Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
Ann, here's your original post. You're right. You weren't making the pedaphilia
insination about turq. It sounds like you're making it about her father! Are
you?
From: awoelfleba...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 9:01 AM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote :
Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and
would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply
teenagers like yourself, imo.
I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on
Google:
Barry Wright Leiden polyamory
Try it.:-) :-) :-)
Yes, interesting. It turns out the lampshade is a paper hat on his head. Some
insights into bawee's life here; he seems nicer when not at FFL. I wonder why
that is? The whole subject of polyamory is interesting. Reading about the dad
in the family I wonder how willing he would be to share his daughter Maya with
outside families - allow her to live and be loved and kept and
nourished/raised by other households in the same way he is willing to allow his
lovers the same freedoms. He does say that Maya especially is the light of his
life, his main love so I would have to wonder if he wouldn't want to hold her
much closer to himself in every way, but only he could tell us that.
I have lots of ideas about polyamory and I know it has been sort of discussed
here but bawee, as usual, was criticizing and abusing anyone who had qualms
about it. Maybe because he doesn't read 90% of the posters here we could have a
civilized discussion about it now.
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Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
I think dolphins have polyamorous pods. Maybe if we get as evolved as they
are, we'll be able to navigate this territory without setting off any mines!
From: lengli...@cox.net [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 11:10 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
Eh, I've always though of myself as polyamorous at heart, but only with
respect to MY behavior. All my wimin better be one-man-women, thanksverymuch!
The fact though, is that if you genuinely love someone, you have to recognize
that they may be hurt by YOUR behavior, and modify it accordingly.
I know long-term, stable threesomes. I once met a long-term, stable group
marriage involving at least 3 or four married couples, dating back to the 60's.
Such things are very rare, however.
L
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote :
I have to say that it appears to me that the central tenant of polyamory, is
that I am going to fuck who I want, when I want, and if it bothers you, then
you had best get over it, or used to it.
Now, along with that you may try to carve out a life with others with whom you
get along with reasonably well, at least for the moment, but the
relationship(s) are always subject to I reserve the right to bring home anyone
with whom I wish to have sex.
And it also seems that you can be voted off the island at anytime.
I'm not sensing a lot of happiness in that arrangement.
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote :
Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and
would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply
teenagers like yourself, imo.
I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on
Google:
Barry Wright Leiden polyamory
Try it.:-) :-) :-)
Yes, interesting. It turns out the lampshade is a paper hat on his head. Some
insights into bawee's life here; he seems nicer when not at FFL. I wonder why
that is? The whole subject of polyamory is interesting. Reading about the dad
in the family I wonder how willing he would be to share his daughter Maya with
outside families - allow her to live and be loved and kept and
nourished/raised by other households in the same way he is willing to allow his
lovers the same freedoms. He does say that Maya especially is the light of his
life, his main love so I would have to wonder if he wouldn't want to hold her
much closer to himself in every way, but only he could tell us that.
I have lots of ideas about polyamory and I know it has been sort of discussed
here but bawee, as usual, was criticizing and abusing anyone who had qualms
about it. Maybe because he doesn't read 90% of the posters here we could have a
civilized discussion about it now.
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Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
No thanks, but enjoy the backstroke, pun intended! :-) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote : I think dolphins have polyamorous pods. Maybe if we get as evolved as they are, we'll be able to navigate this territory without setting off any mines! From: LEnglish5@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 11:10 PM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Eh, I've always though of myself as polyamorous at heart, but only with respect to MY behavior. All my wimin better be one-man-women, thanksverymuch! The fact though, is that if you genuinely love someone, you have to recognize that they may be hurt by YOUR behavior, and modify it accordingly. I know long-term, stable threesomes. I once met a long-term, stable group marriage involving at least 3 or four married couples, dating back to the 60's. Such things are very rare, however. L ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote : I have to say that it appears to me that the central tenant of polyamory, is that I am going to fuck who I want, when I want, and if it bothers you, then you had best get over it, or used to it. Now, along with that you may try to carve out a life with others with whom you get along with reasonably well, at least for the moment, but the relationship(s) are always subject to I reserve the right to bring home anyone with whom I wish to have sex. And it also seems that you can be voted off the island at anytime. I'm not sensing a lot of happiness in that arrangement. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote : Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply teenagers like yourself, imo. I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on Google: Barry Wright Leiden polyamory Try it.:-) :-) :-) Yes, interesting. It turns out the lampshade is a paper hat on his head. Some insights into bawee's life here; he seems nicer when not at FFL. I wonder why that is? The whole subject of polyamory is interesting. Reading about the dad in the family I wonder how willing he would be to share his daughter Maya with outside families - allow her to live and be loved and kept and nourished/raised by other households in the same way he is willing to allow his lovers the same freedoms. He does say that Maya especially is the light of his life, his main love so I would have to wonder if he wouldn't want to hold her much closer to himself in every way, but only he could tell us that. I have lots of ideas about polyamory and I know it has been sort of discussed here but bawee, as usual, was criticizing and abusing anyone who had qualms about it. Maybe because he doesn't read 90% of the posters here we could have a civilized discussion about it now.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
