[FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, BillyG. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, BillyG. wgm4u@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, ruthsimplicity no_reply@ wrote: snip Come on over here Billy honey, I think you need some lovin'. Let me tell you sweetie, all you got to offer is 'chump change' compared to the almighty presence of God; and it certainly isn't love! I hate to disappoint you but, a woman's 'love' is not the ultimate joy that life has to offer and don't expect me to grovel for itLove, what an overworked word, gads! Wow, Billypoo, you just positively *radiate* God's love. It's clear as it can be that the ultimate joy of the almighty presence has transformed you. No, nor did I imply that! You didn't? You mean, here you are piously abstaining from the love of women, and you aren't getting any from God either?? Don't you think it might be time to reconsider the deal?
[FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, BillyG. wgm4u@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, BillyG. wgm4u@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, ruthsimplicity no_reply@ wrote: snip Come on over here Billy honey, I think you need some lovin'. Let me tell you sweetie, all you got to offer is 'chump change' compared to the almighty presence of God; and it certainly isn't love! I hate to disappoint you but, a woman's 'love' is not the ultimate joy that life has to offer and don't expect me to grovel for itLove, what an overworked word, gads! Wow, Billypoo, you just positively *radiate* God's love. It's clear as it can be that the ultimate joy of the almighty presence has transformed you. No, nor did I imply that! You didn't? You mean, here you are piously abstaining from the love of women, and you aren't getting any from God either?? Don't you think it might be time to reconsider the deal? No, actually chastity is far superior to chasing girls, at any rate there is a time and place for everything. And the time and place for sex is within the context of marriage, for children with a woman, not a girl. I'm only talking about abstaining from lust. A female gets the title of Woman when she conforms her life and behavior to scripture and God's will in harmony with the laws of nature. The same is true with a Man, till he takes on the true responsibilities of life and its purpose he is merely a boy, this entails the regeneration of masculine virtue and power, something the World sorely needs.
[FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
A female gets the title of Woman when she conforms her life and behavior to scripture and God's will in harmony with the laws of nature. The same is true with a Man, till he takes on the true responsibilities of life and its purpose he is merely a boy, this entails the regeneration of masculine virtue and power, something the World sorely needs. According to MMY, the more you abstain from sex, the more women will chase you. You're getting a little bit of this in this forum. Also, there's an astrological reason for this. But that's another subject. JR
[FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, John [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: A female gets the title of Woman when she conforms her life and behavior to scripture and God's will in harmony with the laws of nature. The same is true with a Man, till he takes on the true responsibilities of life and its purpose he is merely a boy, this entails the regeneration of masculine virtue and power, something the World sorely needs. According to MMY, the more you abstain from sex, the more women will chase you. You're getting a little bit of this in this forum. Also, there's an astrological reason for this. But that's another subject. JR That's right because Woman are attracted to Men, not boys. Girls...well, ...girls just wanna have fun! Cindy Lauper http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eVwFeQpy_Us
[FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, John [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: A female gets the title of Woman when she conforms her life and behavior to scripture and God's will in harmony with the laws of nature. The same is true with a Man, till he takes on the true responsibilities of life and its purpose he is merely a boy, this entails the regeneration of masculine virtue and power, something the World sorely needs. According to MMY, the more you abstain from sex, the more women will chase you. You're getting a little bit of this in this forum. Also, there's an astrological reason for this. But that's another subject. Huh. Abstained for 13 years now. There doesn't seem to be any womens knocking on the door. Lawson
[FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, John jr_esq@ wrote: A female gets the title of Woman when she conforms her life and behavior to scripture and God's will in harmony with the laws of nature. The same is true with a Man, till he takes on the true responsibilities of life and its purpose he is merely a boy, this entails the regeneration of masculine virtue and power, something the World sorely needs. According to MMY, the more you abstain from sex, the more women will chase you. You're getting a little bit of this in this forum. Also, there's an astrological reason for this. But that's another subject. Huh. Abstained for 13 years now. There doesn't seem to be any womens knocking on the door. Lawson That's pretty outstanding Lawson, I assume by abstaining you mean completely, if so, you are forming a solid basis for the spiritual life. MMY was a Bal-Brahmacharya which means he was a life celibate where the sex force was always flowing upwards and 'never' allowed to flow down, which is the true definition of a celibate.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
On Nov 23, 2008, at 1:11 PM, sparaig wrote: According to MMY, the more you abstain from sex, the more women will chase you. You're getting a little bit of this in this forum. Also, there's an astrological reason for this. But that's another subject. Huh. Abstained for 13 years now. There doesn't seem to be any womens knocking on the door. LOL...Better luck next time, spare!:) Sal
[FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, BillyG. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig LEnglish5@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, John jr_esq@ wrote: A female gets the title of Woman when she conforms her life and behavior to scripture and God's will in harmony with the laws of nature. The same is true with a Man, till he takes on the true responsibilities of life and its purpose he is merely a boy, this entails the regeneration of masculine virtue and power, something the World sorely needs. According to MMY, the more you abstain from sex, the more women will chase you. You're getting a little bit of this in this forum. Also, there's an astrological reason for this. But that's another subject. Huh. Abstained for 13 years now. There doesn't seem to be any womens knocking on the door. Lawson That's pretty outstanding Lawson, I assume by abstaining you mean completely, if so, you are forming a solid basis for the spiritual life. MMY was a Bal-Brahmacharya which means he was a life celibate where the sex force was always flowing upwards and 'never' allowed to flow down, which is the true definition of a celibate. LOL. DOn't judge the life of a householder against that of a recluse. Abstaining in MY case means that a combination of mental, emotional, physical and social circumstances have made it so I'm not attracted to and/or attractive to people of the opposite sex (or the same sex for that matter). And NONE of those circumstances has been beneficial to me save in the theoretical sense that they've kept me from getting involved with anyone physically. Pretty much the opposite, I'd say: its a sign of extreme dysfunction on my part. Lawson
[FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, BillyG. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: A sexaholic is one who *must* have sex, and is unable to control the appetite, gay or straight. Outside of just being a scourge on the individual and society it inhibits his ability to use the sex energy (kama or shakti) for the far superior and lasting creative effects it can produce. Anyone who has sex for sex's sake is a fool who trades in a diamond for a bag of spinach. Addiction to sex inhibits the ability of the soul to transcend during meditation and experience the far superior joy of eternal bliss. If the shakti energy is tied up in the lower chakras governing lust, anger and greed (the lower three) the kundalini pranic fire sleeping in the muladhar chakra (root chakra) will not awake taking the consciousness or jiva with it. The process of transcending is withdrawing the prana from the mind and senses, (pratyahara) this is not possible if strong attachments are impeding the withdrawal of this pranic force. Samskaras (impressions or memories from sex indulgences, etc.) exist in the subconscious mind and have their correlation in the physical body (MMY calls these stresses), these vrittis (whirlpools in the chitta or mind) must be stilled (nirodha) through the application of Patanjali's 8 limbs of Yoga, chastity being in one of these limbs! Until these vrittis (or sleeping elephants as MMY calls them) are completely stilled the prana will not withdraw and take the soul or jiva to transcendental consciousness. Through *grace* during TM and *effort* through living a moral ethical life as recommended by Patanjali, salvation (freedom from the wheel of birth and death, samsara) are possible. You can't have your cake and eat it too! Either you live a good life and have sex for the reasons it was created in marriage with the view to children in the Grahasta period of life (one of four of life's stages) and be happy and have good meditations or, you slip into addictions which rob the soul of its peace of mind and hold one in material slavery. Sex for sex's sake is inconsistent with the spiritual life... Come on over here Billy honey, I think you need some lovin'.
[FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, ruthsimplicity [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, BillyG. wgm4u@ wrote: A sexaholic is one who *must* have sex, and is unable to control the appetite, gay or straight. Outside of just being a scourge on the individual and society it inhibits his ability to use the sex energy (kama or shakti) for the far superior and lasting creative effects it can produce. Anyone who has sex for sex's sake is a fool who trades in a diamond for a bag of spinach. Addiction to sex inhibits the ability of the soul to transcend during meditation and experience the far superior joy of eternal bliss. If the shakti energy is tied up in the lower chakras governing lust, anger and greed (the lower three) the kundalini pranic fire sleeping in the muladhar chakra (root chakra) will not awake taking the consciousness or jiva with it. The process of transcending is withdrawing the prana from the mind and senses, (pratyahara) this is not possible if strong attachments are impeding the withdrawal of this pranic force. Samskaras (impressions or memories from sex indulgences, etc.) exist in the subconscious mind and have their correlation in the physical body (MMY calls these stresses), these vrittis (whirlpools in the chitta or mind) must be stilled (nirodha) through the application of Patanjali's 8 limbs of Yoga, chastity being in one of these limbs! Until these vrittis (or sleeping elephants as MMY calls them) are completely stilled the prana will not withdraw and take the soul or jiva to transcendental consciousness. Through *grace* during TM and *effort* through living a moral ethical life as recommended by Patanjali, salvation (freedom from the wheel of birth and death, samsara) are possible. You can't have your cake and eat it too! Either you live a good life and have sex for the reasons it was created in marriage with the view to children in the Grahasta period of life (one of four of life's stages) and be happy and have good meditations or, you slip into addictions which rob the soul of its peace of mind and hold one in material slavery. Sex for sex's sake is inconsistent with the spiritual life... Come on over here Billy honey, I think you need some lovin'. Let me tell you sweetie, all you got to offer is 'chump change' compared to the almighty presence of God; and it certainly isn't love! I hate to disappoint you but, a woman's 'love' is not the ultimate joy that life has to offer and don't expect me to grovel for itLove, what an overworked word, gads!
[FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, BillyG. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, ruthsimplicity no_reply@ wrote: snip Come on over here Billy honey, I think you need some lovin'. Let me tell you sweetie, all you got to offer is 'chump change' compared to the almighty presence of God; and it certainly isn't love! I hate to disappoint you but, a woman's 'love' is not the ultimate joy that life has to offer and don't expect me to grovel for itLove, what an overworked word, gads! Wow, Billypoo, you just positively *radiate* God's love. It's clear as it can be that the ultimate joy of the almighty presence has transformed you.
[FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, BillyG. wgm4u@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, ruthsimplicity no_reply@ wrote: snip Come on over here Billy honey, I think you need some lovin'. Let me tell you sweetie, all you got to offer is 'chump change' compared to the almighty presence of God; and it certainly isn't love! I hate to disappoint you but, a woman's 'love' is not the ultimate joy that life has to offer and don't expect me to grovel for itLove, what an overworked word, gads! Wow, Billypoo, you just positively *radiate* God's love. It's clear as it can be that the ultimate joy of the almighty presence has transformed you. No, nor did I imply that! It takes time, but surely Judy after all your study and meditation I don't have to explain all of this to you, do I, or perhaps I inadvertently pushed a button? Perhaps you should reexamine your reply, I think with a little introspection you might learn something about yourself... just a suggestion. You know the old saying, If you don't like the message, kill the messenger, do you think this applies to your response?
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
Billy, you remind me of myself 35 years ago. You're afraid of the emotional intimacy of a sexual relationship so you spout all this spiritual nonsense that, while very true, is also adharmic for the majority of people. If you're truly celibate you don't run around lecturing people about the joys of semen retention. You need to examine your motivation for your emotional isolation from others you are intrinsically attracted to and stop spouting spiritual claptrap. If you masturbate at all, your post is a fraud. Now, I know you're going to tell us how you don't masturbate, but you know that's not true, right? --- On Sat, 11/22/08, BillyG. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: From: BillyG. [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic? To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, November 22, 2008, 7:36 PM --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, ruthsimplicity [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, BillyG. wgm4u@ wrote: A sexaholic is one who *must* have sex, and is unable to control the appetite, gay or straight. Outside of just being a scourge on the individual and society it inhibits his ability to use the sex energy (kama or shakti) for the far superior and lasting creative effects it can produce. Anyone who has sex for sex's sake is a fool who trades in a diamond for a bag of spinach. Addiction to sex inhibits the ability of the soul to transcend during meditation and experience the far superior joy of eternal bliss. If the shakti energy is tied up in the lower chakras governing lust, anger and greed (the lower three) the kundalini pranic fire sleeping in the muladhar chakra (root chakra) will not awake taking the consciousness or jiva with it. The process of transcending is withdrawing the prana from the mind and senses, (pratyahara) this is not possible if strong attachments are impeding the withdrawal of this pranic force. Samskaras (impressions or memories from sex indulgences, etc.) exist in the subconscious mind and have their correlation in the physical body (MMY calls these stresses), these vrittis (whirlpools in the chitta or mind) must be stilled (nirodha) through the application of Patanjali's 8 limbs of Yoga, chastity being in one of these limbs! Until these vrittis (or sleeping elephants as MMY calls them) are completely stilled the prana will not withdraw and take the soul or jiva to transcendental consciousness. Through *grace* during TM and *effort* through living a moral ethical life as recommended by Patanjali, salvation (freedom from the wheel of birth and death, samsara) are possible. You can't have your cake and eat it too! Either you live a good life and have sex for the reasons it was created in marriage with the view to children in the Grahasta period of life (one of four of life's stages) and be happy and have good meditations or, you slip into addictions which rob the soul of its peace of mind and hold one in material slavery. Sex for sex's sake is inconsistent with the spiritual life... Come on over here Billy honey, I think you need some lovin'. Let me tell you sweetie, all you got to offer is 'chump change' compared to the almighty presence of God; and it certainly isn't love! I hate to disappoint you but, a woman's 'love' is not the ultimate joy that life has to offer and don't expect me to grovel for itLove, what an overworked word, gads! To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!'Yahoo! Groups Links
[FairfieldLife] Re: What is a sexaholic?
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Billy, you remind me of myself 35 years ago. You're afraid of the emotional intimacy of a sexual relationship so you spout all this spiritual nonsense that, while very true, is also adharmic for the majority of people. If you're truly celibate you don't run around lecturing people about the joys of semen retention. The only reason I brought it up is it needs to be said! There is not enough masculine values in our World and society, this is one! Hercules was a mythical hero who embodied these masculine virtues. I hope you haven't given up on yourself, after all, time is the most precious capital we have here on earth and winning the battle between good (harmony with the laws of nature) and evil (ego based willfullness) is a battle that must be waged and must be won! What do you think the Bhagavad Gita was all about? You need to examine your motivation for your emotional isolation from others you are intrinsically attracted to and stop spouting spiritual claptrap. If you masturbate at all, your post is a fraud. Now, I know you're going to tell us how you don't masturbate, but you know that's not true, right? Love and marriage in the context of the laws of nature (or the will of God) is a source of inspiration and happiness, I haven't achieved that but the foundation of that is spiritual and moral growth, since I started actually practicing the virtues associated with Yoga (yama and niyama) I have made remarkable progress!
