RE: [ozmidwifery] Re: Breech Babies

2005-09-02 Thread Vedrana Valčić
A very interesting discussion on breech births and midwives:

http://www.radmid.demon.co.uk/breech.htm 

Vedrana

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From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Miriam Hannay
Sent: Friday, September 02, 2005 6:10 AM
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Re: Breech Babies

I totally understand, Susan about the whole fear of
breech birth. We have a couple of OBs who will 'let'
women birth a breech babe vaginally, but fully
managed, IOL, 16 gauge bores in both arms, hartmann's
up, McRoberts, episi, full extraction. To me this
seems torture. I am a second year Bmid student and
intending to go into independent practice, so am
availing myself of every extra learning opportunity
available.

A fellow student and I (my lovely partner in crime),
attended Maggie Banks' emergency skills workshop in
Melbourne recently which was SO valuable, and we feel
much more comfortable about the possibility now. 

I have a dear friend whose first 'catch' as an RM was
an undiagnosed breech at home, so it does happen. We
need to be prepared and develop the skills to handle
this situation. What a shame and potential danger it
is if these skills fall by the way.

Everyone who can should hear Maggie Banks speak, she
dispells fears and demystifies like no-one else.

Regards, Miriam (FUSA)

--- Susan Cudlipp [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Yes it was Brenda who wrote that, but I have also
 been a midwife long enough 
 to have seen many breech births - back in the UK,
 and delivered a few 
 myself.  Not all good, mostly quite 'managed' but at
 least they were mostly 
 seen as being manageable vaginally! My own elective
 C/S (nearly 21 years old 
 now!) was for primip breech, although I was given
 the choice of vaginal 
 birth, I knew just what that would entail within the
 large unit that I was 
 obliged to attend - epidural, forceps, episiotomy,
 and I chose not to go 
 there, however at that time there was no question
 that I would not be able 
 to have VBAC with the next - nowadays that is not
 so.
 
 A year or so back we had a multi with a breech who
 was lucky enough to see a 
 less interventionist OB (as you so rightly guessed
 Melissa :-)) and she 
 chose to have a vaginal birth. Of course it had to
 be induced on the 'right' 
 day, but was very straight forward. Apart from that 
 we really don't see 
 them anymore, and at least one of the few docs who
 does do them does such a 
 horrendous job that I would personally prefer a C/S
 rather than submit to 
 his handling.( you can probably guess that one too
 Mel!)
 
 It is sad that student midwives today will not learn
 these essential skills 
 within the hospital system.  Personally I feel
 confident that I can handle 
 an unexpected breech, but cannot see how the next
 generation are going to 
 cope with this, there is so much fear of what is
 really only a different 
 variety of birth, in the same way that any
 'different' presentation is. 
 Anyone who has had the pleasure of hearing Maggie
 Banks speak, watched her 
 video, or that of Michel Odent's work in Pithiers
 will know that this is 
 true
 
 Rachel, I totally empathise with how you are feeling
 having just come to 
 Australia from the UK (been here 15 years myself). 
 It was a real shock to 
 me to see how much all births are seen as being the
 doctor's property.  One 
 of my first births here was in a small hospital and
 I called the GP as per 
 protocol.  He arrived as I had the head in my hands
 and proceeded to rush 
 in, without even washing his hands and virtually
 pushed me out of the way! 
 I looked at him with horror and said quietly  I
 think I may as well finish 
 the job now don't you?  He did step back and let me
 finish.  Some years 
 later he admitted that he had learned a few things
 from me - one of which 
 was to wait for restitution before trying to deliver
 the shoulders!  They 
 were always in such a goddamn hurry to drag the baby
 out, it drove me mad.
 
  When they are faced with an 'expert' obstetrician
 (often a male authority 
  figure) telling them their baby is in danger -
 they will chose to protect 
  their child because as a mother that is their
 instinct.
 
