Sixteenth Sunday after Pentecost
August 31, 2008
The Rev. Charles Henrickson

“Our Church Is a Loving Family” (Romans 12:9-21)

Our church is a loving family.  Yes, it is.  I am
confident it is, and I am confident in appealing to
you to think and act as such, because God says that’s
what we are--a loving family.  That’s what he made us
to be, that’s who we are, so let’s think of ourselves
in that way and let’s let our lives demonstrate that
love in action.

That’s kind of a summary of today’s Epistle lesson,
from Romans 12.  Listen to some of the things St. Paul
says to the church in Rome:  “Let love be genuine. . .
. Love one another with brotherly affection. . . .
Contribute to the needs of the saints. . . . Rejoice
with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. 
Live in harmony with one another. . . .”  And so on. 
This is how the Apostle Paul wanted, and expected, the
Christians in Rome to think and to act.  And guess
what?  It applies to us, too.

Yes, it does.  For the church in Rome was no different
from the church in Bonne Terre.  We have the same
Lord.  We have the same gospel.  We have the same
sacraments.  We have the same Spirit living within us.
 We are no different from those first-century
Christians.  We twenty-first-century Christians have
the same gifts from God.  As the apostle could appeal
to those Christians in Rome, so I as your pastor can
appeal to you, knowing that God will enable you also
to live as his people and be a loving church family.

This is pretty exciting.  It is exciting to see the
church as a refreshing oasis from the coldness and
impersonality of the world.  Here is where people
battered and bruised by the world can come and find
care and compassion, which is love in action.  Here is
where the lonely can find a family.  The Bible says,
in Psalms, that God sets the lonely in families. 
Jesus says, in the gospels, that those who give up
brothers or sisters or mother or father to come and
follow him will receive, now in this life, a hundred
times as many brothers and sisters and mothers and
fathers.  And that’s because you’re coming into the
church, a worldwide family that God has established,
where we love one another and care for one another in
very practical terms.  The church stands as a shelter,
a haven, that stands out in the world by being a
community of love.

So this Epistle reading from Romans 12 applies to us. 
It has to do with our everyday lives and our everyday
life together as church.  I’m not afraid to expect us
to live like this.

Now at the same time, I also expect us to fail.  Why? 
Because this is Law, and we are sinners.  Even as
Christians, we are still sinners.  We mess up.  We
don’t always do what we’re supposed to do.  We have
this internal conflict going on inside us, all our
life long, between the new man, alive in the Spirit,
and the old Adam, who thinks only of himself.  It’s a
struggle, it’s a battle.  I know you feel this, too. 
You realize that you aren’t always the loving church
family member you ought to be.  Hey, you’re not even
the loving *family* family member you ought to be,
either!  We mess up in our natural families.  And we
mess up in our church family, too, not being as loving
toward one another as we should.  God have mercy on
me, a sinner!

Well, the good news is, he does!  Have mercy on us
sinners, that is.  God loves you so much, he forgives
you because of his Son, our Savior Jesus Christ. 
Jesus is your brother--your big brother, if you
will--who came down from heaven, took on our flesh,
and lived the life of love we don’t.  What mercy and
compassion and love he showed! Healing the sick and
the oppressed, forgiving sinners troubled in their
conscience, lifting up the downtrodden, comforting the
brokenhearted.  If you want to see what love looks
like, look at Jesus.  And especially look at him going
to the cross for you.  There is love at its greatest,
at its most profound.  A love so great that the
heavenly Father spared not his own Son but gave him up
for us all.  Christ willingly gave himself into death
on the cross for our forgiveness and our salvation. 
This sacrificial love of God in Christ is not only our
example of love, it is our source of love.  It is a
never-failing wellspring of love that wells up inside
us and flows out to others.

God planted this source, this wellspring of love,
inside you when he baptized you.  There you became
God’s child and took on his character.  Children of
the heavenly Father share in the family traits, and
those include love and mercy, compassion and
forgiveness.  There in your baptism God gave you the
gift of the Holy Spirit, who calls you every day to
put to death the old man of selfishness and sin and to
put on instead the new man of love and service--which
is to be clothed with Christ, for that’s how Christ
is, and you are his Christians.

