On Mar 27, 2012 10:21 AM, "Deepa Mohan" <[email protected]> wrote:
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>  Saritha Rai's  new fortnightly column in the New York Times online-
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http://india.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/03/27/when-daycare-slips-into-night-care

Not that long ago a major controversy broke out in Switzerland when one of
the affected children, now in his retirement years wrote a book detailing
his life.

Until the 1950s the conservative Swiss politicians and by extension society
backed a secret policy that allowed the state to separate infants from
incapable mothers. Incapable mothers so defined would be teenage mothers,
pre-marital mothers, single mothers, mothers who worked when the father
also worked , mothers of loose moral character and so on.

These snatched infants would then be raised in proper foster homes,
families with the proper structure of both parents, a large home, siblings,
relatives and such.

Of course they'd over stepped the line and the practice stopped, but even
today normal Swiss society frowns intensely upon working mothers. Such day
and night care services as the article talks about would be almost
definitely illegal.

In fact, the schools don't act as proxy care takers during the day either -
they begin at 7:30 in the morning, break at 10:00, kids come home, they
resume at 2:00; to let out at 5:00.

Kids who are seen loitering the streets are reported to the parents first,
and then the local church and at some point the city council steps in if
they think the parents aren't doing a good job.

I have no doubt that by Swiss standards the featured Indian parents would
be considered grossly negligent to say the least.

I can't directly evaluate the outcomes of this policy, still, most Swiss
teens I know are among the best behaved. The loud drunk Swiss teen on a
Friday evening is known to apologize for his behaviour rather shame-facedly
when the passing old ladies turn on their disapproving gaze.

Crime and truancy is impossibly low, kids generally seem to end up growing
into proper citizens.

Now there could be many other hidden and obvious aspects to this picture,
but popular wisdom generally attributes all this to stay at home mothers
and wholesome families.

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