Re: RTFM and Ettiquette was: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-17 Thread Erik Price


Paul Brinkley wrote:


The solution that causes the least amount of distress to all
parties (that I can think of) is to teach netiquette to Internet
newcomers in some hard-to-avoid location.


[...]


Unfortunately, this is a culture change, and hence it will take
a while, possibly as much as a generation (25 years) or more.
Those of you with kids: start now...


And those of you who refuse to do some legwork before posting to the 
list, please don't have kids.



Erik


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Re: RTFM and Ettiquette was: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-14 Thread Paul Brinkley
At 05:59 PM 2/13/2003 -0800, Jeff Wishnie wrote:

Although I agree wholeheartedly with the sentiment--do your homework 
before asking for help--lets not forget that given the
disorganized state of most opensource documentation, being pointed to the 
proper docs helps a lot.

Specifically, when someone asks a question that is answered in some docs, 
a useful answer would be something like:

You'll find the web.xml format explained in Sun's Servlet 2.3 spec, 
available at java.sun.com

Replying Yo, just, RTFM is rude and not helpful to anyone.

I'm pretty new to Tomcat as well and appreciate being pointed to the place 
where I can find an answer as much as being given told an
answer directly.

Having to manually repost a link to the documentation over and
over again gets tiresome.  The clever list member will quickly
make a handy list of links to post automatically in response,
but still has to go through the trouble of posting it repeatedly,
and it also clutters the list.

The solution that causes the least amount of distress to all
parties (that I can think of) is to teach netiquette to Internet
newcomers in some hard-to-avoid location.  It can be physical
(school courses, savvy parents, etc.) or virtual (a website, or
a tutorial in an Internet provider's software package).  That
netiquette must at the very least instruct newcomers how to find
online answers to a question:

1. Locate an official homepage for the topic, using a web search
   engine.
2a. Search archives of an official discussion forum, mailing
list, Usenet group, etc. for the answer.
2b. Search above for an FAQ.
3. Search the web in general.
4. Post to a forum, asking the question, asking for an FAQ if
   one couldn't be found by now, being polite and specific.

These should be done in the order given (2a and 2b can be in
either order as you like).  #4 absolutely, positively should be
a last-ditch option.  This is the only way we are going to
properly leverage computer automation, until NLU is achieved;
going to 4 before 1, 2, or 3 in effect requires everyone to have
their own personal research assistant, which is ludicrously
impractical in the long run.

Unfortunately, this is a culture change, and hence it will take
a while, possibly as much as a generation (25 years) or more.
Those of you with kids: start now...


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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-14 Thread Steve Burrus
To whom were u referring to anyway, Mike And just go away, preferably never to 
return me perhaps??? If so, I thought that all of the damned *flaming* that WAS going 
on in this newsgroup had ceased forever, never to raise its' ugly head ever again, 
but i see that I was quite wrong!


RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-14 Thread Steve Burrus
Ron, was a rather nasty epithet to me Go F**ck yourself!!!? If so, I will also 
tell you, as I just now told another gentleman [sic] in our group that I solemnly 
thought and hoped so much that the flaming of one another had ceased forever in our 
little newsgroup. i guess that just plain basic human nature being what it sadly is, 
this i have come to expect from certain other members of our group. [sigh!]  


RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-14 Thread jsp
Wow, and I defended this guy ? I truly appoligize for that tomcat
users ! I was WRONG






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Ron, was a rather nasty epithet to me Go F**ck yourself!!!? If so, I
will also tell you, as I just now told another gentleman [sic] in our
group that I solemnly thought and hoped so much that the flaming of one
another had ceased forever in our little newsgroup. i guess that just
plain basic human nature being what it sadly is, this i have come to
expect from certain other members of our group. [sigh!]  


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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-14 Thread Steve Burrus
 Why in the hell do you think that u were wrong in *defending* me in this
newsgroup anyway jsp?! What did I suddenly say, in my last posting, that has
evoked this kind of a negative attitude from you? I just don't get it or
understand you for a moment. Oh well, I really haven't caught on to where others
in our group are coming from psychologically either, I must say. 

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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Steve Burrus
Thanx jsp. I THINK that you were defending my honor :-) in telling someone else 
that I really don't need at all to RTFM! Ya, you're right that I don't need to read 
the manual when there is ready and plentiful help/assistance for me within the ranks 
of this Tomcat group of ours'. 


RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread David Durst
 Thanx jsp. I THINK that you were defending my honor :-) in telling
 someone else that I really don't need at all to RTFM! Ya, you're right
 that I don't need to read the manual when there is ready and plentiful
 help/assistance for me within the ranks of this Tomcat group of ours'.
Why is anyone still posting on this thread!



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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Steve Burrus
David, sorry to *offend* u with additional postings on this thread!!! you're right, 
this threAd has sort of played itself out, and I will not post to this thread ever 
again, although I cannot control what others may wanna do.


RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Jim Henderson
It is amusing and breaks the tedium of the day?

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 Thanx jsp. I THINK that you were defending my honor :-) in telling
 someone else that I really don't need at all to RTFM! Ya, you're right
 that I don't need to read the manual when there is ready and plentiful
 help/assistance for me within the ranks of this Tomcat group of ours'.

Why is anyone still posting on this thread!


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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Barley

LOL...is this fellow serious? You think other people
should have to do the reading for you? Wow, this group
tolerates a lot more ridiculous behavior than most tech
groups I read.


 Thanx jsp. I THINK that you were defending my
honor :-) in telling someone else that I really don't
need at all to RTFM! Ya, you're right that I don't
need to read the manual when there is ready and
plentiful help/assistance for me within the ranks of
this Tomcat group of ours'.


