Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-15 Thread TenHouseCats
excellent point, nina, as usual! also, gloria, i would talk to the vet, too--it might be good to find out exactly what DID happen: it's possible the new mom didn't really give you the xomplete story. just as possible it's a bad vet.. On 12/14/05, Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Maybe Chrissy

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-14 Thread Nina
Gloria, First my condolences on losing Chrissy this way! It's so frustrating when people think they are doing the right thing, but don't bother contacting someone who they should know would be able to give them advice. I think you may be right, this had more to do with the adopter's

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-14 Thread gblane
Absolutely - everything that you said - you expressed it so well. So frustrating, and hard to evaluate the adopting woman's emotional state. And I end up with such a duality of feelings. She mentioned something about wanting to consider another kitty. I'm just going to ignore her and not

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-14 Thread Nina
I don't know, I think I might talk to her about not being ready to take on the emotional hazards that come with the responsibility of holding another life in her hands. (I don't know if I'd put it that way!). She may just go get another kitty somewhere else. It sounds like she's in such

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-14 Thread gblane
I've been seriously thinking about getting microchips. Don't think anyone else in our rescue group is that interested, but maybe I'll bring the subject up again. Those are all good points - I may do that. The vet is maybe 15 miles away, and may not be aware of our cat rescue, so I do want

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-14 Thread Nina
Maybe Chrissy has saved more than one life with the sacrifice of her own. :( N [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I've been seriously thinking about getting microchips. Don't think anyone else in our rescue group is that interested, but maybe I'll bring the subject up again. Those are all good points

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-13 Thread Susan Loesch
That is so true - that they are in our hearts forever. Even if they've only been our fosters for a very short time. Chrissy was so pretty and had been so unhappy around other kitties, and this seemed to be the perfect home for her. TenHouseCats [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: sigh. i'm sorry,

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-13 Thread wendy
Gloria, I'm sorry to hear about Chrissy. Do you think the vet recommended euthanasia for a bladder stone? Doesn't make sense. :) Wendy --- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Belinda would you add one of my former fosters (not FELV) to the Bridge list? Name was Chrissy, owner renamed to Prissy.

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-13 Thread gblane
Actually, the owner indicated that it was her choice because she herself has had kidney stones and knows how much they hurt. She was new to that vet, as she just moved (like 10 miles from her former place). From what she said, she was just adamant about it, thinking she was doing the right

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-13 Thread gblane
Actually, the owner indicated that it was her choice because she herself has had kidney stones and knows how much they hurt. She was new to that vet, as she just moved (like 10 miles from her former place). From what she said, she was just adamant about it, thinking she was doing the right

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-13 Thread gblane
, Gloria Kerry - Original Message - From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Monday, December 12, 2005 12:33 PM Subject: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list Belinda would you add one of my former fosters (not FELV) to the Bridge list? Name was Chrissy, owner renamed

Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-12 Thread gblane
Belinda would you add one of my former fosters (not FELV) to the Bridge list? Name was Chrissy, owner renamed to Prissy. She was a pretty little exotic type kitty, silver gray with stripes and huge eyes, adopted out this past May.. Her owner found out that she had a large bladder stone, and

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-12 Thread Belinda Sauro
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Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-12 Thread catatonya
Gloria,I'm so sorry. I know how hard it is to let go of a foster to its new home. I'm sure this is very upsetting to you. :(tonya[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Belinda would you add one of my former fosters (not FELV) to the Bridge list? Name was Chrissy, owner renamed to Prissy. She was a

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-12 Thread gblane
Hi Tonya - you got that right. I thought it was a good home. I know she wanted to do the right thing, and that she was ignorant of these issues. But I would NOT of course, have euthanized a cat because of a bladder stone... Sigh... Gloria At 06:36 PM 12/12/2005, you wrote: Gloria, I'm

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list

2005-12-12 Thread TenHouseCats
sigh. i'm sorry, gloria--but it reminds me that while they're fosters for just a while in our homes, they remain in our hearts forever On 12/12/05, [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi Tonya - you got that right. I thought it was a good home. I know she wanted to do the right

Re: Chrissy/Prissy on the bridge list-fostering

2005-12-12 Thread catatonya
Yes, I think I told this story before, but when I fostered and worked adoptions I would NEVER adopt out a cat/kitten to a family with very young children. I broke my rule ONE time for a family with ONE young boy (about 4 or 5) who seemed very calm and very good with my foster. Well.. a YEAR or