Re: Rude responses

2013-08-27 Thread Abdussalam Baryun
...@ietf.org [ietf-boun...@ietf.org] On Behalf Of Abdussalam Baryun [abdussalambar...@gmail.com] Sent: 25 August 2013 12:27 To: Pete Resnick Cc: dcroc...@bbiw.net; ietf@ietf.org Subject: Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF

Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?)

2013-08-27 Thread Tim Chown
Isn't there supposed to be a sergeant-at-arms to handle inappropriate behaviour on this list? Though the last I recall that was Jordi, and that was probably ten years ago... Though it would be preferable if everyone were a bit more respectful of other posters, whether new or veteran. Tim

Re: Rude responses

2013-08-27 Thread JORDI PALET MARTINEZ
2013 05:50 Para: l.w...@surrey.ac.uk CC: ietf ietf@ietf.org Asunto: Re: Rude responses On Mon, Aug 26, 2013 at 5:36 PM, l.w...@surrey.ac.uk wrote: I experienced rude respondings in IETF list That would be when you tried to get April 1 RFCs discontinued. No, I experienced rude response from

Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?)

2013-08-27 Thread JORDI PALET MARTINEZ
I'm Š I was traveling and not having access to email Š Regards, Jordi -Mensaje original- De: Tim Chown t...@ecs.soton.ac.uk Responder a: t...@ecs.soton.ac.uk Fecha: martes, 27 de agosto de 2013 06:51 Para: ietf ietf@ietf.org Asunto: Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?) Isn't

Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?)

2013-08-27 Thread Ted Lemon
FWIW, if we are going to go down that road, it would be worth noting that there are various kinds of rudeness that can occur on IETF mailing lists. To my mind, the most harmful of these is not outright rudeness. Outright rudeness is to be avoided, certainly. But the most rude behavior that

Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?)

2013-08-27 Thread Scott Brim
On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 1:11 PM, Ted Lemon ted.le...@nominum.com wrote: But the most rude behavior that ever occurs on IETF mailing lists is not listening. Not trying to understand what the person who is speaking to you has said. Not trying to figure out if what they said meaningfully

Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?)

2013-08-27 Thread Melinda Shore
On 8/27/13 9:11 AM, Ted Lemon wrote: I would expect the sergeant-at-arms to be reining in that sort of rudeness before reining in the sort of supposed overt rudeness that we are discussing here. That suggestion makes me want to say something a little rude. Managing the discussion is the

Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?)

2013-08-27 Thread Ted Lemon
On Aug 27, 2013, at 1:20 PM, Scott Brim scott.b...@gmail.com wrote: IMHO that's not a job for the sergeant at arms. The SAA is responsible for how things are said. The shepherd -- or supershepherd or whatever -- would be responsible for the substance. I think it should be fairly obvious

Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?)

2013-08-27 Thread John Leslie
Ted Lemon ted.le...@nominum.com wrote: I think it should be fairly obvious even to one not practiced in the art that a lot of the postings to the ietf mailing list recently have been simple repeats of points previously made, with no additional substance, +1 Alas, that statement

Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?)

2013-08-27 Thread S Moonesamy
At 10:11 27-08-2013, Ted Lemon wrote: But the most rude behavior that ever occurs on IETF mailing lists is not listening. Not trying to understand what the person who is speaking to you has said. Not trying to figure out if what they said meaningfully contradicts your own position, and not

Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?)

2013-08-27 Thread Ted Lemon
On Aug 27, 2013, at 3:08 PM, John Leslie j...@jlc.net wrote: I feel sorry for Ted, who _does_ have to evaluate consensus here. Actually no, I don't—spfbis is apps area, not int area. Lucky me... :)

Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?)

2013-08-27 Thread Pete Resnick
On 8/27/13 2:53 PM, Ted Lemon wrote: On Aug 27, 2013, at 3:08 PM, John Lesliej...@jlc.net wrote: I feel sorry for Ted, who _does_ have to evaluate consensus here. Actually no, I don't—spfbis is apps area, not int area. Lucky me... :) See the message I just posted. Yes,

Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?)

2013-08-27 Thread Phillip Hallam-Baker
Sometimes there is a need for sarcasm. I find it very rude when people begin by lecturing a Working Group on the 'fact' that nobody understands the subject matter. This is not the exhibition of modesty etc. that it pretends to be, it is actually a trap designed to gull the WG into agreeing that

Re: Rude responses (sergeant-at-arms?)

