Re: [Maria-discuss] Code of Conduct

2022-12-22 Thread Hartmut Holzgraefe

On 22.12.22 17:21, Antony Stone wrote:

To be honest, your conduct in this very discussion is making me start to
wonder whether you might become the first person asked to leave the forum for
personal abuse.


I was starting to think the same ... :(

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Re: [Maria-discuss] Code of Conduct

2022-12-22 Thread Antony Stone
On Thursday 22 December 2022 at 17:01:21, Ruben Safir wrote:

> Fuck the Nazi's and the Code of Conduct.

To be honest, your conduct in this very discussion is making me start to 
wonder whether you might become the first person asked to leave the forum for 
personal abuse.

Or, have I misinterpreted who you are referring to as Nazis here?

If you meant it as a general term and nothing at all to do with any people in 
the MariaDB group specifically, then plenty of people might agree with your 
sentiments, but I still think it's an inappropriate way to express your 
feelings here about the National Socialist party of the German third Reich.


Antony.

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Re: [Maria-discuss] Code of Conduct

2022-12-22 Thread Andrew Hutchings

Hi Kristian,

On 22/12/2022 12:27, Kristian Nielsen wrote:

Andrew Hutchings  writes:


Instead the intention is to discourage people from personal attacks at
each other, which negatively affects the group as a whole.


It doesn't affect anyone at all expect those that choose to read them and
have nothing better to spend their time on than react to them and feed the
trolls.


Unfortunately not true, such activity is seen by newer member of the 
community and these people go elsewhere (yes, this has happened, more 
than once).



The way to improve the mailing lists is to move the traffic from mariadb.com
/ mariadb.org internal mailing lists/private mail onto the public lists. Not
to put up systems to reduce the trafic even further (however low the value
of such traffic may currently be).


All the MariaDB mailing lists are public already. Mailing list message 
activity isn't too high, many people have moved on to other methods of 
communication (Zulip, MariaDB Community Slack, Reddit, etc...). But I 
don't see the mailing list going away any time soon either.


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Re: [Maria-discuss] Code of Conduct

2022-12-22 Thread Antony Stone
On Thursday 22 December 2022 at 13:27:00, Kristian Nielsen wrote:

> Andrew Hutchings  writes:
> > Instead the intention is to discourage people from personal attacks at
> > each other, which negatively affects the group as a whole.
> 
> It doesn't affect anyone at all except those that choose to read them and
> have nothing better to spend their time on than react to them and feed the
> trolls.
> 
> The way to improve the mailing lists is to move the traffic from
> mariadb.com / mariadb.org internal mailing lists/private mail onto the
> public lists.

Is this not a public list?

I think I have worked who/what sparked off this decision to introduce a CofC - 
the reason I wasn't previously aware is because the person I now think has 
triggered this action has been on my "delete any email from / to / about this 
person" for some years, due to unpleasant interactions I have seen or been 
part of, on too many other lists.

I can certainly say that this person does not in the least bit hold back from 
expressing their opinions in public and having them archived for the Internet 
to read, so I don't see how switching anything to a more public forum (and I 
still question, is this list not already public enough?) would make any useful 
difference.


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Re: [Maria-discuss] Code of Conduct

2022-12-22 Thread Kristian Nielsen
Andrew Hutchings  writes:

> Instead the intention is to discourage people from personal attacks at
> each other, which negatively affects the group as a whole.

It doesn't affect anyone at all expect those that choose to read them and
have nothing better to spend their time on than react to them and feed the
trolls.

The way to improve the mailing lists is to move the traffic from mariadb.com
/ mariadb.org internal mailing lists/private mail onto the public lists. Not
to put up systems to reduce the trafic even further (however low the value
of such traffic may currently be).

 - Kristian.

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Re: [Maria-discuss] Code of Conduct

2022-12-22 Thread Andrew Hutchings

Hi Ruben,

On 21/12/2022 21:52, Ruben Safir wrote:

These things are just tools to kick people you don't like or agree with
out of your group.  It is facist and it is always applied in a facist
way every time without exception.  The circumvents independient thought,
due process, and encourage complaints and trolls.


We are not a government or political entity so "facist" might be the 
wrong word here. But I think I understand the general direction you are 
taking. And some can absolutely be used that way.


The intention is not to kick people we don't like or agree with. If you 
have ever seen a real-life discussion on implementing MariaDB Server 
feature you'll see many disagreements.


Instead the intention is to discourage people from personal attacks at 
each other, which negatively affects the group as a whole.


As mentioned in the blog post, if you have suggestions on ideas to make 
this better, please feel free to comment with them.


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Re: [Maria-discuss] Code of Conduct

2022-12-22 Thread Andrew Hutchings

Hi Brian,

We deliberately don't want it too wordy, otherwise it would turn into 
something more like a terms of service. It is more a guideline so we can 
have civil discourse without risk of person attack.


With that in mind we would be open to suggestions over a different word 
or few words instead of "inflammatory". A lot of it depends on the use 
of the language too.


You can still have passionate views whilst aligning with the Bill & Ted 
mantra of "be excellent to each other" :)


Kind Regards
Andrew

On 21/12/2022 21:01, Brian Andrus wrote:
Generally a good idea. It can be abused if not careful, due to the 
subjective nature of determining what is offensive or "inflammatory".


I would suggest that "inflammatory language" be something that be more 
defined and/or allowed toward things but not people (if that is 
possible). One could look at the original source code to Linux before it 
was 'sanitized' of the colorful language to see some passionate views.
Much opinion expression will be inflammatory to someone (such as my 
opinion of Apple or Microsoft).


BA

On 12/21/2022 7:52 AM, Ian Gilfillan wrote:
In the light of recent events, we're implementing a Code of Conduct. 
Details at https://mariadb.org/going-for-a-code-of-conduct/ - comments 
are welcome!



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