RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-22 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto








You are absolutely right, Tonya..











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Hideyo,











You definitely have way too much on your hands to do adoptions.
Maybe you could do a petfinder site though?











I know this sounds cruel. I don't know how old you are
either... but there comes a time you have to take cats you find like
this to a shelter. You can't take them all, and you're too overwhelmed
yourself to take in more. :(











t

Hideyo Yamamoto
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:







I am so sure that they are adoptable
---and I used to go to adoption clinic every single week a few years ago..
maybe I did adopted out a couple of them during that time.. (I was very very
selective as to whom ) but considering the number that I have, considering the
amount of time I need to care for the ones I have.. I decided to spend time
taking care of them instead of finding a home for one or two in a year or two
which will not make much difference in my life..



















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Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken













Senior and special needs cats are adoptable. It takes
longer and you work harder at it but I firmly believe that, somewhere, there's
a forever home for every foster cat in my care -- and that forever home is not
necessarily me. You just have to really work on finding adoptive homes.

Hideyo Yamamoto
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 







I am pretty well connected with the people
in the rescue group  I know them and they all know about me pretty
much.. all the people I know of, they are in some what similar situations as I
am they usually find a problem for ME to solve because they know that I
will not say NOand they are right.. I never say NO to any cats who need
a help and thats why I have what I have ---some are Felk, or FIV, or
injured, sick.. I nurture them back to health whenever I can.. and no one wants
the cats I have.. but instead they call me if I could take care of the ones
they find..



























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Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken





















Where are you located? Perhaps there are other rescue people in
your area. Your really must join the freral cat group I referenced in my
earlier post. It's a nationwide group with close to 2000 members now.

Hideyo Yamamoto
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 











Hi, everyone, please understand  I
do spay and neuter whenever the opportunity there is  I dont even
want to tell you how many cats I have with me because its going to freak
everyone out  but I am saying that I simply dont have a space
right now to even temporarily keep them.. I am used up all the crates that I
have because I have trapped some moreI might have to catch ten or twenty
before I can get the mama, but the meantime, I dont have a place to
recover all of them thats my dilemma, otherwise I would have
gotten all of them right away.



































From:
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Several years ago when I trapped Cutie-Pie's babies one by one and
brought them inside, she cried and ran around the house looking for them at
first. But when she saw them in my foyer through the screen door she was
fine. She knew I had them. (They screamed like crazy for her but
she was fine with it.) Cutie-Pie was later trapped and spayed and then
returned to my backyard. She is an untouchable feral girl. Now she
is a plump plush little feral queen who presides over a colony of herself and 4
neutered feral boys. They live in my backyard and basement, are spoiled
rotten (canned and dry food, catnip), and are very happy and safe there. In
all these years Cutie has never allowed me the pet her, even once, but she will
sit near me when I am outside and blink her eyes at me (throwing kisses).

janine paton
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I've also trapped moms using kittens for bait. It's
heartbreaking until you see the mom weeks after the
spay and she looks so much better and relaxed. 

Think of it this way - if you didn't try this - the
kittens will get bigger, she will have a harder time
caring for them. They will start wandering and
something could happen to them. She will get pregnant
again and not want that litter anymore. 

When I've brought a feral mom in with kittens and mom
sees I'm willing to take care of the kittens, she is
relieved and it's probably the first break she's had
in a long time. I've had mothers who are sick but you

RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-22 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto








I actually trapped 4 adult kitties and a
total of 8 kittens from this colony (2 different litters) --- unfortunately,,
lots of adult kitties including mama kitty got smarter as time went.. and wouldnt
go in traps.. the ones trapped got neutered and spayed yesterday.. one was
having a difficult time recovering.. but she seems to be better today..











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Is there a safe place to relocate momcat? I have a mini-colony of
ferals in my back yard and two were relocated from another place to there.











Hideyo, are you a member of the feral cat group yet? You may want
to join. It's at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/feral_cats/

Nina
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I've done this with kittens and their Momma. I too was upset
about having to put the kittens through the experience, but it worked like a
charm and the kitten did fine. I didn't use all the kittens, just the
strongest guy. If you continue to trap, you'd be doing the ferals a great
service by having them s/n and then returning them to the site. I know
you have problems with the return part of TNR, but please think
about it, you would be saving kitties suffering down the line.
Love to you sweetheart,
Nina

Joan Doljan wrote: 

A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens in a closed
carrier directly infront of an opened,baitedtrap.

Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote: 



Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple
of new things 







I rescued three baby cats yesterday who
were living under the crawl space of the abandoned house, which is now bought
and be ready to be renovated.. the new owner was planning to get rid of the
kittens along with all the kitties who live under the crawl space and I offered
to take them. The babies were actually under the hole under the crawl
space which only the size of my entire hand and thought I and Kathy (my rescue
friend) were never going to be able to get them out but finally using a
little fish net to get one by one out  they were only 6 weeks old, one
calico, one tabby and one turtleshell (?) and they are all so cute.











The one sad thing is that their mama came
to look for the babies while we were under the crawl space, she was so worried
about us doing something to the babies.. one time, I thought we should just
leave and have the mama take care of the babies and I worry that later on, she
might take babies some other crawl space near there (there a few, unfortunately),
and people might close the crawl space without knowing that they were there..
the mama came back several times (while we were there as we were there for
about 5 hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I decided to take the babies from
her..











I tried to trap the mama kitty last night
but I couldnt  there are several kitties there.. I trapped one
who looked like mama.. but she must be from mamas previous litter
 she is less than a year old..











Anyway, I wanted to ask you to pray that I
will be able to catch mama soon (I probably could, if I dont mind
catching all other kitties who live there.. but I dont know where I
could put them now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama will stay safe
and she will not be worrying too much about their babies. I am heartbroken for
the mama I feel very badly for taking the babies from their mamaI
know that this is probably the right thing.. but I still cannot not think about
the mama






















RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-13 Thread catatonya
Hideyo,You definitely have way too much on your hands to do adoptions. Maybe you could do a petfinder site though?I know this sounds cruel. I don't know how old you are either... but there comes a time you have to take cats you find like this to a shelter. You can't take them all, and you're too overwhelmed yourself to take in more. :(tHideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:I am so sure that they are adoptable ---and I used to go to adoption clinic every single week a few years ago.. maybe I did adopted out a couple of them during that time.. (I was very very selective as to whom ) but considering the number that I have, considering the amount of time I need to care for the ones I
 have.. I decided to spend time taking care of them instead of finding a home for one or two in a year or two which will not make much difference in my life..From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Susan HoffmanSent:
 Thursday, May 11, 2006 5:35 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbrokenSenior and special needs cats are adoptable. It takes longer and you work harder at it but I firmly believe that, somewhere, there's a forever home for every foster cat in my care -- and that forever home is not necessarily me. You just have to really work on finding adoptive homes.Hideyo Yamamoto
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I am pretty well connected with the people in the rescue group – I know them and they all know about me pretty much.. all the people I know of, they are in some what similar situations as I am –they usually find a problem for ME to solve because they know that I will not say NO…and they are right.. I never say NO to any cats who need a help and that’s why I have what I have ---some are Felk, or FIV, or injured, sick.. I nurture them back to health whenever I can.. and no one wants the cats I have.. but instead they call me if I could take care of the ones they find..From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Susan HoffmanSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 5:17 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE:
 OT: heartbrokenWhere are you located? Perhaps there are other rescue people in your area. Your really must join the freral cat group I referenced in my earlier post. It's a nationwide group with close to 2000 members now.Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:   Hi, everyone, please understand – I do spay and neuter whenever the opportunity there is – I don’t even want to tell you how many cats I have with me
 because it’s going to freak everyone out – but I am saying that I simply don’t have a space right now to even temporarily keep them.. I am used up all the crates that I have because I have trapped some more…I might have to catch ten or twenty before I can get the mama, but the meantime, I don’t have a place to recover all of them… that’s my dilemma, otherwise I would have gotten all of them right away.From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Susan HoffmanSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 5:04 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Re: OT: heartbrokenSeveral years ago
 when I trapped Cutie-Pie's babies one by one and brought them inside, she cried and ran around the house looking for them at first. But when she saw them in my foyer through the screen door she was fine. She knew I had them. (They screamed like crazy for her but she was fine with it.) Cutie-Pie was later trapped and spayed and then returned to my backyard. She is an untouchable feral girl. Now she is a plump plush little feral queen who presides over a colony of herself and 4 neutered feral boys. They live in my backyard and basement, are spoiled rotten (canned and dry food, catnip), and are very happy and safe there. In all these years Cutie has never allowed me the pet her, even once, but she will sit near me when I am outside and blink her eyes at me (throwing kisses).janine paton [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   I've also trapped moms using kittens for bait. It'sheartbreaking until you see the mom weeks after thespay and she looks so much better and relaxed. Think of it this way - if you didn't try this - thekittens will get bigger, she will have a harder timecaring for them. They will start wandering andsomething could happen to them. She will get pregnantagain and not want that litter anymore. When I've brought a feral mom in with kittens and momsees I'm willing to take care of the kittens, she isrelieved and it's probably the first break she's hadin a long time. I've had mothers who are sick but youwouldn't even know it until they understand they nolonger have pretend to be fine just because they havekittens.
 I also will show the kittens to the mom when I can butI always tell her it's OK, her babies are fine.Take a deep breath and go for the spay - it will makea big difference in her quality of life.--- Nina <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: I'v

Re: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-12 Thread Gloria Lane
Sounds like a good plan Hideyo - I'm hoping and praying for this to  
be successful!  Good luck - Gloria



On May 11, 2006, at 2:42 PM, Hideyo Yamamoto wrote:

I guess if I were going to try, I should try it asap before the  
mama forgets about her babies..huh?




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Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:41 PM
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Usually the mother goes in the trap very quickly because she hears  
and smells the kittens.


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Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 3:39 PM
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Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken

I thought about that, actually, but I was also afraid of leaving  
kittens as they are traumatized..




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Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:38 PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken



A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens in a closed  
carrier directly infront of an opened, baited trap.


Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple of new things –

I rescued three baby cats yesterday who were living under the crawl  
space of the abandoned house, which is now bought and be ready to  
be renovated.. the new owner was planning to get rid of the kittens  
along with all the kitties who live under the crawl space and I  
offered to take them.  The babies were actually under the hole  
under the crawl space which only the size of my entire hand and  
thought I and Kathy (my rescue friend) were never going to be able  
to get them out… but finally using a little fish net to get one by  
one out – they were only 6 weeks old, one calico, one tabby and one  
turtleshell (?) and they are all so cute.




The one sad thing is that their mama came to look for the babies  
while we were under the crawl space, she was so worried about us  
doing something to the babies.. one time, I thought we should just  
leave and have the mama take care of the babies and I worry that  
later on, she might take babies some other crawl space near there  
(there a few, unfortunately), and people might close the crawl  
space without knowing that they were there.. the mama came back  
several times (while we were there as we were there for about 5  
hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I decided to take the babies  
from her..




I tried to trap the mama kitty last night but I couldn’t – there  
are several kitties there.. I trapped one who looked like mama..  
but she must be from mama’s previous litter – she is less than a  
year old..




Anyway, I wanted to ask you to pray that I will be able to catch  
mama soon (I probably could, if I don’t mind catching all other  
kitties who live there.. but I don’t know where I could put them  
now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama will stay safe  
and she will not be worrying too much about their babies. I am  
heartbroken for the mama –I feel very badly for taking the babies  
from their mama…I know that this is probably the right thing.. but  
I still cannot not think about the mama…












RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-12 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto








I am so sure that they are adoptable
---and I used to go to adoption clinic every single week a few years ago.. maybe
I did adopted out a couple of them during that time.. (I was very very
selective as to whom ) but considering the number that I have, considering the
amount of time I need to care for the ones I have.. I decided to spend time
taking care of them instead of finding a home for one or two in a year or two
which will not make much difference in my life..











From:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Susan Hoffman
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 5:35
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken





Senior and special needs cats are adoptable. It takes
longer and you work harder at it but I firmly believe that, somewhere, there's
a forever home for every foster cat in my care -- and that forever home is not
necessarily me. You just have to really work on finding adoptive homes.

Hideyo Yamamoto
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 



I am pretty well connected with the people
in the rescue group  I know them and they all know about me pretty
much.. all the people I know of, they are in some what similar situations as I
am they usually find a problem for ME to solve because they know that I
will not say NOand they are right.. I never say NO to any cats who need
a help and thats why I have what I have ---some are Felk, or FIV, or
injured, sick.. I nurture them back to health whenever I can.. and no one wants
the cats I have.. but instead they call me if I could take care of the ones
they find..



















From:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Susan Hoffman
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 5:17
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken













Where are you located? Perhaps there are other rescue people in
your area. Your really must join the freral cat group I referenced in my
earlier post. It's a nationwide group with close to 2000 members now.

Hideyo Yamamoto
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 







Hi, everyone, please understand  I
do spay and neuter whenever the opportunity there is  I dont even
want to tell you how many cats I have with me because its going to freak
everyone out  but I am saying that I simply dont have a space
right now to even temporarily keep them.. I am used up all the crates that I
have because I have trapped some moreI might have to catch ten or twenty
before I can get the mama, but the meantime, I dont have a place to
recover all of them thats my dilemma, otherwise I would have
gotten all of them right away.



























From:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Susan Hoffman
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 5:04
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: OT: heartbroken





















Several years ago when I trapped Cutie-Pie's babies one by one and
brought them inside, she cried and ran around the house looking for them at
first. But when she saw them in my foyer through the screen door she was fine.
She knew I had them. (They screamed like crazy for her but she was fine
with it.) Cutie-Pie was later trapped and spayed and then returned to my
backyard. She is an untouchable feral girl. Now she is a plump
plush little feral queen who presides over a colony of herself and 4 neutered
feral boys. They live in my backyard and basement, are spoiled rotten
(canned and dry food, catnip), and are very happy and safe there. In all
these years Cutie has never allowed me the pet her, even once, but she will sit
near me when I am outside and blink her eyes at me (throwing kisses).

janine paton
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 









I've also trapped moms using kittens for bait. It's
heartbreaking until you see the mom weeks after the
spay and she looks so much better and relaxed. 

Think of it this way - if you didn't try this - the
kittens will get bigger, she will have a harder time
caring for them. They will start wandering and
something could happen to them. She will get pregnant
again and not want that litter anymore. 

When I've brought a feral mom in with kittens and mom
sees I'm willing to take care of the kittens, she is
relieved and it's probably the first break she's had
in a long time. I've had mothers who are sick but you
wouldn't even know it until they understand they no
longer have pretend to be fine just because they have
kittens. 

I also will show the kittens to the mom when I can but
I always tell her it's OK, her babies are fine.

Take a deep breath and go for the spay - it will make
a big difference in her quality of life.



--- Nina <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote:

 I've done this with kittens and their Momma. I too
 was upset about 
 having to put the kittens through the experience,
 but it worked like a 
 charm and the kitten did fine. I didn't use all the
 kittens, just the 
 strongest guy. If you continue to trap, you'd be
 doing the ferals a 
 great service by having them s/n and then returning
 them to the site. I 
 kn

Off list - Re: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-12 Thread Nina




I get it girl. You don't have to explain why you do what you do to me,
or probably anyone else on the list. Just in case you were, don't take
offense, they were just trying to help. I don't know how anyone deals
with adoption. I have such a hard time letting go of anyone, which is
why we have so many! You're my hero. I don't know how you take care
of so many. I get so overwhelmed with my family and it's nothing like
yours. What's your secret? Vitamins?

Did you get the pictures I just sent? I sent them to Kerry too, but I
just realized she may have already left town. I called her back
yesterday, (I think it was yesterday, my mind has turned to mush and I
can't remember the simplest things), and she didn't return my call.
Isn't it wonderful news about not only Mickey testing neg, but Momma is
neg too still? She doesn't have anymore felv kitties in the house!!!
Hooray!! And the way she helped convince the money person behind PAWS
to add the felv shelter space! Kerry inspires me too. What a great
person she is. I love the way she looks for and acknowledges the
miracles in her life. It's so great that you got a chance to meet
her. I really would love to figure out a way for us all to get
together. I was talking to Jasmine the other day and she said that she
would be willing to travel for a workshop in AC if we could get enough
people interested. Maybe we could do that and all get together then.
What do you think?

How are all the new guys doing? Have you decided if you are going to
trap the Momma of the new guys yet? If you do, will you release her?
I know how hard it is to do. We have to start trusting that they will
be okay on their own path, without taking personal responsibility for
every one of them. I know, I know, easier said than done.

Much love to you my dear,
Nina

Hideyo Yamamoto wrote:

  
  


  
  
  I am so sure
that they are adoptable
---and I used to go to adoption clinic every single week a few years
ago.. maybe
I did adopted out a couple of them during that time.. (I was very very
selective as to whom ) but considering the number that I have,
considering the
amount of time I need to care for the ones I have.. I decided to spend
time
taking care of them instead of finding a home for one or two in a year
or two
which will not make much difference in my life..
  





RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto








Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple
of new things 

I rescued three baby cats yesterday who
were living under the crawl space of the abandoned house, which is now bought
and be ready to be renovated.. the new owner was planning to get rid of the
kittens along with all the kitties who live under the crawl space and I offered
to take them. The babies were actually under the hole under the crawl
space which only the size of my entire hand and thought I and Kathy (my rescue
friend) were never going to be able to get them out but finally using a
little fish net to get one by one out  they were only 6 weeks old, one
calico, one tabby and one turtleshell (?) and they are all so cute.



The one sad thing is that their mama came
to look for the babies while we were under the crawl space, she was so worried
about us doing something to the babies.. one time, I thought we should just
leave and have the mama take care of the babies and I worry that later on, she
might take babies some other crawl space near there (there a few,
unfortunately), and people might close the crawl space without knowing that
they were there.. the mama came back several times (while we were there as we
were there for about 5 hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I decided to take
the babies from her..



I tried to trap the mama kitty last night
but I couldnt  there are several kitties there.. I trapped one
who looked like mama.. but she must be from mamas previous litter 
she is less than a year old..



Anyway, I wanted to ask you to pray that I
will be able to catch mama soon (I probably could, if I dont mind
catching all other kitties who live there.. but I dont know where I could
put them now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama will stay safe and
she will not be worrying too much about their babies. I am heartbroken for the
mama I feel very badly for taking the babies from their mamaI
know that this is probably the right thing.. but I still cannot not think about
the mama










RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto








I thought about that, actually, but I was
also afraid of leaving kittens as they are traumatized..











From:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Joan Doljan
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:38
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken 





A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens in a closed
carrier directly infront of an opened,baitedtrap.

Hideyo Yamamoto
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 



Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple
of new things 





I rescued three baby cats yesterday who
were living under the crawl space of the abandoned house, which is now bought
and be ready to be renovated.. the new owner was planning to get rid of the
kittens along with all the kitties who live under the crawl space and I offered
to take them. The babies were actually under the hole under the crawl
space which only the size of my entire hand and thought I and Kathy (my rescue
friend) were never going to be able to get them out but finally using a
little fish net to get one by one out  they were only 6 weeks old, one
calico, one tabby and one turtleshell (?) and they are all so cute.











The one sad thing is that their mama came
to look for the babies while we were under the crawl space, she was so worried
about us doing something to the babies.. one time, I thought we should just
leave and have the mama take care of the babies and I worry that later on, she
might take babies some other crawl space near there (there a few,
unfortunately), and people might close the crawl space without knowing that
they were there.. the mama came back several times (while we were there as we
were there for about 5 hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I decided to take
the babies from her..











I tried to trap the mama kitty last night
but I couldnt  there are several kitties there.. I trapped one
who looked like mama.. but she must be from mamas previous litter
 she is less than a year old..











Anyway, I wanted to ask you to pray that I
will be able to catch mama soon (I probably could, if I dont mind catching
all other kitties who live there.. but I dont know where I could put
them now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama will stay safe and she
will not be worrying too much about their babies. I am heartbroken for the mama
I feel very badly for taking the babies from their mamaI know
that this is probably the right thing.. but I still cannot not think about the
mama


















RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread Doljan, Joan
Title: Message



Usually the mother goes in the trap very quickly because she hears and 
smells the kittens.

  
  -Original Message-From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Hideyo 
  YamamotoSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 3:39 PMTo: 
  felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbroken 
  
  
  I thought about that, 
  actually, but I was also afraid of leaving kittens as they are 
  traumatized..
  
