RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Re: Rue de l#39;Esperance

2013-10-27 Thread wgm4u
 Poseur (or poser) is a pejorative term, often used in the punk 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Punk_subculture, heavy metal 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heavy_metal_subculture, hip hop 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hip_hop, and goth 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Goth_subculture subcultures 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Subculture, or the skateboarding 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skateboarding and surfing 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Surfing communities, to describe a person who 
copies the dress, speech, and/or mannerisms of a group or subculture, generally 
for attaining acceptability within the group or for popularity among various 
other groups, yet who is deemed not to share or understand the values or 
philosophy of the subculture. Wiki (already posted?)
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 Sorry, I should have said except for Share, since she is herself a poseur. 
 
Share wrote:

  I am on FFL and I do have doubts that turq is a poseur. Just to answer 
  Judy's assertion that 
  not anyone on FFL doubts that he has membership in that category.
 
 



 

 
 
 On Sunday, October 27, 2013 9:44 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Barry wrote:
  Barry wrote: 
 
  Thank you, merudanda. Made my day. 
  
  Robert just nails it. Those who have never been able to 
   create anything in their lives look at the old writer 
  and see nothing but a poseur. Robert sees holiness. 
 
 There are old writers and old writers. Only some of them 
  are holy; the rest are poseurs. 
 
 It was easier than I thought it would be to get you to put 
  on a very convincing demonstration of your membership 
  in the latter category. (Not that anyone on FFL was in doubt.) 

  Because I'm in a jolly mood today, I'll reply to this for the 
  fun of it.
 

 Says Barry, continuing his poseur demonstration.

 Did anyone watch the TED talk I posted a link to recently? 
 
 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/361507 
 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/361507 

 It's really worth your 18 minutes, if you didn't. It is about 
  memories, and how they can be edited, both by ourselves, 
  and by others. 
 
 Isn't that Judy's Whole Act -- trying to edit memories?
 

 Actually, no, no more than anyone else expressing their opinion.
 Barry's doing the same thing in this post. He really thinks readers
 here are saps, doesn't he?
 
 I just wrote a bunch of shit today because I felt happy and 
  felt like writing. If any of you enjoyed the posts I made, and 
  one or more of them lifted your spirits, that's just gravy.

 But Judy doesn't want you to remember them as lifting your 
  spirits. She wants you to remember the way SHE sees them, 
  as a response to HER, and as worthy only of what SHE gives 
  them, scorn and derision.
 

 Barry's getting very, VERY confused as to which posts of his I
 commented on, and why. HINT: It wasn't any of the posts he
 refers to above.
 

 Remember now which ones they were, Barry?
 

 Barry edits his own memories such that he doesn't
 remember that virtually everything he criticizes others
 for doing is stuff that he himself does routinely.
 

  By now some of you must have figured out the formula. 
  - First, pretend to be the authority in matters such as this,
  whatever this may be this time. 
  - Second, pretend to know what the person you're ragging 
  on was thinking and feeling as they wrote whatever she's 
  ragging on.  
  - Third, pretend that everyone already agrees with you. 

 Do this enough times, and science tells us that some of the 
  weak-willed ones *will* agree with you.
 

 Yup, that's what Barry's hoping when he does what he
 attributes to me above. He doesn't just accuse his critics
 of doing things he has done, he accuses them of doing
 what he's doing as he makes his accusations. It's really
 quite remarkable. When he goes on one of these rants,
 he is actually describing himself and just changing the
 names and pronouns. And he doesn't realize it.
 

 That's how little self-knowledge he has.
 

 The three items he lists above are not only the formula
 he uses, they're the formula he's using to tell you what
 my purported formula is.
 

