a loss of virginity in this sense than a broken arm or leg. And the pleasure of 
orgasm can be experienced unintentionally during sleep or externally forced 
without a  person's consent. In no such case is virginity lost. 

External goods are meant to serve our body's good, our body to serve our soul, 
and in our soul the active life should serve the contemplative life. So it is 
not a bad thing, but reasonable and right, to abstain from external 
possessions, which are otherwise good, for the sake of the body's health or the 
contemplation of truth. And in the same way abstaining from bodily pleasure so 
as to make ourselves more freely available to contemplate truth, is reasonable 
and right.

The injunction of the law in us by nature to *eat* must be observed by 
everybody if individuals are to survive; but the injunction to *be fruitful and 
multiply* obliges the community of mankind reproduce whilst others, abstaining 
from that, give themselves up to the contemplation of God, and so bring a 
beauty and health into the whole human race. To refuse all pleasure as such 
because of dislike for it and without good reason is to be insensitive and 
boorish. The practice of virginity doesn't refuse all pleasure, but only that 
of sex, and that only for a good reason. Virginity seeks the soul's good in a 
life of contemplation *mindful of the things of God*.

Marriage seeks the body's good--the bodily multiplication of the human race--in 
an active life in which husband and wife are *mindful of the things of this 
world*. Without doubt then the state of virginity is preferable to that of even 
continent marriage, though married people may well be better people than those 
practising virginity; more chaste, having a spirit that would have made them 
better virgins were they called to it than those actually practising virginity, 
and more virtuous in general. 

The general good ranks above the good of the private person when those goods 
are of the same sort. But the private good may be of a higher sort; and that is 
what happens when virginity dedicated to God is compared with bodily 
fruitfulness. However, the theological virtues and even the virtue of religion, 
being directly occupied with God, are to be preferred to virginity. Again 
martyrs cleave to God more mightily, because they lay down their own lives, 
whilst those who dwell in monasteries lay down their own wills and all they 
possess; virgins lay down only the pleasures of sex. Simply speaking then 
virginity is by no means the greatest of virtues.

Use of food properly ordered for the body's welfare is no sin; and in the same 
way, use of sex properly ordered for the purpose of human reproduction is no 
sin. Virtuous balance is not measured quantitatively but by rightness of 
reason, so the high degree of pleasure that attaches to a properly ordered 
sex-act doesn't stop it being balanced. In any case virtue isn't concerned with 
how much external sense-pleasure accompanies the act (that depends on the 
body's temperament), but with the way that pleasure interiorly affects us. 
Though not even our distraction from spiritual matters at the moment of 
enjoying such pleasure makes it unvirtuous; for it is not unvirtuous to suspend 
reason for a time for a good reason, otherwise sleeping would be a vice."


--- In Fairf

[FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:

2012-08-06 Thread Robin Carlsen


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long  wrote:

Share1: Marnia Robinson writes:  "Take, for example, the ancient Tibetan 
Buddhist myth, The Great Stupa.  It confirms that passion is indeed the reason 
for mankind's fallen state, and says there are three paths to liberation:

~the overcoming of passion through renunciation
~the neutralization of passion by pouring all one's energy into selfless service
~the conquering of passion through controlled indulgence.  That is, using sex 
itself in such a way as to transcend passion's treacherous downward suction.

It says that the third path is the fastest and most powerful path, although 
also the easiest one to fall from...until one masters it.

Robin1: I think this just BS, Share. There is no spiritual path that entails 
sex or abstinence from sex: celibacy. "Controlled indulgence"--any being with 
the intelligence to know how susceptible we all are to the power of this 
reality inside our bodies, knows this is just plain ridiculous. 'Mastering' 
"controlled indulgence"--this is the most absurd and ludicrous idea I think I 
may have heard when it comes to traditional idea of spirituality, Share. 
Beautifully sincere, but hopelessly naive.

Look: here is where I come out on all this. I believe that only the grace of 
the Personal God can make of celibacy something real, creative, strong, holy. 
Without that grace, all you have is will power and some religious idea of how 
good and necessary it is to be abstain from sexual activity. 

