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place for fear this year 


By Nitin Karani

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This is a piece I wrote for the January 2009 issue of Marie Claire India. (I
was asked to write about my wish for 2009 for the Indian queer community.)
Here's the PDF of the published piece <http://viewer.zoho.com/docs/uvuDe>
if it interests you.

Last year began on a very sour note for some of us. Barely had we said
goodbye to January than the Maharashtra Police orchestrated the drama of
busting a gay party, before it could commence, just outside Bombay (in
Thane) for the benefit of the TV media. The police officials got their 15
seconds of fame and managed to curry favour with the voyeuristic channels,
who in turn got their 'exclusives' and grabbed some filthy and some even
self-righteous viewers by their eyeballs.
Privacy has traditionally been at a discount in Indian society, with its
joint families, and gossipy maids and neighbours. So it is okay for you to
party and be featured in full colour, but those of us at society's margins
should get used to the police barging in, breaking up our parties, forcibly
outing us and parading us on national television like criminals and freaks?
The tamasha sent forth a wave of great fright among closeted gay people
around India.
Fear is what we, the people of India, gave ourselves on Independence. Fear
of the unknown, fear of the other. Fear that fed on ignorance of the other.
Fear of the majority, a majority that is itself fearful of what it chooses
to neither understand nor recognise. Fear of a shameful, relic of the
British, Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code, a law that makes an adult
like me criminal for life if the police can prove I made love with another
adult male. This fear nourishes the HIV epidemic among us.
Fear has caused us to forget that we also gave ourselves a constitution that
enshrines some human rights and enjoins each one of us to uphold them. So
the police can abdicate its duties to protect and fearlessly abuse its
powers. And the government can, through its infamous ex Home Minister and
his former minions, make perversions of these rights in writing to the Delhi
High Court, which is charged with public interest litigation (PIL) to read
down the shameful section that strikes fear in closeted hearts.
Freedom from fear should be theme in 2009, continuing from Mumbai's grand,
cosmopolitan-as-a-rainbow march for Queer Azaadi on 16 August, and the
June-end debut Pride parades of Delhi and Bangalore (Kolkata's annual march
against homophobia started nine years earlier when just 13 men mapped the
city, with the rest of the queer community staying in the shadows).
Freedom to question the assumption of being heterosexual without fear, the
man-woman definition of marriage, and the very importance of such a marriage
for a queer person. Freedom to love and live with a person of the same sex
without fear. Freedom to educate oneself about safer sex and use the
services of a health professional as a queer person, without the fear of
stigma, neglect and 'treatment for homosexuality' that occurs despite
prescribed Good Medical Practice and ethics. Freedom to be out at work
without fear of harassment or discrimination. Freedom from the fear of being
entrapped and blackmailed by a police stooge simply for being gay and
closeted. Freedom from hiding in the closet, wearing a mask, using an alias.
Freedom from the insecurities that come from being closeted. Freedom to live
without fear of losing one's dignity. Freedom from the fear of being treated
as less than equal by the law.
The march towards Freedom from fear will receive a boost if the Delhi High
Court makes the bigots in the government apparatus swallow a bitter PIL and
champions the human rights in the Indian Constitution. We will cover the
rest of the way forward with a little help from each other and each of our
families. Waiting for the dawn of a real Happy New Year. Meanwhile, here's
wishing you one!

 

 

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