semoga ada manfaatnya buat kita semua > > > 10 Amalan Yang Terbalik > > _____ > > Kadang-kadang kita dapati amalan kita adalah terbalik atau > bertentangan dari apa yang patut dilakukan dan dituntut oleh Islam. > Mungkin kita tidak sedar atau berikut-ikut dengan budaya hidup orang > lain. > > Perhatikan apa yang dipaparkan dibawah sebagai contoh amalan yang > terbalik: > 1. Amalan kenduri arwah/ slamatan beberapa malam yang dilakukan oleh > keluarga si mati selepas sesuatu kematian (malam pertama, kedua, > ketiga, ketujuh dan seterusnya) adalah terbalik dari apa yang > dianjurkan oleh Rasulullah dimana Rasulullah telah menganjurkan jiran > tetangga memasak makanan untuk keluarga si mati untuk meringankan > kesusahan dan kesedihan mereka. Keluarga tersebut telah ditimpa > kesedihan, terpaksa pula menyedia makanan dan belanja untuk mereka > yang datang membaca tahlil. Tidakkah mereka yang hadir makan kenduri > tersebut khuatir kalau-kalau mereka termakan harta anak yatim yang > ditinggalkan oleh si mati atau harta peninggalan si mati yang belum > dibahagikan kepada yang berhak menurut Islam? > > 2. Kalau hadir ke kenduri walimatul urus (kenduri kahwin) orang kerap > salam berisi (hadiah uang yang diberi semasa bersalam). Kalau tak ada > duit > nak dikepit dalam tangan, maka segan ia untukl pergi makan kenduri. > Tetapi > kalau ia menziarah orang mati, tidak segan pula salam tak berisi. > Sepatutnya kalau menziarah keluarga si matilah kita patut memberi > sedekah. > Kalau ke kenduri kahwin, tak memberi pun tak apa kerana tuan rumah > yang > mengundang untuk beri memberi restu kepada mempelai & makan bukan > untuk ia menambah pendapatan. > > 3. Ketika menghadiri majlis pemimpin negara kita berpakaian bagus > rapih > dan indah tetapi bila menghadap Allah baik di rumah maupun di masjid, > pakaian yang pas-pasan saja bahkan ada yang tak berbaju. Tidakkah ini > suatu > perbuatan yang terbalik. > > 4. Kalau menjadi tetamu di rumah orang dan diberi jamuan, kita merasa > segan > untuk makan sampai habis apa yang dihidangkan kerana rasa segan dan > malu, > padahal yang dituntut supaya makan apa yang dihidang dengan begitu > tuan rumah merasa gembira dan tidak mubazir. > > 5. Kalau sholat sunah di masjid amat rajin, tapi kalau di rumah, > sangat > malas. Sedangkan sebaik-baiknya solat sunah banyak dilakukan di rumah > seperti yang dianjurkan oleh Rasulullah untuk menghindari rasa riya'. > > 6. Bulan puasa adalah bulan mendidik nafsu termasuk nafsu makan yang > berlebihan tetapi kebanyakan orang mengaku bahawa dalam cara-cara > perbelanjaan setiap rumah orang Islam akan kita dapati perbelanjaan di > bulan puasa adalah yang tertinggi dalam setahun. Sedangkan sepatutnya > perbelanjaan di bulan puasa harusnya yang terendah. Bukankah terbalik > amalan kita? > > 7. Kalau untuk mengerjakan haji, kebanyakan orang akan membuat kenduri > sebelum bertolak ke Mekah dan apabila kembali dari Mekah tidak ada > kenduri > apa pun. Anjuran berkenduri dalam Islam antaranya ialah kerana selamat > dari > bermusafir (perjalanan yang jauh), maka dibuat kenduri. Bukan kerana > akan > bermusafir, maka dibuat kenduri. Bukankah amalan ini terbalik? Atau > kita mempunyai tujuan lain... > > 8. Semua ibubapa amat bimbang kalau-kalau anak-anak mereka gagal dalam > ujian. Maka dihantarlah ke tempat-tempat kursus walaupun banyak > biayanya. Tapi kalau anak tidak bisa baca Quran atau sholat, mereka > tidak bimbang pula bahkan tak mau mengantar ke tempat kursus baca > Quran atau kelas khusus mempelajari Islam. Kalau guru kursus sanggup > dibayar sebulan Rp 300,000 untuk satu pelajaran dan 8 kali kehadiran > saja tapi kepada Ustadz Qur'an/ belajar mengaji hanya Rp 100,000 > padahal sebulan 20 kali kehadiran untuk belajar..Bukankah terbalik > amalan kita? Kita sepatutnya lebih malu jika anak > tidak dapat baca Al Quran atau Sholat dari pada tidak lulus ujian. > > 9. Kalau bekerja mengejar rezeki Allah tak kira siang malam, pagi > petang, > mesti pergi kerja. Hujan atau ribut tetap diharungi kerana hendak > mematuhi > peraturan kerja. Tapi ke rumah Allah (masjid) tidak hujan, tidak > panas, tidak > ribut pun tetap tidak datang ke masjid. Sungguh tidak tahu malu > manusia begini, rezeki Allah diminta tapi untuk mampir ke rumah Nya > segan dan malas. > > 10. Seorang isteri kalau mau keluar rumah dengan suami atau tidak, > bukan main dia berhiasnya. Tetapi kalau duduk di rumah, masyaAllah. > Sedangkan yang dituntut seorang isteri itu berhias untuk suaminya, > bukan > berhias untuk orang lain. Perbuatan amalan yang terbalik ini > membuatkan > rumahtangga kurang bahagia. > > Cukup dengan contoh-contoh di atas. Marilah kita berlapang dada > menerima > hakikat sebenarnya. Marilah kita beralih kepada kebenaraan agar hidup > kita > menurut landasan dan ajaran Islam yang sebenar bukan yang digubah > mengikuti selera kita. Allah yang mencipta kita maka biarlah Allah > yang menentukan peraturan hidup kita. Sabda Rasullullah SAW: > "Sampaikanlah pesan-ku walaupun hanya satu ayat." > (Riwayat Bukhari) > > ISLAM ADALAH RAHMATAN LIL 'ALAMIIN > HIDUP MULIA ATAU MATI SYAHID > KEEP UKHUWAH, SMILE AND ISTIQOMAH > > >
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