Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread Boris Liberman
On 11/10/2010 11:27 AM, eckinator wrote: doesn't that make you a royalty groupie though? No, it does not. I do like to be as precise as possible in my addressing of people. Boris -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net http://pdml.net/mailman/listinfo/pdml_pdml.net to UNSUBSCRIBE

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread eckinator
2010/11/10 Boris Liberman bori...@gmail.com: I'm a group of loners It is only appropriate then that from now on I shall address you in Your Groupness and respective and respectable Royal You. doesn't that make you a royalty groupie though? -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread Cotty
On 9/11/10, Mark Roberts, discombobulated, unleashed: There are two reasons people run marathons: To compete (even against oneself and one's previous best time) To pretend to compete (to be able to tell friends I ran a marathon!) You forgot the third reason: To think about it for one nanosecond

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread Cotty
On 9/11/10, Bob Sullivan, discombobulated, unleashed: Cotty does synchronized swimming? I can't imagine him in one of those cute little caps! Bob, if you're not careful I will come over there and put a bat up your nightdress. -- Cheers, Cotty ___/\__ || (O) | People, Places,

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread John Francis
On Wed, Nov 10, 2010 at 05:42:05PM +, Cotty wrote: On 9/11/10, Bob Sullivan, discombobulated, unleashed: Cotty does synchronized swimming? I can't imagine him in one of those cute little caps! Bob, if you're not careful I will come over there and put a bat up your nightdress.

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread Cotty
On 10/11/10, John Francis, discombobulated, unleashed: On Wed, Nov 10, 2010 at 05:42:05PM +, Cotty wrote: On 9/11/10, Bob Sullivan, discombobulated, unleashed: Cotty does synchronized swimming? I can't imagine him in one of those cute little caps! Bob, if you're not careful I will come

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread Mark Roberts
John Francis wrote: On Wed, Nov 10, 2010 at 05:42:05PM +, Cotty wrote: On 9/11/10, Bob Sullivan, discombobulated, unleashed: Cotty does synchronized swimming? I can't imagine him in one of those cute little caps! Bob, if you're not careful I will come over there and put a bat up your

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread Mark Roberts
Cotty wrote: On 10/11/10, John Francis, discombobulated, unleashed: On Wed, Nov 10, 2010 at 05:42:05PM +, Cotty wrote: On 9/11/10, Bob Sullivan, discombobulated, unleashed: Cotty does synchronized swimming? I can't imagine him in one of those cute little caps! Bob, if you're not

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread frank theriault
On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 7:49 AM, Mark Roberts m...@robertstech.com wrote: Because without the sanctioning body anyone could just say I ran a marathon in 2:10 yesterday Peh! I just ran one in 2:08 last week... ;-) cheers, frank -- Sharpness is a bourgeois concept.  -Henri Cartier-Bresson

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread Steven Desjardins
I'm trying to make mine last. I'm doing a little bit every day until mid December. On Wed, Nov 10, 2010 at 2:00 PM, frank theriault knarftheria...@gmail.com wrote: On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 7:49 AM, Mark Roberts m...@robertstech.com wrote: Because without the sanctioning body anyone could just

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread Cotty
On 10/11/10, Mark Roberts, discombobulated, unleashed: Damn, I wasn't fast enough! Great minds ;-) -- Cheers, Cotty ___/\__ || (O) | People, Places, Pastiche -- http://www.cottysnaps.com _ -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread P. J. Alling
Great? On 11/10/2010 2:21 PM, Cotty wrote: On 10/11/10, Mark Roberts, discombobulated, unleashed: Damn, I wasn't fast enough! Great minds ;-) -- Cheers, Cotty ___/\__ || (O) | People, Places, Pastiche -- http://www.cottysnaps.com _

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-10 Thread Bob Sullivan
We wear Dr Dentons here... :-) On Wed, Nov 10, 2010 at 11:42 AM, Cotty cotty...@mac.com wrote: On 9/11/10, Bob Sullivan, discombobulated, unleashed: Cotty does synchronized swimming? I can't imagine him in one of those cute little caps! Bob, if you're not careful I will come over there and

RE: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Bob W
That could be it. But why do we need some sanctioning body to recognize it? There are running clubs, bicycle clubs, swimming clubs, etc. that are populated by people who will never compete, but they'll do it for the camaraderie or the exercise or whatever. Then, some of them will train

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread David Mann
On Nov 9, 2010, at 4:15 PM, Scott Loveless wrote: I've been thinking about crowds, or rather the reasons people want to do things with other people. This stems from looking into events such as marathons. (I actually have no interest in running a marathon, but I'm going to use it as an

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread eckinator
Scott, are you on your way to reconsideration perhaps? 2010/11/9 Scott Loveless sdlovel...@gmail.com: O hai!  This is way off topic and concerns the reasons people feel compelled to do things in a group.  The PDML is such an eclectic group, though, I figured someone would know something about