 


 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 




RE: RE: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Re: Rue de l#39;Esperance

2013-10-27 Thread authfriend
Definition of poseur from the Merriam-Webster dictionary:
 

 a person who pretends to be what he or she is not: an affected or insincere 
person

  
 BillyG wrote:
Poseur (or poser) is a pejorative term, often used in the punk 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Punk_subculture, heavy metal 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heavy_metal_subculture, hip hop 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hip_hop, and goth 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Goth_subculture subcultures 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Subculture, or the skateboarding 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skateboarding and surfing 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Surfing communities, to describe a person who 
copies the dress, speech, and/or mannerisms of a group or subculture, generally 
for attaining acceptability within the group or for popularity among various 
other groups, yet who is deemed not to share or understand the values or 
philosophy of the subculture. Wiki (already posted?)



RE: Re: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: Re: Rue de l#39;Esperance

2013-10-27 Thread authfriend
Standard sly attack from a poseur. As I said earlier, Share is just as honest 
as Barry.
 

 Share wrote:
 Pondering about Judy and turq, I admit I prefer the straight forward fighting 
style of the latter rather than the sly fighting style of the former. 

 

 
 
 On Sunday, October 27, 2013 10:28 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Sorry, I should have said except for Share, since she is herself a poseur. 
 
Share wrote:

  I am on FFL and I do have doubts that turq is a poseur. Just to answer 
  Judy's assertion that 
  not anyone on FFL doubts that he has membership in that category.
 

 

 
 
 On Sunday, October 27, 2013 9:44 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Barry wrote:
  Barry wrote: 
 
  Thank you, merudanda. Made my day. 
  
  Robert just nails it. Those who have never been able to 
   create anything in their lives look at the old writer 
  and see nothing but a poseur. Robert sees holiness. 
 
 There are old writers and old writers. Only some of them 
  are holy; the rest are poseurs. 
 
 It was easier than I thought it would be to get you to put 
  on a very convincing demonstration of your membership 
  in the latter category. (Not that anyone on FFL was in doubt.) 

  Because I'm in a jolly mood today, I'll reply to this for the 
  fun of it.
 

 Says Barry, continuing his poseur demonstration.

 Did anyone watch the TED talk I posted a link to recently? 
 
 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/361507 
 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/361507 

 It's really worth your 18 minutes, if you didn't. It is about 
  memories, and how they can be edited, both by ourselves, 
  and by others. 
 
 Isn't that Judy's Whole Act -- trying to edit memories?
 

 Actually, no, no more than anyone else expressing their opinion.
 Barry's doing the same thing in this post. He really thinks readers
 here are saps, doesn't he?
 
 I just wrote a bunch of shit today because I felt happy and 
  felt like writing. If any of you enjoyed the posts I made, and 
  one or more of them lifted your spirits, that's just gravy.

 But Judy doesn't want you to remember them as lifting your 
  spirits. She wants you to remember the way SHE sees them, 
  as a response to HER, and as worthy only of what SHE gives 
  them, scorn and derision.
 

 Barry's getting very, VERY confused as to which posts of his I
 commented on, and why. HINT: It wasn't any of the posts he
 refers to above.
 

 Remember now which ones they were, Barry?
 

 Barry edits his own memories such that he doesn't
 remember that virtually everything he criticizes others
 for doing is stuff that he himself does routinely.
 

  By now some of you must have figured out the formula. 
  - First, pretend to be the authority in matters such as this,
  whatever this may be this time. 
  - Second, pretend to know what the person you're ragging 
  on was thinking and feeling as they wrote whatever she's 
  ragging on.  
  - Third, pretend that everyone already agrees with you. 

 Do this enough times, and science tells us that some of the 
  weak-willed ones *will* agree with you.
 

 Yup, that's what Barry's hoping when he does what he
 attributes to me above. He doesn't just accuse his critics
 of doing things he has done, he accuses them of doing
 what he's doing as he makes his accusations. It's really
 quite remarkable. When he goes on one of these rants,
 he is actually describing himself and just changing the
 names and pronouns. And he doesn't realize it.
 

 That's how little self-knowledge he has.
 

 The three items he lists above are not only the formula
 he uses, they're the formula he's using to tell you what
 my purported formula is.