  
  
  
  
  From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Joan DoljanSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:38 
  PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbroken 
  
  
  A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens 
  in a closed carrier directly infront of an 
  opened,baitedtrap.Hideyo Yamamoto 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 
  
  
  Hi, everyone, I 
  wanted to share a couple of new things 
  
  I rescued three baby 
  cats yesterday who were living under the crawl space of the abandoned house, 
  which is now bought and be ready to be renovated.. the new owner was planning 
  to get rid of the kittens along with all the kitties who live under the crawl 
  space and I offered to take them. The babies were actually under the 
  hole under the crawl space which only the size of my entire hand and thought I 
  and Kathy (my rescue friend) were never going to be able to get them out but 
  finally using a little fish net to get one by one out  they were only 6 weeks 
  old, one calico, one tabby and one turtleshell (?) and they are all so 
  cute.
  
  
  
  The one sad thing is 
  that their mama came to look for the babies while we were under the crawl 
  space, she was so worried about us doing something to the babies.. one time, I 
  thought we should just leave and have the mama take care of the babies and I 
  worry that later on, she might take babies some other crawl space near there 
  (there a few, unfortunately), and people might close the crawl space without 
  knowing that they were there.. the mama came back several times (while we were 
  there as we were there for about 5 hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I 
  decided to take the babies from her..
  
  
  
  I tried to trap the 
  mama kitty last night but I couldnt  there are several kitties there.. I 
  trapped one who looked like mama.. but she must be from mamas previous litter 
   she is less than a year old..
  
  
  
  Anyway, I wanted to 
  ask you to pray that I will be able to catch mama soon (I probably could, if I 
  dont mind catching all other kitties who live there.. but I dont know where 
  I could put them now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama will stay 
  safe and she will not be worrying too much about their babies. I am 
  heartbroken for the mama I feel very badly for taking the babies from their 
  mamaI know that this is probably the right thing.. but I still cannot not 
  think about the mama
  
  
  


RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
Title: Message








I guess if I were going to try, I should
try it asap before the mama forgets about her babies..huh?











From:
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Behalf Of Doljan, Joan
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:41
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken 







Usually the mother goes in the trap very
quickly because she hears and smells the kittens.





-Original Message-
From:
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Behalf Of Hideyo Yamamoto
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 3:39
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To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken 

I thought about that, actually, but I was
also afraid of leaving kittens as they are traumatized..











From:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Joan Doljan
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:38
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken 





A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens in a closed
carrier directly infront of an opened,baitedtrap.

Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote: 



Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple
of new things 





I rescued three baby cats yesterday who
were living under the crawl space of the abandoned house, which is now bought
and be ready to be renovated.. the new owner was planning to get rid of the
kittens along with all the kitties who live under the crawl space and I offered
to take them. The babies were actually under the hole under the crawl
space which only the size of my entire hand and thought I and Kathy (my rescue
friend) were never going to be able to get them out but finally using a
little fish net to get one by one out  they were only 6 weeks old, one
calico, one tabby and one turtleshell (?) and they are all so cute.











The one sad thing is that their mama came
to look for the babies while we were under the crawl space, she was so worried
about us doing something to the babies.. one time, I thought we should just
leave and have the mama take care of the babies and I worry that later on, she
might take babies some other crawl space near there (there a few,
unfortunately), and people might close the crawl space without knowing that
they were there.. the mama came back several times (while we were there as we
were there for about 5 hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I decided to take
the babies from her..











I tried to trap the mama kitty last night
but I couldnt  there are several kitties there.. I trapped one
who looked like mama.. but she must be from mamas previous litter
 she is less than a year old..











Anyway, I wanted to ask you to pray that I
will be able to catch mama soon (I probably could, if I dont mind
catching all other kitties who live there.. but I dont know where I
could put them now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama will stay
safe and she will not be worrying too much about their babies. I am heartbroken
for the mama I feel very badly for taking the babies from their
mamaI know that this is probably the right thing.. but I still cannot
not think about the mama




















RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread Doljan, Joan
Title: Message



Yes. I figure they have a memory of about 2 or 3 days at 
most.

  
  -Original Message-From: 
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  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Hideyo 
  YamamotoSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 3:43 PMTo: 
  felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbroken 
  
  
  I guess if I were 
  going to try, I should try it asap before the mama forgets about her 
  babies..huh?
  
  
  
  
  
  From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Doljan, JoanSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:41 
  PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbroken 
  
  
  
  Usually the mother 
  goes in the trap very quickly because she hears and smells the 
  kittens.
  
-Original 
Message-From: 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Hideyo 
YamamotoSent: Thursday, 
May 11, 2006 3:39 PMTo: 
felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbroken 

I thought about 
that, actually, but I was also afraid of leaving kittens as they are 
traumatized..





From: 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Joan DoljanSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:38 
PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbroken 


A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens 
in a closed carrier directly infront of an 
opened,baitedtrap.Hideyo Yamamoto 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 


Hi, everyone, I 
wanted to share a couple of new things 

I rescued three 
baby cats yesterday who were living under the crawl space of the abandoned 
house, which is now bought and be ready to be renovated.. the new owner was 
planning to get rid of the kittens along with all the kitties who live under 
the crawl space and I offered to take them. The babies were actually 
under the hole under the crawl space which only the size of my entire hand 
and thought I and Kathy (my rescue friend) were never going to be able to 
get them out but finally using a little fish net to get one by one out  
they were only 6 weeks old, one calico, one tabby and one turtleshell (?) 
and they are all so cute.



The one sad thing 
is that their mama came to look for the babies while we were under the crawl 
space, she was so worried about us doing something to the babies.. one time, 
I thought we should just leave and have the mama take care of the babies and 
I worry that later on, she might take babies some other crawl space near 
there (there a few, unfortunately), and people might close the crawl space 
without knowing that they were there.. the mama came back several times 
(while we were there as we were there for about 5 hours).. I felt very bad 
for mama but I decided to take the babies from 
her..



I tried to trap the 
mama kitty last night but I couldnt  there are several kitties there.. I 
trapped one who looked like mama.. but she must be from mamas previous 
litter  she is less than a year old..



Anyway, I wanted to 
ask you to pray that I will be able to catch mama soon (I probably could, if 
I dont mind catching all other kitties who live there.. but I dont know 
where I could put them now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama 
will stay safe and she will not be worrying too much about their babies. I 
am heartbroken for the mama I feel very badly for taking the babies from 
their mamaI know that this is probably the right thing.. but I still cannot 
not think about the mama





RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
Title: Message








I know.. thats so sad (or is it
blessing??)  I had one time rescued a mama kitten who got attacked by a
dog and got re-united with her babies after 4 or 5 days and she did not
remember the babies at all











From:
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On Behalf Of Doljan, Joan
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:44
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken 







Yes. I figure they have a memory of
about 2 or 3 days at most.