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Mark Roberts
Scott Loveless wrote: On Mon, Nov 8, 2010 at 10:43 PM, Miserere miser...@gmail.com wrote: Some people are masochists, some are highly competitive alphas. A few are both. Then there are sheep. And also lemmings. I've participated in organised mountain bike races. Sure, I could have ridden

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Bob Sullivan
Boris, The way I was taught about the 'Need for Affiliation' it was a social thing. It is most important for these people to have friends and fit-in at work. To have the rest of your co-workers give you affirmation. Those driven by a 'Need for Achievement' want to get things done. They are

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Mark Roberts
Scott Loveless wrote: That could be it. But why do we need some sanctioning body to recognize it? Because without the sanctioning body anyone could just say I ran a marathon in 2:10 yesterday -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net http://pdml.net/mailman/listinfo/pdml_pdml.net to

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Mark Roberts
Doug Franklin wrote: On 2010-11-08 22:15, Scott Loveless wrote: I initially started looking for explanations with search terms like crowd psychology, but that's something different. So what I'm asking for is the psychological terminology that applies to this behavior. I'd like to read more

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Mark Roberts
Scott Loveless wrote: On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 7:49 AM, Mark Roberts m...@robertstech.com wrote: Scott Loveless wrote: That could be it.  But why do we need some sanctioning body to recognize it? Because without the sanctioning body anyone could just say I ran a marathon in 2:10 yesterday

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread David J Brooks
On Mon, Nov 8, 2010 at 10:15 PM, Scott Loveless sdlovel...@gmail.com wrote: O hai!  This is way off topic and concerns the reasons people feel compelled to do things in a group.  The PDML is such an eclectic group, though, I figured someone would know something about it.  Worst case scenario -

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Boris Liberman
Hmmm, I wasn't taught. I was taught about algorithm complexity and direct acyclic graphs, but not need for affiliation... Sorry. We may have to work out the common platform... err... language first. On 11/9/2010 5:16 PM, Bob Sullivan wrote: The way I was taught about the 'Need for

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread mark
Scott Loveless sdlovel...@gmail.com wrote: On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 9:09 AM, Mark Roberts m...@robertstech.com wrote: So what you're really asking is why do people need to perform actions that contribute to their sense of self-esteem? Not necessarily. I'm more interested in why people decide to

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Scott Loveless
On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 7:49 AM, Mark Roberts m...@robertstech.com wrote: Scott Loveless wrote: That could be it.  But why do we need some sanctioning body to recognize it? Because without the sanctioning body anyone could just say I ran a marathon in 2:10 yesterday That seems so f'ing

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Scott Loveless
On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 10:36 AM, m...@robertstech.com wrote: Scott Loveless sdlovel...@gmail.com wrote: On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 9:09 AM, Mark Roberts m...@robertstech.com wrote: So what you're really asking is why do people need to perform actions that contribute to their sense of self-esteem?

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Bob Sullivan
Boris, I started my career working with engineers, but moved away from it. I always connected best with quantitative, analytical people. Achievement people can get satisfaction from the team accomplishing the goal. Power people can be sneaky, conniving bastards trying to manipulate the team toward

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread P. J. Alling
I prefer disorganized groups, that's why I'm here. On 11/9/2010 10:02 AM, Scott Loveless wrote: On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 9:09 AM, Mark Robertsm...@robertstech.com wrote: So what you're really asking is why do people need to perform actions that contribute to their sense of self-esteem? Not

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Ken Waller
I prefer disorganized groups, that's why I'm here. YO - Mark ! Kenneth Waller http://www.pentaxphotogallery.com/kennethwaller - Original Message - From: P. J. Alling webstertwenty...@gmail.com Subject: Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events I prefer disorganized groups, that's why

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread P. J. Alling
Church services, lodge meetings, funerals, elections, fraternity/sorority hazings, swearing in ceremonies, graduations, sure we have... On 11/9/2010 11:20 AM, John Sessoms wrote: Don't think that because we've outgrown the tribe, we've outgrown the need for tribal rituals. They're a

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Steven Desjardins
Don't forget angry mobs. (my favorite) On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 11:29 AM, P. J. Alling webstertwenty...@gmail.com wrote: Church services, lodge meetings, funerals, elections, fraternity/sorority hazings, swearing in ceremonies, graduations, sure we have... On 11/9/2010 11:20 AM, John Sessoms

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread John Sessoms
From: Mark Roberts Scott Loveless wrote: That could be it. But why do we need some sanctioning body to recognize it? Because without the sanctioning body anyone could just say I ran a marathon in 2:10 yesterday Hmmm? That's about the right time for me ... although, technically, in my

