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I agree get out of it but it still would be better
if you di dnot get into that position. Hell, if a owman hit on me I would
tell Jen. I even tell her when a woman says something I think it over the
line and usually she just laughs about it.
My way of loving and cherishing my SO is this
simple:
I will not go anywhere that she is not
welcome
I will not say anyhitng that I would not say if she
were standiong right there with me
and I will not do anyhting that I would not do with
her by my side.
It really isa not that hard to do whn you do love
someone.
AJ
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Sunday, September 28, 2003 5:44
PM
Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one
(immorality glamorized)
What I was attempting to convey is... It would bother me if
my SO
*didn't* care if other women were trying to seduce me.
That would indicate
to me that she didn't think I was worth it.
That statement has nothing to
do with wether I said NO
or not....
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** I can say that I agree, I would care very much if someone was trying
to seduce him, but I do still believe that he has more of the responsibility
to get himself out of the situation than does the seducer.
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Sunday, September 28, 2003 6:22
AM
Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one
(immorality glamorized)
Not that it is going to make any difference.....
But I
was sleepy last night when I wrote that. I had
been driving all day long
to run a horse (the horse won
btw)
"Before" was an unfortunate
choice of words, in hindsight.
What I was attempting to convey is...
It would bother me if
my SO *didn't* care if other women were trying to
seduce me.
That would indicate to me that she didn't think I was worth
it.
That statement has nothing to do with wether I said NO
or not....
In fact it would especially piss me off if I *did* say no.
(And for the
record... I am sure I would) To say that "men are
a dime a dozen, but
friends and sisters are hard to find and
I would harbor no ill will
towards them if they shaged my man",
Sorry.... that freaks me out a
little bit. JMO.
On Sunday, September 28, 2003, at 01:32
AM, Jen -- wrote:
And it would bother me if
my SO told me that it is the ho's fault, not the mans.
----- Original Message
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From: Tim Harder
To: The
Sandbox Discussion List
Sent: Saturday, September
27, 2003 8:16 PM
Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one (immorality
glamorized)
Swing and a miss.... I didn't say I would have
cheated....
I said that if I heard my SO say that "I would blame the
man
before the Ho...." It would bother me...
On
Saturday, September 27, 2003, at 10:01 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:
In a message dated 9/27/2003 10:36:51 PM Eastern Daylight
Time,
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
writes:
IMO.... that is different.... If I was your husband...
that would
bother me....
well if you were the husband
in question i would wonder why it didnt bother you to cheat in the first
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