-Original Message-
From:
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[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Hideyo Yamamoto
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 3:43
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken 

I guess if I were going to try, I should
try it asap before the mama forgets about her babies..huh?











From:
[EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
On Behalf Of Doljan, Joan
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:41
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken 







Usually the mother goes in the trap very
quickly because she hears and smells the kittens.





-Original Message-
From:
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[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Hideyo Yamamoto
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 3:39
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken 

I thought about that, actually, but I was
also afraid of leaving kittens as they are traumatized..











From:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Joan Doljan
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:38
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken 





A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens in a closed
carrier directly infront of an opened,baitedtrap.

Hideyo Yamamoto
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 



Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple
of new things 





I rescued three baby cats yesterday who
were living under the crawl space of the abandoned house, which is now bought
and be ready to be renovated.. the new owner was planning to get rid of the
kittens along with all the kitties who live under the crawl space and I offered
to take them. The babies were actually under the hole under the crawl
space which only the size of my entire hand and thought I and Kathy (my rescue
friend) were never going to be able to get them out but finally using a
little fish net to get one by one out  they were only 6 weeks old, one
calico, one tabby and one turtleshell (?) and they are all so cute.











The one sad thing is that their mama came
to look for the babies while we were under the crawl space, she was so worried
about us doing something to the babies.. one time, I thought we should just
leave and have the mama take care of the babies and I worry that later on, she
might take babies some other crawl space near there (there a few, unfortunately),
and people might close the crawl space without knowing that they were there..
the mama came back several times (while we were there as we were there for
about 5 hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I decided to take the babies from
her..











I tried to trap the mama kitty last night
but I couldnt  there are several kitties there.. I trapped one
who looked like mama.. but she must be from mamas previous litter
 she is less than a year old..











Anyway, I wanted to ask you to pray that I
will be able to catch mama soon (I probably could, if I dont mind
catching all other kitties who live there.. but I dont know where I
could put them now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama will stay
safe and she will not be worrying too much about their babies. I am heartbroken
for the mama I feel very badly for taking the babies from their
mamaI know that this is probably the right thing.. but I still cannot
not think about the mama






















Re: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread Susan Hoffman
Is there a safe place to relocate momcat? I have a mini-colony of ferals in my back yard and two were relocated from another place to there.Hideyo, are you a member of the feral cat group yet? You may want to join. It's at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/feral_cats/Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:  I've done this with kittens and their Momma. I too was upset about having to put the kittens through the experience, but it worked like a charm and the kitten did fine. I didn't use all the kittens, just the strongest guy. If you continue to trap, you'd be doing the ferals a great service by having them s/n and then returning them to the site. I know you have problems with the "return" part of TNR, but please think
 about it, you would be saving kitties suffering down the line.Love to you sweetheart,NinaJoan Doljan wrote:   A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens in a closed carrier directly infront of an opened,baitedtrap.Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple of new things –  I rescued three baby cats yesterday who were living under the crawl space of the abandoned house, which is now bought and be ready to be renovated.. the new owner was planning to get rid of the kittens along
 with all the kitties who live under the crawl space and I offered to take them. The babies were actually under the hole under the crawl space which only the size of my entire hand and thought I and Kathy (my rescue friend) were never going to be able to get them out… but finally using a little fish net to get one by one out – they were only 6 weeks old, one calico, one tabby and one turtleshell (?) and they are all so cute.The one sad thing is that their mama came to look for the babies while we were under the crawl space, she was so worried about us doing something to the babies.. one time, I thought we should just leave and have the mama take care of the babies
 and I worry that later on, she might take babies some other crawl space near there (there a few, unfortunately), and people might close the crawl space without knowing that they were there.. the mama came back several times (while we were there as we were there for about 5 hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I decided to take the babies from her..I tried to trap the mama kitty last night but I couldn’t – there are several kitties there.. I trapped one who looked like mama.. but she must be from mama’s previous litter – she is less than a year old..Anyway, I wanted to ask you to pray that I will be able to catch mama soon (I probably could, if I don’t mind catching all other kitties who live there.. but I don’t know where I could put them now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama will stay safe and she will not be worrying too much about their babies. I am heartbroken for the mama –I feel very badly for taking the babies from their mama…I know that this is probably the right thing.. but I still cannot not think about the mama…  

Re: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread Susan Hoffman
Several years ago when I trapped Cutie-Pie's babies one by one and brought them inside, she cried and ran around the house looking for them at first. But when she saw them in my foyer through the screen door she was fine. She knew I had them. (They screamed like crazy for her but she was fine with it.) Cutie-Pie was later trapped and spayed and then returned to my backyard. She is an untouchable feral girl. Now she is a plump plush little feral queen who presides over a colony of herself and 4 neutered feral boys. They live in my backyard and basement, are spoiled rotten (canned and dry food, catnip), and are very happy and safe there. In all these years Cutie has never allowed me the pet her, even once, but she will sit near me when I am outside and blink her eyes at me (throwing kisses).janine paton [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:  I've also trapped moms using kittens for bait. It'sheartbreaking until you see the mom weeks after thespay and she looks so much better and relaxed. Think of it this way - if you didn't try this - thekittens will get bigger, she will have a harder timecaring for them. They will start wandering andsomething could happen to them. She will get pregnantagain and not want that litter anymore. When I've brought a feral mom in with kittens and momsees I'm willing to take care of the kittens, she isrelieved and it's probably the first break she's hadin a long time. I've had mothers who are sick but youwouldn't even know it until they understand they nolonger have pretend to be fine just because they havekittens. I also will show the kittens to the mom when I can butI always tell her it's OK, her babies are fine.Take a deep breath and go for the spay - it will
 makea big difference in her quality of life.--- Nina <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: I've done this with kittens and their Momma. I too was upset about  having to put the kittens through the experience, but it worked like a  charm and the kitten did fine. I didn't use all the kittens, just the  strongest guy. If you continue to trap, you'd be doing the ferals a  great service by having them s/n and then returning them to the site. I  know you have problems with the "return" part of TNR, but please think  about it, you would be saving kitties suffering down the line. Love to you sweetheart, Nina  Joan Doljan wrote:   A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens in a closed   carrier directly infront of an opened, baited trap.  
 */Hideyo Yamamoto <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>/* wrote:   Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple of new things -  I rescued three baby cats yesterday who were living under the  crawl space of the abandoned house, which is now bought and be  ready to be renovated.. the new owner was planning to get rid of  the kittens along with all the kitties who live under the crawl  space and I offered to take them. The babies were actually under  the hole under the crawl space which only the size of my entire  hand and thought I and Kathy (my rescue friend) were never going  to be able to get them out... but finally using a little fish net  to get one by one out - they were only 6 weeks old, one calico,  one tabby and one turtleshell (?) and they
 are all so cute.The one sad thing is that their mama came to look for the babies  while we were under the crawl space, she was so worried about us  doing something to the babies.. one time, I thought we should just  leave and have the mama take care of the babies and I worry that  later on, she might take babies some other crawl space near there  (there a few, unfortunately), and people might close the crawl  space without knowing that they were there.. the mama came back  several times (while we were there as we were there for about 5  hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I decided to take the babies  from her..I tried to trap the mama kitty last night but I couldn't - there  are several kitties there.. I
 trapped one who looked like mama..  but she must be from mama's previous litter - she is less than a  year old..Anyway, I wanted to ask you to pray that I will be able to catch  mama soon (I probably could, if I don't mind catching all other  kitties who live there.. but I don't know where I could put them  now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama will stay safe  and she will not be worrying too much about their babies. I am  heartbroken for the mama -I feel very badly for taking the babies  from their mama...I know that this is probably the right thing..  but I still cannot not think about the mama... 

RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread Susan Hoffman
Where are you located? Perhaps there are other rescue people in your area. Your really must join the feral cat group I referenced in my earlier post. It's a nationwide group with close to 2000 members now.Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:Hi, everyone, please understand – I do spay and neuter whenever the opportunity there is – I don’t even want
 to tell you how many cats I have with me because it’s going to freak everyone out – but I am saying that I simply don’t have a space right now to even temporarily keep them.. I am used up all the crates that I have because I have trapped some more…I might have to catch ten or twenty before I can get the mama, but the meantime, I don’t have a place to recover all of them… that’s my dilemma, otherwise I would have gotten all of them right away.From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Susan HoffmanSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 5:04 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Re: OT: heartbrokenSeveral years ago when I trapped Cutie-Pie's babies one by one and brought them inside, she cried and ran
 around the house looking for them at first. But when she saw them in my foyer through the screen door she was fine. She knew I had them. (They screamed like crazy for her but she was fine with it.) Cutie-Pie was later trapped and spayed and then returned to my backyard. She is an untouchable feral girl. Now she is a plump plush little feral queen who presides over a colony of herself and 4 neutered feral boys. They live in my backyard and basement, are spoiled rotten (canned and dry food, catnip), and are very happy and safe there. In all these years Cutie has never allowed me the pet her, even once, but she will sit near me when I am outside and blink her eyes at me (throwing kisses).janine paton [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:   I've also trapped moms using kittens for bait. It'sheartbreaking until you see the mom weeks after thespay and she looks so much better and relaxed. Think of it this way - if you didn't try this - thekittens will get bigger, she will have a harder timecaring for them. They will start wandering andsomething could happen to them. She will get pregnantagain and not want that litter anymore. When I've brought a feral mom in with kittens and momsees I'm willing to take care of the kittens, she isrelieved and it's probably the first break she's hadin a long time. I've had mothers who are sick but youwouldn't even know it until they understand they nolonger have pretend to be fine just because they havekittens. I also will show the kittens to the mom when I can butI always tell her it's OK, her babies are fine.Take a deep breath and go for the spay - it will
 makea big difference in her quality of life.--- Nina <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: I've done this with kittens and their Momma. I too was upset about  having to put the kittens through the experience, but it worked like a  charm and the kitten did fine. I didn't use all the kittens, just the  strongest guy. If you continue to trap, you'd be doing the ferals a  great service by having them s/n and then returning them to the site. I  know you have problems with the "return" part of TNR, but please think  about it, you would be saving kitties suffering down the line. Love to you sweetheart, Nina  Joan Doljan wrote:   A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens in a closed   carrier directly infront of an opened, baited trap.  
 */Hideyo Yamamoto <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>/* wrote:   Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple of new things -  I rescued three baby cats yesterday who were living under the  crawl space of the abandoned house, which is now bought and be  ready to be renovated.. the new owner was planning to get rid of  the kittens along with all the kitties who live under the crawl  space and I offered to take them. The babies were actually under  the hole under the crawl space which only the size of my entire  hand and thought I and Kathy (my rescue friend) were never going  to be able to get them out... but finally using a little fish net  to get one by one out - they were only 6 weeks old, one calico,  one tabby and one turtleshell (?) and they
 are all so cute.The one sad thing is that their mama came to look for the babies  while we were under the crawl space, she was so worried about us  doing something to the babies.. one time, I thought we should just  leave and have the mama take care of the babies and I worry that  later on, she might take babies some other crawl space near there  (there a few, unfortunately), and people might close the crawl  space without knowing that they were there.. the mama came back  several times (while we were there as we were there for about 5  hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I decided to take the babies  from her..I tried to trap the mama kitty last night but I couldn't - there  are several kitties there.. I
 trapped one who looked like mama..  but she must be from 

RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto








I am pretty well connected with the people
in the rescue group  I know them and they all know about me pretty much..
all the people I know of, they are in some what similar situations as I am they
usually find a problem for ME to solve because they know that I will not say NOand
they are right.. I never say NO to any cats who need a help and thats
why I have what I have ---some are Felk, or FIV, or injured, sick.. I nurture
them back to health whenever I can.. and no one wants the cats I have.. but
instead they call me if I could take care of the ones they find..











From:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Susan Hoffman
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 5:17
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: RE: OT: heartbroken





Where are you located? Perhaps there are other rescue people in
your area. Your really must join the freral cat group I referenced in my
earlier post. It's a nationwide group with close to 2000 members now.

Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote: 



Hi, everyone, please understand  I
do spay and neuter whenever the opportunity there is  I dont even
want to tell you how many cats I have with me because its going to freak
everyone out  but I am saying that I simply dont have a space
right now to even temporarily keep them.. I am used up all the crates that I
have because I have trapped some moreI might have to catch ten or twenty
before I can get the mama, but the meantime, I dont have a place to
recover all of them thats my dilemma, otherwise I would have
gotten all of them right away.



















From:
[EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
On Behalf Of Susan Hoffman
Sent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 5:04
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: OT: heartbroken













Several years ago when I trapped Cutie-Pie's babies one by one and
brought them inside, she cried and ran around the house looking for them at
first. But when she saw them in my foyer through the screen door she was
fine. She knew I had them. (They screamed like crazy for her but
she was fine with it.) Cutie-Pie was later trapped and spayed and then returned
to my backyard. She is an untouchable feral girl. Now she is a
plump plush little feral queen who presides over a colony of herself and 4
neutered feral boys. They live in my backyard and basement, are spoiled
rotten (canned and dry food, catnip), and are very happy and safe there.
In all these years Cutie has never allowed me the pet her, even once, but she
will sit near me when I am outside and blink her eyes at me (throwing kisses).

janine paton
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 





I've also trapped moms
using kittens for bait. It's
heartbreaking until you see the mom weeks after the
spay and she looks so much better and relaxed. 

Think of it this way - if you didn't try this - the
kittens will get bigger, she will have a harder time
caring for them. They will start wandering and
something could happen to them. She will get pregnant
again and not want that litter anymore. 