The sexual drive in human beings, Share--unless it has simply just attenuated 
because of age, or just doesn't assert itself for some unknown reason--always 
conquers the individual person. One can only do one's best to act with 
integrity in this matter. But turning sex into some kind of path of truth, that 
is just a hoot.

Don't you see, Share, for this to be true would mean that encountering the 
methodology and teaching of Marnia Robinson *would be to encounter something 
more powerful, or potentially more powerful, than sexual desire*. That can't 
happen. The reality and power of sexuality is something *no human being in my 
lifetime* has ever mastered--mastered here means, having more control over and 
intelligence about than what the sensation of sexuality presents to us. *We 
cannot truly command this aspect of ourselves as human beings without the grace 
given to us by the author of sexuality* (before the Fall).

I have never seen a single human being, Share, who I intuitively knew: *This 
person knows more about his or her sexuality, what it is, how it acts within 
him or her, how it can be put it inside a context such as to make it submit 
itself to that person's will--than the power of this reality to determine that 
person's experience*.

Marnia Robinson: The myth, which is very old, predicted there would come a time 
when the unstable energies produced by increased indulgence in passion would 
create chaos at both seen and unseen levels across the globe.  The first two 
paths, celibacy and compassionate service to others, would no longer open the 
door to enlightenment, though they would remain useful spiritual disciplines.  
Why?  Because general unrest would render impossible the necessary degree of 
inner stillness.

Robin1: Nice talk, Share--but sex will defeat the person every time. It's one 
of those either or things: either there is the grace to transcend this desire 
and be protected from its furious vehemence and insistence, or there is not the 
grace to do this. For me, I have never seen that grace sufficient to insure the 
physical integrity of a human being. Although I don't therefore, discount the 
tremendous intention to conquer or control this aspect of ourselves. Obviously 
a Catholic priest is living with this intention (presumably). But Marnia 
Robinson, she has as much insight into her sexuality as Eve did: None. *It just 
is a given that concupiscence takes our measure, Share*--although, again, I 
say: there are obviously persons in the world heroically fighting against this 
reality within themselves. It is just that the grace (from the author of 
sexuality) is being withheld.--This was decidedly not the case before I was 
born; before World War II. Then those nuns and religious, they, some of them 
anyway--like Saint Therese of Lisieux, like Saint Francis of Assisi, like Saint 
Teresa of Avila, like Saint Ignatius of Loyola, like Thomas Aquinas (to take 
examples of persons who refer to this very topic (their own sexuality) and how 
they somehow were recipients of the supernatural grace which is a sine qua non 
in being innocently and intelligently celibate)--*lived the life that none of 
us can now*.  

Marnia Robinson: Instead, only the third path, balance with a partner, would 
serve.  Apparently a loving relationship, devoted entirely to the goal of 
transcendence, can create enduring inner peace and stability.  In this way, we 
can reconnect the broken circuit of gender and perma

[FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:

2012-08-04 Thread sparaig
Which karma is that? Do you really have proof of the various allegations that 
kicked around here?

