Re: [Zen] the honky dory of knowing and being

2013-05-26 Thread siska
I don't get it Merle, you were the one who escaped from Bangkok to London. You 
said you couldn't stand the poverty, suffering and all that?

Anyway, it doesn't matter to me. Whatever your style is, it is between you and 
yourself..


Siska

Sent from Samsung tabletMerle Lester merlewiit...@yahoo.com wrote:
 siska... see no evil... hear no evil...and the third one?...sweep all the 
inequality under the carpet...and follow i'm alright jack mantra... that's not 
my style..merle

 
Merle,

But that's the real practice isn't it, to stay balanced no matter what is ahead 
you, and also to not pass our judgement on anything ;-)


Siska
From: Merle Lester merlewiit...@yahoo.com
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siska... yes bangkok...
 what stumps me is that buddhist countries, e.g. cambodia burma are so violent 
and anti- practising buddhism...
i was stunned by bangkok,,the degree of corruption, the desire for material 
wealth, the sex trade..the contrast between rich and poor.. even in 1974
 it's so nice to see the temples...so nice to hear ..to believe..
but what actually get's into practise?...
i see corruption, i see rampart greed...wrong practises...
another reason india scares me shitless is the untouchables..
what a way to treat people..what a mind set..it makes me ill...it all makes me 
ill...
the mind set of the human being who exploits others be they christian buddhist 
jew  muslim etc... or even zen buddhists... 
all bad news...
so much hypocrisy 
so much evil human behaviour... 
and then i read here i have to see all this as an illusion..
WHAT..
get real..it's real..that is reality edgar...
and i'm suppose to go into some state..loose myself and not be real and all is 
honky dory...?...
huh?..i don't get it...
enlightenment..if it means loosing ones sense of responsibility for others... 
forget it..

what truly is enlightenment?..something to hang on to when the going gets 
tough..
the ah moment...the moment when we are free of ourselves?..
huh? 
enlightenment is knowing..that about sums it up for me..
just plain and simple knowing..and being.
..
 zen... to me is the ah moment...

no rules ..
free...
 knowing and being... intertwined... 
and then as joe says practising. knowing and being
merle

 
Merle,

If you couldn't survive Jakarta and Thailand (I simply assume you meant 
bangkok), then I guess it was a good decision you did not proceed to India. But 
you missed Bodh Gaya, one of the most impressive places I ever been.

Why I came to zen was nothing special. I have had meditation practice with 
other traditions for a while before I had a chance to attend a session with Guo 
Jun fashi, disciple of Joe's teacher. Around the same time, I came to like 
koans more and more. Inexplicably, they make more sense to me than the Suttas 
(the Pali Suttas). So, I joined this forum to learn more about zen.

I'm not sure if I could call myself zen, but looks like my current practice is 
similar to Bill's description of zazen and shikantaza.

Siska

Merle Lester merlewiit...@yahoo.com wrote:
 

 
siska..i spent 2 weeks here... see link..t
his is were i bought the artwork...
yes  indonesia was very colourful..and vibrant as i said in previous post
 however the extreme poverty made me ill..
i am unable to witness people suffering..
the plan was to go forward to burma and india after thailand however the 
poverty and suffering  was too much for me to bare..
plus i was at 28 pregnant with my first child..
so it was off to london..and roast beef with all the trimmings..i was so so 
craving for western food ..
now i am totally addicted to asian food especially chinese... 
oh i spent 2 weeks in singapore in 1974 as well... 
what is your story if i maybe so bold to ask and how did you come about to be 
zen?...
merle

http://www.javafred.net/rd_sriwahnyi_1.htm





















Re: [Zen] the honky dory of knowing and being

2013-05-26 Thread Merle Lester


siska..
 hallo i was pregnant for a start..and it's not my country...

here in australia i support governments that help people..i care... 
what's happening in jakarta ...still the great division between rich and 
poor?..and do  you care?
 merle


  
I don't get it Merle, you were the one who escaped from Bangkok to London. You 
said you couldn't stand the poverty, suffering and all that?

Anyway, it doesn't matter to me. Whatever your style is, it is between you and 
yourself..


