Things are changing and it is largely thanks to the efforts of Muslim women
who are reinterpreting our faith and standing up to the centuries of
misogyny. 
 

http://www.peres-fondateurs.com:80/~freedom/?p=314

 <http://www.peres-fondateurs.com/~freedom/?p=314> Women in Islam, From a
Muslim Woman's Perspective


 
<http://www.saudidebate.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=681&It
emid=122> SaudiDebate.com has a very revealing post on the status of women:

Wife beaters set the tone as backward Imams threaten to overwhelm 21st
Century Muslims 

By Mona Eltahawy

To appreciate the absurdity of what it can mean to be a Muslim woman today
you need a few fools

Enter stage right: German judge Christa Datz-Winter, whose claim to infamy
was her refusal to grant a fast-track divorce to a German Muslim woman who
had complained that her husband beat her. The judge said both partners came
from a "Moroccan cultural environment in which it is not uncommon for a man
to exert a right of corporal punishment over his wife," and she cited
passages in the Qu'ran that she said sanction physical abuse

How cruelly ironic for the unfortunate wife who tried to make the most of
western laws that are always waved in the face of Muslims as the pinnacle of
civilized behaviour if only we would learn from them. Here was a Muslim
woman who really did need to be saved from an abusive husband - not the
'Evil Muslim Man' imagined as lurking in all our closets, but the real thing
- a brutal man who beat his wife. Right at the moment when she pushed to
take advantage of those laws, the Muslim woman who really did need to be
saved was kicked back - by a woman no less - into the arms of the very
misogyny that the West is always trying to save us from.

So we're damned if we do and damned if we don't.

Judge Datz-Winter might be the most maligned multiculturalist du jour, but
in time we will celebrate her for so bluntly - if unintentionally - setting
on fire the house of cards that so many of my fellow Muslims struggle to
keep up around women's rights.

One need only type 'Islam + wife + beating' as a search item on YouTube to
learn that Judge Datz-Winter's idiocy finds plenty of ugly echo in the
chorus of fools otherwise known as our zealous imams and scholars trying to
decide exactly how much harm to a woman their God allows. These
unfortunately all-too real and evil men point to the very same passages in
the Qu'ran that the judge used to turn down the fast-track divorce.

But here's the difference - Judge Datz-Winter was removed from the case and
could face disciplinary action. By contrast, who is disciplining our imams
and scholars? Unless we - Muslims - push and clamour for the removal of the
men who advocate wife beating in the name of the Qu'ran then to remain a
Muslim woman today would require nothing short of mental gymnastics.

Beating one's wife, is not a religious command but rather a deeply ingrained
cultural phenomenon. Yet, as you will see further, it is encouraged and
exploited by so called "clerics."

To beat or not beat

I was born into a Muslim family and I choose to remain a Muslim, a proud
one. But I cannot believe that God considers two women to be equal to one
man, for example, as advocated by those who say it takes the testimony of
two women to equal that of one man. To do so would require a turning off of
my intellect, stooping to a pretence that I reject. And I cannot believe
that God has given a man the right to discipline me if I am "rebellious" or
"disobedient" as our YouTube imams and scholars claim with their various
sermons on what can be used to exact that discipline.

The verse in the Qu'ran to which the German judge referred - and over which
our YouTube imams and scholars wax lyrical - is undoubtedly controversial.
It has been taken to mean that a rebellious wife should first be admonished,
then abandoned in bed, and beaten unless her behaviour improves.

The controversy has revolved around the Arabic word daraba - does it mean to
beat? What should be used to beat a woman? Some imams and scholars think
they can dilute the verse by saying it should be nothing thicker than a twig
but they do women no favours because symbolic or not it is the idea that a
man can discipline his wife that is at the heart of their various
interpretations. They rarely mention that the Prophet never struck a woman.

I refuse to waste time and energy on whether it means a man can or cannot
beat his wife. If that is what it meant at one point in history - at the
time when the Qu'ran was revealed - it no longer need apply. There are many
things in other holy books that believers have let go, in recognition that
they are no longer acceptable in our world today. The Qu'ran is no
different. And many of our imams and scholars have indulged in such
contextualizing of their own, many times and regarding many issues. But
there is always one exception - they are fixated on women and on nailing our
feet to the 7th Century instead of leaving us be in the 21st.