Yes, polyamory is basically there, to take care of lust. Humans, though, do themselves a disservice getting addicted to it. Part of Barry's many problems, is that he never made the transition, from lust, to intimacy (which incorporates plenty of lust), and doesn't understand the difference - hence, no long-term relationships for him, ever. I doubt he has even lived with a woman for longer than a year, during his entire adult life. He just doesn't get it. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote : I have to say that it appears to me that the central tenant of polyamory, is that I am going to fuck who I want, when I want, and if it bothers you, then you had best get over it, or used to it. Now, along with that you may try to carve out a life with others with whom you get along with reasonably well, at least for the moment, but the relationship(s) are always subject to I reserve the right to bring home anyone with whom I wish to have sex. And it also seems that you can be voted off the island at anytime. I'm not sensing a lot of happiness in that arrangement. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote : Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply teenagers like yourself, imo. I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on Google: Barry Wright Leiden polyamory Try it.:-) :-) :-) Yes, interesting. It turns out the lampshade is a paper hat on his head. Some insights into bawee's life here; he seems nicer when not at FFL. I wonder why that is? The whole subject of polyamory is interesting. Reading about the dad in the family I wonder how willing he would be to share his daughter Maya with outside families - allow her to live and be loved and kept and nourished/raised by other households in the same way he is willing to allow his lovers the same freedoms. He does say that Maya especially is the light of his life, his main love so I would have to wonder if he wouldn't want to hold her much closer to himself in every way, but only he could tell us that. I have lots of ideas about polyamory and I know it has been sort of discussed here but bawee, as usual, was criticizing and abusing anyone who had qualms about it. Maybe because he doesn't read 90% of the posters here we could have a civilized discussion about it now.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote : Yes, polyamory is basically there, to take care of lust. Humans, though, do themselves a disservice getting addicted to it. Part of Barry's many problems, is that he never made the transition, from lust, to intimacy (which incorporates plenty of lust), and doesn't understand the difference - hence, no long-term relationships for him, ever. I doubt he has even lived with a woman for longer than a year, during his entire adult life. He just doesn't get it. Maybe. What I think is that although it is in the nature of mammals, including us, to be controlled to a certain extent by our hormones and our egos, we are prone to being attracted to a number of different sexual partners during our lifetime. On the other hand, there is also some deep-seated desire to share with and to be loved and nurtured by another and for long periods of time. We seem to like to be liked and looked after and appreciated and we crave a certain level of security. The idea of marriage seems to provide this. The reality can be quite different but that hasn't kept a lot of us from attempting marriage nevertheless. To start to introduce the elements of multiple partners all living and loving together under the same roof and throw a child into that mix then all of the complications inherent in monogamous relationships seem to be able to exponentially increase because human traits tend to get thrown wildly into the mix. Chief among these characteristics would be jealousy, possessiveness, envy, lack of self confidence, doubt. But I am willing to investigate further - not as a possibility for myself - but as a general peek into what motivates people to share their sexual love with multiple partners while at the same time thinking of their relationships as way deeper than sex and need.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
On 11/26/2014 9:38 AM, fleetwood_macncheese: Yes, polyamory is basically there, to take care of lust. Humans, though, do themselves a disservice getting addicted to it. Part of Barry's many problems, is that he never made the transition, from lust, to intimacy (which incorporates plenty of lust), and doesn't understand the difference - hence, no long-term relationships for him, ever. I doubt he has even lived with a woman for longer than a year, during his entire adult life. He just doesn't get it. /I don't think I was ever a starry-eyed TMer, and// //I definitely never thought he had any kind of // //pipeline to any useful knowledge, but I used to // //go to his Friday night talks in L.A. regularly, // //because it was the best place in town for a TM // //guy to get lucky. /// - TurquoiseB http://www.mail-archive.com/fairfieldlife/yahoogroups.com/msg66703.html ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote : I have to say that it appears to me that the central tenant of polyamory, is that I am going to fuck who I want, when I want, and if it bothers you, then you had best get over it, or used to it. Now, along with that you may try to carve out a life with others with whom you get along with reasonably well, at least for the moment, but the relationship(s) are always subject to I reserve the right to bring home anyone with whom I wish to have sex. And it also seems that you can be voted off the island at anytime. I'm not sensing a lot of happiness in that arrangement. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote : Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply teenagers like yourself, imo. I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on Google: Barry Wright Leiden polyamory Try it.:-) :-) :-) Yes, interesting. It turns out the lampshade is a paper hat on his head. Some insights into bawee's life here; he seems nicer when not at FFL. I wonder why that is? The whole subject of polyamory is interesting. Reading about the dad in the family I wonder how willing he would be to share his daughter Maya with outside families - allow her to live and be loved and kept and nourished/raised by other households in the same way he is willing to allow his lovers the same freedoms. He does say that Maya especially is the light of his life, his main love so I would have to wonder if he wouldn't want to hold her much closer to himself in every way, but only he could tell us that. I have lots of ideas about polyamory and I know it has been sort of discussed here but bawee, as usual, was criticizing and abusing anyone who had qualms about it. Maybe because he doesn't read 90% of the posters here we could have a civilized discussion about it now.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