And today, once again, you are being nourished in this
new life of love and forgiveness, because today you
are partaking in the Lord’s Supper.  “As in this feast
of love you bless us now,” we sing in a Communion
hymn.  And we pray confidently that God would
“strengthen us through the same,” in faith toward God
and “in fervent love toward one another.”  God intends
for us to be a loving family, you see, and so he
equips us and enables us to be just that.

Now what does that look like, to be a loving church
family?  It’s more than just talk; it’s more than just
flapping our jaws with pious-sounding words.  Love
shows itself in action.  When someone is hurting, we
meet that need.  Love is very practical.  “Little
children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed
and in truth,” it says in 1 John.

So let’s put some flesh on those bones.  What are some
ways we can show our love?  Well, you’re already doing
this.  I see it.  The many heartfelt expressions of
warmth toward the Gielow family in their grief and
distress.  I as your pastor have been privileged to
receive the thanks from the family members, but
they’re really going to you folks for all your care: 
the cards, the visits, the lunch you ladies made for
the funeral--these all were concrete expressions of
your care and concern.

What are some other ways we can put our love into
action?  I remember back in Nebraska, when I was
serving a parish out there--Sally was pregnant with
Anna at the time, and because of what’s called
“placenta previa” late in the pregnancy, she was
ordered to strict bed rest for several weeks.  What
did the people of the parish do?  They chipped in and
helped out.  We had people bringing over cooked
dinners for our family.  I had church ladies ironing
my shirts--maybe they knew I’d look like a slob if
they didn’t!  I’ll never forget the practical
Christian love those people demonstrated, not for
attention or praise, but just simply because somebody
in the church family needed help.

Well, there are situations like unto that that will
happen here in Bonne Terre.  And I know you people
will come through.  Maybe it will be a lonely person
in need of friendship.  Maybe it will be a family with
a laid-up mom that could use some childcare or
housework or home-cooked meals.  Maybe it will be a
family with a laid-off breadwinner that could use some
of our surplus “bread.”  The situations may differ in
the details, and we each have different gifts that can
be put into service in different ways, but we all
share in the same Spirit, we all have the same Lord
and Savior, we all belong to the same great big
Christian church family that extends across all
boundaries and through all centuries.

Love one another.  I’m telling you today what you
already know, I know that.  And I’m telling you what
you already want to do, I believe that.  For you are
Christians, gifted with the Spirit, reflecting the
character of your Father in heaven, and following your
Savior Jesus in faith.

The sermon today is very short and simple.  Our church
is a loving family.  Therefore, “love one another with
brotherly affection.”  It’s not complicated; it’s very
simple.  But it’s also extraordinarily difficult to
do--no, impossible to do on our own, in the flesh. 
The sinful flesh wars against this.  And we mess up,
we sin.  That’s why we always need God’s forgiveness,
which he gives us, for Christ’s sake, here in
church--in the absolution, in the gospel, in the
sacrament.  And we need God’s help.  But he gives us
that, too.  God will help you to be that loving person
you are in Christ.  He promises to do so.  Therefore
we can be confident that St. Matthew Lutheran Church
in Bonne Terre--and you as the individual members
thereof--will continue to be a loving, caring, family.

I don’t go in too much for hokey plaques and greeting
cards and such, but I remember a little card I used to
carry around in my wallet that had on it something
called “A Family Prayer.”  It really sums up very well
the lesson today from Romans, and it puts it into the
form of a prayer.  And that’s good, because we
definitely need God’s help to be the loving family he
wants us to be.  The prayer goes like this:

God made us a family.
We need one another.  We love one another.  We forgive
one another.
We work together.  We play together.  We worship
together.
Together we use God’s word.  Together we grow in
Christ.
Together we love all men.  Together we serve our God.
Together we hope for heaven.
These are our hopes and ideals.  Help us to attain
them, O God, through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Amen.

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You can listen to the services of St. Matthew Lutheran
Church-Bonne Terre, Missouri, on the radio and over
the Internet.  Each Sunday morning, 8:15-8:45
(Central), we broadcast 30 minutes from the previous
week's service on KREI, AM 800 in the Farmington-Bonne
Terre area, and streaming online at:
http://www.krei.com


Charles Henrickson
4749 Melissa Jo Ln
St. Louis, MO 63128
(314) 845-8811 (home)
(314) 779-8108 (cell)
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