Stephen "Uneven" Cohen a "South Asia" expert actually wrote a fairly 
perceptive book on Pakistan in which he commented that the Pakistani army do 
not generally punish others among their own ranks with death. Even generals 
who lost half the country were merely honored and let off.

But this appears to be changing - especially in the last 3-4 years. A number 
of attempts have been made to kill senior Pakistani army officers with the 
involvement of other army people in those plots. One recent spectacular 
assassination was the killing of Gen Alavi, who was V.S. Naipaul's brother in 
law - a man who named a couple of colleagues as cooperating with the 
Talibunnies in a letter he handed to a British journalist after he sent a 
copy to the Pakistan army chief Gen Kiyani, and shortly before he was bumped 
off.

Here is a moving tribute to the man from his daughter

Daughter’s Tribute to General Alavi

Category Featured Articles | Posted on December 19, 2008 | 

The daughter of late SSG commando, Maj-Gen (retd) Amir Faisal Alavi, who is in 
the US, has sent a letter on her memories of her father. She writes: “I 
vaguely remember asking my dad when I was five, how old was your dad when he 
passed away, papa? I remember my dad’s surprised look and laughingly, he 
said, 61, why?, Ooo, I said, You have a long way to go. I was wrong, so 
wrong.You went much earlier, papa.

“Born a British national in Kenya, Alavi came to study at Abbottabad Public 
School, but later his love and zeal for the military prompted him to renounce 
his British nationality. He wrote to Zulfiqar Ali Bhutto, asking him to grant 
him Pakistani nationality so he could join the Army and that is exactly what 
happened, he got his wish. “My earliest memories are of my dad splendid in 
his uniform, no nonsense formidable soldier attitude and at the same time he 
was an easygoing person, very humble, compassionate, but very fearless. He 
just loved flirting with danger, it was almost as if he thrived on it. He had 
this amazing energy around him that’s hard to describe, just the word 
military would bring a sudden change in his behaviour, it would be hard to 
control his enthusiasm, the energy radiating from him, he drained life source 
from it. 

“He had an amazing unending compassion for people and a heart so large I doubt 
it ever had walls. All you had to do was ask him and he would give it to you. 
He told me once, always look after the people below you because that is 
really what shows what kind of a person you are. He taught me not to judge 
people based on wealth, caste, their status, colour but judge them on their 
hearts. His magnanimity astounded me even at people who had hurt him badly. I 
never understood how he forgave people but he always said to me ‘Leave it to 
God’. “I still remember his enthusiasm while going on for a Wana operation 
and me as always complaining, ‘dad you are a general, honestly how many 
generals themselves go out in an operation?’ He said, ‘You fight from the 
top, the bottom will follow the top, and if I lead, my soldiers will follow.’ 
“I remember him putting a hand in his uniform and taking out a small medallion 
with Sura Yasin on it, saying what’s this?, while me and my sister continued 
to attach small medallions or Suras and prayers to his uniform. He would 
always say, ‘I am a soldier, I have no family. And that is what always scared 
me, my sister and mom to death.’ I remember whenever I was in distress or 
panic, he would gently admonish me, saying ‘Be brave, You are Faisal Alavi’s 
daughter, remember who you are,’ but I can be distressed now can’t I, papa, 
you are there no more, who do I turn to now? “I could write a whole book on 
my father but a part of me wants to keep those memories to myself because 
that’s all I have left of him. He is no more; all I have are his memories 
with me.

“I think it was unfair of fate to give me so little time with you, papa. You 
were my best friend, my saviour, my superman more than you were my dad and 
now you left me alone. Every time, I pick up my cell, my fingers 
automatically dial your number only to realise there is no papa anymore at 
the other end. “I think the way you went away was cruel, and the people who 
did it were cowards but knowing you, I can say that is certainly the way you 
would have wanted to go. I know your only regret is you did not have a weapon 
to shoot one or two, but papa, if you had one, those cowards would never have 
come near you. “I don’t think I ever told you this dad, even though it’s a 
bit late now, I just want you to know how very proud I am to be your 
daughter, papa. I was truly blessed to have a great soldier like you as a 
dad. I won’t cry I promise, because I am your daughter but how can I not be 
sad knowing I won’t hear you, meet you or hug you ever again. I will really 
miss you, papa, I did not only lose my father, I lost my best friend, my 
saviour, my superman.

“I promise you, papa I will fulfil every dream of yours. I will be strong, 
just don’t be mad at me for this moment of weakness, I lost you, let me have 
a moment of weakness, but I won’t go weak ever papa. I will take care of 
everything. I just want you to rest in peace papa, you worked a lot its time 
for you to rest. Amen.”

I LOVE YOU, PAPA
 
MEHVISH ZAHRA ALAVI

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