On Friday 13 Mar 2009 9:51:05 am Mahesh Murthy wrote: > I can imagine that this must be severely distressing to most sexually > conservative folks.
Mahesh - this is actually a juvenile statement because you don't know where I am coming from but you reveal where you are coming from. Regardless of whether I am sexually conservative or liberal I have a viewpoint. I suspect that you feel it is "oh so cool" to push for free sex and frequent change of partners while talking as if those who are more "conservative" are somehow troubled by your implied (and "cool") sexual liberalism. The mood of the conservatives is important to you. In fact that reveals more about you than me. The impression you want to make about your views on sexuality seems to be dependent on my appearing like a distressed hand wringing conservative in comparison to you. You seem to think that if I wring my hands and am distresed it will buttress your case as a spokeperson for sexual liberalism. Are you tyring to make an oblique advertisement about your own sexuality while talking about mine? I put it to you that you know less about free sex, sex outside of marriage or frequent changes of sexual partners than you claim to know. Perhaps that is why you take so much trouble to second guess my own sexual history and try to pin a particular mood on me in response to your views. As long as you talk about me and my conservatism and imagined discomfort at your liberalism - you can pretend to know a lot - since the topic stays off what seems to be your obvious sexual inexperience. But I can say this much for myself - I practise what I talk about. It is clear that your abiilty to talk about changes in sexual partners exceeds any practical experience. Now go ahead and have fun at those of us who remain faithful to one partner while we wring our hands in distress. If you want to be seen as a sexually liberated man - what is needed is less mocking of perceived sexual conservatives and a lot more crumpet. I can see you are very "keen". The words "enthu cultlet" come to mind :). Chillax boss. Conservative ol' me getting irritated by your views on sexuality does not count as sexual experience on your CV unless you are really kinky. shiv
