Re: [IslamCity] A Woman Performing a Wedding(nikah) Ceremony/please answer

2005-04-21 Thread Hyder binJameel


bismiAllah

wassalamu3alikum wara7matuAllahi wabarakatuhu

Mr Moh7hammad  in this post as a question it is quite
clear that it was your question.

BUT TO ME IT IS VERY IMPORTANT WHO ANSWERED THAT
QUESTION  OF YOURS. I WONDER IF HE EVER UNDERSTOOD
YOUR QUESTION. AND IF HE  ANSWERED WHAT IS HIS
EVIDENCE OF ANSWERING IT. PLEASE REPLY TO US.

Allah reward you with your intentions ameen.

Hyder binJameel
--- Muhammed [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 A Woman Performing a Wedding (Nikah) Ceremony
 -
 
 
 
 
 Question:
 
 At a recent wedding, a woman performed the nikah
 (i.e. doing the khutbah and presiding over the
 ceremony). Are there any specific rules to a person
 officiating a nikah, or is it simply a contract
 which anyone can perform?
 
 -
 
 Answer:
 
 In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful and
 Compassionate
 
 There is nothing legally wrong with a Muslim woman
 performing a wedding (nikah) ceremony. Women have
 full legal agency in the Shariah, and have the right
 to initiate their own marriages, to act as agents
 (wakeel) for others to marry, and to oversee the
 marriage of others.
 
 
 A nikah does not actually legally require a
 religious figure (an imam or shaykh or mawlana) to
 conduct it. Rather, its obligatory elements--as
 detailed more thoroughly in related answers--are: a
 valid offer from one side and a valid corresponding
 acceptance from the other; and witnesses who hear
 this offer and acceptance while knowing that what is
 happening is a marriage.
 
 However, it is recommended to have someone of
 learning, wisdom, and piety involved in this
 process, in order to ensure that the marriage is
 legally sound, pleasing to Allah (by not falling
 into errors of social or religious judgement), and
 blessed.
 
 And Allah alone gives success.
 
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Re: Re: [IslamCity] A Woman Performing a Wedding(nikah) Ceremony

2005-04-21 Thread abdeen








  







  Assalamualaikum
  Mohamed Aslam,
  What is now happening:-
  Both parents agree and fix the wedding+ nikah.
  While the bride is elsewhere, the groom with 
  the 2 witness etc., and the Muslim registrar of 
  marriages perform the nikah ceremony:
  He recites something from the Quran and then fill up 
  the forms and get the 2 witnesses to sign and the 
  guardian of the bride holds the hand of the groom 
  and repeat in Arabic what is said by the registrar 
  that he (the groom)accepts so and so as his legal wife 
  followed by a short du'ah.
  
  Inorder isn't it 
  ?
  abdeen
  
  
  ---Original Message---
  
  
  From: islamcity@yahoogroups.com
  Date: Tuesday, April 
  19, 2005 4:06:35 PM
  To: islamcity@yahoogroups.com
  Subject: [Norton 
  AntiSpam] Re: [IslamCity] A Woman Performing a Wedding(nikah) 
  Ceremony
  
  Assalaamu ^Alaykum
  
  Ok, hld on now. The basic conditions for an Islamic marriage 
  contract to be valid are to have a Muslim man, a Muslim, christian or 
  jewish woman, and two reliable Muslim male witnesses. The only time there 
  MUST be another person involved is if the contract is being performed 
  according to Imam ash-Shafa^iyy, when there must be a person of a certain 
  religious status (Shaykh), or if the girl is under age, and she must have 
  a Waliyy to give her in marriage. If these conditions are not met, then 
  the contract is not valid. 
  
  A woman can give herself in marriage, but men must officiate and 
  witness the contract.
  
  and Allah knows bestMuhammed 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  

A Woman Performing a Wedding (Nikah) 
Ceremony



Question:
At a recent wedding, a woman performed the nikah (i.e. doing the 
khutbah and presiding over the ceremony). Are there any specific rules 
to a person officiating a nikah, or is it simply a contract which anyone 
can perform?


Answer:
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful and Compassionate
There is nothing legally wrong with a Muslim woman performing a 
wedding (nikah) ceremony. Women have full legal agency in the Shariah, 
and have the right to initiate their own marriages, to act as agents 
(wakeel) for others to marry, and to oversee the marriage of 
others.
A nikah does not actually legally require a religious figure 
(an imam or shaykh or mawlana) to conduct it. Rather, its obligatory 
elements--as detailed more thoroughly in related answers--are: a valid 
offer from one side and a valid corresponding acceptance from the other; 
and witnesses who hear this offer and acceptance while knowing that what 
is happening is a marriage.
However, it is recommended to have someone of learning, wisdom, and 
piety involved in this process, in order to ensure that the marriage is 
legally sound, pleasing to Allah (by not falling into errors of social 
or religious judgement), and blessed.
And Allah alone gives success.
Wassalam,
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online. 
***{Invite 
(mankind, O Muhammad ) to the Way of your Lord (i.e. Islam) with wisdom 
(i.e. with the Divine Inspiration and the Qur'an) and fair preaching, 
and argue with them in a way that is better. Truly, your Lord knows best 
who has gone astray from His Path, and He is the Best Aware of those who 
are guided.} (Holy Quran-16:125){And who is better in speech 
than he who [says: "My Lord is Allah (believes in His Oneness)," and 
then stands straight (acts upon His Order), and] invites (men) to 
Allah's (Islamic Monotheism), and does righteous deeds, and says: "I am 
one of the Muslims."} (Holy Quran-41:33)The prophet (peace and 
blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "By Allah, if Allah guides one 
person by you, it is better for you than the best types of camels." 
[al-Bukhaaree, Muslim] The prophet (peace and blessings of Allah 
be upon him) also said, "Whoever calls to guidance will have a 
reward similar to the reward of the one who follows him, without the 
reward of either of them being lessened at all." [Muslim, Ahmad, 
Aboo Daawood, an-Nasaa'ee, at-Tirmidhee, Ibn Maajah] 
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Re: [IslamCity] A Woman Performing a Wedding(nikah) Ceremony