When I've brought a feral mom in with kittens and mom
sees I'm willing to take care of the kittens, she is
relieved and it's probably the first break she's had
in a long time. I've had mothers who are sick but you
wouldn't even know it until they understand they no
longer have pretend to be fine just because they have
kittens. 

I also will show the kittens to the mom when I can but
I always tell her it's OK, her babies are fine.

Take a deep breath and go for the spay - it will make
a big difference in her quality of life.



--- Nina <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote:

 I've done this with kittens and their Momma. I too
 was upset about 
 having to put the kittens through the experience,
 but it worked like a 
 charm and the kitten did fine. I didn't use all the
 kittens, just the 
 strongest guy. If you continue to trap, you'd be
 doing the ferals a 
 great service by having them s/n and then returning
 them to the site. I 
 know you have problems with the return part of
 TNR, but please think 
 about it, you would be saving kitties suffering down
 the line.
 Love to you sweetheart,
 Nina
 
 Joan Doljan wrote:
 
  A good way to catch the mother is to put the
 kittens in a closed 
  carrier directly infront of an opened, baited
 trap.
 
  */Hideyo Yamamoto
 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>/* wrote:
 
  Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple of
 new things -
  I rescued three baby cats yesterday who were
 living under the
  crawl space of the abandoned house, which is
 now bought and be
  ready to be renovated.. the new owner was
 planning to get rid of
  the kittens along with all the kitties who
 live under the crawl
  space and I offered to take them. The babies
 were actually under
  the hole under the crawl space which only the
 size of my entire
  hand and thought I and Kathy (my rescue
 friend) were never going
  to be able to get them out... but finally
 using a little fish net
  to get one by one out - they were only 6 weeks
 old, one c

RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread Susan Hoffman
Senior and special needs cats are adoptable. It takes longer and you work harder at it but I firmly believe that, somewhere, there's a forever home for every foster cat in my care -- and that forever home is not necessarily me. You just have to really work on finding adoptive homes.Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:I am pretty well connected with the people in the rescue group – I know them and they all know about me pretty much.. all the people I know of, they are in some what similar situations as I am –they usually find a problem for ME to solve because they know that I will not say NO…and they are right.. I never say NO to any cats who need a help and that’s why I have what I have ---some are Felk, or FIV, or injured, sick.. I nurture them back to health whenever I can.. and no one wants the cats I have.. but instead they call me if I could take care of the ones they find..From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Susan HoffmanSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 5:17 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbrokenWhere are you located? Perhaps there are other rescue people in your area. Your really must join the freral cat group I referenced in my earlier post. It's a nationwide group with close to 2000 members now.Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi, everyone, please understand – I do spay and neuter whenever the opportunity there is – I don’t even want to tell you how many cats I have with me because it’s going to freak everyone out – but I am saying that I simply don’t have a space right
 now to even temporarily keep them.. I am used up all the crates that I have because I have trapped some more…I might have to catch ten or twenty before I can get the mama, but the meantime, I don’t have a place to recover all of them… that’s my dilemma, otherwise I would have gotten all of them right away.From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Susan HoffmanSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 5:04 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Re: OT: heartbrokenSeveral years ago when I trapped Cutie-Pie's babies one by one and brought them inside, she cried and ran around the house looking for them at first. But when she saw them in my foyer through the screen door she was
 fine. She knew I had them. (They screamed like crazy for her but she was fine with it.) Cutie-Pie was later trapped and spayed and then returned to my backyard. She is an untouchable feral girl. Now she is a plump plush little feral queen who presides over a colony of herself and 4 neutered feral boys. They live in my backyard and basement, are spoiled rotten (canned and dry food, catnip), and are very happy and safe there. In all these years Cutie has never allowed me the pet her, even once, but she will sit near me when I am outside and blink her eyes at me (throwing kisses).janine paton [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I've also trapped moms using kittens
 for bait. It'sheartbreaking until you see the mom weeks after thespay and she looks so much better and relaxed. Think of it this way - if you didn't try this - thekittens will get bigger, she will have a harder timecaring for them. They will start wandering andsomething could happen to them. She will get pregnantagain and not want that litter anymore. When I've brought a feral mom in with kittens and momsees I'm willing to take care of the kittens, she isrelieved and it's probably the first break she's hadin a long time. I've had mothers who are sick but youwouldn't even know it until they understand they nolonger have pretend to be fine just because they havekittens. I also will show the kittens to the mom when I can butI always tell her it's OK, her babies are fine.Take a deep breath and go for the spay - it will makea big difference in her quality of life.--- Nina
 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: I've done this with kittens and their Momma. I too was upset about  having to put the kittens through the experience, but it worked like a  charm and the kitten did fine. I didn't use all the kittens, just the  strongest guy. If you continue to trap, you'd be doing the ferals a  great service by having them s/n and then returning them to the site. I  know you have problems with the "return" part of TNR, but please think  about it, you would be saving kitties suffering down the line. Love to you sweetheart, Nina  Joan Doljan wrote:   A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens in a closed   carrier directly infront of an opened, baited trap.   */Hideyo Yamamoto <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>/* wrote:
   Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple of new things -  I rescued three baby cats yesterday who were living under the  crawl space of the abandoned house, which is now bought and be  ready to be renovated.. the new owner was planning to get rid of  the kittens along with all the kitties who live under the crawl  space and I offered to take them. The babies were ac

Re: OT: heartbroken (feral cat assistance)

2006-05-11 Thread felv



Hideyo, where do you live? I can try to find another feral caretaker in 
your area, and see if they can help with holding space and cages. I'm part of a 
very large feral cat network. Email me DIRECTLY at [EMAIL PROTECTED] with all of your info, 
including your email address, city, state, and if you don't mind, a phone 
number. That way I can just copy your text and re-post it to a few resources I 
have, and see if anyone can help you. 
Phaewryn (was Jenn, changed name)http://ucat.us http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html 
Adopt a cat from Little Cheetah (UCAT) Cat Rescue:http://ucat.us/adopt.html PLEASE DONATE 
TO THE TANGLE FUND:Tangle is a cat in Greece that was severely injured when 
someone wrapped wire around his neck to strangle him,Little Cheetah Cat 
Rescue is raising funds to bring Tangle to Vermont to find him a good 
home!http://ucat.us/tangle-fund.htmlDONATE: 
We could really use a power saw (for construction), a digital camera (for 
pictures), and more towels! 
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Re: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread felv



http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FeralFriendsOnline/is 
another good one.