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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Wendell Holmes
I think he found one of those EARN $$$ from home with ur personal computer
ads that is paying him $$$ for every phrase he puts in quotes.  My
question is, What is he doing with the money, since he's obviously not
needing it to buy clues, having been graciously given many more than his
fair share of excellent ones already?.  Did he use the money to buy a
membership in our little newsgroup from a used bridge salesman?

Wendell Holmes

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LOL...is this fellow serious? You think other people
should have to do the reading for you? Wow, this group
tolerates a lot more ridiculous behavior than most tech
groups I read.


 Thanx jsp. I THINK that you were defending my
honor :-) in telling someone else that I really don't
need at all to RTFM! Ya, you're right that I don't
need to read the manual when there is ready and
plentiful help/assistance for me within the ranks of
this Tomcat group of ours'.


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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Steve Burrus
Lemme clarify my earlier post for you Barley!! I only meant that there should be 
some kind of a nice combination of BOTH RTFMing AND getting/receiving useful advice 
from others in our newsgroup who have vastly more experience and knowledge with using 
Tomcat than i do, so far. Can you somehow understand that or not? :)  


Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Kenny G. Dubuisson, Jr.
You lied...you said your previous post was the last on this topic.  Please
just stop.
Kenny

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 Lemme clarify my earlier post for you Barley!! I only meant that there
should be some kind of a nice combination of BOTH RTFMing AND
getting/receiving useful advice from others in our newsgroup who have vastly
more experience and knowledge with using Tomcat than i do, so far. Can you
somehow understand that or not? :)


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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Steve Burrus
Listen, I said that it would PROBABLY be the last/final post on this thread!!! I 
didn't make any promises at all to you or anyone else that it would absolutely be the 
last one. Go back please and read that particular posting in question. People in this 
group just wanna jump on my back for the tiniest little reason sometimes.


RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Filip Hanik
I think you just burnt your last chance for help on this list.
sad

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Listen, I said that it would PROBABLY be the last/final post on this thread!!! I 
didn't make any promises at all to you or anyone else that it would absolutely be the 
last one. Go back please and read that particular posting in question. People in this 
group just wanna jump on my back for the tiniest little reason sometimes.

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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Wilson Snook
Steve,

It is possible you have not been given the right sort of help.  Here is a
useful JSP hyperlink:

http://www.merck.com/mrkshared/mmanual_home/sec7/89.jsp

Please read the short section on the Narcissistic Personality.  I quote:

They feel they're entitled to have their needs attended to without waiting,
so they exploit others, whose needs or beliefs are deemed to be less
important. Their behavior is usually offensive to others, who view them as
being self-centered, arrogant, or selfish.

Wilson

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 Listen, I said that it would PROBABLY be the last/final post on this
thread!!! I didn't make any promises at all to you or anyone else that it
would absolutely be the last one. Go back please and read that particular
posting in question. People in this group just wanna jump on my back for
the tiniest little reason sometimes.



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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Justin L. Spies
I know I'm now contributing, but I can't help but sit here with this big
ol' grin on my face wondering what it will take to make this stop.
Probably the sooner we all stop responding to these types of threads,
the sooner the individual threads will stop.  (I uses threads because I
doubt these posts will every truly stop.)

--Justin


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Sent: Thursday, February 13, 2003 5:44 PM
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You lied...you said your previous post was the last on this topic.
Please just stop. Kenny

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 Lemme clarify my earlier post for you Barley!! I only meant that 
 there
should be some kind of a nice combination of BOTH RTFMing AND
getting/receiving useful advice from others in our newsgroup who have
vastly more experience and knowledge with using Tomcat than i do, so
far. Can you somehow understand that or not? :)


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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Barley
No way. RTFM. The whole reason we have searchable
archives, documentation, FAQs and all the rest is so
that you the user can do some of the legwork *before*
asking questions.

I do agree with you that it can be difficult to do your
own legwork...I'm new to Tomcat myself and have been
reading docs, FAQs, books and posts for what feels like
a week straight. It's a total pain in the ass. But that
doesn't mean that the folks who have already been
through it should hold my hand and walk me through it.
Go pay someone for support if that's what you want.

Believe me, with most open-source projects, you'll find
much less sympathy than you have here.

Gregg



 Lemme clarify my earlier post for you Barley!! I
only meant that there should be some kind of a nice
combination of BOTH RTFMing AND getting/receiving
useful advice from others in our newsgroup who have
vastly more experience and knowledge with using Tomcat
than i do, so far. Can you somehow understand that or
not? :)


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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Ron Day
Steve,

GFYYA-H


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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Rosdi bin Kasim

I couldn't agree more.

Rosdi.

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 No way. RTFM. The whole reason we have searchable
 archives, documentation, FAQs and all the rest is so
 that you the user can do some of the legwork *before*
 asking questions.
 
 I do agree with you that it can be difficult to do your
 own legwork...I'm new to Tomcat myself and have been
 reading docs, FAQs, books and posts for what feels like
 a week straight. It's a total pain in the ass. But that
 doesn't mean that the folks who have already been
 through it should hold my hand and walk me through it.
 Go pay someone for support if that's what you want.
 
 Believe me, with most open-source projects, you'll find
 much less sympathy than you have here.
 
 Gregg
 
 
 
  Lemme clarify my earlier post for you Barley!! I
 only meant that there should be some kind of a nice
 combination of BOTH RTFMing AND getting/receiving
 useful advice from others in our newsgroup who have
 vastly more experience and knowledge with using Tomcat
 than i do, so far. Can you somehow understand that or
 not? :)
 
 
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RTFM and Ettiquette was: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Jeff Wishnie
Although I agree wholeheartedly with the sentiment--do your homework before asking for 
help--lets not forget that given the
disorganized state of most opensource documentation, being pointed to the proper docs 
helps a lot.