Siska

Sent from Samsung tablet
Merle Lester merlewiit...@yahoo.com wrote:
  


 siska... see no evil... hear no evil...and the third one?...sweep all the 
inequality under the carpet...and follow i'm alright jack mantra... that's not 
my style..merle


  
Merle,

But that's the real practice isn't it, to stay balanced no matter what is ahead 
you, and also to not pass our judgement on anything ;-)


Siska


From:  Merle Lester merlewiit...@yahoo.com 
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Subject: [Zen] the honky dory of knowing and being
  


siska... yes bangkok...
 what stumps me is that buddhist countries, e.g. cambodia burma are so violent 
and anti- practising buddhism...
i was stunned by bangkok,,the degree of corruption, the desire for material 
wealth, the sex trade..the contrast between rich and poor.. even in 1974
 it's so nice to see the temples...so nice to hear ..to believe..
but what actually get's into practise?...
i see corruption, i see rampart greed...wrong practises...
another reason india scares me shitless is the untouchables..
what a way to treat people..what a mind set..it makes me ill...it all makes me 
ill...
the mind set of the human being who exploits others be they christian buddhist 
jew  muslim etc... or even zen buddhists... 
all bad news...
so much hypocrisy 
so much evil human behaviour... 
and then i read here i have to see all this as an illusion..
WHAT..
get real..it's real..that is reality edgar...
and i'm suppose to go into some state..loose myself and not be real and all is 
honky dory...?...
huh?..i don't get it...
enlightenment..if it means loosing ones sense of responsibility for others... 
forget it..

what truly is enlightenment?..something to hang on to when the going gets 
tough..
the ah moment...the moment when we are free of ourselves?..
huh? 
enlightenment is knowing..that about sums it up for me..
just plain and simple knowing..and being.
..
 zen... to me is the ah moment...

no rules ..
free...
 knowing and being... intertwined... 
and then as joe says practising. knowing and being
merle


  
Merle,

If you couldn't survive Jakarta and Thailand (I simply assume you meant 
bangkok), then I guess it was a good decision you did not proceed to India. But 
you missed Bodh Gaya, one of the most impressive places I ever been.

Why I came to zen was nothing special. I have had meditation practice with 
other traditions for a while before I had a chance to attend a session with Guo 
Jun fashi, disciple of Joe's teacher. Around the same time, I came to like 
koans more and more. Inexplicably, they make more sense to me than the Suttas 
(the Pali Suttas). So, I joined this forum to learn more about zen.

I'm not sure if I could call myself zen, but looks like my current practice is 
similar to Bill's description of zazen and shikantaza.

Siska
Merle Lester merlewiit...@yahoo.com wrote:
  


 
siska..i spent 2 weeks here... see link..t
his is were i bought the artwork...
yes  indonesia was very colourful..and vibrant as i said in previous post
 however the extreme poverty made me ill..
i am unable to witness people suffering..
the plan was to go forward to burma and india after thailand however the 
poverty and suffering  was too much for me to bare..
plus i was at 28 pregnant with my first child..
so it was off to london..and roast beef with all the trimmings..i was so so 
craving for western food ..
now i am totally addicted to asian food especially chinese... 
oh i spent 2 weeks in singapore in 1974 as well... 
what is your story if i maybe so bold to ask and how did you come about to be 
zen?...
merle

http://www.javafred.net/rd_sriwahnyi_1.htm











 







 

Re: [Zen] the honky dory of knowing and being

2013-05-26 Thread siska_cen
Merle,

I'm not going to continue this discussion with you. I don't see this going 
anywhere or beneficial to my practice.

You can have it your way, whatever it is


Siska
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siska..
 hallo i was pregnant for a start..and it's not my country...

here in australia i support governments that help people..i care... 
what's happening in jakarta ...still the great division between rich and 
poor?..and do  you care?
 merle


  
I don't get it Merle, you were the one who escaped from Bangkok to London. You 
said you couldn't stand the poverty, suffering and all that?

Anyway, it doesn't matter to me. Whatever your style is, it is between you and 
yourself..


Siska

Sent from Samsung tablet
Merle Lester merlewiit...@yahoo.com wrote:
  


 siska... see no evil... hear no evil...and the third one?...sweep all the 
inequality under the carpet...and follow i'm alright jack mantra... that's not 
my style..merle


  
Merle,

But that's the real practice isn't it, to stay balanced no matter what is ahead 
you, and also to not pass our judgement on anything ;-)


Siska


From:  Merle Lester merlewiit...@yahoo.com 
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Date: Fri, 24 May 2013 00:05:42 -0700 (PDT)
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.comZen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
ReplyTo:  Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: [Zen] the honky dory of knowing and being
  


siska... yes bangkok...
 what stumps me is that buddhist countries, e.g. cambodia burma are so violent 
and anti- practising buddhism...
i was stunned by bangkok,,the degree of corruption, the desire for material 
wealth, the sex trade..the contrast between rich and poor.. even in 1974
 it's so nice to see the temples...so nice to hear ..to believe..
but what actually get's into practise?...
i see corruption, i see rampart greed...wrong practises...
another reason india scares me shitless is the untouchables..
what a way to treat people..what a mind set..it makes me ill...it all makes me 
ill...
the mind set of the human being who exploits others be they christian buddhist 
jew  muslim etc... or even zen buddhists... 
all bad news...
so much hypocrisy 
so much evil human behaviour... 
and then i read here i have to see all this as an illusion..
WHAT..
get real..it's real..that is reality edgar...
and i'm suppose to go into some state..loose myself and not be real and all is 
honky dory...?...
huh?..i don't get it...
enlightenment..if it means loosing ones sense of responsibility for others... 
forget it..

