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But, everyone
has said from the very beginning that mitigating circumstances don’t
absolve him. You made the point in a reply about using a baseball
bat. Actually, the truth is, had you bashed him with the bat, your lawyer
could very well have gotten you off because of mitigating circumstances. If I walked in
on my wife and my best friend and I shot him, it is very unlikely I’d get
the death penalty because of the mitigating circumstances. That’s
all that people are trying to say is that yes, the cheater is absolutely
responsible for their actions, there are also reasons that mitigate it.
Not absolve, not make it right, but still must be taken into
consideration. You act as if all decisions are made in a vacuum, and in
theory or philosophy they might be, but in real life they often are not. From:
[EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of [EMAIL PROTECTED] In a
message dated 9/27/2003 7:56:04 PM Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED]
writes: Ok, you
dont want to leave your husband/wife and you have tried asking them and talking
to them to try to find out why they dont want to. There is no medical excuse,
only the spouse not wanting to have sex. You have tried counseling....I'm not
saying its right for them to go out and have an affair, but I can see in some
circumstances why they do
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