Specifically, when someone asks a question that is answered in some docs, a useful 
answer would be something like:

You'll find the web.xml format explained in Sun's Servlet 2.3 spec, available at 
java.sun.com

Replying Yo, just, RTFM is rude and not helpful to anyone.

I'm pretty new to Tomcat as well and appreciate being pointed to the place where I can 
find an answer as much as being given told an
answer directly.

cheers,

Jeff

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 I couldn't agree more.

 Rosdi.

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 Sent: Friday, February 14, 2003 8:20 AM
 Subject: Re: MY ATTITUDE


  No way. RTFM. The whole reason we have searchable
  archives, documentation, FAQs and all the rest is so
  that you the user can do some of the legwork *before*
  asking questions.
 
  I do agree with you that it can be difficult to do your
  own legwork...I'm new to Tomcat myself and have been
  reading docs, FAQs, books and posts for what feels like
  a week straight. It's a total pain in the ass. But that
  doesn't mean that the folks who have already been
  through it should hold my hand and walk me through it.
  Go pay someone for support if that's what you want.
 
  Believe me, with most open-source projects, you'll find
  much less sympathy than you have here.
 
  Gregg
 
 
 
   Lemme clarify my earlier post for you Barley!! I
  only meant that there should be some kind of a nice
  combination of BOTH RTFMing AND getting/receiving
  useful advice from others in our newsgroup who have
  vastly more experience and knowledge with using Tomcat
  than i do, so far. Can you somehow understand that or
  not? :)
 
 
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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-13 Thread Mike Jackson
And just go away, preferably never to return.

--mikej
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 You lied...you said your previous post was the last on this topic.  Please
 just stop.
 Kenny

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 Subject: Re: MY ATTITUDE


  Lemme clarify my earlier post for you Barley!! I only meant that there
 should be some kind of a nice combination of BOTH RTFMing AND
 getting/receiving useful advice from others in our newsgroup who
 have vastly
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 somehow understand that or not? :)


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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-12 Thread Rosdi bin Kasim
 RTFM means Read the friggin' manual.  It is used in almost any place

My oh my..., I thought it means Read The Fine Manual..., man I was
mislead



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Sent: Wednesday, February 12, 2003 7:25 AM
Subject: Re: MY ATTITUDE


 Hi Steve,

 RTFM means Read the friggin' manual.  It is used in almost any place
 where a person is asking a question when they could have read a document
 instead.  The idea is that nobody has extra time sitting around to waste
 re-explaining things that have been explained perfectly well elsewhere.

 In your case, I think what you ought to read is the manual of mailing
 list etiquette.  At first I thought you were a joker or someone who
 found it amusing to post the same questions again and again with strange
 exclamation points () and colloquialisms such as Capiche.  I
 thought you were being rude, but I think now I realize that you just
 don't know any better.

 You are getting fewer answers every day because more and more people
 have set up their email clients to filter out your posts.  It has become
 tiresome to read the same questions again and again, when others have
 pointed you to perfectly fine tutorials explaining how to go about it.
 If these tutorials are not a good enough explanation, then perhaps you
 ought to step down a notch to something more basic.

 Configuring Tomcat and writing JSP/servlet webapps is not easy, and
 requires that you understand the fundamentals of the Java language.
 There are dozens of free books with thousands of pages dedicated to this
 topic, a good one is Thinking in Java at http://www.mindview.net/ .  A
 specialized mailing list like this one is dedicated to answering
 questions and discussing issues surrounding Tomcat, not explaining the
 syntax of a switch statement.  Don't take that as an insult, I'm just
 explaining how it is.  Sun offers an excellent forum for programmers who
 are new to Java at http://forum.java.sun.com/forum.jsp?forum=54 .

 But the problem at hand isn't even really whether or not this is the
 appropriate mailing list for you.  You are not getting much help because
 you simply do not know the protocol for asking questions on a mailing
 list.  It is not appropriate to discuss anything but Tomcat, or
 Tomcat-related issues on this list.  Not switch statements.  Not
 personal issues regarding your social development.  People will forgive
 you if you make a mistake in this regard once in a while.  But this has
 become a daily affair.

 I am going to give you one last hyperlink, and I really hope that you
 click it and read the web page it takes you to.  Others have already
 given you this, and I can only assume that you haven't found time to
 read it yet.  But please read this document.  It will take you all of
 fifteen minutes.  If you don't, or if you read it but choose not to
 listen, then no one on any mailing list is going to help you, as more
 and more people tune you out with email filters.


 The document is called How to Ask Questions the Smart Way, and is
 available at http://catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html .  It is the
 friggin' manual for all mailing lists.  RTFM.


 Erik



 Steve Burrus wrote:
  Matthew, please forgive my *dumb naivety*, but what does RTFM mean,i.e.,
what does it stand for exactly anyway? I hope that this doesn't sound like
some kind of a rant [again], but it seems like for a long time now people
in this newsgroup have ragging on me! Capiche?!


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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-12 Thread jsp
Wow, I thought the idea was to help people out that just don’t get it?
Not tell someone READ THE FRIGIN MANUAL. What kind of crap is that? Some
people don’t just GET the obvious. You don’t have time to answer a dumb
question ?? SO WHY DO YOU HAVE TIME TO WHINE AND CRY FOR 8
PARAGRAPHS, I GOT BETTER THINGS TO DO THAN READ THAT DRIVEL !!!