This is the main feral group I am on, it's the email list for Ally Cat 
Allies, really good list, lots of help, members all over the country. I'm also 
on a feral cat transport group, if anyone ever needs to relocate a colony or 
such.
Phaewryn (was Jenn, changed name)http://ucat.us http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html 
Adopt a cat from Little Cheetah (UCAT) Cat Rescue:http://ucat.us/adopt.html PLEASE DONATE 
TO THE TANGLE FUND:Tangle is a cat in Greece that was severely injured when 
someone wrapped wire around his neck to strangle him,Little Cheetah Cat 
Rescue is raising funds to bring Tangle to Vermont to find him a good 
home!http://ucat.us/tangle-fund.htmlDONATE: 
We could really use a power saw (for construction), a digital camera (for 
pictures), and more towels! 
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RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread catatonya
I understand how you feel. Have dealt with that problem with my feral dog pack. You HAVE to get them from the mother (and it's hard when they are chow and german shephard mixes!) or they don't have a chance of being socialized. I hope you can trap her.Where do you live, Hideyo? I am seriously considering taking in a positive kitten this summer.  tHideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple of new things –  I rescued three baby cats yesterday who were living under the crawl space of the abandoned house, which is now bought and be ready to be renovated..
 the new owner was planning to get rid of the kittens along with all the kitties who live under the crawl space and I offered to take them. The babies were actually under the hole under the crawl space which only the size of my entire hand and thought I and Kathy (my rescue friend) were never going to be able to get them out… but finally using a little fish net to get one by one out – they were only 6 weeks old, one calico, one tabby and one turtleshell (?) and they are all so cute.The one sad thing is that their mama came to look for the babies while we were under the crawl space, she was so worried about us doing something to the babies.. one time, I thought we
 should just leave and have the mama take care of the babies and I worry that later on, she might take babies some other crawl space near there (there a few, unfortunately), and people might close the crawl space without knowing that they were there.. the mama came back several times (while we were there as we were there for about 5 hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I decided to take the babies from her..I tried to trap the mama kitty last night but I couldn’t – there are several kitties there.. I trapped one who looked like mama.. but she must be from mama’s previous litter – she is less than a year old..Anyway, I wanted to ask you to pray that I will be able to catch mama soon (I probably could, if I don’t mind catching all other kitties who live there.. but I don’t know where I could put them now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama will stay safe and she will not be worrying too much about their babies. I am heartbroken for the mama –I feel very badly for taking the babies from their mama…I know that this is probably the right thing.. but I still cannot not think about the mama…  

RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread catatonya
True, but how do you get the kittens to stay in the back of the trap and not spring it on themselves.."Doljan, Joan" [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:  Usually the mother goes in the trap very quickly because she hears and smells the
 kittens.  -Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Hideyo YamamotoSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 3:39 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbroken I thought about that, actually, but I was also afraid of leaving kittens as they are traumatized..From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Joan DoljanSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:38 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbroken A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens in a closed carrier directly infront of an opened,baitedtrap.Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple of new things –I rescued three baby cats yesterday
 who were living under the crawl space of the abandoned house, which is now bought and be ready to be renovated.. the new owner was planning to get rid of the kittens along with all the kitties who live under the crawl space and I offered to take them. The babies were actually under the hole under the crawl space which only the size of my entire hand and thought I and Kathy (my rescue friend) were never going to be able to get them out… but finally using a little fish net to get one by one out – they were only 6 weeks old, one calico, one tabby and one turtleshell (?) and they are all so cute.The one sad thing is that their mama came to
 look for the babies while we were under the crawl space, she was so worried about us doing something to the babies.. one time, I thought we should just leave and have the mama take care of the babies and I worry that later on, she might take babies some other crawl space near there (there a few, unfortunately), and people might close the crawl space without knowing that they were there.. the mama came back several times (while we were there as we were there for about 5 hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I decided to take the babies from her..I tried to trap the mama kitty last night but I couldn’t – there are several kitties there.. I
 trapped one who looked like mama.. but she must be from mama’s previous litter – she is less than a year old..Anyway, I wanted to ask you to pray that I will be able to catch mama soon (I probably could, if I don’t mind catching all other kitties who live there.. but I don’t know where I could put them now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama will stay safe and she will not be worrying too much about their babies. I am heartbroken for the mama –I feel very badly for taking the babies from their mama…I know that this is probably the right thing.. but I still cannot not think about the mama…   
   

RE: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread catatonya
yes! maybe put one or two kittens only inside a little box at the back of the trap. she'll go in for them.Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:I guess if I were going to try, I should try it asap before the mama forgets
 about her babies..huh?From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Doljan, JoanSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:41 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbroken   Usually the mother goes in the trap very quickly because she hears and smells the kittens.-Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 On Behalf Of Hideyo YamamotoSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 3:39 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbroken   I thought about that, actually, but I was also afraid of leaving kittens as they are traumatized..From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Joan DoljanSent: Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:38 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: RE: OT: heartbroken A good way to catch the mother is to put the kittens in a closed carrier directly infront of an opened,baitedtrap.Hideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hi, everyone, I wanted to share a couple of new things –I rescued three baby cats yesterday who were living under the crawl space of the abandoned house, which is now bought and be ready to be renovated.. the new owner was planning to get rid of the kittens along with all the kitties who live under the crawl
 space and I offered to take them. The babies were actually under the hole under the crawl space which only the size of my entire hand and thought I and Kathy (my rescue friend) were never going to be able to get them out… but finally using a little fish net to get one by one out – they were only 6 weeks old, one calico, one tabby and one turtleshell (?) and they are all so cute.The one sad thing is that their mama came to look for the babies while we were under the crawl space, she was so worried about us doing something to the babies.. one time, I thought we should just leave and have the mama take care of the babies and I worry that
 later on, she might take babies some other crawl space near there (there a few, unfortunately), and people might close the crawl space without knowing that they were there.. the mama came back several times (while we were there as we were there for about 5 hours).. I felt very bad for mama but I decided to take the babies from her..I tried to trap the mama kitty last night but I couldn’t – there are several kitties there.. I trapped one who looked like mama.. but she must be from mama’s previous litter – she is less than a year old..Anyway, I wanted to ask you to pray that I will be able to catch mama soon (I probably could, if I don’t mind catching all other kitties who live there.. but I don’t know where I could put them now as I am running out of crate) --- and the mama will stay safe and she will not be worrying too much about their babies. I am heartbroken for the mama –I feel very badly for taking the babies from their mama…I know that this is probably the right thing.. but I still cannot not think about the mama…  

Re: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread Nina




Hi Tonya,
You put the kitten in a carrier and back the trap up to the door of the
carrier, cover both of them to make a tunnel. The mom hears and smells
the kitten and goes in the "tunnel" to investigate tripping the trap.
N

catatonya wrote:
True, but how do you get the kittens to stay in the back
of the trap and not spring it on themselves..
  
  "Doljan, Joan" [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  





Usually the mother goes in the trap very quickly
because she hears and smells the kittens.
  





Re: OT: heartbroken

2006-05-11 Thread TatorBunz




Yep that's me,
I'm a sucker for senior Meezers!
So they come to my home and live their time out sunbathing/eating whenever.
I also get calls that people are trying to place their senior meezersfor many reasons that most you know.
Idiots!

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Senior and special needs cats are adoptable. It takes longer and you work harder at it but I firmly believe that, somewhere, there's a forever home for every foster cat in my care -- and that forever home is not necessarily me. You just have to really work on finding adoptive homes.


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