2013-08-27 Thread S Moonesamy
Hi Phillip, At 15:53 27-08-2013, Phillip Hallam-Baker wrote: What I found incredibly rude was when an AD and Working Group chair actually hissed when I gave my company name at the mic. I submitted draft-moonesamy-ietf-conduct-3184bis During the discussions (see thread at

RE: Rude responses

2013-08-26 Thread l.wood
/L.Wood/ From: ietf-boun...@ietf.org [ietf-boun...@ietf.org] On Behalf Of Abdussalam Baryun [abdussalambar...@gmail.com] Sent: 25 August 2013 12:27 To: Pete Resnick Cc: dcroc...@bbiw.net; ietf@ietf.org Subject: Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF) for Authorizing Use of Domains in Email, Version 1) to Proposed Standard)

2013-08-25 Thread Abdussalam Baryun
I experienced rude respondings in IETF list and in one WG list, I don't beleive that it is culture of IETF participants, but it seems that some people should understand to be polite and reasonable in such organisation business. Finally, the rude responding is not controled by the chair of thoes

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt

2013-08-25 Thread Abdussalam Baryun
Hi Aaron, I will add that it depends on that is there some one stopping rude actions in IETF, or is it just free to post any respond. I know that the procedure of IETF does mention such actions, but I don't see practicings so far, AB On Fri, Aug 23, 2013 at 2:20 AM, Aaron Yi DING

RE: The Last Call social contract (was - Re: Rude responses)

2013-08-23 Thread Dave Cridland
On 23 Aug 2013 04:22, l.w...@surrey.ac.uk wrote: LC should not be treated as a right of passage, to test the patience of folks who have developed a document. rite? Right - right or rite? Lloyd Wood http://sat-net.com/L.Wood/

Re: The Last Call social contract (was - Re: Rude responses)

2013-08-23 Thread Scott Brim
On Thu, Aug 22, 2013 at 11:12 PM, Dave Crocker d...@dcrocker.net wrote: In pragmatic terms, the current operational model for a LC (and IESG) review tends to enforce no rules or limits to what can be challenged or suggested, while simultaneously expecting those who have been doing the work to

Re: The Last Call social contract (was - Re: Rude responses)

2013-08-23 Thread Dave Crocker
On 8/23/2013 11:06 AM, Scott Brim wrote: We don't have to be like the ones we all know who sneer at anyone presuming to get in the way of their code going into production. Since this is such a fundamental point, I'm sending this reply to emphasize: The concern I expressed had nothing at

Re: The Last Call social contract (was - Re: Rude responses)

2013-08-23 Thread Hector Santos
Dave Crocker wrote: On 8/23/2013 11:06 AM, Scott Brim wrote: We don't have to be like the ones we all know who sneer at anyone presuming to get in the way of their code going into production. Since this is such a fundamental point, I'm sending this reply to emphasize: The concern I

Re: The Last Call social contract (was - Re: Rude responses)

2013-08-23 Thread S Moonesamy
Hi Dave, I read the messages on this thread. I suggested to the participant to comment. I am okay with the comments which were made. I had an off-list exchange before the message that generated the other thread. The exchange was not antagonistic. Some people read please read the

Re: The Last Call social contract (was - Re: Rude responses)

2013-08-23 Thread Phillip Hallam-Baker
On Fri, Aug 23, 2013 at 3:46 PM, Dave Crocker d...@dcrocker.net wrote: On 8/23/2013 11:06 AM, Scott Brim wrote: We don't have to be like the ones we all know who sneer at anyone presuming to get in the way of their code going into production. Since this is such a fundamental point, I'm

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF) for Authorizing Use of Domains in Email, Version 1) to Proposed Standard)

2013-08-22 Thread Pete Resnick
On 8/21/13 4:40 PM, Dave Crocker wrote: On 8/21/2013 12:46 PM, Pete Resnick wrote: It is not your complaint about the imposition of new requirements that is problematic, or your point that it is not useful to continue that line of discussion. Talk about the utility of a comment all that you

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF) for Authorizing Use of Domains in Email, Version 1) to Proposed Standard)

2013-08-22 Thread Scott Brim
On Thu, Aug 22, 2013 at 10:22 AM, Pete Resnick presn...@qti.qualcomm.comwrote: Some folks have simply dismissively said, Go read the archive, without pointers. Pete, I like your position, but I believe go read the archive or the equivalent will continue to be a standard response unless

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF) for Authorizing Use of Domains in Email, Version 1) to Proposed Standard)

2013-08-22 Thread Thomas Narten
Barry Leiba barryle...@computer.org writes: The general point is that the new people whom we want to draw in as productive participants will be watching how we treat each other and deciding whether they want to wade into that pool. It's not just new people watching and being turned off.

