Re: [Goanet] The heartbreak of saying goodbye again and again

2018-02-20 Thread Venantius J Pinto
Mervyn— I believe she may be hearing the music. Something could vibrate in her brain. Hope. Cecilia and I will hold you both in our minds, and keep you both in our prayers. Remain in togetherness, (Learning this as we deal with something that has visited us too) —Venantius On Tue, Feb 20, 2018

[Goanet] The heartbreak of saying goodbye again and again

2018-02-20 Thread Mervyn Maciel
Many thanks Eugene and Venantius for your kind words and advice. Yes, Venantius, I do play many of her favourite tunes and not long ago, with the help of a cousin and good friend, recorded(on CD) many old favourites in which I sing(I've always loved singing and used to be an admirer of old Bing

Re: [Goanet] The heartbreak of saying goodbye again and again

2018-02-20 Thread Venantius J Pinto
Mervyn— Do play to her the music she like, or that you both did — connected with it and with each other. Perhaps you are already doing so. Last year I did a seminar on Creative Aging here in NY and learnt a few things there. Much affection, —Venantius On Tue, Feb 20, 2018 at 8:57 AM, Eugene

Re: [Goanet] The heartbreak of saying goodbye again and again

2018-02-20 Thread Eugene Correia
Sorry to learn about your wife. As we grow old, we fear the worst. Dementia is most threatening. I too forget at times, and will scared that Demntia or Alzeiimer's may be lurking behind it all. Take care, and may Goa give you strength to face the situation. Eugene On Mon, Feb 19, 2018 at 5:12

Re: [Goanet] The heartbreak of saying goodbye again and again

2018-02-19 Thread Gabe Menezes
On 19 February 2018 at 19:03, Mervyn Maciel < mervynels.watuwasha...@gmail.com> wrote: >Anne's touching poem was just the sort of tonic I needed since > for the past few months now, I have become the Main Carer for my > dear wife (Elsie) of 66 years who was diagnosed with dementia some >

Re: [Goanet] The heartbreak of saying goodbye again and again

2018-02-19 Thread Mervyn Maciel
Apologies folks! For 'poem' in my earlier post, please read "story". My mind must have been wandering at the time. Sorry! Mervyn Maciel On Mon, Feb 19, 2018 at 7:03 PM, Mervyn Maciel < mervynels.watuwasha...@gmail.com> wrote: >Anne's touching poem was just the sort of tonic I needed since

[Goanet] The heartbreak of saying goodbye again and again

2018-02-19 Thread Mervyn Maciel
Anne's touching poem was just the sort of tonic I needed since for the past few months now, I have become the Main Carer for my dear wife (Elsie) of 66 years who was diagnosed with dementia some months ago. Heartbreaking to see a once active and highly creative lady reduced to this state.