Adios


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 RTFM means Read the friggin' manual.  It is used in almost any place

My oh my..., I thought it means Read The Fine Manual..., man I was
mislead



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From: Erik Price [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: Tomcat Users List [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Wednesday, February 12, 2003 7:25 AM
Subject: Re: MY ATTITUDE


 Hi Steve,

 RTFM means Read the friggin' manual.  It is used in almost any place
 where a person is asking a question when they could have read a
document
 instead.  The idea is that nobody has extra time sitting around to
waste
 re-explaining things that have been explained perfectly well
elsewhere.

 In your case, I think what you ought to read is the manual of mailing
 list etiquette.  At first I thought you were a joker or someone who
 found it amusing to post the same questions again and again with
strange
 exclamation points () and colloquialisms such as Capiche.  I
 thought you were being rude, but I think now I realize that you just
 don't know any better.

 You are getting fewer answers every day because more and more people
 have set up their email clients to filter out your posts.  It has
become
 tiresome to read the same questions again and again, when others have
 pointed you to perfectly fine tutorials explaining how to go about it.
 If these tutorials are not a good enough explanation, then perhaps you
 ought to step down a notch to something more basic.

 Configuring Tomcat and writing JSP/servlet webapps is not easy, and
 requires that you understand the fundamentals of the Java language.
 There are dozens of free books with thousands of pages dedicated to
this
 topic, a good one is Thinking in Java at http://www.mindview.net/ .
A
 specialized mailing list like this one is dedicated to answering
 questions and discussing issues surrounding Tomcat, not explaining the
 syntax of a switch statement.  Don't take that as an insult, I'm just
 explaining how it is.  Sun offers an excellent forum for programmers
who
 are new to Java at http://forum.java.sun.com/forum.jsp?forum=54 .

 But the problem at hand isn't even really whether or not this is the
 appropriate mailing list for you.  You are not getting much help
because
 you simply do not know the protocol for asking questions on a mailing
 list.  It is not appropriate to discuss anything but Tomcat, or
 Tomcat-related issues on this list.  Not switch statements.  Not
 personal issues regarding your social development.  People will
forgive
 you if you make a mistake in this regard once in a while.  But this
has
 become a daily affair.

 I am going to give you one last hyperlink, and I really hope that you
 click it and read the web page it takes you to.  Others have already
 given you this, and I can only assume that you haven't found time to
 read it yet.  But please read this document.  It will take you all of
 fifteen minutes.  If you don't, or if you read it but choose not to
 listen, then no one on any mailing list is going to help you, as more
 and more people tune you out with email filters.


 The document is called How to Ask Questions the Smart Way, and is
 available at http://catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html .  It is
the
 friggin' manual for all mailing lists.  RTFM.


 Erik



 Steve Burrus wrote:
  Matthew, please forgive my *dumb naivety*, but what does RTFM
mean,i.e.,
what does it stand for exactly anyway? I hope that this doesn't sound
like
some kind of a rant [again], but it seems like for a long time now
people
in this newsgroup have ragging on me! Capiche?!


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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread David Durst
  This is why, if you want to get answers to your questions, you
 have to make it clear in your post that you have done your homework,
 that you have tried the usual resources, that you are not asking for the
 answer to be spoonfed to you.

Just as a side comment, not everyone is aware of the usual resources in
that documentation is sometimes obfuscated in that when you are looking
for a specific answer the details are buried somewhere on another document
you
don't even know you should be reading.  So some people (Including myself)
here should propabably (If time allowing) just point people w/ these
questions to the correct documentation instead of just ignoring.

On another side note we as HELPERS should also be aware of the mentality of
the beginer wanting to ask a REAL person the question (I know its the lazy
mans way) but some people actually learn this way.

And since I have not read any of the initial postings regarding this thread
I will digress from saying anything further and making myself look like
a complete moron :).




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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Jim Urban
Steve,

Don't go away mad, just go away!

Jim

-Original Message-
From: Steve Burrus [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
Sent: Monday, February 10, 2003 9:06 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: MY ATTITUDE

This might be just enough from me to get me permanently kicked off of
this newsgroup (are you reading this,  Craig R. McClanahan??) I don't
really care! I just had to get off of my chest a thing or two, and
that is that just about all of you people out there in this newsgroup
seem to have in for me in a really big way!! You make me feel like I
should first drop dead and then possibly--if I could--drop off of the
face of this Earth!! Maybe I should consult a psychologist/psychiatrist
about this, but I have felt for a long time in my life that nobody in
the whole wide world knows or wants to know that I AM ALIVE AT ALL. I
dare anyone to respond to me WITHOUT saying to me the same old things in
the way of an admonition that I have certainly heard so much of from so
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2003-02-11 Thread Matthew Hattersley
I think you really need to chill.. When someone tells you to RTFM, they are
not being rude... There are a number of paper written on web manners etc..
RTFM is not considered rude. People want to help, but you have to want to
help yourself.

Cheers

Mat

PS: Im not having a go

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From: Steve Burrus [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
Sent: Monday, February 10, 2003 9:06 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: MY ATTITUDE

This might be just enough from me to get me permanently kicked off of
this newsgroup (are you reading this,  Craig R. McClanahan??) I don't
really care! I just had to get off of my chest a thing or two, and
that is that just about all of you people out there in this newsgroup
seem to have in for me in a really big way!! You make me feel like I
should first drop dead and then possibly--if I could--drop off of the
face of this Earth!! Maybe I should consult a psychologist/psychiatrist
about this, but I have felt for a long time in my life that nobody in
the whole wide world knows or wants to know that I AM ALIVE AT ALL. I
dare anyone to respond to me WITHOUT saying to me the same old things in
the way of an admonition that I have certainly heard so much of from so
many of u recently. Thank You   


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2003-02-11 Thread Romeo Dickason
Why don't all of you go join a chatroom as this is REALLY getting boring
now!

