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You probably saw Manny's post on alcohol abuse.  The same principles apply to 
sex abuse and sex sin.

'In some circumstances we have gone out deliberately to get godless sex,  feeling 
ourselves justified by nervousness, anger, worry, depression, jealousy or the like.  
But even in this type of beginning we are obliged to admit that our justification for 
a sex-sin spree  was insanely insufficient in the light of what always happened.  We  
now see that when we began to deliberately do and have sex sin, instead of  casually, 
there was little serious or effective thought during the period of the premeditation 
of the sex sin  of what the terrific consequences might be of such sex sin.' 

Adapted from c. 2001, Alcoholics Anonymous, page 37 

Wings Devotional Daily Meditation Translation 

God gives a word picture of just such a male's sex sin incident, in
Prov 7:  6* Â Looking out from my house, and watching through the window, 7 I 
saw among the young men one without sense, 8 Walking in the street near the 
turn of her road, going on the way to her house [website], 9 At nightfall, in 
the evening of the day, in the black dark of the night. 10 And the woman came 
out to him, in the dress of a loose woman, with a designing heart; 11 She is 
full of noise and uncontrolled; her feet keep not in her house. 12 Now she is in 
the street, now in the open spaces, waiting at every turning of the road. 13 
So she took him by his hand, kissing him, and without a sign of shame she said 
to him: 14 I have a feast of peace-offerings, for today my oaths have been 
effected. 15 So I came out in the hope of meeting you, looking for you with 
care, and now I have you. 16 My bed [at my website] is covered with cushions of 
needlework, with coloured cloths of the cotton thread of Egypt; 17 I have made 
my bed sweet with perfumes and spices. 18 Come, let us take our pleasure in 
love till the morning, having joy in loveâs delights. 19 For the master of the 
house, [my husband/father] is away on a long journey: 20 He has taken a bag of 
money with him; he is coming back at the full moon. 21 With her fair words she 
overcame him, forcing him with her smooth lips. 22 The simple man goes after 
her, like an ox going to its death, like a roe pulled by a cord; 23 Like a bird 
falling into a net; with no thought that his life is in danger, till an arrow 
goes into his side [to kill him].
 24 Â So now, my sons, give ear to me; give attention to the sayings of my 
mouth; 25 Let not your heart be turned to her ways [websites], do not go 
wandering in her footsteps [websites]. 26 For those wounded and made low by her are 
great in number; and all those who have come to their death through her are a 
great army. 27* Her house [website] is the way to the underworld, going down to 
the rooms of death.

The word picture of such a FEMALE sex sin incident is not really that different from 
the male's --- - - adapted from
Prov 7:  6* Â Looking out from my house, and watching through the window, 7 I 
saw among the young women one without sense, 8 Walking in the street near the 
turn of his road, going on the way to his house [website], 9 At nightfall, in 
the evening of the day, in the black dark of the night. 10 And the man came 
out to her, dresssed like a horny man, with a designing heart; 11 He is full of 
noise and uncontrolled; his feet keep not in his own house. 12 Now he is in 
the street, now in the open spaces, waiting at every turning of the road. 13 So 
he took her by her hand, kissing her, and without a sign of shame he said to 
her: 14 I have a feast of peace-offerings, for today my oaths have been 
effected. 15 So I came out in the hope of meeting you, looking for you with care, 
and now I have you. 16 My bed [in my website] is covered with cushions of 
needlework, with coloured cloths of the cotton thread of Egypt; 17 I have made my 
bed sweet [for you] with perfumes and spices. 18 Come, let us take our pleasure 
in having sex till the morning, having joy in the delights of having sex. 19 
For the master of the house, [my father] is away on a long journey: 20 He has 
taken a bag of money with him; he is coming back at the full moon. 21 With his 
sweet words he overcame her, forcing her with his smooth lips. 22 The simple 
woman goes after him, like an ox going to its death, like a roe pulled by a 
cord; 23 Like a bird falling into a net; with no thought that her life is in 
danger, till an arrow goes into her side [to kill her].
 24 Â So now, my daughters, give ear to me; give attention to the sayings of 
my mouth; 25 Let not your heart be turned to his ways [website], do not go 
wandering in his footsteps [website]. 26 For those wounded and made low by him 
are great in number; and all those who have come to their death through him are 
a great army. 27* His house [pad-car-website] is the way to the underworld, 
going down to the rooms of death.