 An example of this happened to me just this week -
 the head was well and 
 truly crowned (primip, long labour, NO fetal
 distress) but OB insisted on 
 listening to FH immediately ctx ended - it was about
 100, and he took over 
 from me to apply forceps.  I was not concerned for
 the baby as I knew there 
 had been no compromise throughout and that he would
 be born within minutes, 
 but within the system I am obliged to defer to the
 doctor's judgement, 
 whether or not I agree with it.  Believe me, I know
 well what happens when 
 one tries to argue!!
 
 I hope you maintain your own integrity and autonomy
 - it is very different 
 here to what we knew in UK, but we do need to keep
 pushing for midwifery led 
 care.   I feel that much of the problem lies with
 how we are 

[ozmidwifery] Birthing options around Gosford - help please

2005-09-02 Thread Julie Clarke








Hi 

I have just received a phone call from a very excited
friend who is 8 weeks pregnant, who lives at Gosford, and has asked my advice
about her birthing options in that area I am hoping my ozmid friends
will be able to fill me in on details as I am unsure



Warm hug

Julie



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Re: [ozmidwifery] Emailing: video05 you will like this

2005-09-02 Thread Susan Cudlipp



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Re: [ozmidwifery] Men at births

2005-09-02 Thread Honey Acharya

 I think the utter relief after giving birth and the euphoria and oxytocin
 running through your body with a wet warm baby on your belly can be
likened
 to orgasm - except BETTER!

 Cheers
 Jo x

I agree and it lasted for weeks
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Re: [ozmidwifery] Emailing: video05 you will like this

2005-09-02 Thread Gloria Lemay



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  AM
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Re: [ozmidwifery] Birthing options around Gosford - help please

2005-09-02 Thread Jan Robinson
Hi Julie
Talk to Carolyn Hastie in the first instance
Cheers
Jan
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[ozmidwifery] Birth in the hurricane

2005-09-02 Thread Gloria Lemay




 (http://www.nola.com/newslogs/tporleans/index.ssf?/mtlogs/nola_tporleans/arc 
hives/2005_09.html#075586):  'From a crowded, dark 
attic surrounded by floodwater in a city pushed to the  
brink by Hurricane Katrina, 5 pounds, 4 ounces of hope has 
arrived.  James Kenneth Brundy Jr. was born just 
after midnight Tuesday to Waldrica Nathan, 19, as she was stranded 
with family members in her fiance's  9th 
Ward attic.  More than 36 hours after they were 
rescued by boat, Nathan and the baby were in excellent shape 
Wednesday at West Jefferson Medical Center in Marrero, doctors 
said. The child had been delivered by his father, James  
Brundy Sr. and his two grandparents, who had picked up a few 
obstetric skills from watching the Birth Channel. 
 "The doctors said they were amazed that the family did all the 
right things," hospital spokeswoman Jennifer Steel 
said. As she lay in a maternity gown in the hospital's delivery 
unit, Nathan said her family's saga began Monday about 6:30 a.m. 
Nine months' pregnant, she and the others were forced to climb 
into the attic as waters rose rapidly on Metropolitan Street. By 
about 8 a.m. at the height of the storm, she started 
having contractions. While she gritted her teeth through the pain, 
family members dialed 911 but were told no one could help. 
 "Boats and helicopters were passing by all day but none stopped," 
Nathan said. At exactly midnight, her water broke, and James 
Brundy Jr. was born 22 minutes later.' 
 The grandfather "knew just where to cut the cord and how to tie 
a shoestring around it," she said.  
"We cleaned him off with some alcohol pads, wrapped him in a clean 
sheet, and I breast-fed. That's all he wanted to do, was eat," she 
said.'


