Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkersnet] Bangalore: The rising divorce rate in the IT sector
--- ashok _ [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: anymore. I have a couple of cousins who are slaving like fools to save money for their daughters marriage (their daughters are less than 10 years old now...)... in some misplaced belief that 15 years hence, their kids will actually listen to them. Two words: College. Fund. cheers, Divya
Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkersnet] Bangalore: The rising divorce rate in the IT sector
On 8/5/07, Kiran Jonnalagadda [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Viewing the computer for long hours has proven to cause impotency, says Pramila Nesargi, chairperson of the Karnataka State Women's Commission. We are a transition generation; the husbands want to be like their fathers, the wives thankfully don't have to take it like their mothers - they are financially free. Stress, lack of time at home, yada yada yada is just icing on the cake. The next generation will IMO handle this much better. Cheeni
Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkersnet] Bangalore: The rising divorce rate in the IT sector
On 8/5/07, Srini Ramakrishnan wrote: The next generation will IMO handle this much better. The next generation will probably decide to be single. Women will finally figure out (just like they have done in europe) that they dont need a man anymore. I have a couple of cousins who are slaving like fools to save money for their daughters marriage (their daughters are less than 10 years old now...)... in some misplaced belief that 15 years hence, their kids will actually listen to them.
Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkersnet] Bangalore: The rising divorce rate in the IT sector
On Sun, Aug 05, 2007 at 10:41:34PM +0300, ashok _ wrote: The next generation will probably decide to be single. Women will finally figure out (just like they have done in europe) that they dont need a man Notice the birth rate in Europe. Demographics is hitting us hard, and birth rate has been going down hereabouts for some 100+ odd years. You definitely do not want to do it overnight. anymore. I have a couple of cousins who are slaving like fools to save money for their daughters marriage (their daughters are less than 10 years old now...)... in some misplaced belief that 15 years hence, their kids will actually listen to them. -- Eugen* Leitl a href=http://leitl.org;leitl/a http://leitl.org __ ICBM: 48.07100, 11.36820 http://www.ativel.com http://postbiota.org 8B29F6BE: 099D 78BA 2FD3 B014 B08A 7779 75B0 2443 8B29 F6BE
Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkersnet] Bangalore: The rising divorce rate in the IT sector
Parents slaving for their daughter's wedding...which might end in a divorce!!! someone very wise said: forget about the wedding, it is the marriage that is more important. We Indians are highly goal focused rather than process oreinted-I suspect that old fashioned contempt for dating also has to do with intolerance for ambiguity and low risk tolerance ather than mere morality. Of course, this is easier to say in hindsight, but as a divorced woman in the early 90s when it was less prevalent/fashionable/acceptable to admit one's immaturity or flawed decision-making, I can truly say that the women who did not meet THE ONE before they hit 30 were blessed whether they knew it or not. And not just for financial reasons. 2007/8/5, ashok _ [EMAIL PROTECTED]: On 8/5/07, Srini Ramakrishnan wrote: The next generation will IMO handle this much better. The next generation will probably decide to be single. Women will finally figure out (just like they have done in europe) that they dont need a man anymore. I have a couple of cousins who are slaving like fools to save money for their daughters marriage (their daughters are less than 10 years old now...)... in some misplaced belief that 15 years hence, their kids will actually listen to them.