I would be surprised if there was a five year plan in such relationships. I'd be surprised if there was a three year plan. But the idea of having three parents, and then having one of them voted off the island, or deciding to vamoose would seem to be more detrimental to a child than a divorce between two parents. But I don't think it is a matter of simply living and loving together. I think the policy dictates an open door to any short term or long term sexual relationship. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote : Yes, polyamory is basically there, to take care of lust. Humans, though, do themselves a disservice getting addicted to it. Part of Barry's many problems, is that he never made the transition, from lust, to intimacy (which incorporates plenty of lust), and doesn't understand the difference - hence, no long-term relationships for him, ever. I doubt he has even lived with a woman for longer than a year, during his entire adult life. He just doesn't get it. Maybe. What I think is that although it is in the nature of mammals, including us, to be controlled to a certain extent by our hormones and our egos, we are prone to being attracted to a number of different sexual partners during our lifetime. On the other hand, there is also some deep-seated desire to share with and to be loved and nurtured by another and for long periods of time. We seem to like to be liked and looked after and appreciated and we crave a certain level of security. The idea of marriage seems to provide this. The reality can be quite different but that hasn't kept a lot of us from attempting marriage nevertheless. To start to introduce the elements of multiple partners all living and loving together under the same roof and throw a child into that mix then all of the complications inherent in monogamous relationships seem to be able to exponentially increase because human traits tend to get thrown wildly into the mix. Chief among these characteristics would be jealousy, possessiveness, envy, lack of self confidence, doubt. But I am willing to investigate further - not as a possibility for myself - but as a general peek into what motivates people to share their sexual love with multiple partners while at the same time thinking of their relationships as way deeper than sex and need.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
Yep, an easy way to slake the lust of the participants, all dressed up as something else, to provide a social context. Like they say, no one buys Playboy, to read the articles - lol. Yes, a pretty simple arrangement, but maybe too simple, especially for any kids. Personally, I would find it impossible to give all of my heart, to two or more women - There are literally endless ways of demonstrating love, and being loving, even in marriage - gasp. I don't see any need to complicate things further. My wife just bought me a t-shirt, that reads, If things get any worse, I'll have to ask you to stop helping. My wife occasionally enjoys a nip of scotch, and has always been a dancer, so the one I bought her, reads, vertically: Whiskey Tango Foxtrot :-) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote : I would be surprised if there was a five year plan in such relationships. I'd be surprised if there was a three year plan. But the idea of having three parents, and then having one of them voted off the island, or deciding to vamoose would seem to be more detrimental to a child than a divorce between two parents. But I don't think it is a matter of simply living and loving together. I think the policy dictates an open door to any short term or long term sexual relationship. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote : Yes, polyamory is basically there, to take care of lust. Humans, though, do themselves a disservice getting addicted to it. Part of Barry's many problems, is that he never made the transition, from lust, to intimacy (which incorporates plenty of lust), and doesn't understand the difference - hence, no long-term relationships for him, ever. I doubt he has even lived with a woman for longer than a year, during his entire adult life. He just doesn't get it. Maybe. What I think is that although it is in the nature of mammals, including us, to be controlled to a certain extent by our hormones and our egos, we are prone to being attracted to a number of different sexual partners during our lifetime. On the other hand, there is also some deep-seated desire to share with and to be loved and nurtured by another and for long periods of time. We seem to like to be liked and looked after and appreciated and we crave a certain level of security. The idea of marriage seems to provide this. The reality can be quite different but that hasn't kept a lot of us from attempting marriage nevertheless. To start to introduce the elements of multiple partners all living and loving together under the same roof and throw a child into that mix then all of the complications inherent in monogamous relationships seem to be able to exponentially increase because human traits tend to get thrown wildly into the mix. Chief among these characteristics would be jealousy, possessiveness, envy, lack of self confidence, doubt. But I am willing to investigate further - not as a possibility for myself - but as a general peek into what motivates people to share their sexual love with multiple partners while at the same time thinking of their relationships as way deeper than sex and need.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote : I would be surprised if there was a five year plan in such relationships. I'd be surprised if there was a three year plan. But the idea of having three parents, and then having one of them voted off the island, or deciding to vamoose would seem to be more detrimental to a child than a divorce between two parents. But I don't think it is a matter of simply living and loving together. I think the policy dictates an open door to any short term or long term sexual relationship. Some good points there, Steve. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote : Yes, polyamory is basically there, to take care of lust. Humans, though, do themselves a disservice getting addicted to it. Part of Barry's many problems, is that he never made the transition, from lust, to intimacy (which incorporates plenty of lust), and doesn't understand the difference - hence, no long-term relationships for him, ever. I doubt he has even lived with a woman for longer than a year, during his entire adult life. He just doesn't get it. Maybe. What I think is that although it is in the nature of mammals, including us, to be controlled to a certain extent by our hormones and our egos, we are prone to being attracted to a number of different sexual partners during our lifetime. On the other hand, there is also some deep-seated desire to share with and to be loved and nurtured by another and for long periods of time. We seem to like to be liked and looked after and appreciated and we crave a certain level of security. The idea of marriage seems to provide this. The reality can be quite different but that hasn't kept a lot of us from attempting marriage nevertheless. To start to introduce the elements of multiple partners all living and loving together under the same roof and throw a child into that mix then all of the complications inherent in monogamous relationships seem to be able to exponentially increase because human traits tend to get thrown wildly into the mix. Chief among these characteristics would be jealousy, possessiveness, envy, lack of self confidence, doubt. But I am willing to investigate further - not as a possibility for myself - but as a general peek into what motivates people to share their sexual love with multiple partners while at the same time thinking of their relationships as way deeper than sex and need.