2005-04-20 Thread Abdul Wahid Osman Belal



Does it not require the reading of khutbah? Is it valid in the absence of khutbah? Is it not a departure from the established practice among the Muslims in vogue forcenturies? Muhammed [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


A Woman Performing a Wedding (Nikah) Ceremony



Question:
At a recent wedding, a woman performed the nikah (i.e. doing the khutbah and presiding over the ceremony). Are there any specific rules to a person officiating a nikah, or is it simply a contract which anyone can perform?


Answer:
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful and Compassionate
There is nothing legally wrong with a Muslim woman performing a wedding (nikah) ceremony. Women have full legal agency in the Shariah, and have the right to initiate their own marriages, to act as agents (wakeel) for others to marry, and to oversee the marriage of others.
A nikah does not actually legally require a religious figure (an imam or shaykh or mawlana) to conduct it. Rather, its obligatory elements--as detailed more thoroughly in related answers--are: a valid offer from one side and a valid corresponding acceptance from the other; and witnesses who hear this offer and acceptance while knowing that what is happening is a marriage.
However, it is recommended to have someone of learning, wisdom, and piety involved in this process, in order to ensure that the marriage is legally sound, pleasing to Allah (by not falling into errors of social or religious judgement), and blessed.
And Allah alone gives success.
Wassalam,
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(Holy Quran-16:125)

{And who is better in speech than he who [says: My Lord is Allah (believes in His Oneness), and then stands straight (acts upon His Order), and] invites (men) to Allah's (Islamic Monotheism), and does righteous deeds, and says: I am one of the Muslims.} (Holy Quran-41:33)
 
The prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: By Allah, if Allah guides one person by you, it is better for you than the best types of camels. [al-Bukhaaree, Muslim] 

The prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) also said, Whoever calls to guidance will have a reward similar to the reward of the one who follows him, without the reward of either of them being lessened at all. 
[Muslim, Ahmad, Aboo Daawood, an-Nasaa'ee, at-Tirmidhee, Ibn Maajah] 
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[IslamCity] A Woman Performing a Wedding(nikah) Ceremony

2005-04-17 Thread Muhammed




A Woman Performing a Wedding (Nikah) Ceremony



Question:
At a recent wedding, a woman performed the nikah (i.e. doing the khutbah and presiding over the ceremony). Are there any specific rules to a person officiating a nikah, or is it simply a contract which anyone can perform?


Answer:
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful and Compassionate
There is nothing legally wrong with a Muslim woman performing a wedding (nikah) ceremony. Women have full legal agency in the Shariah, and have the right to initiate their own marriages, to act as agents (wakeel) for others to marry, and to oversee the marriage of others.
A nikah does not actually legally require a religious figure (an imam or shaykh or mawlana) to conduct it. Rather, its obligatory elements--as detailed more thoroughly in related answers--are: a valid offer from one side and a valid corresponding acceptance from the other; and witnesses who hear this offer and acceptance while knowing that what is happening is a marriage.
However, it is recommended to have someone of learning, wisdom, and piety involved in this process, in order to ensure that the marriage is legally sound, pleasing to Allah (by not falling into errors of social or religious judgement), and blessed.
And Allah alone gives success.
Wassalam,

Yahoo! India Matrimony: Find your life partner
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{Invite (mankind, O Muhammad ) to the Way of your Lord (i.e. Islam) with wisdom (i.e. with the Divine Inspiration and the Qur'an) and fair preaching, and argue with them in a way that is better. Truly, your Lord knows best who has gone astray from His Path, and He is the Best Aware of those who are guided.} 
(Holy Quran-16:125)

{And who is better in speech than he who [says: My Lord is Allah (believes in His Oneness), and then stands straight (acts upon His Order), and] invites (men) to Allah's (Islamic Monotheism), and does righteous deeds, and says: I am one of the Muslims.} (Holy Quran-41:33)
 
The prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: By Allah, if Allah guides one person by you, it is better for you than the best types of camels. [al-Bukhaaree, Muslim] 

The prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) also said, Whoever calls to guidance will have a reward similar to the reward of the one who follows him, without the reward of either of them being lessened at all. 
[Muslim, Ahmad, Aboo Daawood, an-Nasaa'ee, at-Tirmidhee, Ibn Maajah] 
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