Old Subject: Re: With regrets, after many years I will no longer be following IBM-MAIN
New Subject: Re: Asking questions and learning.

On 9/4/23 12:36 AM, Brian Westerman wrote:
I think even the ones that abuse the list the most still provide assistance from time to time that is very useful.

This is why -- if I feel the need -- I'll create a filter rule to mark messages as read for specific criteria; sender, subject, age, etc., but leave them in situ. That way I can go back and read them if I want to.

I completely understand that oftentimes they want the person to RTFM, which makes a lot of sense because you also don't want the list to become a primary school.

Ya, "do my homework for me" type statements, not even questions, tend to become quite annoying quite quickly.

The "new guys" need to learn how to use the manuals and I think the "old guys" are trying to, in their own way, help them to see that using the manuals and figuring stuff out is a good thing.

Most of the time I try to refer people to specific sections of specific manuals or suggest a set of search criteria that I think will get people close to what they are looking for or trying to understand. Occasionally I'll even suggest something that's more background reading, telling them as such, and a reason why they should read more than just the section with the answer they seek. Often I append after you've done that, let's have a conversation based on what you will have read. Or something to that effect.

N.B. I'm perfectly fine with shoes on the other feet and find advice like above to be quite helpful.

Where it becomes an issue is when the newbie honestly can't figure it out and may have truly tried to find the solution on their own.

Agreed.

It might be helpful for them, in fact everyone, to disclose what you have already tried or read about, that way everyone will see that they are trying and won't just kiss them off as using the list instead of manuals (and the internet) as opposed to using it in conjunction with attempting to learn.

Absolutely.

This is the "do my homework assignment" thing I was describing above.

What have you read on the topic, what have you tried, why were the results not satisfactory, what are you trying to achieve, etc. These are all things that help the people who you are trying to get to help you.

Sometimes they may have actually read the solution, but just don't see it as such, and by disclosing what they have tried so far will allow people to let them know where they missed something. I think that no one likes to think that the guy asking the question is not even really trying to work the problem. But without disclosing the path they are currently on, we have no way to know otherwise.

I was talking with someone the other day whom, for various reasons, they felt that they could not demonstrate failure in front of others. As such, asking for help was sometimes very hard for them. They felt it easier to try multiple different things and fail than to potentially demonstrate failure.

There are many reasons people do what they do and there are as many different ways that people learn.

Just a thought.

:-)



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