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No problem, kiddo - You got nuttin', and I am enjoying this. :-) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : Hmmm. Assuming he sleeps at least 6 hours a night, that's almost 2.5 posts per hour, for two days. I'd better lay off of Jimbo before he melts down completely. From: TurquoiseBee turquoiseb@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 6:58 AM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Line on water, or on the ropes? You decide. Seems to me that someone this desperate to defend himself has an awful lot of self to defend. From: FFL PostCount ffl.postcount@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 1:15 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Fairfield Life Post Counter === Start Date (UTC): 11/22/14 00:00:00 End Date (UTC): 11/29/14 00:00:00 378 messages as of (UTC) 11/25/14 00:04:36 84 fleetwood_macncheese
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
Oh damn, Sal, please airmail me that list you and Barry made up. You know, the one entitled, How An Enlightened Person Is Supposed To Act, And Not Hand Me My Ass With Both Hands. I'm waiting...:-) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : Line on water, or on the ropes? You decide. Seems to me that someone this desperate to defend himself has an awful lot of self to defend. Ah, but he is speaking from the home of all the laws of nature so that's a lot of extra energy from the unified field to give him a much needed boost when he's flagging. And I think you should cut him some slack, you forget that he's doing spontaneous right action so it isn't like he gets a choice. Personally I feel sorry for him, imagine attaining the highest of the high, the goal of realising your birthright and then you spend all day searching the internet for photo's of people you don't like and putting juvenile captions on them. I don't remember that in the brochure. Jai Guru Dev! Go figure From: FFL PostCount ffl.postcount@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 1:15 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Fairfield Life Post Counter === Start Date (UTC): 11/22/14 00:00:00 End Date (UTC): 11/29/14 00:00:00 378 messages as of (UTC) 11/25/14 00:04:36 84 fleetwood_macncheese
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I don't wait in line, Mr. Carved In Stone - lol. This is like doing spiritual stand up... ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : Line on water, or on the ropes? You decide. Seems to me that someone this desperate to defend himself has an awful lot of self to defend. From: FFL PostCount ffl.postcount@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 1:15 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Fairfield Life Post Counter === Start Date (UTC): 11/22/14 00:00:00 End Date (UTC): 11/29/14 00:00:00 378 messages as of (UTC) 11/25/14 00:04:36 84 fleetwood_macncheese
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
From: salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : Line on water, or on the ropes? You decide. Seems to me that someone this desperate to defend himself has an awful lot of self to defend. Ah, but he is speaking from the home of all the laws of nature so that's a lot of extra energy from the unified field to give him a much needed boost when he's flagging. And I think you should cut him some slack, you forget that he's doing spontaneous right action so it isn't like he gets a choice. Personally I feel sorry for him, imagine attaining the highest of the high, the goal of realising your birthright and then you spend all day searching the internet for photo's of people you don't like and putting juvenile captions on them. I don't remember that in the brochure. Jai Guru Dev! Go figure Thank you so much for pointing this out, Salyavin. Checking the Post Count this morning and realizing exactly *how* obsessed with me Jimbo has become, I had decided to lay off of him anyway, out of compassion. But your interpretation of his actions provides an even more compassionate view of him, and one that flatters *me* as well. If you are right, he really can't help but obsess on me, because the Laws Of Nature are forcing him to. But if you think it through, for the Laws Of Nature to make an Enlightened One obsess enough on little ol' me to write 40+ posts about me a day, they (the Laws Of Nature) must consider *me* pretty fuckin' important. Are they likely to force an Enlightened One to write 2.5 posts an hour about just anybody? No way. I must really rock. And the photos? The Laws Of Nature forced him to search not only my Facebook account, but to search the Facebook accounts of several other people (my FB Friends) to find them. The Laws Of Nature must think I'm pretty important, to force an Enlightened One to violate the privacy of people he's never even met or exchanged posts with. Clearly, I rock even more. So I'm going to swing behind your interpretation of Jimbo's actions, Sal, and cut him some slack. I'll stop bugging him about pretending to be a woman on FFL for months, because hey!...the Laws Of Nature probably forced him to do *that*, too. They also probably forced him to deny having done it, when he got caught at it. Interestingly, the most fascinating (and most compassionate) thing about your interpretation of Jimbo's actions, Sal, is that it works *whether he's enlightened or not*. If I'm wrong and he is enlightened, then according to Maharishi *of course* he has no will of his own and