what truly is enlightenment?..something to hang on to when the going gets 
tough..
the ah moment...the moment when we are free of ourselves?..
huh? 
enlightenment is knowing..that about sums it up for me..
just plain and simple knowing..and being.
..
 zen... to me is the ah moment...

no rules ..
free...
 knowing and being... intertwined... 
and then as joe says practising. knowing and being
merle


  
Merle,

If you couldn't survive Jakarta and Thailand (I simply assume you meant 
bangkok), then I guess it was a good decision you did not proceed to India. But 
you missed Bodh Gaya, one of the most impressive places I ever been.

Why I came to zen was nothing special. I have had meditation practice with 
other traditions for a while before I had a chance to attend a session with Guo 
Jun fashi, disciple of Joe's teacher. Around the same time, I came to like 
koans more and more. Inexplicably, they make more sense to me than the Suttas 
(the Pali Suttas). So, I joined this forum to learn more about zen.

I'm not sure if I could call myself zen, but looks like my current practice is 
similar to Bill's description of zazen and shikantaza.

Siska
Merle Lester merlewiit...@yahoo.com wrote:
  


 
siska..i spent 2 weeks here... see link..t
his is were i bought the artwork...
yes  indonesia was very colourful..and vibrant as i said in previous post
 however the extreme poverty made me ill..
i am unable to witness people suffering..
the plan was to go forward to burma and india after thailand however the 
poverty and suffering  was too much for me to bare..
plus i was at 28 pregnant with my first child..
so it was off to london..and roast beef with all the trimmings..i was so so 
craving for western food ..
now i am totally addicted to asian food especially chinese... 
oh i spent 2 weeks in singapore in 1974 as well... 
what is your story if i maybe so bold to ask and how did you come about to be 
zen?...
merle

http://www.javafred.net/rd_sriwahnyi_1.htm











 







 


Re: [Zen] the honky dory of knowing and being

2013-05-26 Thread Joe
Merle,

I think you misread, there, Siska's good observation.

Siska is giving good counsel.  

Even on the battlefield, soldiers do as Siska says:

...stay balanced no matter what is ahead you

It's a matter of life and death!  For everyone.  Not just soldiers.

Balance is not sweeping under a carpet!  It is shouldering your tools (or 
weapon).

We cannot just fold up like a house of cards.  No matter what.

--Joe

 Merle Lester merlewiitpom@... wrote:

 siska... see no evil... hear no evil...and the third one?...sweep all the 
 inequality under the carpet...and follow i'm alright jack mantra... that's 
 not my style..merle
 
 But that's the real practice isn't it, to stay balanced no matter what is 
 ahead you, and also to not pass our judgement on anything ;-)
  
 Siska






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Re: [Zen] the honky dory of knowing and being

2013-05-25 Thread siska_cen
Merle,

But that's the real practice isn't it, to stay balanced no matter what is ahead 
you, and also to not pass our judgement on anything ;-)


Siska
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siska... yes bangkok...
 what stumps me is that buddhist countries, e.g. cambodia burma are so violent 
and anti- practising buddhism...
i was stunned by bangkok,,the degree of corruption, the desire for material 
wealth, the sex trade..the contrast between rich and poor.. even in 1974
 it's so nice to see the temples...so nice to hear ..to believe..
but what actually get's into practise?...
i see corruption, i see rampart greed...wrong practises...
another reason india scares me shitless is the untouchables..
what a way to treat people..what a mind set..it makes me ill...it all makes me 
ill...
the mind set of the human being who exploits others be they christian buddhist 
jew  muslim etc... or even zen buddhists... 
all bad news...
so much hypocrisy 
so much evil human behaviour... 
and then i read here i have to see all this as an illusion..
WHAT..
get real..it's real..that is reality edgar...
and i'm suppose to go into some state..loose myself and not be real and all is 
honky dory...?...
huh?..i don't get it...
enlightenment..if it means loosing ones sense of responsibility for others... 
forget it..

what truly is enlightenment?..something to hang on to when the going gets 
tough..
the ah moment...the moment when we are free of ourselves?..
huh? 
enlightenment is knowing..that about sums it up for me..
just plain and simple knowing..and being.
..
 zen... to me is the ah moment...

no rules ..
free...
 knowing and being... intertwined... 
and then as joe says practising. knowing and being
merle


  
Merle,

If you couldn't survive Jakarta and Thailand (I simply assume you meant 
bangkok), then I guess it was a good decision you did not proceed to India. But 
you missed Bodh Gaya, one of the most impressive places I ever been.

