Re: [Zen] the needy

2013-05-23 Thread Edgar Owen
Merle,

Speak for yourself. If that were true no one would be enlightened...

Edgar



On May 23, 2013, at 8:53 AM, Merle Lester wrote:

 
 
  edgar..we are all emotionally needing..you included..merle
 
  
 Mike,
 
 That was right speech.
 
 A little lesson in Buddhism for you.
 
 Right speech (and thought) have to do with telling the truth, not coddling 
 the emotionally needy...
 
 Edgar
 
 
 On May 22, 2013, at 11:28 PM, uerusub...@yahoo.co.uk wrote:
 
  
 
 Edgar,
 
 You can't preach Right Thoughts and then completely stomp over 'Right 
 Speech'...
 
 Mike
 
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 From: Edgar Owen edgaro...@att.net; 
 To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com; 
 Subject: Re: [Zen] The False I and the Real I - Eckhart Tolle 
 Sent: Wed, May 22, 2013 11:29:34 AM 
 
  
 Bill,
 
 Mr. Rogers was one of the most smarmy, saccharine, moronic, comic book 
 Christian likely pedophiles to ever defile US TV screens...
 
 Edgar
 
 
 
 On May 22, 2013, at 4:47 AM, Bill! wrote:
 
  
 Merle,
 
 Mister Roger's Neighborhood was a children's program that was very popular 
 in the USA for a long, long time.  He is very kind and gentle teaching kids 
 about all kinds of things.  Here's an episode where he talks about friends. 
  It's about 30-minutes long but you only have to watch about the first 3 or 
 4 minutes to get the idea of what he was like.
 
 Mister Rogers 
 
 ...Bill!
 
 
 --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Merle Lester wrote:
 
  
  
  Â an all round american let me do it right for you!... merle
  Â  
  Merle,
  
  Fred Rogers
  www.imdb.com
  Fred McFeely Rogers was an American educator, Presbyterian minister, 
  songwriter, author, and television host. Rogers was most famous for 
  creating and hosting Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, which featured his 
  gentle, soft-spoken personality and directness to his audiences.
  en.wikipedia.org
  Lived:Â Mar 20, 1928 - Feb 27, 2003 (age 74)
  Height:Â 6' (1.83 m)
  Spouse: Sara Byrd (1952 - 2003)
  
  ...Bill!
  
  --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Merle Lester wrote:
  
   
   
    bill..i do not know who mr. rogers is...enlighten me ,,merle
   
   
     
   Merle,
   
   Did Eckhart Tolle's demeanor remind you of Mr. Rogers as it did me?
   
   ...Bill!
   
   --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Merle Lester merlewiitpom@ wrote:
   


 thank you bill a good start for the day... i watched the 
video and found it very beneficial... merle


  
Below is a link to a 15-minute video by Eckhart Tolle entitled The 
False I and the Real I.  I've read a few things from Tolle 
but have never seen a video by him before.  I would describe 
him as the the Mr. Rogers of New-Age Spiritualism.  
If I remember correctly Bonnie, one of our new member, speaks highly 
of Tolle.

It was interesting to me because he stated the ego is only the ego if 
you're unaware of it, and as soon as you become aware of it it's not 
the ego anymore. That corresponds somewhat to zen in that the self is 
only problematic when you think it's real and are not aware that it 
is an illusion. He also goes on to say that just recognizing the ego 
doesn't solve all your problems. He says that there is a kind of 
momentum built up that you just can't stop immediately.  I 
think what he calls 'momentum' could be the same as what Buddhism and 
zen (as I understand it) calls 'attachment'.

Anyway all this is similar to the experiencing Buddha Nature and 
realizing the self is an illusion. That experience doesn't mean you 
do not have any more work left to do to continue to weaken and 
finally dissolve the attachment you have to this illusory self - even 
after you recognize that it is illusory.

Also, you might also see how the same or very similar teachings of 
zen are presented in a more modern dialog.

If you'd like to see this video, and I recommend it, you can find it 
on YouTube at: The False I and the Real I .

Enjoy!  ...Bill!
   
  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 



Re: [Zen] the needy

2013-05-23 Thread Joe
Edgar,

Wrong-headed.  It's doesn't matter if it's true or not.

No one is enlightened.

There is only enlightened behavior.  I think Chris told us this.  It's a good 
reminder.

And it's that behavior that Bodhisattvas practice for (toward).  Speech -- 
expression -- is part of behavior, too, note.

--Joe

 Edgar Owen edgarowen@... wrote:

 Merle,
 
 Speak for yourself. If that were true no one would be enlightened...
 
 Edgar
 
 On May 23, 2013, at 8:53 AM, Merle Lester wrote:
  
   edgar..we are all emotionally needing..you included..merle






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