Re: [FairfieldLife] Good for the goose, good for the gander (was Re: Yagna By Choice Payback)

2005-12-14 Thread Peter
Your attempt is admirable, Barry, but it won't help. Hope does spring eternal, but trying to make a rational end-run around someone's seemingly disturbed psychology usually doesn't work as I've discovered in my profession. To help, first there has to be a good therapeutic relationship and the

Re: [FairfieldLife] Good for the goose, good for the gander (was Re: Yagna By Choice Payback)

2005-12-14 Thread Rick Archer
on 12/14/05 9:01 AM, TurquoiseB at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: But my suggestion was a real one. I suspect that the Yagyas By Choice people would have nothing to do with him if they were aware of how he's been using the energy they've been sending his way. We'll see how things turn out. We can

Re: [FairfieldLife] Good for the goose, good for the gander (was Re: Yagna By Choice Payback)

2005-12-14 Thread Peter
--- Patrick Gillam [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- Peter wrote: projective identification. The person in question unconsciously projects a unintegrated/disowned aspect of their personality onto others and provokes them into responding/behaving in accord with that unintegrated

Re: [FairfieldLife] Good for the goose, good for the gander (was Re: Yagna By Choice Payback)

2005-12-14 Thread Peter
--- authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: snip I've always felt that developing a sense of comfort with (and forgiveness for) one's assholiness is far more important to spiritual progress than developing a