People should be a little less thin-skinned.  It's not important.

Seconded

Alternatively people could learn to read and understand the discussion before firing in an off target response. The discussion wasn't about being hurt, it was about:

1. Distribution evangelism isn't helpful to the original poster

2. partial or incomplete responses fired in early can prevent others who might have been prepared to give a useful answer, not to.

Subsequently the original poster doesn't get the help they were searching for so they go elsewhere. Not because they were "hurt" by your response but because they didn't get satisfaction, the list failed to service their need. I.E myself and others believe that is the answer to the original question that prompted this thread "why is slug membership showing a decline".

So now you'll probably respond with some glib "well if your not prepared to put up with the grit that you get when posting to a mailing list you probably should un-subscribe". Bingo! People are not participating because, they consider their time to be more valuable than putting up with the grit. It's not about being thick or thin skinned.

But you'll no doubt reply, "your the one asking for help, you can hardly complain about the quality of the answers you get for free".

Wrong! If your objective is to build a community that discusses issues about Linux and provides a forum to resolve problems that people are having with Linux and therefore advance the adoption/use within the community then you need both "questioners" and "answerers". And of course roles reverse all the time. Sometimes I have questions and sometime I can provided answers (well most times questions actually but you get the point). No joy/satisfaction in being able to help someone by providing answers if nobody is asking any questions because they are tired of wading through the evangelism to find the answer.

It's just a theory, and my total study group comprises 1, but I'm am tired of the evangelism and glib quick fired responses and have considered un-subscribing. Perhaps, just perhaps others have already felt this way and already done so. If this is the process of natural self-selection, that only thick skinned people can be sluggers, then so be it. If so called "thin-skinned" people like myself can't be sluggers I guess I'll go elsewhere. (though I repeat I'm not hurt, I'm just bored with the less than helpful answers department)

Mailing lists it appears go through a life cycle, when young and fresh the information is very useful and people are very helpful. Others discover this and the group grows. Then the list matures, usually when the original participants move on in their life, the quality of answers decline and the jesters appear. The jesters drive other participants away with the opportunist responses and the list degrades further.....What part of the life cycle is Slug at? Are you contributing to the decline of slug? Or by acknowledging there are many different "thickness" people, can Slug defy the trend of lists to decline?

P.

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