I want to write to the list and clear up all the information/misinformation
regarding Hannah and Amanda Moad's house.  The details have been confirmed and
the Moad's did indeed lose their house and all the contents.
Now an explanation of how all of this began.  Last week after reading Hannah's
note regarding her house, I kept having the nagging feeling that it all
sounded somewhat familiar.  After mulling it over a couple of days, I went to
my lace supplies to find a note which has been hanging out in one of my bobbin
boxes for the last couple of years.  I keep notes in there whenever I've
loaned bobbins out so I can recall who has what.  Sure enough, there was a
note that Hannah had written to the list a couple of years ago about loaning
lacemaking supplies to a friend and the friends house burned down a couple
days later with the lace supplies inside.  A plea was made for extra
lacemaking supplies and I offered to loan some bobbins to them as I didn't
really have many extra at the time.  Perhaps they received an overwhelming
amount or life just got in the way but once the bobbins were sent, I never
heard another word.  And that was okay but then fast forward to last week.  A
second house burns down with all the lace supplies.  In a town of less than
1500 people to have the only two lacemakers there both lose their homes to
fire just seemed to contradict the odds.  I then contacted Avital to express
my concern since the list was afire with gathering supplies for Hannah and
Amanda and I hated to see their generosity exploited.  The generosity of this
list is amazing and I hope that will continue-but I hope that it will always
be tempered with a dose of reality, not all people are always honest, I've
learned.  Avital and I decided that perhaps a bit checking was in order just
to confirm that everything was on the up and up.  Both of us wrote to Hannah
and I did some research to see if I could find any information about the fire
via newspapers or contacts in Ash Grove.  This took longer than it usually
would as it was the weekend and I live in an entirely different day from the
U.S. mainland.  Before we had replies from Hannah or could make confirmation,
the list was made aware of my suspicions which was never mine nor Avital's
intention.
My motives in this have not been malicious.  I was "burned" in the past by a
plea from a list member on another list.  Her service dog needed emergency
surgery and she could not afford it.  She asked the list to help her out and
provided a veterinarian's phone number.  I called and it was answered as a vet
clinic.  I inquired as to how much was needed and was told I was the only one
who had called so far.  Knowing how valuable a service dog is to it's owner, I
offered to pay for the entire surgery.  Later I found out it was a scam and my
credit card number was abused.  Since then I've learned to check, check again
and even a third time.
I have written Hannah an apology for the pain this has caused her at this
difficult time.  Again, it was never my intention to add to her misery or
publicly humiliate her-just to make sure that despite the coincidences, all
was on the up and up.
I hope now that the well known generosity of this list will kick back into
action to help Hannah and Amanda begin to pick up the pieces of their lives
again and allow them to continue their lacemaking.
As I'm not a member of lace-chat I trust that someone will forward this
explanation on to that list.
Dona

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