Why I came to zen was nothing special. I have had meditation practice with 
other traditions for a while before I had a chance to attend a session with Guo 
Jun fashi, disciple of Joe's teacher. Around the same time, I came to like 
koans more and more. Inexplicably, they make more sense to me than the Suttas 
(the Pali Suttas). So, I joined this forum to learn more about zen.

I'm not sure if I could call myself zen, but looks like my current practice is 
similar to Bill's description of zazen and shikantaza.

Siska
Merle Lester merlewiit...@yahoo.com wrote:
  


 
siska..i spent 2 weeks here... see link..t
his is were i bought the artwork...
yes  indonesia was very colourful..and vibrant as i said in previous post
 however the extreme poverty made me ill..
i am unable to witness people suffering..
the plan was to go forward to burma and india after thailand however the 
poverty and suffering  was too much for me to bare..
plus i was at 28 pregnant with my first child..
so it was off to london..and roast beef with all the trimmings..i was so so 
craving for western food ..
now i am totally addicted to asian food especially chinese... 
oh i spent 2 weeks in singapore in 1974 as well... 
what is your story if i maybe so bold to ask and how did you come about to be 
zen?...
merle

http://www.javafred.net/rd_sriwahnyi_1.htm











 



 


Re: [Zen] the honky dory of knowing and being

2013-05-25 Thread Merle Lester


 siska... see no evil... hear no evil...and the third one?...sweep all the 
inequality under the carpet...and follow i'm alright jack mantra... that's not 
my style..merle


  
Merle,

But that's the real practice isn't it, to stay balanced no matter what is ahead 
you, and also to not pass our judgement on anything ;-)


Siska


From:  Merle Lester merlewiit...@yahoo.com 
Sender:  Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
Date: Fri, 24 May 2013 00:05:42 -0700 (PDT)
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.comZen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
ReplyTo:  Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
Subject: [Zen] the honky dory of knowing and being
  


siska... yes bangkok...
 what stumps me is that buddhist countries, e.g. cambodia burma are so violent 
and anti- practising buddhism...
i was stunned by bangkok,,the degree of corruption, the desire for material 
wealth, the sex trade..the contrast between rich and poor.. even in 1974
 it's so nice to see the temples...so nice to hear ..to believe..
but what actually get's into practise?...
i see corruption, i see rampart greed...wrong practises...
another reason india scares me shitless is the untouchables..
what a way to treat people..what a mind set..it makes me ill...it all makes me 
ill...
the mind set of the human being who exploits others be they christian buddhist 
jew  muslim etc... or even zen buddhists... 
all bad news...
so much hypocrisy 
so much evil human behaviour... 
and then i read here i have to see all this as an illusion..
WHAT..
get real..it's real..that is reality edgar...
and i'm suppose to go into some state..loose myself and not be real and all is 
honky dory...?...
huh?..i don't get it...
enlightenment..if it means loosing ones sense of responsibility for others... 
forget it..

what truly is enlightenment?..something to hang on to when the going gets 
tough..
the ah moment...the moment when we are free of ourselves?..
huh? 
enlightenment is knowing..that about sums it up for me..
just plain and simple knowing..and being.
..
 zen... to me is the ah moment...

no rules ..
free...
 knowing and being... intertwined... 
and then as joe says practising. knowing and being
merle


  
Merle,

If you couldn't survive Jakarta and Thailand (I simply assume you meant 
bangkok), then I guess it was a good decision you did not proceed to India. But 
you missed Bodh Gaya, one of the most impressive places I ever been.

Why I came to zen was nothing special. I have had meditation practice with 
other traditions for a while before I had a chance to attend a session with Guo 
Jun fashi, disciple of Joe's teacher. Around the same time, I came to like 
koans more and more. Inexplicably, they make more sense to me than the Suttas 
(the Pali Suttas). So, I joined this forum to learn more about zen.

I'm not sure if I could call myself zen, but looks like my current practice is 
similar to Bill's description of zazen and shikantaza.

Siska
Merle Lester merlewiit...@yahoo.com wrote:
  


 
siska..i spent 2 weeks here... see link..t
his is were i bought the artwork...
yes  indonesia was very colourful..and vibrant as i said in previous post
 however the extreme poverty made me ill..
i am unable to witness people suffering..
the plan was to go forward to burma and india after thailand however the 
poverty and suffering  was too much for me to bare..
plus i was at 28 pregnant with my first child..
so it was off to london..and roast beef with all the trimmings..i was so so 
craving for western food ..
now i am totally addicted to asian food especially chinese... 
oh i spent 2 weeks in singapore in 1974 as well... 
what is your story if i maybe so bold to ask and how did you come about to be 
zen?...
merle

http://www.javafred.net/rd_sriwahnyi_1.htm