S/A Yes Sister you are right. It is in a Dua -E-Sabah. " ELLAHI QALBI MAHJUBUN VA NAFSI MAH MAAYU BUN, VA AQLII MAGHLUBUN" 70. O Allah, my faculties are veiled and my soul deficient and my intelligence defeated and my desires triumphant My obedience is little , whereas my disobedience greater . This Dua is By Amirul Momineen Hazarat Ali . ( A. S. ) ----- Original Message ----- From: Zahra Canani To: abidhusein hemraj Sent: Sunday, June 20, 2010 4:33 AM Subject: Re: Fw: [Shia Group] Dua Info
I am not sure if this mail was ever answered. This can be found at the end of Dua E Sabah of Imam Ali On Sun, Mar 29, 2009 at 6:47 PM, abidhusein hemraj <[email protected]> wrote: ----- Original Message ----- From: Syed Faraaz Mahdi To: [email protected] Sent: Saturday, March 28, 2009 4:46 PM Subject: [Shia Group] Dua Info BISMILLAH-I-RAHMAN-I-RAHEEM Assalaam u Alaikum All, Can anyone guide me how to get the text of Dua that is recited after prayer. I am looking for this specific Dua that conatains teh words " Ilahi Qalbi Mahjoor, Wa Aqli Maghloob ...." or something in that sense. Allah Hafiz Syed Faraaz Mahdi ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Subject: [Shia Group] How An Ideal Husband FW: FRIDAY SUPPLEMENT - 27th March Date: Fri, 27 Mar 2009 16:05:56 +0000 From: [email protected] To: [email protected] Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- 27th March 2009 29th Rabi ul awwal 1430 FRIDAY SUPPLEMENT How An Ideal Husband Most Muslim men would like to be ideal husbands. And most Muslim women would, no doubt, like to be married to one. But, for some reason, the men are not ideal husbands, and the women will almost surely admit that they didn't marry one. So, why the discrepancy between our sincere aspirations and reality? Is it an inability on the part of the man, an impossible goal; or is it perhaps that we do not even know what an ideal Muslim husband is? Wrong Concept of an Ideal Husband Muslim men looking for wives advertise themselves as doctors, engineers, and financially secure. Muslim women appear to be on the lookout for an established professional or more likely a handsome MD. Rarely do Muslim men and women even mention character, religious convictions, and attitudes as a priority. At most, they might be mentioned as a sidebar. It seems that many of us believe that a man is an ideal Muslim husband if he is handsome, makes a lot of money, and comes from an influential family. And the divorce rate among Muslims continues to rise. As Muslims, we must base our judgment on what makes an ideal Muslim husband on the guidance of Allah (swt) and the example of Prophet Muhammad (SAWS), not on the standards of a TV sitcom, the culture in which we were born, or our own materialistic mentality. In fact being an ideal Muslim husband has very little or nothing to do with the amount of money one has, physical beauty, or the prestige of one's job. Rather, it has to do with one's commitment to Allah (swt), one's knowledge of and willingness to follow the guidance of Allah (swt) and the Prophet's example, and one's commitment to do righteousness even in difficult situations. The ideal Muslim husband should be humble, gentle, kind, considerate, caring, loving, open to good advice, willing to cooperate with others in the family rather than dictate rules, helpful in the house, involved in raising the children, and never abusive either physically or mentally. First Characteristic of an Un-Ideal Husband: Hot Temper A major problem in some Muslim marriages unfortunately is the husband's hot temper and harsh behavior. Some even go so far as to abuse their wives. There should be no violence between husband and wife and Muslim men should not be the kind of tyrannical fathers whose children run away and hide when their father comes home. We have to separate our non-Islamic cultures from Islam. The ideal Muslim husband will base his behavior on Islam, not on his Arab, American, or Pakistani culture. Second Characteristic of an Un-Ideal Husband: Egoistic. Another major problem in Muslim marriages is the husband's failure to consider his wife's opinions. In fact, the failure of the Muslim Ummah as a whole has to do with our failure in practicing the concept of Shura (consultation). People think that they are right and others are wrong. We will do much better if we consider the opinions of others and let them feel that they are a part of the decision-making process. Along the same lines,if a woman makes a true (haqq) point, the husband should submit to it. He should in no way reject a point just because it comes from a woman. Demonstrating the huge difference between the way the Prophet (SAWS) dealt with his wives and the way Muslim men deal with their wives today,there was the time when Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) was sleeping under one cover with his wife Ayesha, and he asked her permission to get up to pray. Third Characteristic of an Un-Ideal Husband: Unhelpful The failure to help in the house and to help with the raising of the children are well-known weaknesses of husbands. It’s clear from the ahadith that Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) helped in the house, and Abdul Malik Mujahid says that a man cannot be an ideal Muslim husband, or even close to a good husband, if he leaves the responsibility of children completely to the mother. Khadija Haffagee tells the story of a father who took a three-month-old infant to pray with him and after the prayer did the 'tasbih" on the child's hand. This, she said, was training by the father. When training our children, we should be careful not to raise sons with a double standard where they have no household responsibilities. If we do, they will likely grow up with the attitude that they don't need to do this kind of work --- that they are above it. Prophet: An Ideal Father As a beautiful example of a healthy father-child relationship,is the story of how the Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) used to stand up for his daughter Fatima, kiss her, and give her his seat when she came to him. This was in an age when people preferred sons and looked down on having daughters. With this simple act, the Prophet (SAWS) showed us how to express love and affection for our children --- an essential quality for an ideal Muslim husband. An Ideal Ex-Husband Being an ideal Muslim husband, however, goes even farther than the marriage. Even after a divorce, a Muslim husband must strive to be the best ex-husband. A husband shouldn't be Mr. Kindness in marriage and then treat his wife badly in divorce. 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