One of their biggest ruses is that old axiom: "Islam is for all times and
places". My answer: yes, the essential message of Islam is for all times and
all places, but there are some things in the Qu'ran that even they would
agree were specific to their time and place. Their retort would be that I
can't pick and choose but must take it all or leave it. The "all" that I
would have to take of course would be determined by them, and it is full of
what they have picked and chosen. And the most conservative among our imams
and scholars - who are often the ones most zealously embalming women in the
7th Century ethos into which Islam was born - are the same imams and
scholars who insist on interpreting Judge Datz-Winter's Qu'ranic verse to
mean a man can beat his wife.

When despots, religious opportunists, and bullying husbands find it
inconvenient to evolve, inconvenient to move into the real world of the 21st
century, then the 7th century suits them nicely. As Ms Eltahawy says: Some
imams and scholars think they can dilute the verse by saying it should be
nothing thicker than a twig but they do women no favours because symbolic or
not it is the idea that a man can discipline his wife that is at the heart
of their various interpretations. They rarely mention that the Prophet never
struck a woman.

For those who claim that a Muslim must live his live in as humanly close a
way as possible to the way the Prophet lived his live, why is this
particular aspect of Mohammed's life so overlooked? Because it doesn't fit
in with their particular culture? Because they would rather foster violence
against wives so that it can later be turned against all "infidels?" Thus,
are those who condone the bad treatment of wives in Islam (in spite of their
extensive book knowledge) merely opportunistic ignorant hypocrites using
religion for their personal agenda?

Don't take it literally

For an example of how some of our scholars are quite happy to contextualize,
look no further than their attempts to reel in violence in the name of
Islam. They try to defang the very same passages in the Qu'ran used by Osama
Bin Laden et al by saying they must be placed within their historical
context. The verses that have to do with the way Muslims should treat the
"infidel", we are told, were addressed to the nascent Muslim community,
beleaguered and surrounded by enemies. We are not meant to take those verses
literally today, some of our imams and scholars tell us. I salute that
spirit in them and extend it to that troublesome verse. That verse was
addressed to a 7th Century Arabian community in which relations between the
sexes were very different from those in place today and so we are not meant
to take that verse literally either.

It could be that simple. But we have wasted time and energy circling women
and how our imams and scholars want us to be. From the near-obsession with
the way a woman dresses you would think that half the Qu'ran was dedicated
to a woman's wardrobe whereas there are in fact just two verses that deal
with a woman's dress.

Last year, I wrote an essay about an encounter at an Islamic conference with
a conservative Muslim man which taught me much about my own liberal
stereotypes of conservative Muslims. I ended the essay with reference to my
surprise that the man shook my hand. Astoundingly, conservative Muslim blogs
which published my article played host to an unhealthy number of comments
suggesting I had lied about the handshake. The comments missed entirely the
point of my essay - how we stereotype each other - and focused instead on
the handshake.

My faith resides deep in my heart, but it has been hard at times to
reconcile my heart with my mind, which too often recoils at the blatant
misogyny that centuries of male-dominated interpretation of my religion have
wrought. We are taught that Islam gave women rights more than 1,400 years
ago that made them the envy of women in Europe's Dark Ages. When European
women were mere chattels, Muslim women gained the right to inherit and own
property. But now the descendants of those women who envied Muslim women in
the Seventh Century have moved far ahead. Where is that spirit of the early
days of Islam?

One of my favorite stories from Islamic history - apocryphal or not - goes
like this: women at the time of the Prophet Muhammad complained that the
revelations he had received so far addressed "believing men". What about us,
they asked? Soon after, the Prophet began receiving revelations that
addressed both "believing men" and "believing women".

Western women may have been considered subhuman chattel by the Europeans of
the 7th century unlike the Muslim women of that era. However, the fact
remains that Western women have advanced to where any notion of being merely
chattel is absolutely repulsive to Western societies in general. Yes,
undeniably, there are bullies to whom any one weaker -especially women - are
fair game. These creatures however, are not only a minute percentage of the
West, but once exposed are rightfully rejected by society at large. Instead,
the women in Islam who were the envy of women in Europe's Dark Ages are now
themselves living in the Dark Ages thanks to, as Ms. Eltahawy puts it, the
blatant misogyny that centuries of male-dominated interpretation of my
religion have wrought.

