RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
Hi, everyone, today is one of the saddest day of my life one of Bellas babies died this morning around 2 am and I think I caused her to die. I am just too upset about what happened. But, I wanted to help, but instead I killed her. She was only 10 days old and she did not even get to

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Sherry DeHaan
Hideyo,I know you did not hurt the baby on purpose.What happened?? You are a great mom to all the animals you help.I know how it feel to hurt a small animal and cause its death,it is horrible,I still get a stomache ache when I think about it and it happened over 20 years agoHideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Barb Moermond
Oh Hideyo, tell us what happened! Babies that young are very fragile and more pass during the first couple weeks than you'd think. MC lost quite a few wee ones last summer and it's heartbreaking, but it just wasn't meant to be. Why do you think you killed this baby? Talk to us sweetie!HUGSHideyo

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread TenHouseCats
oh, hideyo, PLEASE be gentle with yourself. we make the very best decisions we can at every moment, using the information we had at that moment. even if that information changes later on, even minutes later, our choice was NOT wrong, it was what was right at that moment. WE know, and i hope you

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
and dont know what to do and I just miss her so very much.. From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Sherry DeHaan Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 10:27 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: RE: My Bella's baby died Hideyo,I know you did not hurt the baby

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
probably the least I could do -- -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Kat Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 11:26 AM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: RE: My Bella's baby died Dear, Dear Hideyo, Just what did you do? You tried to help

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Nina
Hideyo, There isn't anything I can say to make Bella's baby's passing any easier on you. It does her honor to be grieved so greatly. What happened to the wee one breaks my heart, as much for her, as for you. Please don't punish yourself for caring about those little angels. You were up in the

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Lomaxturtle
Hideyo So sorry to hear of your despair but you are a great Kittie mom. I don't know what happened but I know you would never intend to hurt a kittie. You did what you thought right at the time. Sometimes we need to intervene and something must have been wrong for you to interveme to try

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Terri Brown
/theresabrown - Original Message - From: TenHouseCats To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 12:40 PM Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died oh, hideyo, PLEASE be gentle with yourself. we make the very best decisions we can at every moment, using

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
PROTECTED] Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 1:22 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died Hideyo So sorry to hear of your despair but you are a great Kittie mom. I don't know what happened but I know you would never intend to hurt a kittie. You did what you

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Belinda
Hideyo, Please take a moment to clear your thoughts and ask an AC (communicator) to speak with the little one, I'm sure what you did had nothing to do with her passing. It was her time and I'm sure just a coincidence that she passed when she did. Set your mind at ease and speak with

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Marylyn
, 2006 11:22 AM Subject: RE: My Bella's baby died Hi, everyone, today is one of the saddest day of my life – one of Bella’s babies died this morning around 2 am and I think I caused her to die. I am just too upset about what happened. But, I wanted to help, but instead I killed

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Marylyn Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 3:36 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died There is nothing at this point that will make you feel better. You are consumed with guilt for unknown reasons. However, you must focus

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
Of Belinda Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 2:32 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died Hideyo, Please take a moment to clear your thoughts and ask an AC (communicator) to speak with the little one, I'm sure what you did had nothing to do with her passing

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Marylyn
Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 5:27 PM Subject: RE: My Bella's baby died I think people on this list including you knowing and understand my pain gives great comfort in knowing that I am not alone- I am so sorry for your loss of two babies you spayed – that’s just so awful… again

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Marylyn
Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died Those little ones taught me a lot. They left but will be back. They have also taught others because they taught me. It will take a while but you will reach this point. Right now, just be gentle with yourself and be open to the little one who is very

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread catatonya
: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 10:27 AMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: My Bella's baby diedHideyo,I know you did not hurt the baby on purpose.What happened?? You are a great mom to all the animals you help.I know how it feel to hurt a small animal and cause its death,it is horrible,I still get

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread FORGETMENOTPETS
Hideyo, Believe me I know and feel your pain, but you see what I do is try and realize the rest of the animals in the rescue will know my pain and cause them undo stress and pain. So What I do is talk with the momma cat and siblings or "foster siblings" of the deceased and take a few minutes

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Marylyn
- Original Message - From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 7:57 PM Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died Hideyo, Believe me I know and feel your pain, but you see what I do is try and realize the rest of the animals

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Gloria B. Lane
Just want to say, I'm so sorry Hideyo... Gloria - Original Message - From: catatonya To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Tuesday, April 11, 2006 7:49 PM Subject: RE: My Bella's baby died I'm sorry Hideyo. Kittens are just so tiny, and it often happens

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Barb Moermond
Hideyo,What Nina said!!! She said it perfectly. WE KNOW YOU and, unfortunately, now you know how tenuous the grip on life the wee ones have. You did everything right; these things just happen.Do you remember that little kitten my stepdad had rescued after having seen it thrown from a truck? That

RE: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Barb Moermond
@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: My Bella's baby died Hideyo, There isn't anything I can say to make Bella's baby's passing any easier on you. It does her honor to be grieved so greatly. What happened to the wee one breaks my heart, as much for her, as for you. Please don't punish yourself for caring about those

Re: My Bella's baby died

2006-04-11 Thread Becca DuBose
*/Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED]/* wrote: Hi, everyone, today is one of the saddest day of my life – one of Bella’s babies died this morning around 2 am and I think I caused her to die. Hideyo, I just don't see how you could have done anything wrong. Even if you did, you