-Original Message-
From: Matthew Hattersley [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] 
Sent: 11 February 2003 03:39
To: 'Tomcat Users List'
Subject: RE: MY ATTITUDE


I think you really need to chill.. When someone tells you to RTFM, they are
not being rude... There are a number of paper written on web manners etc..
RTFM is not considered rude. People want to help, but you have to want to
help yourself.

Cheers

Mat

PS: Im not having a go

-Original Message-
From: Steve Burrus [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
Sent: Monday, February 10, 2003 9:06 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: MY ATTITUDE

This might be just enough from me to get me permanently kicked off of this
newsgroup (are you reading this,  Craig R. McClanahan??) I don't really
care! I just had to get off of my chest a thing or two, and that is that
just about all of you people out there in this newsgroup seem to have in for
me in a really big way!! You make me feel like I should first drop dead
and then possibly--if I could--drop off of the face of this Earth!! Maybe
I should consult a psychologist/psychiatrist about this, but I have felt for
a long time in my life that nobody in the whole wide world knows or wants to
know that I AM ALIVE AT ALL. I dare anyone to respond to me WITHOUT saying
to me the same old things in the way of an admonition that I have certainly
heard so much of from so
many of u recently. Thank You   


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2003-02-11 Thread Steve Burrus
Well, well, Jim, aren't just flat too damned *cute* for yer own good?!!! You think 
that what u said makes me feel any better?: Steve,Don't go away mad, just go away! 
How on earth is your *crappy* response back to me gonna help me out w. my long series 
of problems? I'll bet that you really don't care about my *measly* problems at all. Am 
I right? 


  


RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Steve Burrus
Matthew, please forgive my *dumb naivety*, but what does RTFM mean,i.e., what does it 
stand for exactly anyway? I hope that this doesn't sound like some kind of a rant 
[again], but it seems like for a long time now people in this newsgroup have ragging 
on me! Capiche?!


RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Steve Burrus
Sorry Romeo if not every single one of my numerous posts have anything to do with 
Tomcat or jsp's or servlets, but I am only human and have certain feelings and 
attitudes which I Iike/love to openly display for everyone else in this newsgroup of 
ours' ! 


RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Ron Day
Dear Abby,

Please help Steve.

-Original Message-
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Sent: Tuesday, February 11, 2003 4:31 PM
To: Tomcat Users List; [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: RE: MY ATTITUDE


Well, well, Jim, aren't just flat too damned *cute* for yer own good?!!! You
think that what u said makes me feel any better?: Steve,Don't go away mad,
just go away! How on earth is your *crappy* response back to me gonna help
me out w. my long series of problems? I'll bet that you really don't care
about my *measly* problems at all. Am I right?





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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Mike Jackson
I have to ask, why do you go out of your way to offend people?  Remember
none of these people are being paid to help you, so try to be polite.  Also,
most people response better to well written, properly spelled, and
grammatically correct messages.

Also, don't bother to flame me (as you have nearly everyone else who
criticized you), I have nothing further to say to you.

--mikej
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mike jackson
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 -Original Message-
 From: Steve Burrus [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
 Sent: Tuesday, February 11, 2003 2:31 PM
 To: Tomcat Users List; [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Subject: RE: MY ATTITUDE


 Well, well, Jim, aren't just flat too damned *cute* for yer own
 good?!!! You think that what u said makes me feel any better?:
 Steve,Don't go away mad, just go away! How on earth is your
 *crappy* response back to me gonna help me out w. my long series
 of problems? I'll bet that you really don't care about my
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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Short, Dave
This not a therapy newsgroup!  It's for people seeking and providing
Apache/Tomcat information.  There have been numerous posts describing why
some questions are answered, some aren't and how to ask for help
respectfully.  I'm sick and tired of your crap.  If you don't like this
newsgroup or Apache/Tomcat - go somewhere else.  If you want to participate
in this newsgroup, grow up, have patience and try to put the pieces together
for yourself.  This is not the drop everything you're doing and help Steve
Burrus newsgroup.  This newsgroup has far too much traffic as it is.
Enough is enough, please.

-Original Message-
From: Steve Burrus [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
Sent: Tuesday, February 11, 2003 2:42 PM
To: Tomcat Users List
Subject: RE: MY ATTITUDE


Sorry Romeo if not every single one of my numerous posts have anything to do
with Tomcat or jsp's or servlets, but I am only human and have certain
feelings and attitudes which I Iike/love to openly display for everyone else
in this newsgroup of ours' ! 

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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Filip Hanik
read the F**CKING manual - RTFM

-Original Message-
From: Steve Burrus [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
Sent: Tuesday, February 11, 2003 2:38 PM
To: Tomcat Users List
Subject: RE: MY ATTITUDE


Matthew, please forgive my *dumb naivety*, but what does RTFM mean,i.e., what does it 
stand for exactly anyway? I hope that this doesn't sound like some kind of a rant 
[again], but it seems like for a long time now people in this newsgroup have ragging 
on me! Capiche?!

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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Erik Price
Hi Steve,

RTFM means Read the friggin' manual.  It is used in almost any place 
where a person is asking a question when they could have read a document 
instead.  The idea is that nobody has extra time sitting around to waste 
re-explaining things that have been explained perfectly well elsewhere.

In your case, I think what you ought to read is the manual of mailing 
list etiquette.  At first I thought you were a joker or someone who 
found it amusing to post the same questions again and again with strange 
exclamation points () and colloquialisms such as Capiche.  I 
thought you were being rude, but I think now I realize that you just 
don't know any better.

