The Third Sunday after Pentecost 
Blind Man’s Buff 
Grace, mercy and peace to you from God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ! 
Amen. Jesus says in today’s Gospel, 
Whoever loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me, and whoever 
loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And whoever does not 
take his cross and follow Me is not worthy of Me. 
Dear Christian friends, 
Years ago, before videogames, children would play a game called Blind Man’s 
Buff. In this game, you wear a blindfold as you try to chase and catch one of 
the other players. Meanwhile, other players call out your name and dodge your 
grasp and even hide in plain sight. There is no real danger to Blind Man’s 
Buff. It may feel disconcerting to stagger blindly about, groping at the 
darkness, but your fellow players make sure you do not fall or injure yourself. 
You finally win the game when you accidentally grab onto something. 
Perhaps we can use Blind Man’s Buff to understand some of the more difficult 
things our Lord Jesus says and does. Perhaps we could even say Blind Man’s Buff 
is our Lord’s favorite game. (I am using a figure of speech.) For example: 
•       A woman once came to Jesus because her daughter was possessed by a 
demon. The woman was a Canaanite, someone who stood outside the ancient 
promises God had spoken to His people Israel. “Have mercy on me, O Lord, Son of 
David!” she prayed (Matthew 15:22). “Jesus did not answer her a word” (Matthew 
15:23). Jesus acted as if He was not interested in showing mercy. It is almost 
as if Jesus blindfolded the woman and had begun a game of Blind Man’s Buff, 
hiding in plain sight, so to speak. The woman kept grasping and reaching, 
persistently calling to Jesus, “Lord, help me” (Matthew 15:25). Continuing the 
game, Jesus began to tease the woman: “It is not right to take the children’s 
bread and throw it to the dogs,” He said (Matthew 15:26). When she heard Jesus’ 
Words, the woman lunged and grabbed onto Him, so to speak. The woman won His 
game of Blind Man’s Buff, as it were. “Even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall 
from their
 master’s table,” she said (Matthew 15:28). With these words, woman was 
speaking the truth that all people—not merely Israelites—but all people get 
included in God’s promises of forgiveness and life (e.g., Isaiah 40:5). 
We will return to this Canaanite woman in August, on the Tenth Sunday after 
Pentecost. For today, why would Jesus play games with this woman? Why would 
Jesus dodge her request and why her with God’s promises, as if He were playing 
Blind Man’s Buff with her? Jesus’ game had the effect of increasing this 
woman’s faith in the Words and promises of God. It did not matter to her that 
Jesus seemed to blindfold her and dance away from her grasp. This woman knew 
that God had spoken, and that His Word must be fulfilled. Our Lord’s seemingly 
poor treatment of her could not deter her. His game only made her cling to the 
promises all the more. By grasping the ancient promises, the woman was actually 
laying ahold of Jesus. In so doing she won the game. “Woman,” said the Lord, 
“great is your faith!” (Matthew 15:28). 
•       Another time, Jesus played Blind Man’s Buff, so to speak, with an 
official whose son had become ill. This man had traveled fifteen or twenty 
miles through a mountainous area to come to Jesus. Jesus immediately 
blindfolded the man, as it were, and began His game. Jesus made it sound like 
He did not wish to help the man, saying, “Unless you see signs and wonders you 
will not believe” (John 4:48). Bear in mind that it was belief that had brought 
this man over the mountains in the first place! Belief  also kept this man from 
being turning away by Jesus’ game. When Jesus said, “Unless you see signs and 
wonders you will not believe,” the man blindly thrust out his hand and went for 
the win: “Sir, come before my child dies” (John 4:49). 
By playing Blind Man’s Buff with this man, Jesus separated this man from those 
who had come to Jesus for the simple thrill of seeing miracle (cf. John 4:45, 
6:22-26). By playing His game, so to speak, Jesus pushed this man to see that 
the Words of God are the main thing; that the miracle is nothing apart from the 
Word; that the divine Word in the miracle is the power and the point and the 
purpose of the act. “Sir, come before my child dies.” But a Word from Jesus is 
all that was needed. Jesus said to him, “Go; your son shall live.” The man 
believed the Word that Jesus spoke to him and went on his way” (John 4:49-50). 
Here we stand, knee-deep in today’s disconcerting Gospel. “Whoever loves father 
or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me.” No one enjoys hearing today’s 
Gospel because no one likes it when Jesus talks bad to them. “Whoever loves son 
or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me.” Unless you are still dead, you 
can surely feel the guilty weight of Jesus’ Words. “Whoever does not take his 
cross and follow Me is not worthy of Me.” Truer Words cannot be spoken! Even 
before we heard today’s hammering Gospel, who among us would dare to think that 
he or she is worthy of Jesus? Not even John the Baptist considered himself 
worthy of the Christ (John 1:27) and “among those born of women there has not 
risen anyone greater than John” (Matthew 11:11). 
What shall we do with these brutal and frightening Words? How shall we survive 
their honesty? Perhaps we can learn a little game theory from the Canaanite 
woman and the official whose son was ill. In the same way that He teased the 
woman with the promises of God, in the same way that He momentarily dodged the 
official’s grasping request, Jesus is likewise dancing around you and me in 
today’s Gospel. Jesus repeatedly says, “not worthy of Me,” but He does not say 
these Words because He wishes to drive you away. Jesus is teasing you with the 
truth. Jesus says, “not worthy of Me,” because He wishes you to lunge toward 
the sound of His voice and grab onto Him and win His game of Blind Man’s Buff. 
Whoever loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me, and whoever 
loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And whoever does not 
take his cross and follow Me is not worthy of Me. 
Whenever you hear devastating Words such as these, think of that Canaanite 
woman. Jesus blindfolded her by speaking true Words to her—“It is not right to 
take the children’s bread and throw it to the dogs”—and the woman came right 
back at Jesus with equally true Words: “Yes, Lord, yet even the dogs eat the 
crumbs that fall from their master’s table.” 
Play Blind Man’s Buff with Jesus in the same way that this woman played! When 
Jesus blindfolds you and teases you by speaking true Words to you—“not worthy 
of Me”—you should come right back at Him with equally true words! Say to Jesus, 
“You are correct, Lord! I am not worthy of You. But if You were the God of the 
Worthy, You would be a very lonely God. I know who You are! You are the God of 
the Unworthy. You are the Lover of the Loveless. You are the Physician of the 
Sick, the Forgiver of the Unforgivable, the Fullness of the Empty Ones and Life 
of the Dead. You did not come to save the righteous, but sinners. You did not 
come to be served, but to serve. You did not come to take me down from a 
crystal shelf, Jesus. You came to gather me up from the manure pile. I am 
totally unworthy of You, but MY worthiness has absolutely nothing to do with 
this conversation! Only You are worthy, and Your worthiness is more than enough 
for both You and for
 me. I do not even want my own worthiness, Lord, because if I have my 
worthiness I cannot have any of Yours!” 
This is how you play Blind Man’s Buff with Jesus. You let your Lord Jesus say 
whatever He wants to say—even when He talks bad to you. He is merely 
blindfolding and starting the game. He will dodge and tease and hide in plain 
sight. Do not be afraid.  There is no danger when you play Blind Man’s Buff 
with Jesus. It may feel disconcerting to stagger blindly about, groping at the 
darkness, but Jesus your fellow player will make sure you do not fall or injure 
yourself. He wants you to win the game. You win the game when you grab onto 
something. 
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