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread John Francis
On Tue, Nov 09, 2010 at 10:02:04AM -0500, Scott Loveless wrote: Not necessarily. I'm more interested in why people decide to do those things in large, organized groups. What makes the official recognition so important to the people who participate, as opposed to just going out and doing it

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Christian Skofteland
On Mon, Nov 08, 2010 at 11:54:02PM -0500, Scott Loveless wrote: On Mon, Nov 8, 2010 at 11:30 PM, Bob Sullivan rf.sulli...@gmail.com wrote: Need for Achievement.  Absolutely!  'I can do this!'  Set goals then achieve them. Right. But why is an organized event with a gazillion other

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Steven Desjardins
Like the way we're all ganging up on you now. ;-p On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 10:40 AM, Scott Loveless sdlovel...@gmail.com wrote: On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 10:36 AM,  m...@robertstech.com wrote: Scott Loveless sdlovel...@gmail.com wrote: On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 9:09 AM, Mark Roberts

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Steven Desjardins
Human beings are social animals and the sense of community is a source of encouragement for many. Of course, this is only true in general and may not apply to everyone, although in this case I think you might be the outlier. No offense, I'm a loner as well. On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 11:07 AM,

RE: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Bob W
Human beings are social animals and the sense of community is a source of encouragement for many. Of course, this is only true in general and may not apply to everyone, although in this case I think you might be the outlier. No offense, I'm a loner as well. we're a group of loners. B

RE: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Bob W
Boris, I think Affirmation and Affiliation with others are the same motivation. Regards, Bob S. I don't think so, Bob. Affiliation is what one does towards the group - they make themselves the part of the group. The affirmation is the other way around, when the group pats in the back

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Scott Loveless
On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 1:53 PM, Bob W p...@web-options.com wrote: Human beings are social animals and the sense of community is a source of encouragement for many.  Of course, this is only true in general and may not apply to everyone, although in this case I think you might be the outlier.

RE: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Bob W
Bob W, Cotty does synchronized swimming? I can't imagine him in one of those cute little caps! Regards, Bob S. Really? The thought keeps me awake at night. On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 2:16 AM, Bob W p...@web-options.com wrote: That could be it.  But why do we need some sanctioning body to

RE: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Bob W
(I need to remember this crap I'm spouting, it could be useful in job interviews.) you should write it down. B -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net http://pdml.net/mailman/listinfo/pdml_pdml.net to UNSUBSCRIBE from the PDML, please visit the link directly above and follow the

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread John Sessoms
Don't think that because we've outgrown the tribe, we've outgrown the need for tribal rituals. They're a hold-over whose purpose may no longer be clear; vestigial organs of a human society ... like the vermiform appendix. From: Scott Loveless On Mon, Nov 8, 2010 at 11:49 PM, John Sessoms

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Bob Sullivan
Boris, I think Affirmation and Affiliation with others are the same motivation. Regards, Bob S. On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 12:01 AM, Boris Liberman bori...@gmail.com wrote: Bob, I think you're forgetting one more need. Need for peer Affirmation. Look, I have changed my mind, I am buying K-5

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread eckinator
2010/11/9 John Francis jo...@panix.com: Why put your pictures (or your blog) up where other people can see them? Why post your opinions to internet discussion groups or mailing lists? generativity or the desire for it could be one reason ecke -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net

RE: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Bob W
Human beings are social animals and the sense of community is a source of encouragement for many.  Of course, this is only true in general and may not apply to everyone, although in this case I think you might be the outlier. No offense, I'm a loner as well. we're a group of

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Boris Liberman
On 11/9/2010 5:41 PM, Bob Sullivan wrote: Boris, I started my career working with engineers, but moved away from it. I always connected best with quantitative, analytical people. Achievement people can get satisfaction from the team accomplishing the goal. Power people can be sneaky, conniving

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Bob Sullivan
Bob W, Cotty does synchronized swimming? I can't imagine him in one of those cute little caps! Regards, Bob S. On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 2:16 AM, Bob W p...@web-options.com wrote: That could be it.  But why do we need some sanctioning body to recognize it? There are running clubs, bicycle clubs,

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Boris Liberman
On 11/9/2010 4:39 PM, Bob Sullivan wrote: Boris, I think Affirmation and Affiliation with others are the same motivation. Regards, Bob S. I don't think so, Bob. Affiliation is what one does towards the group - they make themselves the part of the group. The affirmation is the other way

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Scott Loveless
On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 9:09 AM, Mark Roberts m...@robertstech.com wrote: So what you're really asking is why do people need to perform actions that contribute to their sense of self-esteem? Not necessarily. I'm more interested in why people decide to do those things in large, organized groups.