is just acting out the will of the Laws Of Nature. It's *them* doing the creepy stalking, not him. And if I'm right and instead of being enlightened he's just crazier than a bedbug, he *still* has no will of his own. It's the bad chemicals in his brain that are making him do things like stalk people he doesn't like (or know) and pretend to be a woman. Either way -- enlightened or insane -- he's off the hook. I'm still trying to work out how this works for the *others* who are stalking me, though. Y'know...Richard, Ann, and Steve. They're essentially obsessing on me almost as much as Jimbo is. Does this mean that *they* are enlightened, too, or that they're crazy, too? Curious minds want to know. :-) From: FFL PostCount ffl.postcount@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 1:15 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Fairfield Life Post Counter === Start Date (UTC): 11/22/14 00:00:00 End Date (UTC): 11/29/14 00:00:00 378 messages as of (UTC) 11/25/14 00:04:36 84 fleetwood_macncheese
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : From: salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : Line on water, or on the ropes? You decide. Seems to me that someone this desperate to defend himself has an awful lot of self to defend. Ah, but he is speaking from the home of all the laws of nature so that's a lot of extra energy from the unified field to give him a much needed boost when he's flagging. And I think you should cut him some slack, you forget that he's doing spontaneous right action so it isn't like he gets a choice. Personally I feel sorry for him, imagine attaining the highest of the high, the goal of realising your birthright and then you spend all day searching the internet for photo's of people you don't like and putting juvenile captions on them. I don't remember that in the brochure. Jai Guru Dev! Go figure Thank you so much for pointing this out, Salyavin. Checking the Post Count this morning and realizing exactly *how* obsessed with me Jimbo has become, I had decided to lay off of him anyway, out of compassion. But your interpretation of his actions provides an even more compassionate view of him, and one that flatters *me* as well. If you are right, he really can't help but obsess on me, because the Laws Of Nature are forcing him to. But if you think it through, for the Laws Of Nature to make an Enlightened One obsess enough on little ol' me to write 40+ posts about me a day, they (the Laws Of Nature) must consider *me* pretty fuckin' important. Are they likely to force an Enlightened One to write 2.5 posts an hour about just anybody? No way. I must really rock. And the photos? The Laws Of Nature forced him to search not only my Facebook account, but to search the Facebook accounts of several other people (my FB Friends) to find them. The Laws Of Nature must think I'm pretty important, to force an Enlightened One to violate the privacy of people he's never even met or exchanged posts with. Clearly, I rock even more. So I'm going to swing behind your interpretation of Jimbo's actions, Sal, and cut him some slack. I'll stop bugging him about pretending to be a woman on FFL for months, because hey!...the Laws Of Nature probably forced him to do *that*, too. They also probably forced him to deny having done it, when he got caught at it. Interestingly, the most fascinating (and most compassionate) thing about your interpretation of Jimbo's actions, Sal, is that it works *whether he's enlightened or not*. If I'm wrong and he is enlightened, then according to Maharishi *of course* he has no will of his own and is just acting out the will of the Laws Of Nature. It's *them* doing the creepy stalking, not him. And if I'm right and instead of being enlightened he's just crazier than a bedbug, he *still* has no will of his own. It's the bad chemicals in his brain that are making him do things like stalk people he doesn't like (or know) and pretend to be a woman. Either way -- enlightened or insane -- he's off the hook. I'm still trying to work out how this works for the *others* who are stalking me, though. Y'know...Richard, Ann, and Steve. They're essentially obsessing on me almost as much as Jimbo is. Does this mean that *they* are enlightened, too, or that they're crazy, too? Curious minds want to know. :-) Nabby was saying the other day that there are a lot more enlightened people around due to the world waking up, so maybe we've been given a glimpse of the full wonders that await us all when the New Age finally dawns in it's radiant completeness? From: FFL PostCount ffl.postcount@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 1:15 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Fairfield Life Post Counter === Start Date (UTC): 11/22/14 00:00:00 End Date (UTC): 11/29/14 00:00:00 378 messages as of (UTC) 11/25/14 00:04:36 84 fleetwood_macncheese