You are getting fewer answers every day because more and more people 
have set up their email clients to filter out your posts.  It has become 
tiresome to read the same questions again and again, when others have 
pointed you to perfectly fine tutorials explaining how to go about it. 
If these tutorials are not a good enough explanation, then perhaps you 
ought to step down a notch to something more basic.

Configuring Tomcat and writing JSP/servlet webapps is not easy, and 
requires that you understand the fundamentals of the Java language. 
There are dozens of free books with thousands of pages dedicated to this 
topic, a good one is Thinking in Java at http://www.mindview.net/ .  A 
specialized mailing list like this one is dedicated to answering 
questions and discussing issues surrounding Tomcat, not explaining the 
syntax of a switch statement.  Don't take that as an insult, I'm just 
explaining how it is.  Sun offers an excellent forum for programmers who 
are new to Java at http://forum.java.sun.com/forum.jsp?forum=54 .

But the problem at hand isn't even really whether or not this is the 
appropriate mailing list for you.  You are not getting much help because 
you simply do not know the protocol for asking questions on a mailing 
list.  It is not appropriate to discuss anything but Tomcat, or 
Tomcat-related issues on this list.  Not switch statements.  Not 
personal issues regarding your social development.  People will forgive 
you if you make a mistake in this regard once in a while.  But this has 
become a daily affair.

I am going to give you one last hyperlink, and I really hope that you 
click it and read the web page it takes you to.  Others have already 
given you this, and I can only assume that you haven't found time to 
read it yet.  But please read this document.  It will take you all of 
fifteen minutes.  If you don't, or if you read it but choose not to 
listen, then no one on any mailing list is going to help you, as more 
and more people tune you out with email filters.


The document is called How to Ask Questions the Smart Way, and is 
available at http://catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html .  It is the 
friggin' manual for all mailing lists.  RTFM.


Erik



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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Januski, Ken
Please read this Steve. It's the best advice yet I've seen for you, and I
don't mean that as an insult. Read it slowly, carefully and force yourself
not to respond to it for at least a day.

As the author says more are more people are going to set their mail filters
to send your files straight to the trash if you don't improve both your
etiquette and your knowledge. It may very well be that you don't have enough
of a Java background to use servlets/jsp/tomcat successfully. There's
nothing wrong with that. It just means that you're going to need to improve
your knowledge of Java before you'll ever be self-sufficient with
servlets/jsp.

And the etiquette analysis is right on the mark. The more you attack people
the more they'll ignore you and the more frustrated you'll become. At one
point only new users will end up seeing your messages.

So do us all a favor and read and digest the following.

This is my last response.

Best wishes,

Ken


-Original Message-
From: Erik Price [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
Sent: Tuesday, February 11, 2003 6:26 PM
To: Tomcat Users List
Subject: Re: MY ATTITUDE


Hi Steve,

RTFM means Read the friggin' manual.  It is used in almost any place 
where a person is asking a question when they could have read a document 
instead.  The idea is that nobody has extra time sitting around to waste 
re-explaining things that have been explained perfectly well elsewhere.

In your case, I think what you ought to read is the manual of mailing 
list etiquette.  At first I thought you were a joker or someone who 
found it amusing to post the same questions again and again with strange 
exclamation points () and colloquialisms such as Capiche.  I 
thought you were being rude, but I think now I realize that you just 
don't know any better.

You are getting fewer answers every day because more and more people 
have set up their email clients to filter out your posts.  It has become 
tiresome to read the same questions again and again, when others have 
pointed you to perfectly fine tutorials explaining how to go about it. 
If these tutorials are not a good enough explanation, then perhaps you 
ought to step down a notch to something more basic.

Configuring Tomcat and writing JSP/servlet webapps is not easy, and 
requires that you understand the fundamentals of the Java language. 
There are dozens of free books with thousands of pages dedicated to this 
topic, a good one is Thinking in Java at http://www.mindview.net/ .  A 
specialized mailing list like this one is dedicated to answering 
questions and discussing issues surrounding Tomcat, not explaining the 
syntax of a switch statement.  Don't take that as an insult, I'm just 
explaining how it is.  Sun offers an excellent forum for programmers who 
are new to Java at http://forum.java.sun.com/forum.jsp?forum=54 .

But the problem at hand isn't even really whether or not this is the 
appropriate mailing list for you.  You are not getting much help because 
you simply do not know the protocol for asking questions on a mailing 
list.  It is not appropriate to discuss anything but Tomcat, or 
Tomcat-related issues on this list.  Not switch statements.  Not 
personal issues regarding your social development.  People will forgive 
you if you make a mistake in this regard once in a while.  But this has 
become a daily affair.

I am going to give you one last hyperlink, and I really hope that you 
click it and read the web page it takes you to.  Others have already 
given you this, and I can only assume that you haven't found time to 
read it yet.  But please read this document.  It will take you all of 
fifteen minutes.  If you don't, or if you read it but choose not to 
listen, then no one on any mailing list is going to help you, as more 
and more people tune you out with email filters.


The document is called How to Ask Questions the Smart Way, and is 
available at http://catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html .  It is the 
friggin' manual for all mailing lists.  RTFM.


Erik



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 Matthew, please forgive my *dumb naivety*, but what does RTFM mean,i.e.,
what does it stand for exactly anyway? I hope that this doesn't sound like
some kind of a rant [again], but it seems like for a long time now people
in this newsgroup have ragging on me! Capiche?!


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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Michael Micek
Please do not feed the troll, eh?


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RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Mark
Steve, please review the email guidelines: 
http://jakarta.apache.org/site/mail.html

In particular...
The level of community responsiveness to specific questions is generally 
directly proportional to the amount of effort you spend formulating your 
question. Eric Raymond has even written an essay entitled Asking Smart 
Questions precisely on this topic. Although somewhat militant, it is 
definitely worth reading.

