I had the same vision, and looked into alternative building  
materials--Rastra block (cement that is poured into foam molds, with rebar  
inside--great to 
cut heating and cooling costs), hay bale house (cheap, with the  feel of adobe, 
but beware of rats and mold if not done right), underground house  (do this 
right or you'll have problems similar to those in a basement).
 
I ended up doing standard but beefed up construction--4 X 6 wood, with  
plywood covering inside and out, roof tiles nailed down, roof bolted to walls,  
walls bolted to foundation--the same requirements as for hospitals and  
schools.  
We have our own well, our own solar power (partial only, as it is  still 
expensive, even with a government-supported rebate).  
 
The hay bale idea sounded great, but I live in earthquake  country.  Rastra 
was too expensive, and too difficult to make changes in  electrical wiring once 
it is up.  With R-19 insulation in the 4 X 6 walls,  though, we rarely use 
air conditioning or heating (except for wood burning and  pellet stoves).  
Also, 
dual pane window glass, with gas inside, cuts down  on heating and air 
conditioning costs, as do appropriate window coverings.
 
Don't underestimate the difficulty of getting anything unusual OK'd by the  
planning department, unless you are planning to build without a  permit. Also, 
if you do anything out of the ordinary, you may have to do it  yourself, as it 
is hard to find someone to do anything but the usual standard  stuff.
 
Jill 
 
P.S.  It turned out WONDERFULLY, but what an undertaking!  I  would only have 
energy for this sort of effort once in a lifetime,  though.