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF) for Authorizing Use of Domains in Email, Version 1) to Proposed Standard)

2013-08-22 Thread Pete Resnick
OK, direct question; I'll take the (short) time to give a direct answer. On 8/22/13 9:53 AM, Scott Brim wrote: Pete, I like your position, but I believe go read the archive or the equivalent will continue to be a standard response unless someone is responsible for giving a more thorough

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt

2013-08-22 Thread Aaron Yi DING
On 22/08/13 16:01, Thomas Narten wrote: Barry Leiba barryle...@computer.org writes: The general point is that the new people whom we want to draw in as productive participants will be watching how we treat each other and deciding whether they want to wade into that pool. It's not just new

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF) for Authorizing Use of Domains in Email, Version 1) to Proposed Standard)

2013-08-22 Thread Barry Leiba
Pete, I like your position, but I believe go read the archive or the equivalent will continue to be a standard response unless someone is responsible for giving a more thorough response. Who do you think that should be? If you've had the most fleeting look at this:

RE: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF) for Authorizing Use of Domains in Email, Version 1) to Proposed Standard)

2013-08-22 Thread l.wood
I can't myself think of a good justification for sarcasm, (well, maybe [1]:-) good sarcasm is like good protocol design - many can recognise it, some can appreciate it, few can truly understand its nuances, and even fewer can create it. You're just not one of them. Lloyd Wood

The Last Call social contract (was - Re: Rude responses)

2013-08-22 Thread Dave Crocker
Pete, et al, On 8/22/2013 7:22 AM, Pete Resnick wrote: So, now at the point of IETF LC, the correct thing to happen is to let folks make their objections, point them to places in the prior conversation where the WG, the chairs, the ADs, and assorted other folks became convinced, and see if

RE: The Last Call social contract (was - Re: Rude responses)

2013-08-22 Thread l.wood
LC should not be treated as a right of passage, to test the patience of folks who have developed a document. rite? Lloyd Wood http://sat-net.com/L.Wood/

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF) for Authorizing Use of Domains in Email, Version 1) to Proposed Standard)

2013-08-21 Thread Pete Resnick
On 8/21/13 2:17 PM, Dave Crocker wrote: On 8/21/2013 11:58 AM, Pete Resnick wrote: AD hat squarely on my head. On 8/21/13 1:29 PM, Dave Crocker wrote: Oh. Now I understand. You are trying to impose new requirements on the original work, many years after the IETF approved it. Thanks. Very

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF) for Authorizing Use of Domains in Email, Version 1) to Proposed Standard)

2013-08-21 Thread Dave Crocker
On 8/21/2013 12:46 PM, Pete Resnick wrote: It is not your complaint about the imposition of new requirements that is problematic, or your point that it is not useful to continue that line of discussion. Talk about the utility of a comment all that you want. It is the sarcasm and the rudeness

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF) for Authorizing Use of Domains in Email, Version 1) to Proposed Standard)

2013-08-21 Thread Barry Leiba
In this conversation between Pete and Dave, there's one point that's come up which has come up often enough that I want to call it out separately for comment: the only purpose it seems to serve is to bully others into not participating in the conversation. You think I could bully Patrik?

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF) for Authorizing Use of Domains in Email, Version 1) to Proposed Standard)

2013-08-21 Thread Stephen Farrell
On 08/21/2013 11:13 PM, Barry Leiba wrote: The general point is that the new people whom we want to draw in as productive participants will be watching how we treat each other and deciding whether they want to wade into that pool. Yes, that is a factor that merits attention. But not the

Re: Rude responses (Was: Last Call: draft-ietf-spfbis-4408bis-19.txt (Sender Policy Framework (SPF) for Authorizing Use of Domains in Email, Version 1) to Proposed Standard)

2013-08-21 Thread S Moonesamy
Hello, Lars Eggert mentioned [1] the following: cool off, take the intensity out of the discussion, and try to provide data/facts for your different standpoints, so the rest of us who are sitting on the sidelines watching the fireworks can form an opinion. Regards, S. Moonesamy 1.