Re: [ozmidwifery] Re: Breech Babies

2005-09-02 Thread Emily
hi everyone
there is still one obs i know of who women from all over NSW go to for their breech births. i was 
lucky enough to be at one breech birth with him and he was fantastic and very respectful and 
stood back and didnt actually do anything. there was no intervention whatsoever. intermittent auscultation, no IV, no epidural, no episiotomy, no forceps. actually she was born on a birth stool. he believes the term breech trial is highly flawed as i do and gives the families typed handouts about what the background of the trial, why he thinks its flawed and why he continues to attend breech births as well as possible risks etc. 
the best obs ive ever met for sure! even the other obs at the same hospital think hes mad
love emily

Miriam Hannay [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
I totally understand, Susan about the whole fear ofbreech birth. We have a couple of OBs who will 'let'women birth a breech babe vaginally, but fullymanaged, IOL, 16 gauge bores in both arms, hartmann'sup, McRoberts, episi, full extraction. To me thisseems torture. I am a second year Bmid student andintending to go into independent practice, so amavailing myself of every extra learning opportunityavailable.A fellow student and I (my lovely partner in crime),attended Maggie Banks' emergency skills workshop inMelbourne recently which was SO valuable, and we feelmuch more comfortable about the possibility now. I have a dear friend whose first 'catch' as an RM wasan undiagnosed breech at home, so it does happen. Weneed to be prepared and develop the skills to handlethis situation. What a shame and potential d!
 anger
 itis if these skills fall by the way.Everyone who can should hear Maggie Banks speak, shedispells fears and demystifies like no-one else.Regards, Miriam (FUSA)--- Susan Cudlipp <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: Yes it was Brenda who wrote that, but I have also been a midwife long enough  to have seen many breech births - back in the UK, and delivered a few  myself. Not all good, mostly quite 'managed' but at least they were mostly  seen as being manageable vaginally! My own elective C/S (nearly 21 years old  now!) was for primip breech, although I was given the choice of vaginal  birth, I knew just what that would entail within the large unit that I was  obliged to attend - epidural, forceps, episiotomy, and I chose not to go  there, however at that time there was no question that I would not be able  to hav!
 e VBAC
 with the next - nowadays that is not so.  A year or so back we had a multi with a breech who was lucky enough to see a  less interventionist OB (as you so rightly guessed Melissa :-)) and she  chose to have a vaginal birth. Of course it had to be induced on the 'right'  day, but was very straight forward. Apart from that  we really don't see  them anymore, and at least one of the few docs who does do them does such a  horrendous job that I would personally prefer a C/S rather than submit to  his handling.( you can probably guess that one too Mel!)  It is sad that student midwives today will not learn these essential skills  within the hospital system. Personally I feel confident that I can handle  an unexpected breech, but cannot see how the next generation are going to  cope with this!
 , there
 is so much fear of what is really only a different  variety of birth, in the same way that any 'different' presentation is.  Anyone who has had the pleasure of hearing Maggie Banks speak, watched her  video, or that of Michel Odent's work in Pithiers will know that this is  true  Rachel, I totally empathise with how you are feeling having just come to  Australia from the UK (been here 15 years myself).  It was a real shock to  me to see how much all births are seen as being the doctor's property. One  of my first births here was in a small hospital and I called the GP as per  protocol. He arrived as I had the head in my hands and proceeded to rush  in, without even washing his hands and virtually pushed me out of the way!  I looked at him with horror and said quietly " I think I may as well fi!
 nish
  the job now don't you?" He did step back and let me finish. Some years  later he admitted that he had learned a few things from me - one of which  was to wait for restitution before trying to deliver the shoulders! They  were always in such a goddamn hurry to drag the baby out, it drove me mad.   When they are faced with an 'expert' obstetrician (often a male authority   figure) telling them their baby is in danger - they will chose to protect   their child because as a mother that is their instinct.  An example of this happened to me just this week - the head was well and  truly crowned (primip, long labour, NO fetal distress) but OB insisted on  listening to FH immediately ctx ended - it was about 100, and he took over  from me to apply forceps. I was not con!
 cerned
 for the baby as I knew there  had been no compromise throughout and that he would be born within minutes,  but within the system I am obliged to defer to the doctor's 

[ozmidwifery] The battle is hotting up!

