Re: [Goanet]Re: Outside the group

2005-04-03 Thread Gabriel de Figueiredo
--- Vidyadhar Gadgil [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I personally would agree with the view that when it comes to marriage, Indians in general (and this includes all castes and creeds) are among the most prejudiced of all people. Even using the examples Fred gives (Gujrati with Punjabi etc.),

Re: [Goanet]Re: Outside the group

2005-04-01 Thread Mario Goveia
Vidyadhar, Some 5,000 years ago, we Indians wrote the manual on how to discriminate, so it is ironic when we complain about the discrimination practiced by others. However, I have noticed that young Indians in urban areas are marrying ouside the group in growing numbers, which probably reflects

[Goanet]Re: Outside the group

2005-04-01 Thread Vidyadhar Gadgil
I personally would agree with the view that when it comes to marriage, Indians in general (and this includes all castes and creeds) are among the most prejudiced of all people. Even using the examples Fred gives (Gujrati with Punjabi etc.), there are very few people who marry outside their own

[Goanet]RE: Outside the group?

2005-03-31 Thread D'Souza, Avelino
I hope the Blacks become affluent and redefine the connotation of beauty. Joshua has a friend who is Black and seems to like her.-:) I am sure your matrimonial flyer, in years to come, will be flooded for Black beauties.-:) Marrying a fair skin characteristically makes me a racist.-:)

Re: Re: [Goanet]Re: Outside the group?

2005-03-30 Thread Frederick Noronha (FN)
Of course, we are all racist, aren't we? And notions of race, class, caste and definitions of 'acceptability' are all linked in some way, isn't it? I think we should shift from discussing caste to talking about 'claste' (class + caste). FN - Original Message - From: Frederick Noronha

[Goanet]Re: Outside the group?

2005-03-30 Thread Frederick Noronha (FN)
I have asked this question before. How many Goans are married to Negroes/Blacks? As compared to Goans married to Caucasians or Mongoloids? (I hope I'm using the correct racial terms- but you know what I mean) Does say something about our prejudices doesn't it? Cecil Of course, who says we Goans