America once again neglects the pleasures of Boxing Day


FOOTNOTE

Last update: 25 December 2003

Yes, I work today. No wassailing. No time to look up just what "wassailing" means, but it does sound like something that absolutely must be done today. No going back to the store for returns or corrective shopping. No rationing out the last of the soybean based near-eggnog that was so hard to find this year. No dramatic readings of multilingual instruction and assembly booklets.

This is America, home of the 24/7 work cycle. We don't do Boxing Day, Stephenstide or whatever else the rest of the English-speaking world calls this day when they stay home. Most Americans are either working today or trying hard to look as though they are.

According to the Bureau of National Affairs survey of human resources departments and employee relations executives, only one out of three businesses give paid time off today. A big jump from only 10 percent last year, something that business publications group attributed to Christmas falling on a Thursday this year. The work week already is doomed, so why not just give in to it?

I am a big advocate of Boxing Day. This is mostly on the belief that we spend entirely too much time building up to the holidays only to rush them out the door as soon as the last present is opened.

Boxing Day gives the kind of fadeout and reward we need. A time when kids have not yet lost interest in toys, yet are no longer bouncing off the wall with expectation. When there're still enough leftovers to avoid making meals. When computer games have not yet been figured out. When there's still enough holiday left to make up for any omissions the day before.

It is a day of first chapters of books. For the cautious first listen to CDs you may or may not turn out to like. A day and a night for the simple driver installation that is certain to allow Windows and your existing home computer to accept a new program from under the tree. A day for calls to product support at the distant ends of the globe.

And no, this solicitousness does not extend to employees of the United States Postal Service or UPS. That's because Christmas cards and parcels delivered on Boxing Day are not to be considered late. No they aren't.

"A poor excuse for picking a man's pocket every 25th of December!" was Ebenezer Scrooges response to one day off a year. The 26th should be another excuse.

We need it for a consumer-driven economic expansion. We need it to create jobs and kick in overtime pay.

We need it to educate ourselves on consumer electronics that are too complicated to understand and work within only one day.

We need it because our commercial culture, by building awareness of the holidays since Halloween, has created expectations that are unrealistic and maybe unrealizable within a 24 hour period.

We need it because the day itself often is mined with the obligations of extended family, ex-spouses, churches, gratuitous cooking and the bullying of young people necessary to produce the sort of holiday photography that will allow them to look back on this happy time. Only on the 26th does an adult have any time to savor the less stressful aspects of the holidays.

We need it because unlike in "A Christmas Carol," the spirits often fail to do their work in one night.

Reason enough to pick a man's pocket two times a year. Next year, it will fall on Sunday, and you'll see what I mean.

In the meantime, I'll look busy and sneak out early by the back door -- another Boxing Day tradition.

mark.lane@news-jrnl.com

 
Charles Mims
http://www.the-sandbox.org
 
 
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