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply teenagers like yourself, imo. I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on Google: Barry Wright Leiden polyamory Try it.:-) :-) :-) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : From: salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : Line on water, or on the ropes? You decide. Seems to me that someone this desperate to defend himself has an awful lot of self to defend. Ah, but he is speaking from the home of all the laws of nature so that's a lot of extra energy from the unified field to give him a much needed boost when he's flagging. And I think you should cut him some slack, you forget that he's doing spontaneous right action so it isn't like he gets a choice. Personally I feel sorry for him, imagine attaining the highest of the high, the goal of realising your birthright and then you spend all day searching the internet for photo's of people you don't like and putting juvenile captions on them. I don't remember that in the brochure. Jai Guru Dev! Go figure Thank you so much for pointing this out, Salyavin. Checking the Post Count this morning and realizing exactly *how* obsessed with me Jimbo has become, I had decided to lay off of him anyway, out of compassion. But your interpretation of his actions provides an even more compassionate view of him, and one that flatters *me* as well. If you are right, he really can't help but obsess on me, because the Laws Of Nature are forcing him to. But if you think it through, for the Laws Of Nature to make an Enlightened One obsess enough on little ol' me to write 40+ posts about me a day, they (the Laws Of Nature) must consider *me* pretty fuckin' important. Are they likely to force an Enlightened One to write 2.5 posts an hour about just anybody? No way. I must really rock. And the photos? The Laws Of Nature forced him to search not only my Facebook account, but to search the Facebook accounts of several other people (my FB Friends) to find them. The Laws Of Nature must think I'm pretty important, to force an Enlightened One to violate the privacy of people he's never even met or exchanged posts with. Clearly, I rock even more. So I'm going to swing behind your interpretation of Jimbo's actions, Sal, and cut him some slack. I'll stop bugging him about pretending to be a woman on FFL for months, because hey!...the Laws Of Nature probably forced him to do *that*, too. They also probably forced him to deny having done it, when he got caught at it. Interestingly, the most fascinating (and most compassionate) thing about your interpretation of Jimbo's actions, Sal, is that it works *whether he's enlightened or not*. If I'm wrong and he is enlightened, then according to Maharishi *of course* he has no will of his own and is just acting out the will of the Laws Of Nature. It's *them* doing the creepy stalking, not him. And if I'm right and instead of being enlightened he's just crazier than a bedbug, he *still* has no will of his own. It's the bad chemicals in his brain that are making him do things like stalk people he doesn't like (or know) and pretend to be a woman. Either way -- enlightened or insane -- he's off the hook. I'm still trying to work out how this works for the *others* who are stalking me, though. Y'know...Richard, Ann, and Steve. They're essentially obsessing on me almost as much as Jimbo is. Does this mean that *they* are enlightened, too, or that they're crazy, too? Curious minds want to know. :-) From: FFL PostCount ffl.postcount@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 1:15 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Fairfield Life Post Counter === Start Date (UTC): 11/22/14 00:00:00 End Date (UTC): 11/29/14 00:00:00 378 messages as of (UTC) 11/25/14 00:04:36 84 fleetwood_macncheese
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : Hmmm. Assuming he sleeps at least 6 hours a night, that's almost 2.5 posts per hour, for two days. I'd better lay off of Jimbo before he melts down completely. Yes, Jim must be positively seething and he finds himself out of control posting to get you back. Wait, you are the guy who doesn't read his posts and yet you've been responding to him non-stop for the past two days and combing the web for tranny pictures to post to imply that's Jim. Too late, you've already had your melt down, my apologies. From: TurquoiseBee turquoiseb@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 6:58 AM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Line on water, or on the ropes? You decide. Seems to me that someone this desperate to defend himself has an awful lot of self to defend. From: FFL PostCount ffl.postcount@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 1:15 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Fairfield Life Post Counter === Start Date (UTC): 11/22/14 00:00:00 End Date (UTC): 11/29/14 00:00:00 378 messages as of (UTC) 11/25/14 00:04:36 84 fleetwood_macncheese
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote : Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply teenagers like yourself, imo. I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on Google: Barry Wright Leiden polyamory Try it.:-) :-) :-) Yes, interesting. It turns out the lampshade is a paper hat on his head. Some insights into bawee's life here; he seems nicer when not at FFL. I wonder why that is? The whole subject of polyamory is interesting. Reading about the dad in the family I wonder how willing he would be to share his daughter Maya with outside families - allow her to live and be loved and kept and nourished/raised by other households in the same way he is willing to allow his lovers the same freedoms. He does say that Maya especially is the light of his life, his main love so I would have to wonder if he wouldn't want to hold her much closer to himself in every way, but only he could tell us that. I have lots of ideas about polyamory and I know it has been sort of discussed here but bawee, as usual, was criticizing and abusing anyone who had qualms about it. Maybe because he doesn't read 90% of the posters here we could have a civilized discussion about it now.
