Re: [silk] p2p? nah! - was Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-11 Thread va
On Fri, Apr 11, 2008 at 6:16 AM, Biju Chacko [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: It's one of the few things that parents think they have some control over. Folks with grey strands (difficult to spot with hair coloring being the rage an all) opine that they dont have any control over anything, much less

Re: [silk] p2p? nah! - was Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-11 Thread Rishab Aiyer Ghosh
On Thu, 2008-04-10 at 23:11 +0530, Ramjee Swaminathan wrote: What we need to do is to make the child blossom on its own, giving it a good environment, choices, and feedback as parents and as folks not interested in Dgeneration . As the Godfather2 dialogue goes - it is difficult, but not

[silk] p2p? nah! - was Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Ramjee Swaminathan
On 4/10/08, Biju Chacko [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 5:29 PM, Ingrid [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Except that in choosing both residential neighbourhoods and schools, parents (usually) determine peer group as well. Which brings us back to square one -- my worry about

Re: [silk] p2p? nah! - was Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Thaths
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 9:29 AM, Ramjee Swaminathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Typically, many of the non traditional schools are small in size, have only a few 'dedicated' folks behind the show, they subscribe to some didactic philosophy (Montessori/Steiner/Horseburgh/Krishnamurthy/Neill/MK

Re: [silk] p2p? nah! - was Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Ramjee Swaminathan
On 4/10/08, Thaths [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: When I was growing up, my parents lacked the money or connections or even knowledge to be able to send me to schools like Rishi Valley. They did send me to pretty good mainstream disciplinarian, 100% success rate (Most of our students get into IIT)

Re: [silk] p2p? nah! - was Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread ss
On Thursday 10 Apr 2008 9:59:14 pm Ramjee Swaminathan wrote: I am merely hinting at the possibility that it's effect is minimal and that the damage/goodwork done to the child (direclty and indirectly) is already done by the time peers enter the picture. True IMO. The peer group become

Re: [silk] p2p? nah! - was Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Biju Chacko
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 11:11 PM, Ramjee Swaminathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Anyway, the point is that regular or irregular schools, the onus is actually on the parents. That, in fact, is the crux of the matter. Personally, the responsibility of making sure my kid turns out normal (let alone