L

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn  wrote:
>
> 
> Balinese medicine man Ketut from Eat Pray Love:  To lose balance sometimes 
> for love is part of living a balanced life.
> 
> 
> Do watch the interview on Rick's post.  She believes she is helping to clean 
> up Maharishi's karma re: his not walking his talk on celibacy and says some 
> other incredibly sweet and simply and insightful things that apply to us all, 
> as human's.  Who/what will clean up his karma related to finances?   
> 
> 
> 
>  From: Share Long 
> To: "fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com"  
> Sent: Thursday, August 2, 2012 9:55 AM
> Subject: [FairfieldLife] The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:
>  
> 
>   
> Marnia Robinson writes:  "Take, for example, the ancient Tibetan Buddhist 
> myth, The Great Stupa.  It confirms that passion is indeed the reason for 
> mankind's fallen state, and says there are three paths to liberation:
> 
> 
> 
> ~the overcoming of passion through renunciation
> ~the neutralization of passion by pouring all one's energy into selfless 
> service
> ~the conquering of passion through controlled indulgence.  That is, using 
> sex itself in such a way as to transcend passion's treacherous downward 
> suction.
> 
> It says that the third path is the fastest and most powerful path, although 
> also the easiest one to fall from...until one masters it.
> 
> The myth, which is very old, predicted there would come a time when the 
> unstable energies produced by increased indulgence in passion would create 
> chaos at both seen and unseen levels across the globe.  The first two paths, 
> celibacy and compassionate service to others, would no longer open the door 
> to enlightenment, though they would remain useful spiritual disciplines.  
> Why?  Because general unrest would render impossible the necessary degree of 
> inner stillness.
> 
> Instead, only
>  the
>  third path, balance with a partner, would serve.  Apparently a loving 
> relationship, devoted entirely to the goal of transcendence, can create 
> enduring inner peace and stability.  In this way, we can reconnect the 
> broken circuit of gender and permanently rise about our built-in sense of 
> lack.  By contrast,
> celibacy still allows gender polarity to create severe longings in many of 
> us, if only for simple loving touch.  And I suspect this trait is less a 
> product of moral weakness than a result of the easily inflamed body chemistry 
> that we have bred into ourselves for millennia.  These bothersome longings 
> may also mask intense yearnings for reunion with our Source.  The silver 
> lining?  Many of us are apparently now primed for shared enlightenment 
> should we care to use our urges for a higher end."
> 
> from Marnia Robinson's Peace Between the Sheets, pg 137-8
> 
> Balinese medicine man Ketut from Eat Pray Love:  To lose balance sometimes 
> for love is part of living a balanced life.
> 
> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g8csr68LjUM&feature=relmfu
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: The Great Stupa of Tibetan Buddhism, Ketut too (-:

2012-08-02 Thread Richard J. Williams


Share Long:
> "Take, for example, the ancient Tibetan Buddhist myth, 
> The Great Stupa..."
>
The Great Stupa at Sanchi, India, is an example of South 
Asian edifice architecture. 

The ancient stupa at Sanchi shows a parasol emerging from 
the center of the space enclosed by the harmika fence. 

This, and the domed architecture of the mound, is 
repeated with variation in countless thousands of stupas 
and mounds throughout the ages in all countries from the 
Swat valley all the way to Java and to Sri Lanka. 

But in fact, the Patanjali Golden Dome of Pure Knowledge 
at Fairfield, Iowa, USA, home of the TM-Sidhi program, 
is a tope! 

That is to say, the Golden Dome at Fairfield, on the 
campus of the Maharishi International University (MUM), 
is sort of like a oriental dagoba that I once visited in 
Nepal, the like of which is suggested by a morthological 
similarity to the great Svyanbhunatha Stupa at Patan in 
the Katmandu Valley. And why?

In other words, the Golden Dome at Fairfield, (not to be 
confused with the Maharishi Golden Dome of Pure Knowledge 
at Radience, Texas), is a sort of empty mound, surmounted 
by a kalasa, suppored by the amalaka in which the akasha, 
symbolizing dimensionless space, and is supported by the 
linga, surmounting the eight-angled cintamani, or an 
8-sided prototypic harmika with a rail surrounding the 
hypaethral pavilion constituting a veritible 'chaitya
garbha pradakshina', with a nice fence around it!

The parasol, atop the Buddhist stupa and the MUM Golden 
Dome, as at Sanci, at Sarnath and at Taxila, (circa 200 
B.C.) the earliest evidence of edifice architecture in 
India, is the canopy of heaven, its pole being the cosmic 
axis mundi and the dome's surface is the earth. 

As a 'cosmic egg' image it is preeminent among the 
aniconic images of the Buddha. 

In Buddhist mythology the bodhi tree, symbol of MUM, is 
the original parasol duplicated in the dome and the 
kalasa on top - the point where the pole of the parasol 
pierces the canopy corresponds precisely to the point 
defined by the harmika, where the pole emerges from the 
summit of the stupa garbha. 

This is pure Buddhist vastu, except that inside the 
Golden Dome, at both Fairfied and at Radience, is found 
HOLLOWNESS, so that the siddhas can have room to enjoy, 
unobstructed, just like the Buddha when he was 
'levitating' over Sravasti. 

This, you have got to admit, is ingenious - a hollow 
stupa for flying!