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When we reflect on that process when we have gone out to "use sex", we must 
admit that we were trying to show someone, something, even if it was just 
ourselves we wanted to assure or impress.  No matter how we attempted to justify 
the need for a sex sin binge/spree, nothing really was good enough to justify that 
behavior. 
 Deliberate sex sin or just casually using sex sin is a serious problem that will lead 
us back to our old ways and slow dying.  Maybe in some cases even sudden death.

When the sex sin spree/binge was over, we had that same feeling of sorrow and 
regret, which started the vicious cycle of addiction once again.  

Remember it is not about US â it is about God's will and power in us.  That will 
never lead you to justify or rationalize why you should "use" sex sin to fill the 
"aching need."  His desire is to keep you clear minded â and looking up -- to Him.

A horse is a vain hope for deliverance; despite all its great strength it cannot save.

But the eyes of the LORD are on those who fear him, on those whose hope is in his 
unfailing love, to deliver them from death and keep them alive in famine.

We wait in hope for the LORD;
    he is our help and our shield. -- Psalm 33:17-20

Remember that His Word is 
***Rom 10:13 For every one whosoever, who shall call on the name of the Lord, 
shall be saved.

Can't save yourself from you sins, especially sins to which you are addicted 
or particularly prone.  Salvation comes from Jesus and we have to believe that 
He alone can save us, believe Him that if we call out to Him to save us that 
He will save us, believe His Name which tells us Jesus is the One chosen 
(Christ) by God to be the Way to Father and to be our King, Master and Ruler of all 
of our lives.   Such a God can indeed save us if we sincerely call on Him.

His part is to work and will in us His will after we have called on Him alone 
to save us (Phil 2:13; 4:13; Heb 13:20,21).  Our part is to agree with Him 
about our sins, confessing them to Him (1Jn1:9); and give Him our bodies, souls 
and minds to work and will in us godly repentance, "your having sorrowed with 
a godly sorrow--what earnestness it has called forth in you, what eagerness to 
clear yourselves, what indignation, what alarm, what longing affection, what 
jealousy, what meting out of justice! You have completely wiped away reproach 
from yourselves in the matter." WEY (Prov 28:13; 2 Cor 7)

Specifically that means you ask and let Him work and will in you so that you 
don't go to the sex sinner's website or walk in the street near the turn of 
her/his road, going on the way to her/his house, at nightfall, in the evening of 
the day, in the black dark of the night. 

Specifically that means you ask Him to work and will in you to avoid the 
websites of sex sinners and  avoid people wearing sexually provocative clothing, 
people who plan and think of doing sex sin, people who are noisy and 
uncontrolled, and don't like to stay home; people who hang out in the streets and 
party places; people who eagerly, slyly and shamelessly take your hand, kiss you, 
flatter you and sweet talk you and invite you to have sex sin with them

Specifically that means you ask Him to work and will in you to pay attention 
to the Word of God, that you ask and trust Him to work and will in you so that 
your heart won't go to the sex sinner's website, won't be turned to her/his 
sinful ways, do not go wandering in her/his footsteps.  For those wounded and 
made low by such people are great in number; and all those who have come to 
their death through their sex sin are a great army. Their house/website is the 
way to the underworld, going down to the rooms of death.

To God be the Glory
Ron
http://profiles.yahoo.com/anoldservant
http://hometown.aol.com/oldservant8/myhomepage/profile.html

Remedy4DeliberateUseOfSexSin

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which I am a member and to which I post. The Most High God loved the people 
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God with us, to be our Passover Lamb to cover our sins if we sincerely and 
genuinely call and depend on King Jesus of Bethlehem ALONE to save us from our 
sins and present us covered with His perfect righteousness to Abba Father in 
Heaven. 


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