Followed by:
Now that you have read the guidelines above, here is the page that gives 
you a listing of the different mailing lists that you can join. If you 
managed to find this without reading the above information, chances are you 
will be sent back here. You might as well read it now and save yourself the 
embarrassment.





At 2/11/2003 02:31 PM, you wrote:
Well, well, Jim, aren't just flat too damned *cute* for yer own good?!!! 
You think that what u said makes me feel any better?: Steve,Don't go away 
mad, just go away! How on earth is your *crappy* response back to me 
gonna help me out w. my long series of problems? I'll bet that you really 
don't care about my *measly* problems at all. Am I right?





Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Steve Burrus
Mike, (u don't mind if I call you Mike do you? :-) ) what did you mean by stating 
Don't feed the troll, eh?


RE: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-11 Thread Hookom, Jacob John
Don't wallow in the mud with pigs, you will get dirty and the pigs will like it
-Lorrie Ardion

-Original Message- 
From: Steve Burrus [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] 
Sent: Tue 2/11/2003 8:53 PM 
To: Tomcat Users List 
Cc: 
Subject: Re: MY ATTITUDE



Mike, (u don't mind if I call you Mike do you? :-) ) what did you mean by 
stating Don't feed the troll, eh? 



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MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-10 Thread Steve Burrus
This might be just enough from me to get me permanently kicked off of this newsgroup 
(are you reading this,  Craig R. McClanahan??) I don't really care! I just had to get 
off of my chest a thing or two, and that is that just about all of you people out 
there in this newsgroup seem to have in for me in a really big way!! You make me feel 
like I should first drop dead and then possibly--if I could--drop off of the face 
of this Earth!! Maybe I should consult a psychologist/psychiatrist about this, but I 
have felt for a long time in my life that nobody in the whole wide world knows or 
wants to know that I AM ALIVE AT ALL. I dare anyone to respond to me WITHOUT saying to 
me the same old things in the way of an admonition that I have certainly heard so much 
of from so many of u recently. Thank You


Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-10 Thread Peng Tuck Kwok
First off, try and split your rant into several lines. I don't have a 
monitor that large to see everything in one line, I doubt everyone does.

Steve Burrus wrote:

I don't really care! I just had to get off of my chest a thing or two, and

 that is that just about all of you people out there in this newsgroup 
seem to have
in for me in a really big way!!
Sorry, wrong place to take things of your chest.  People are just 
annoyed with the way you respond to them, judging from the replies that 
they sent.

You make me feel like I should first drop dead and then possibly--if I could--
drop off of the face of this Earth!! 
Maybe I should consult a psychologist/psychiatrist about this,
Maybe you should. Or just try to clear your mind and solve your tomcat 
related issues one at a time.

but I have felt for a long time in my life that nobody in the whole 
wide world
knows or wants to know that I AM ALIVE AT ALL.


I dare anyone to respond to me 
WITHOUT saying to me the same old things in the way of an admonition 
that I have
certainly heard so much of from so many of u recently. Thank You
I recall from the list that people have replied to you in a polite 
manner so  I don't see the point in you issuing the challenge.








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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-10 Thread Steve Burrus
Thank you Peng for being THE ONLY PERSON TO RESPOND TO ME SO FAR!!! I really do 
appreciate your honesty that u seemed to display in yer response back to me!!! And, I 
have never stated this as a reason for sounding the way that I must to others in our 
newsgroup, but I have never much learned the social graces that everyone needs to 
learn somewhere along the line in growing up!! That is certainly no kind of a 
condemnation of my nice parents and their parenting skills. No, it is more a refection 
of me and the very way that i chose to be to the rest of the world, sad to say! 
Please, can't someone other than this Peng respond back to my baring of my soul in a 
meaningful and relevent way? Why have I not heard back from this Craig Mcclanahan with 
the news that he intends to kick me out of this newsgroup? I seem to almost be 
begging for it in the way that this rant of mine sounds.  


Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-10 Thread Mike Johnson
damn... cool down. :-)

first off, i looked up some of your previous posts, you might benefit
from reading this:

http://216.239.37.100/search?q=cache:Rx-raoTa3JUC:www.tuxedo.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html+esr+how+to+ask+questionshl=enstart=1ie=UTF-8

(sorry about the google cache, tuxedo.org seems to be redirecting random
places right now.)

anywho, that's written by a guy who's very well known around these
parts, if you're not familiar with him. he comes off, er, pompous in
that piece but he does have a good point. there's a certain culture on
mailing lists. a silent, agreed-apon way to ask questions in order to
get good results.

secondly, if you do get a polite response to your questions, be
grateful. somebody has taken time out of their day to help you with your
problem, and besides that, it's quite rare to have a good conversation
on the list. most people come off sounding like jerks with their
writing, so don't be put off by it. this is a collection of geeks and
specialists, not english majors. many people just don't have the writing
skills or time to make everything clear for their readers beyond the
technical realm. and remember, english is not a first language for many
people.

thirdly, one thing i've learned: use smileys. whenever your intent or
mood might not be obvious to the reader, the :-) denotes you are
laughing or at least not meaning to be hurtful. if you really must use
exclamation points, use them with caution -- they almost always make you
sound angry. you really don't want any sort of attitude like that to
show in your email, you are asking a question after all. the responses
you gather will probably attack you. you are asking for a technical
answer, so ask in a technical manner.

and lastly: always think before you post. i have an annoying habit of
firing off an email before i've really caught all of my own errors, i
think everybody does that. before you hit that send button, try to
explore on your own for a while. it'll do you good anyhow. :-)

and please, fix your email client. :-)