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Wouldn't work for me, but if others are into it, like most things that aren't hurting me or costing me money, I really have no opinion on it, one way or the other. It doesn't seem like a viable set-up for most people, long-term. Barring any sort of legal agreement, I would hope that plans are in place, to ensure any child's happiness, and continued security, should the arrangement end. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote : Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply teenagers like yourself, imo. I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on Google: Barry Wright Leiden polyamory Try it.:-) :-) :-) Yes, interesting. It turns out the lampshade is a paper hat on his head. Some insights into bawee's life here; he seems nicer when not at FFL. I wonder why that is? The whole subject of polyamory is interesting. Reading about the dad in the family I wonder how willing he would be to share his daughter Maya with outside families - allow her to live and be loved and kept and nourished/raised by other households in the same way he is willing to allow his lovers the same freedoms. He does say that Maya especially is the light of his life, his main love so I would have to wonder if he wouldn't want to hold her much closer to himself in every way, but only he could tell us that. I have lots of ideas about polyamory and I know it has been sort of discussed here but bawee, as usual, was criticizing and abusing anyone who had qualms about it. Maybe because he doesn't read 90% of the posters here we could have a civilized discussion about it now.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
On 11/25/2014 6:51 AM, fleetwood_macncheese wrote: Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply teenagers like yourself, imo. I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on Google: Barry Wright Leiden polyamory /Maybe Barry should have put a better-looking photo of himself on his Facebook page. He looks really old and grumpy in that photo. Go figure./ Try it.:-) :-) :-) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : *From:* salyavin808 no_re...@yahoogroups.com ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : */Line on water, or on the ropes? You decide./* */ /* */Seems to me that someone this desperate to defend himself has an awful lot of self to defend./* Ah, but he is speaking from the home of all the laws of nature so that's a lot of extra energy from the unified field to give him a much needed boost when he's flagging. And I think you should cut him some slack, you forget that he's doing spontaneous right action so it isn't like he gets a choice. Personally I feel sorry for him, imagine attaining the highest of the high, the goal of realising your birthright and then you spend all day searching the internet for photo's of people you don't like and putting juvenile captions on them. I don't remember that in the brochure. Jai Guru Dev! Go figure */Thank you so much for pointing this out, Salyavin. Checking the Post Count this morning and realizing exactly *how* obsessed with me Jimbo has become, I had decided to lay off of him anyway, out of compassion. But your interpretation of his actions provides an even more compassionate view of him, and one that flatters *me* as well. /* */ /* */If you are right, he really can't help but obsess on me, because the Laws Of Nature are forcing him to. But if you think it through, for the Laws Of Nature to make an Enlightened One obsess enough on little ol' me to write 40+ posts about me a day, they (the Laws Of Nature) must consider *me* pretty fuckin' important. Are they likely to force an Enlightened One to write 2.5 posts an hour about just anybody? /* */ /* */No way. I must really rock. /* */ /* */And the photos? The Laws Of Nature forced him to search not only my Facebook account, but to search the Facebook accounts of several other people (my FB Friends) to find them. The Laws Of Nature must think I'm pretty important, to force an Enlightened One to violate the privacy of people he's never even met or exchanged posts with. Clearly, /**/I rock even more. /* */ /* */So I'm going to swing behind your interpretation of Jimbo's actions, Sal, and cut him some slack. I'll stop bugging him about pretending to be a woman on FFL for months, because hey!...the Laws Of Nature probably forced him to do *that*, too. They also probably forced him to deny having done it, when he got caught at it. /* */ /* */Interestingly, the most fascinating (and most compassionate) thing about your interpretation of Jimbo's actions, Sal, is that it works *whether he's enlightened or not*. /* */ /* */If I'm wrong and he is enlightened, then /**/*/according to Maharishi /**of course* he has no will of his own and is just acting out the will of the Laws Of Nature. It's *them* doing the creepy stalking, not him. And if I'm right and instead of being enlightened he's just crazier than a bedbug, he *still* has no will of his own. It's the bad chemicals in his brain that are making him do things like stalk people he doesn't like (or know) and pretend to be a woman. Either way -- enlightened or insane -- he's off the hook. /* */ /* */I'm still trying to work out how this works for the *others* who are stalking me, though. Y'know...Richard, Ann, and Steve. They're essentially obsessing on me almost as much as Jimbo is. Does this mean that *they* are enlightened, too, or that they're crazy, too? Curious minds want to know. :-)/* *From:* FFL PostCount ffl.postcount@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com *To:* FairfieldLife FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com *Sent:* Tuesday, November 25, 2014 1:15 AM *Subject:* [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Fairfield Life Post Counter === Start Date (UTC): 11/22/14 00:00:00 End Date (UTC): 11/29/14 00:00:00 378 messages as of (UTC) 11/25/14 00:04:36 *84 fleetwood_macncheese*
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote : Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply teenagers like yourself, imo. I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on Google: Barry Wright Leiden polyamory Try it.:-) :-) :-) On 11/25/2014 9:01 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife] wrote: Yes, interesting. It turns out the lampshade is a paper hat on his head. /Now this is weird - Barry made fun of the Rajas wearing Burgher King hats, yet Barry wears a paper hat? Is that cognitive dissonance or just plain hypocrisy. or both? Go figure./ Some insights into bawee's life here; he seems nicer when not at FFL. I wonder why that is? The whole subject of polyamory is interesting. Reading about the dad in the family I wonder how willing he would be to share his daughter Maya with outside families - allow her to live and be loved and kept and nourished/raised by other households in the same way he is willing to allow his lovers the same freedoms. He does say that Maya especially is the light of his life, his main love so I would have to wonder if he wouldn't want to hold her much closer to himself in every way, but only he could tell us that. I have lots of ideas about polyamory and I know it has been sort of discussed here but bawee, as usual, was criticizing and abusing anyone who had qualms about it. Maybe because he doesn't read 90% of the posters here we could have a civilized discussion about it now.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
