Re: [Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-08 Thread Edgar Owen
Unfortunately it's by invitation of the moderator only. Sorry, Edgar On Oct 8, 2008, at 6:37 AM, roloro1557 wrote: Hi Edgar- I'm sick with some bug going around- not serious just annoying and tiring. I just wanted to ask - can anyone join the evolutionary psychology group? I think I

Re: [Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-07 Thread Edgar Owen
Margie, All good stuff. We discuss things like this routinely on the Evolutionary Psychology group where that would be pretty tame compared to some of the topics. Though there are a few benighted souls there as well that can't seem to see through the most basic veils of illusion. Edgar

[Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-07 Thread Mayka
--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, roloro1557 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: H. Lets start by saying that illusions about love and sex are some of the most stubborn and difficult to detach from, and it may be impossible for some people (age is a factor) because of hormones. I partially agree

Re: [Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-06 Thread Edgar Owen
Margie, Ah, come on now! You can't leave us dangling with that teaser and not tell us now, can you? Fess up! After all we might learn something, at least I might. After all, I'm a hermit too, living alone on top of my hill in the woods, object of suspicion and rumor, my only loves my

[Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-06 Thread roloro1557
Hi Edgar- --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Edgar Owen [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Ah, come on now! You can't leave us dangling with that teaser and not tell us now, can you? Fess up! After all we might I most certainly can! But...I do like you a lot being a fellow hermit alien and all...and

Re: [Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-06 Thread Jody W. Ianuzzi
Can I join the hermit alien club? Beam me up. JODY Current Book Discussion: any Zen book that you recently have read or are reading! Talk about it today!Yahoo! Groups Links * To visit your group on the web, go to:

[Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-05 Thread roloro1557
Hi Mayka, Thank you for your post. You haven't offended me at all. To quote Shakespeare out of context, however; The rest is silence. Hope to talk with you again soon, Margie (roloro1557) --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Mayka [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: You haven't offended me. I hope I

Re: [Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-03 Thread Edgar Owen
Hi Margie, Maybe even siblings? I've always thought I was probably switched at birth, or maybe dropped off from another planet. :-) Edgar On Oct 2, 2008, at 10:04 PM, roloro1557 wrote: Hi Edgar- That's really interesting... We have a similar tone to out poetry, we have polish

[Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-02 Thread roloro1557
Hi Edgar- (big sigh) Sex is such a hot button issue. I have trouble in this area because now that I am older my perspective on sex is very different than when I was young. Sex by itself (WITHOUT the pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease issues) is such a tiny, inconsequential part of life,

Re: [Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-02 Thread Edgar Owen
Hi Margie, Yes, I'd agree with you on most all your points. BTW my grandfather was a Polish immigrant who escaped Poland hiding in a hay wagon so we have some similar ancestry. As to the 'emotional damage' from sex I would note that Zen tells us that most so called 'emotional damage' is

[Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-02 Thread roloro1557
Hi Edgar- That's really interesting... We have a similar tone to out poetry, we have polish ancestors, maybe we are long-lost cousins and just don't know it. grin I completely agree with you about emotional damage and attachment. Margie (roloro1557) --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Edgar

[Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-01 Thread roloro1557
Hi Al, I most certainly do believe in morals and ethics. If faithfulness is important to people, then they should be faithful and find find a partner who feels the same way. If they are not in a relationship that requires faithfulness, then they are free to do whatever they want with other

Re: [Zen] Re: women zen

2008-10-01 Thread Edgar Owen
Hi Margie, I agree that the constant obsession with sex is a distraction as are other desires. And I agree that sex is natural. Sometimes the best way to deal with desires is just to satisfy them and go on with other things rather than obsessing about them. Edgar On Oct 1, 2008, at

[Zen] Re: women zen

2008-09-30 Thread Al
roloro1557 I think consenting adults should have sex as much as they want with whomever they want. I guess you would agree that you are an amoral and/or immoral person and that you believe that there is no such thing as morals or ethics and you certainly would not tolerate faithfulness?

[Zen] Re: women zen

2008-09-29 Thread Dave
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:I just wanted to let you know I'm here if you'd like to discuss zen with a woman. I think she would rather have sex with woman and then discuss it afterwards. Current Book Discussion: any Zen book that you recently have read or

[Zen] Re: women zen

2008-09-29 Thread cid830
I would second that notion! --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Dave [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: roloro1557@ wrote:I just wanted to let you know I'm here if you'd like to discuss zen with a woman. I think she would rather have sex with woman and then discuss it afterwards.