Thanks to all of you that took the time and effort to try and help and support! . I have been reading up on all the information and suggestions. We are at the stage where we are just starting to look in to everything and all of the options.
After talking to my daughter-in-law yesterday, it became clear that our little guy has a lot of what they call the classic "red flags" for autism. The testing will determine more or less where he is at on the spectrum. I do not believe he is on the severe/low end but he does show some definite signs, like no eye contact, does not respond to his own name, not talking, lining things up, and others as well. Hope to get him tested for heavy metals soon. I have been finding out a lot of promising information that I will pass along later. Thanks again to all who have written. Paula

