So you finally pluck up the courage to do an instant hypnosis
induction in front of a group of onlookers. With everyone's eyes on
you, you nervously perform the technique, and it fails.
This is one of the most common fears new hypnotists seem to have about
hypnosis, and it is one of the most common questions I get asked. By
the end of this article the only question you will be asking is 'what
shall I do with the people I hypnotize WHEN they are in hypnosis."
The very first time I demonstrated hypnosis in front of a crowd a very
long time ago I was extremely nervous. I did not have the training,
confidence or experience I have now, and I did not think it would
work.
I did the technique, and my subject stared up at me and started
laughing. Thinking on my feet I said 'that's right, and you can't stop
laughing, and the more you try to stop yourself the harder you laugh,
and the more you laugh the more you go into hypnosis, that's right,
keep laughing now as you close your eyes down now and Sleep!." And we
went on to do a brief but successful hypnosis demonstration. Suddenly
the laughter was a product of my suggestion, and we went on to have a
successful hypnosis session, and out of the many people there I was
the only one who had the slightest idea that things nearly went very
wrong!
You see, an instant induction is in itself a very simply process,
inductions such as the hand drop induction (have them press down on
your hand, palm to palm. Press up slightly on theirs to encourage them
to press down harder, move your hand away and as their arm drops
instruct Sleep" and the arm pull (take a hold of their hand in yours,
and give a gentle but sharp tug on their arm then command Sleep) are
mechanically very simple, it is what goes on behind the techniques
that is key/
There are three key things that are crucial for instant induction
success:
1. Confidence. You need to appear confident in your own ability. If
you don't yet have that confidence just pretend, and act like you do.
2. Utilisation, people will not always respond by the text book, so
you need to be able to think on your feet and direct any response (or
lack of response) they give you towards your hypnotic goal. 3.
Flexibility. Be creative, experiment and try out new things. You will
find it hard to grow and develop as a hypnotist if you stick to the
same text book method, be flexible and creative and enjoy
experimenting.
Deepeners are also useful, and help to stabilize and intensify the
brief trance state created by your instant induction. As long as
deepeners are said with confidence, make the subject feel good, assure
them that they are doing fine, and put their minds at ease, you can
say anything really, from as simple as '5, 4, 3, 2, 1, deeper, deeper
deeper, feeling good, doing wonderful, and going down' to 'and as you
continue to feel yourself relaxing notice how easily you can allow
your mind to open up to the entrancing possibilities of deepest
hypnosis that you can find now as you slip deeper down, relaxing,
calm, peaceful and receptive to these new ideas, feeling great and
going down' or anything else. Like all hypnotic processes deepeners
are most effective when done when you yourself are in a hypnotic state
of mind, and when you sound confident and relaxed.
Now, the fact is sometimes despite your best efforts it may not work,
it has certainly happened to me, but it does not matter. Failure is a
brilliant way to learn, and the fact is no one watching who is worth
bothering with will hold it against you. Sometimes you will be able to
go right into another instant induction, acting like everything is
going fine (just maintain your composure, and keep going fast, tie up
the conscious mind and hypnotize them again quickly),or move rapidly
into another hypnotic technique or method directly from the failure.
Just because one technique didn't work does not mean you cannot
hypnotize them, so keep at it, change your tact, style and method, and
see what you can do.
Other times though when nothing seems to work use this as an
opportunity to learn. Ask your subjects questions and find out what
was going on, and enjoy the opportunity to deepen your hypnosis
skills. As a matter of ethics I never ever blame the subject or tell
them that they are unhypnotizable, I would simply find out what I can
and if I cannot immediately identify and fix the problem I'd possibly
say 'perhaps we'll try again another time.' This may happen not too
infrequently when you first begin, but as you gain confidence and
experience you'll find total failure becomes rarer and rarer.
So in summary, get out there and do it, be creative and trust your
unconscious mind to provide you with the right words to say and things
to do. Project relaxation and confidence from within yourself, and
recognize that hypnosis is far more than a collection of techniques,
but is a wonderful and unlimited process which you can create in any
way you choose, provided you are flexible, utilize what you get, and
are confident.

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