I have to say that it appears to me that the central tenant of polyamory, is that I am going to fuck who I want, when I want, and if it bothers you, then you had best get over it, or used to it. Now, along with that you may try to carve out a life with others with whom you get along with reasonably well, at least for the moment, but the relationship(s) are always subject to I reserve the right to bring home anyone with whom I wish to have sex. And it also seems that you can be voted off the island at anytime. I'm not sensing a lot of happiness in that arrangement. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote : Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply teenagers like yourself, imo. I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on Google: Barry Wright Leiden polyamory Try it.:-) :-) :-) Yes, interesting. It turns out the lampshade is a paper hat on his head. Some insights into bawee's life here; he seems nicer when not at FFL. I wonder why that is? The whole subject of polyamory is interesting. Reading about the dad in the family I wonder how willing he would be to share his daughter Maya with outside families - allow her to live and be loved and kept and nourished/raised by other households in the same way he is willing to allow his lovers the same freedoms. He does say that Maya especially is the light of his life, his main love so I would have to wonder if he wouldn't want to hold her much closer to himself in every way, but only he could tell us that. I have lots of ideas about polyamory and I know it has been sort of discussed here but bawee, as usual, was criticizing and abusing anyone who had qualms about it. Maybe because he doesn't read 90% of the posters here we could have a civilized discussion about it now.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
Eh, I've always though of myself as polyamorous at heart, but only with respect to MY behavior. All my wimin better be one-man-women, thanksverymuch! The fact though, is that if you genuinely love someone, you have to recognize that they may be hurt by YOUR behavior, and modify it accordingly. I know long-term, stable threesomes. I once met a long-term, stable group marriage involving at least 3 or four married couples, dating back to the 60's. Such things are very rare, however. L ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote : I have to say that it appears to me that the central tenant of polyamory, is that I am going to fuck who I want, when I want, and if it bothers you, then you had best get over it, or used to it. Now, along with that you may try to carve out a life with others with whom you get along with reasonably well, at least for the moment, but the relationship(s) are always subject to I reserve the right to bring home anyone with whom I wish to have sex. And it also seems that you can be voted off the island at anytime. I'm not sensing a lot of happiness in that arrangement. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote : ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fleetwood_macncheese@... wrote : Search Facebook Accounts?? Are you hallucinating, too? I despise Facebook, and would NEVER have an account on there. That site is for overgrown pimply teenagers like yourself, imo. I found your pictures, in five seconds, with the following search string on Google: Barry Wright Leiden polyamory Try it.:-) :-) :-) Yes, interesting. It turns out the lampshade is a paper hat on his head. Some insights into bawee's life here; he seems nicer when not at FFL. I wonder why that is? The whole subject of polyamory is interesting. Reading about the dad in the family I wonder how willing he would be to share his daughter Maya with outside families - allow her to live and be loved and kept and nourished/raised by other households in the same way he is willing to allow his lovers the same freedoms. He does say that Maya especially is the light of his life, his main love so I would have to wonder if he wouldn't want to hold her much closer to himself in every way, but only he could tell us that. I have lots of ideas about polyamory and I know it has been sort of discussed here but bawee, as usual, was criticizing and abusing anyone who had qualms about it. Maybe because he doesn't read 90% of the posters here we could have a civilized discussion about it now.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
Line on water, or on the ropes? You decide. Seems to me that someone this desperate to defend himself has an awful lot of self to defend. From: FFL PostCount ffl.postco...@gmail.com [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 1:15 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Fairfield Life Post Counter === Start Date (UTC): 11/22/14 00:00:00 End Date (UTC): 11/29/14 00:00:00 378 messages as of (UTC) 11/25/14 00:04:36 84 fleetwood_macncheese
Re: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC
Hmmm. Assuming he sleeps at least 6 hours a night, that's almost 2.5 posts per
hour, for two days.
I'd better lay off of Jimbo before he melts down completely.
From: TurquoiseBee turquoi...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
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Line on water, or on the ropes? You decide.
Seems to me that someone this desperate to defend himself has an awful lot of
self to defend.
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---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : Line on water, or on the ropes? You decide. Seems to me that someone this desperate to defend himself has an awful lot of self to defend. Ah, but he is speaking from the home of all the laws of nature so that's a lot of extra energy from the unified field to give him a much needed boost when he's flagging. And I think you should cut him some slack, you forget that he's doing spontaneous right action so it isn't like he gets a choice. Personally I feel sorry for him, imagine attaining the highest of the high, the goal of realising your birthright and then you spend all day searching the internet for photo's of people you don't like and putting juvenile captions on them. I don't remember that in the brochure. Jai Guru Dev! Go figure From: FFL PostCount ffl.postcount@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, November 25, 2014 1:15 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Post Count Tue 25-Nov-14 00:15:04 UTC Fairfield Life Post Counter === Start Date (UTC): 11/22/14 00:00:00 End Date (UTC): 11/29/14 00:00:00 378 messages as of (UTC) 11/25/14 00:04:36 84 fleetwood_macncheese