2005-09-02 Thread Andrea Robertson
This is in the Sydney Morning Herald today. There is certainly some great 
coverage on this issue - Kathleen Fahy is doing a tremendous job.


I also understand that the ABC's 7.30 report was seeking Denis Walsh for a 
comment - they tracked him down through our office on Friday. Maybe a 
report coming up on TV next week?





Midwives present own safety data

By Ruth Pollard Health Reporter
September 3, 2005

Tensions between midwives and private obstetricians have boiled over as the 
groups battle over safety, statistics and what is best for women and their 
babies.


Fed up with the campaign being run by some obstetricians, who this week 
were criticised for exaggerating mortality risks at midwife birthing units, 
the midwives released their own interpretation of the safety figures and 
called for a reasoned debate on the issue.


Speaking at a conference yesterday, the dean of midwifery at the University 
of Newcastle, Kathleen Fahy, said birthing units such as those at Ryde and 
Belmont hospitals were safe and produced good outcomes for both mothers and 
babies.


An international study of 11,814 births at 84 birth centres found no 
maternal deaths and a 0.7 per 1000 rate of infant mortality if babies born 
with congenital malformations were excluded, Professor Fahy told the 
conference.


According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, about eight babies per 
1000 pregnancies die in medical care. At birthing centres the figure is 6.6 
per 1000.


A second review of more than 8600 women in Britain, Canada, Sweden and 
Australia, produced by the respected Cochrane review, found perinatal 
mortality was not significantly higher at midwife centres, Professor Fahy said.


But in his own interpretation of the figures, the Australian Medical 
Association's Andrew Pesce, an obstetrician, said the review had found the 
infant mortality risk was 83 per cent higher at midwife centres.


The association's opposition to the midwife-led centres has intensified in 
recent weeks, in response to moves by the State Government to open more of 
the centres around the state.


The Health Minister, John Hatzistergos, defended the units at Ryde and 
Belmont, saying there had been no adverse outcomes for mothers or babies 
since Ryde opened in March 2003. Belmont only opened in July.



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[ozmidwifery] Letters to the SMH

2005-09-02 Thread Andrea Robertson

Hi,

I finally got to the Letters page and found some gems:




Money before service


It is fascinating that the data from Andrew Pesce is different to what he 
has been erroneously peddling all week - 85 per cent is now 83 per cent 
(Doctors irked at lack of say in midwifery talks, Herald, September 2). 
None of the numbers he cites are accurate reflections of the evidence. Not 
that a lack of evidence has ever bothered the Australian Medical Association.


The continuing protest over everything that isn't AMA-driven is becoming 
tiresome and suggestive of a greedy organisation more concerned with its 
hip pocket than addressing the health workforce and meeting consumer demands.


Caroline Homer Professor of Midwifery, University of Technology Sydney, 
Broadway


In about six weeks I will be having my third child. Each of my pregnancies 
has been monitored and led by the Team Midwife program at Royal North Shore 
Hospital. In not one instance can I fault the level of care and level of 
professionalism of this program. The spurious insinuations by some 
obstetricians that seeing a midwife during pregnancy rather than one of 
their own somehow results in poorer care for the baby is to be condemned.


Midwives are not some raised-by-wolves alternative sect; they are medical 
professionals committed to those in their care.


Kim Palmer Narrabeen


Lessons from birth


I was fortunate to be present for both our sons' births. It was 
serendipitous and apart from a truly wonderful if frightening experience, I 
learnt four lessons.


Women are tougher than you think; nurses can handle anything; all the 
garbage about genitalia, gender rationale and interpolated meanings are 
crap (Trauma born in a stunning moment, Herald, August 31); and my wife 
was then, has been, and remains the most beautiful woman I have ever met. 
Sorry to embarrass you, darling, but it is Father's Day on Sunday, and the 
only present I need from you and our great kids is permission to say the 
above in public.




Brings a tear to the eye...