Mike Johnson


On Mon, 2003-02-10 at 19:05, Steve Burrus wrote:
 This might be just enough from me to get me permanently kicked off
 of this newsgroup (are you reading this,  Craig R. McClanahan??) I
 don't really care! I just had to get off of my chest a thing or two,
 and that is that just about all of you people out there in this
 newsgroup seem to have in for me in a really big way!! You make me
 feel like I should first drop dead and then possibly--if I
 could--drop off of the face of this Earth!! Maybe I should consult a
 psychologist/psychiatrist about this, but I have felt for a long time
 in my life that nobody in the whole wide world knows or wants to know
 that I AM ALIVE AT ALL. I dare anyone to respond to me WITHOUT saying
 to me the same old things in the way of an admonition that I have
 certainly heard so much of from so many of u recently. Thank
 You
-- 
Mike Johnson [EMAIL PROTECTED]


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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-10 Thread Bill Barker
Probably, because Craig has much more sense than to respond to rants like
this (unlike some people, say me ;-).  Also Craig is not one of the
moderators of this list (and, I'm not one either).

Steve Burrus [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote in message
[EMAIL PROTECTED]">news:[EMAIL PROTECTED]...
 Thank you Peng for being THE ONLY PERSON TO RESPOND TO ME SO FAR!!! I
really do appreciate your honesty that u seemed to display in yer response
back to me!!! And, I have never stated this as a reason for sounding the way
that I must to others in our newsgroup, but I have never much learned the
social graces that everyone needs to learn somewhere along the line in
growing up!! That is certainly no kind of a condemnation of my nice parents
and their parenting skills. No, it is more a refection of me and the very
way that i chose to be to the rest of the world, sad to say! Please, can't
someone other than this Peng respond back to my baring of my soul in a
meaningful and relevent way? Why have I not heard back from this Craig
Mcclanahan with the news that he intends to kick me out of this newsgroup?
I seem to almost be begging for it in the way that this rant of mine
sounds.




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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-10 Thread Steven J. Owens
On Mon, Feb 10, 2003 at 08:09:04PM -0800, Steve Burrus wrote:
 Thank you Peng for being THE ONLY PERSON TO RESPOND TO ME SO FAR!!!

 Well, you have to recognize that not everybody is awake, or
interested, at the same time.

 I really do appreciate your honesty that u seemed to display in yer
 response back to me!!! 

 Anybody who actually *responds* to you, negative or positive, is
being more honest than most people, who will simply ignore you (and
this, in turn, is more honest than those who will engage in a false
dialog to have fun teasing you, or to pump their own egoes).  Those
who ignore you are divided (in what proportion, I cannot say) between
those who are unwilling to invest the time and energy in this
community, and those who have prior obligations that take precedence
(for example, Craig McClanahan).

 Please, can't someone other than this Peng respond back to my
 baring of my soul in a meaningful and relevent way? Why have I not
 heard back from this Craig Mcclanahan with the news that he intends
 to kick me out of this newsgroup?

 I wouldn't expect Craig to do so.  

 For one thing, he's not in charge of this list, although most
people in the java world have a lot of respect for him and would
certainly give a lot of attention to any request he made.

 For another thing, Craig's probably much more interested in
devoting his energy to the various projects that he's committed to -
like helping get the next version of Tomcat out, or helping steer the
development of various Java Community Process specifications.

 For yet another thing, Craig constantly contributes his time and
expertise to helping people get started with tomcat (and on the
servlet list, though I haven't really had time to read that list in
the past few years, so I don't know if he still does).  He probably
has learned by now to focus on investing his time and energy in places
where he can make a positive difference, and ignore situations like
this.

 I recognize where you're coming from here.  I've been frustrated
and trying to find the answer to problems, and I've had that feeling
that nobody's listening.  But experience (both that experience, and
the experience of being on the other side of this equation) has
shown me that the real reason people are responding is that:

 some people have no clue how to respond (we're not all experts)
 some people don't have the answer (even the experts don't always know)
 some people don't have the time (experts are often very busy)

 And finally,

 some people don't need the angst.

 To explain tht last; being busy, you want to invest your time
where you *know* it will make a difference.  Even the time necessary
to *figure out* whether a given request will make a difference or not
is too much.  There are a thousand requests at any given moment. Any
one of them (or many of them) could easily suck up enough time, just
figuring out if the requester knows enough to understand the answer,
to prevent you from answering the dozens of requests where you *know*
your response will make a difference.  Not to mention the other
activities you may be involved in, which will strategically help
thousands or tens of thousands of people at once.

 This is why, if you want to get answers to your questions, you
have to make it clear in your post that you have done your homework,
that you have tried the usual resources, that you are not asking for
the answer to be spoonfed to you.  

 And sadly, even then, the simple fact may be that nobody around
at the moment knows the answer.  And that the people who might be able
to figure out the answer, with some time and thought, don't have the
time to spare, because they're busy working on either more advanced
issues, or helping people with more basic stuff (as we see here, every
day).

 
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Re: MY ATTITUDE

2003-02-10 Thread Steven J. Owens

On Tue, Feb 11, 2003 at 02:01:33AM -0500, Steven J. Owens wrote:
  I recognize where you're coming from here.  I've been frustrated
 and trying to find the answer to problems, and I've had that feeling
 that nobody's listening.  But experience (both that experience, and
 the experience of being on the other side of this equation) has
 shown me that the real reason people are responding is that:
   ~~

 That should, of course, have read ...are not responding
Late night, too much whiskey (in this case, bourbon :-), etc.
 
Steven J. Owens
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