Bill Galkowski wrote asking for help with Mr. McCabe's phone bills.
I don't know who Ed McCabe is.  Is he in jail?  However, I have a couple
of suggestions for you.
First, avoid collect calls!  You can usually refuse them and then call
him back.  That should save a lot of money.
Second, you can get a personal 1-800 number from MCI that will charge
you only about 10 cents per minute on domestic calls to your home
number.  The number can be unlisted so only those people you want to
give it to will have it.
Third, make sure that your long distance service is giving you good
international rates.  For example, Voicenet (1-800-500-9028), a calling
card service, charges only 27 cents per minute to the UK.  They charge
an additional flat 35 cents (not per minute)  if the call originates
from a payphone (it's a charge mandated by the FCC to compensate the
payphone company).  You may be able to do better than than that on
international charges with MCI or Sprint.
Fourth, if you trust Mr. McCabe not to run up the bill, you can get him
a calling card.  Voicenet charges 17.5 cents per minute on domestic
calls (again with the 35 cent flat fee for originating from a pay
phone).  If you let him make his calls direct, you save by not paying
for  two calls at the same time.
Fifth, consider getting conference calling capabilities on your phone
that allow you to connect two incoming calls so that Mr. McCabe's
friends can call you at the same time as Mr. McCabe does, thereby
shifting the burden of the international calls to them.
I obviously don't know or understand the situation.  However, as
difficult as it may be, if Mr. McCabe cannot pay for his own calls, he
should be very considerate of your plight and cut his calling way back.
Calling his fiance in the UK and a friend in New Zealand at your
expense, particularly several times per week  is really stretching a
friendship.

Bob Wells