Andrea












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Re: [ozmidwifery] Orgasmic births

2005-09-02 Thread Denise Hynd

Dear Jo
The hormones which should operate in childbirth are the same as in orgasmic 
sex but the situations in which most women birth do/must inhibit those 
hormones from working and so birth is orgasmic for so few!!


Having been at home with couples sometimes sitting outside the room where 
the woman/couple are labouring privately ,  I liken most  hospital laboura 
as trying  to have orgasmic sex in a public street  with strangers watching 
and telling the woman/couple what to do!!


No real sex let alone Orgasmic sex would happen in these situations for most 
couples, similarly birth is rarely orgasmic in these environments!!



The wonder is that women do birth despite what we do to them whilst they are 
doing it!!


It is like the way wounds used to heal when we used the equivalent of toilet 
bleach (Eusol) on them when I was a student nurse but now we know about the 
physiology of moist wound healng we would act  if some-one suggested Eusol 
be used to debride a wound today!!


In fact I think I would be before the nurses board but we are not there let 
alone making complaints that what we do to the majority of  birthing is 
non-physiological!!


I hope one day we all will similarly demand that we MUST support 
physiological childbirth by ensuring at least healthy  women can birth in 
privacy, wher they want, how they want  with those they know and trust and 
who know how to empower a woman to trust and work with their babies and 
bodies!!

Denise Hynd

Let us support one another, not just in philosophy but in action, for the 
sake of freedom for all women to choose exactly how and by whom, if by 
anyone, our bodies will be handled.


- Linda Hes

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From: jo [EMAIL PROTECTED]

To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
Sent: Friday, September 02, 2005 7:49 AM
Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Men at births





I think the utter relief after giving birth and the euphoria and oxytocin
running through your body with a wet warm baby on your belly can be 
likened

to orgasm - except BETTER!

Cheers
Jo x

-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Susan Cudlipp
Sent: Thursday, 1 September 2005 11:45 PM
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Men at births

PS
I have a very dear friend who says that her labour WAS orgasmic - while I
can't (unfortunately) claim the same, there was definitely a 
sexual/sensual

aspect to it
Sue
The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do
nothing
Edmund Burke
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From: Susan Cudlipp [EMAIL PROTECTED]

To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
Sent: Thursday, September 01, 2005 8:27 PM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Men at births



Ah but they don't think that sex and childbirth are related!!
Thanks for making me smile
Sue
The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do
nothing
Edmund Burke
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From: Dean  Jo [EMAIL PROTECTED]

To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
Sent: Thursday, September 01, 2005 1:20 PM
Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Men at births


Noises during birth ARE  similar to sex I think...not that I eaves drop
that often! ;o)  I think when people think of birthing positions and
facial expressions not being 'ladylike' I often want to say it doesn't
seem to bother people at the other end of the equation! -being
conception!

Thanks to cosmo and cleo we can now all feel comfortable with orgasim
and the such...saw the headline for an article called heads up on going
down  gawd even made me blush!  But when it comes to birth we are far
more comfortable with the quiet well behaved serene woman.  Just think,
the lay back and think of england sex of years gone by has changed to be
empowering, fulfilling and activebut birth has so far to go!

Jo
SA

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From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Miriam Hannay
Sent: Thursday, September 01, 2005 10:49 AM
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Men at births


I'm with you, Megan!
To give birth to a beloved child is the ultimate
expression of the emotional and sexual love my husband
and I share.

He described me during labour and birth as being
'awesome, powerful, sexy, strong, more beautiful than
ever before'. He even commented that the involuntary
noises I made during birth were similar to the noises
I make during orgasm!

Obviously, such an experience relies on the nature of
the birth itself, We had three babes at home and one
in hospital, all beautiful physiological births with
no intervention.

With regard retaining your 'sexual mystery', I'm not
quite sure what there is about sex and sexuality
that's 'mysterious'. If a couple's sexual relationship
is open, honest, loving and passionate, does there
need to be any 'mystery'? To me this smacks a little
of patriarchal notions of women's role as sexual
object... Gee, I hope my husband doesn't find anything
about me mysterious after fourteen