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread P. J. Alling
On 11/9/2010 5:04 PM, Bob W wrote: Human beings are social animals and the sense of community is a source of encouragement for many. Of course, this is only true in general and may not apply to everyone, although in this case I think you might be the outlier. No offense, I'm a loner as

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Bob Sullivan
Mark, You are an accomplished runner, but a bit harsh with that 'pretend' comment. I watched a young man, 6'2 and a little pudgy with low self-confidence change. He trained and ran 3 or 4 marathons. He lost a little weight but never became 'cross country runner' thin, but he did gain a lot of

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-09 Thread Boris Liberman
On 11/10/2010 12:04 AM, Bob W wrote: I'm a group of loners B It is only appropriate then that from now on I shall address you in Your Groupness and respective and respectable Royal You. B -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net http://pdml.net/mailman/listinfo/pdml_pdml.net to

Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Scott Loveless
O hai! This is way off topic and concerns the reasons people feel compelled to do things in a group. The PDML is such an eclectic group, though, I figured someone would know something about it. Worst case scenario - half of you tell me to shut up and the other half gets into a flame war. g

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Subash
On Mon, 8 Nov 2010 22:15:37 -0500 Scott Loveless sdlovel...@gmail.com wrote: O hai! This is way off topic and concerns the reasons people feel compelled to do things in a group. The PDML is such an eclectic group, though, I figured someone would know something about it. Worst case scenario

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Miserere
Some people are masochists, some are highly competitive alphas. A few are both. Then there are sheep. And also lemmings. I've participated in organised mountain bike races. Sure, I could have ridden those course without the other participants at any other time, but I never pushed myself as hard

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Doug Franklin
On 2010-11-08 22:15, Scott Loveless wrote: I initially started looking for explanations with search terms like crowd psychology, but that's something different. So what I'm asking for is the psychological terminology that applies to this behavior. I'd like to read more about it, but I'm

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Doug Franklin
On 2010-11-08 22:43, Miserere wrote: I've participated in organised mountain bike races. Sure, I could have ridden those course without the other participants at any other time, but I never pushed myself as hard as when I was racing. The pursuit of the breaking point is what I used to call it. I

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Scott Loveless
On Mon, Nov 8, 2010 at 10:43 PM, Miserere miser...@gmail.com wrote: Some people are masochists, some are highly competitive alphas. A few are both. Then there are sheep. And also lemmings. I've participated in organised mountain bike races. Sure, I could have ridden those course without

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Scott Loveless
On Mon, Nov 8, 2010 at 10:49 PM, Doug Franklin jehosep...@mindspring.com wrote: On 2010-11-08 22:43, Miserere wrote: I've participated in organised mountain bike races. Sure, I could have ridden those course without the other participants at any other time, but I never pushed myself as hard

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Bob Sullivan
Basic human psychology/motivations... Need for Power. Probably doesn't play to much in these situations. Need for Achievement. Absolutely! 'I can do this!' Set goals then achieve them. Need for Affiliation. Look at all the similar people I meet and can become affiliated with. Scott, I think

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Doug Franklin
On 2010-11-08 23:22, Scott Loveless wrote: The difference is that you can't, at least not legally, outside of Italyg, drive like that on public roads. Yeah, that was sort of my (implicit) point. If I could legally and safely drive that fast elsewhere, I would. But I can't, so I'm there

RE: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread John Sessoms
Tribal Bonding Rituals From: Scott Loveless O hai! This is way off topic and concerns the reasons people feel compelled to do things in a group. The PDML is such an eclectic group, though, I figured someone would know something about it. Worst case scenario - half of you tell me to shut up

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Scott Loveless
On Mon, Nov 8, 2010 at 11:30 PM, Bob Sullivan rf.sulli...@gmail.com wrote: Need for Achievement.  Absolutely!  'I can do this!'  Set goals then achieve them. Right. But why is an organized event with a gazillion other people the motivator? Need for Affiliation.  Look at all the similar

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Scott Loveless
On Mon, Nov 8, 2010 at 11:49 PM, John Sessoms jsessoms...@nc.rr.com wrote: Tribal Bonding Rituals That's not it. The New York marathon isn't a tribe. It's a small city moving through a large city. If you had, say, a group of New Balance 990 enthusiasts who got together to run long distances

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Ken Waller
as running in an organized event, there was no other way I could run with others. In general. about 95% of my running was by myself. Kenneth Waller http://www.pentaxphotogallery.com/kennethwaller - Original Message - From: Scott Loveless sdlovel...@gmail.com Subject: Way, way OT - crowds

Re: Way, way OT - crowds and events

2010-11-08 Thread Boris Liberman
Bob, I think you're forgetting one more need. Need for peer Affirmation. Look, I have changed my mind, I am buying K-5 after all, kind of sentiment. Boris On 11/9/2010 6:30 AM, Bob Sullivan wrote: Basic human psychology/motivations... Need for Power. Probably doesn't play to much in these