It is interesting and very revealing of the culture that: For an example of
how some of our scholars are quite happy to contextualize, look no further
than their attempts to reel in violence in the name of Islam. They try to
defang the very same passages in the Qu'ran used by Osama Bin Laden et al by
saying they must be placed within their historical context. The verses that
have to do with the way Muslims should treat the "infidel", we are told,
were addressed to the nascent Muslim community, beleaguered and surrounded
by enemies. We are not meant to take those verses literally today, some of
our imams and scholars tell us. I salute that spirit in them and extend it
to that troublesome verse. That verse was addressed to a 7th Century Arabian
community in which relations between the sexes were very different from
those in place today and so we are not meant to take that verse literally
either. Are we then to understand that in today's prevailing Muslim culture,
women are one step below the "infidels" then? That's ridiculous, of course!
Yet, if you read the paragraph I just quoted, such would be a logical
conclusion! If Osama bin Laden's interpretations about the treatment of
"infidels" is outmoded, why then is this one verse on the treatment of women
not outmoded?!?!?

Discrimmination by YouTube

If God included us in the narrative, who has kept us out? Answer: The
YouTube imams and scholars and their ilk around the world who have let the
Muslim world down. Their apathy and disinclination to speak out against
misogyny in the name of Islam long ago turned many of us off and encouraged
us to move beyond them and towards setting our own agenda. The Muslim world
is large and diverse. Issues that concern women in Saudi Arabia - where they
cannot be admitted to a hospital without a male guardian's signature - are
very different from those in Malaysia, where women recite the Koran on
national television.

 

Things are changing and it is largely thanks to the efforts of Muslim women
who are reinterpreting our faith and standing up to the centuries of
misogyny. And thanks are due also to the liberal Muslim men who are our
allies. A few days before news broke of the fiasco in Germany over Judge
Datz-Winter's misstep, Iranian-American Laleh Bakhtiar was profiled in the
New York Times for her translation of the Qu'ran that is being published
this month. Her new translation does not include the word "beat" but
substitutes for it "to go away". As I said, I do not care for the semantics
performed around that verse because I do not think it is a husband's right
to discipline his wife. But the New York Times article brought to light
interesting challenges to our YouTube imams and scholars.

For example, Egypt's mufti Sheik Ali Gomaa told the paper that Qu'ranic
verses must be viewed through the prism of the era. "In our modern context,
hitting one's wife is totally inappropriate as society deems it hateful and
it will only serve to sow more discord," he told the New York Times.

The newspaper also spoke to Khaled Abou El Fadl, an Egyptian-born law
professor and Islamic scholar at the University of California, Los Angeles,
who often challenges conservative and ultra-orthodox interpretations of
Islam. He has concluded that the verse refers to a rare public legal
procedure that ended before the 10th Century. It is only by challenging the
hatred for women that fuels our YouTube imams and scholars that we can
prevent the foolishness of the likes of Judge Datz-Winter.

Women in Saudi Arabia cannot be admitted to a hospital without a male
guardian's signature. Gentle reader, can there still be any doubt that those
who were once the the envy of women in Europe's Dark Ages have become mere
chattel themselves? Perhaps it those who are still preaching that two women
are the equivalent of one man, those who justify the husband's right to
discipline his wive(s) by beating her, the are the true revisionists and
heretics of Islam. Maybe the voices clamoring for a Reform (as small a
percentage as they currently are) are the true voices of traditional Islam?

If an act is a crime in a country where those adhering to a specific culture
have moved to, then no judge in that country can replace the local laws with
those of the other culture. Law is, or should be, blind!!! Aplication of the
law may not change regardless of gender, creed, skin color, or social
status. Judge Datz-Winter should face serious disciplinary action that will
result in her total removal of the case. Her judgment does not befit a
jurist, she has demonstrated a crass ignorance of the principles of law in a
civilized society.

 



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