Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Becca DuBose
*/Hideyo Yamamoto <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>/* wrote: Hi, everyone, today is one of the saddest day of my life – one of Bella’s babies died this morning around 2 am and I think I caused her to die. Hideyo, I just don't see how you could have done anything wrong. Even if you did, you d

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Barb Moermond
11, 2006 12:50 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died  Hideyo, There isn't anything I can say to make Bella's baby's passing any easier on you.  It does her honor to be grieved so greatly.  What happened to the wee one breaks my heart, as much for

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Barb Moermond
Hideyo,What Nina said!!!  She said it perfectly.  WE KNOW YOU and, unfortunately, now you know how tenuous the grip on life the wee ones have.  You did everything right; these things just happen.Do you remember that little kitten my stepdad had rescued after having seen it thrown from a truck?  Tha

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Gloria B. Lane
Just want to say, I'm so sorry Hideyo...   Gloria   - Original Message - From: catatonya To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 7:49 PM Subject: RE: My Bella's baby died I'm sorry Hideyo.  Kittens are just so tin

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Marylyn
vtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 7:57 PM Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died Hideyo, Believe me I know and feel your pain, but you see what I do is try and realize the rest of the animals in the rescue will know my pain and cause them undo stress and pain. So What I

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread FORGETMENOTPETS
Hideyo, Believe me I know and feel your pain, but you see what I do is try and realize the rest of the animals in the rescue will know my pain and cause them undo stress and pain. So What I do is talk with the momma cat and siblings or "foster siblings" of the deceased and take a few minutes

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread catatonya
ECTED] On Behalf Of Sherry DeHaanSent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 10:27 AMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: My Bella's baby died   Hideyo,I know you did not hurt the baby on purpose.What happened?? You are a great mom to all the animals you help.I know how it feel to hurt a small a

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Marylyn
man.  St. Francis - Original Message - From: Marylyn To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 5:37 PM Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died Those little ones taught me a lot.  Th

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Marylyn
n who will deal likewise with their fellow man.  St. Francis - Original Message - From: Hideyo Yamamoto To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 5:27 PM Subject: RE: My Bella's

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
Belinda Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 2:32 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died Hideyo, Please take a moment to clear your thoughts and ask an AC (communicator) to speak with the little one, I'm sure what you did had nothing to do with her passin

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Marylyn Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 3:36 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died   There is nothing at this point that will make you feel better.  You are consumed with guilt for unknown reasons.  However, you must

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Marylyn
will deal likewise with their fellow man.  St. Francis - Original Message - From: Hideyo Yamamoto To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 11:22 AM Subject: RE: My Bella's baby died

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Belinda
Hideyo, Please take a moment to clear your thoughts and ask an AC (communicator) to speak with the little one, I'm sure what you did had nothing to do with her passing. It was her time and I'm sure just a coincidence that she passed when she did. Set your mind at ease and speak with he

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
PROTECTED] Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 1:22 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died   Hideyo   So sorry to hear of your despair but you are a great Kittie mom. I don't know what happened but I know you would never intend to hurt a kittie. Yo

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 12:50 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died   Hideyo, There isn't anything I can say to make Bella's baby's passing any easier on you.  It does her honor to be grieved so greatly.  What happened to the wee one brea

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Terri Brown
y Avon Online! http://www.youravon.com/theresabrown - Original Message - From: TenHouseCats To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 12:40 PM Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died oh, hideyo,   PLEASE be gentle with yourself.   we make the very best d

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Lomaxturtle
Hideyo   So sorry to hear of your despair but you are a great Kittie mom. I don't know what happened but I know you would never intend to hurt a kittie. You did what you thought right at the time. Sometimes we need to intervene and something must have been wrong for you to interveme to try an

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Nina
Hideyo, There isn't anything I can say to make Bella's baby's passing any easier on you.  It does her honor to be grieved so greatly.  What happened to the wee one breaks my heart, as much for her, as for you.  Please don't punish yourself for caring about those little angels.  You were up in t

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
x27;s probably the least I could do -- -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Kat Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 11:26 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: RE: My Bella's baby died Dear, Dear Hideyo, Just what did you do? You tried t

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Kat
Dear, Dear Hideyo, Just what did you do? You tried to help the baby - the best you knew how to at the time - no one here would EVER condemn you for that. It was not intentional - you are too good of a meowmy for it to have been on purpose. Sometimes these things just happen and all we can do is

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
carelessness and don’t know what to do and I just miss her so very much..   From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Sherry DeHaan Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 10:27 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: RE: My Bella's baby died   Hideyo,I know you did not

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread TenHouseCats
oh, hideyo,   PLEASE be gentle with yourself.   we make the very best decisions we can at every moment, using the information we had at that moment. even if that information changes later on, even minutes later, our choice was NOT wrong, it was what was right at that moment. WE know, and i hope you

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Barb Moermond
Oh Hideyo, tell us what happened!  Babies that young are very fragile and more pass during the first couple weeks than you'd think.  MC lost quite a few wee ones last summer and it's heartbreaking, but it just wasn't meant to be.  Why do you think you killed this baby?  Talk to us sweetie!<<<>>

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Sherry DeHaan
Hideyo,I know you did not hurt the baby on purpose.What happened?? You are a great mom to all the animals you help.I know how it feel to hurt a small animal and cause its death,it is horrible,I still get a stomache ache when I think about it and it happened over 20 years agoHideyo Yamamoto <[EMAIL

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
  Hi, everyone, today is one of the saddest day of my life – one of Bella’s babies died this morning around 2 am and I think I caused her to die. I am just too upset about what happened.  But, I wanted to help, but instead I killed her.  She was only 10 days old and she did not even get to